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[uralternativecarer]

Thinking about baby regressors tonight… 💭

Small tiny kiddos, tiny brains that can only think of Papa and being safe <3

“Are you okay sweet thing? Oh, someone’s my tiny baby tonight, huh? C’mere, Papa will keep you safe.”

Bottle feeding them, watching as their tiny hands come up to grip my shirt, and how they wrap their entire fist around one of my fingers..

Calming them down as they get fussy during bedtime, cooing and coddling them <3 “Darling, is someone sleepy? Here, I’ll lay down with you until you fall asleep my little angel, Papa’s here.”

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I love...

I love you regressors who feel excluded from the community

I love you regressors who have "weird" interests

I love you regressors who are scared to interact with the community

I love you regressors who are scared to be open with your regression

I love you regressors who aren't "traditional"

I love you regressors who are traditional

I love you regressors who are middle/teen regressors

I love you regressors who are shy

I love you regressors !

[uralternativecarer]

no matter how much you hit, kick, bite, scratch, or yell, bubba will always be here for you. you're not a bad kid or a bad pet, mama will never return you, you're stuck with me!

i know everything is hard right now. i know you're sorry baby it's ok. there's no need to cry and whine. you can't push me away, im yours, and you're mine, i will never give up on you.

mama is here for you baby, im never letting go.

[uralternativecarer]

♡ struggling to regress?༅

here are some methods that might help!

♡ sensory matching method ──୨ৎ── focus on connecting three senses that trigger regression! soooo if a childhood cartoon made you feel little, pair it with a scent that gives the same feeling and a texture that also has that comforting feeling, such as a soft blankie!༅

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♡ familiar senses method ──୨ৎ── focus on nostalgia and familiar comfort items! get a childhood snack, set up soft and gentle lighting, and surround yourself with things that bring warmth and nostalgia! regressing often comes easier for many in an environment that feels familiar & safe!༅

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♡ baby steps method ──୨ৎ── focus on starting slow and building up little activities! so instead of trying to force it or jump right into it, slightly like the first two methods, start slown! start with a small, soothing action like hugging a stuffie or putting on cozy socks! then maybe surround yourself with familiar regression cues like a childhood show then dim the lights & grab a comfy blankie! once you feel more at ease maybe do smth like coloring or playing with toys!! so this way you slowly feel more relaxed instead of pressured to regress quickly!༅

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♡ storytime method ──୨ৎ── read a short children’s book or a calming fairytale out loud or listen to an audiobook with a gentle, nurturing voice to help shift your mindset!! there are also asmr videos of people reading children books!༅

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♡ ritual method ──୨ৎ── repeat a small comforting action every time you want to regress!! maybe it’s putting on a specific cozy outfit, turning on a soft dim or colored light, having a certain drink, or hugging your favorite stuffed animal! associating an action with regression can help over time!༅

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♡ regression playlist method ──୨ৎ── make a special playlist with songs or lullabies! i like to play disney songs!༅

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♡ soundscapes method ──୨ৎ── if music doesn't work for you instead of music, try listening to sound effects that mimic childhood nostalgia! so things like playground noises, soft rain, wind chimes, or toy store sounds, whatever works for you that you can find!!༅

hope this helps even if just a bit!!

[uralternativecarer]

FOR MY LITTLES WHO STRUGGLE

☀️ Eating is okay. You deserve food!

🌈 Taking medication doesn't make you weak

☀️ Having mental illness doesn't mean you're stupid

🌈 Crying is normal

☀️ Being disabled doesn't mean you are useless

🌈 Needing a caregiver doesn't make you bad

☀️ You are loved! You are always loved!

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I promise this is the last DC ask you’ll get from me big bro.. but I have a bunbun plushie named Jayjay and and a froggy named Dickie! they said your blog is very cool :>

(p.s. Jayjay is too shy to admit it, but they like the look of your DNI banner!)

you can send me all the DC asks you want kiddo! i love the names of your plushies!! tell them i said that they are also very cool x3

sorry for late reply but i didnt see that you sent and ask

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🎒 Basic Gear for Agere, Petre, and Caregiving

Gear for Littles (Agere)

Stuffed animals / plushies Sippy cups or juice boxes Coloring books & crayons Blankets or weighted blankets Pacifiers / teethers (Especially if younger) Storybooks / picture books Cute pajamas or onesies Stickers / reward charts Cartoons / comfort shows access Sensory/fidget toys Soft music or lullabies Little-friendly snacks

Gear for Pet Regressors (Petre)

Ears / tail clips or headbands Collars / name tags Pet bed or blanket spot Balls / rope toys / plushies Treat jars or snack bowls Paw gloves or mittens Chew toys / chew-safe necklaces (aka chewelry) Scented toys or blankets Praise chart / obedience tokens Cute themed clothes (puppy shirt, etc.) Soft sounds / animal noises (Ambience)

❤️ Gear for Caregivers

Planner / routine tracker Activity kits (coloring, crafts) First aid / comfort bag Stuffie “doctor” kit Reminder alarms / sticky notes Reward chart / sticker sheets Calming playlist Healthy snacks / sippies “Caregiver voice” practice Personal journal or notes (Log preferences, triggers, favorite things) Extra Dips if your little uses them!! they should be able to put them on themselves, but make sure you have extras with you in case of emergency.

Show Suggestions

Bluey Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood Peppa Pig My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic Sesame Street Pocoyo Masha and the Bear Llama Llama Franklin VeggieTales ANYTHING THAT COMFORTS THEM!

For Pet regressors:

Puppy Dog Pals 44 Cats Octonauts The Secret Life of Pets Kipper the Dog Clifford the Big Red Dog Aristocats Paw Patrol Blue’s Clues Wishbone

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things every „impure” regressor needs to hear

(yes i’m doing it for myself, why?)

🥀it’s okay to cry, have meltdowns or throw tantrums, it’s a way to express that your feeling big emotions, just remember to use gentle hands on yourself and others

🥀no, your not a bad little one just because your regression isn’t all fun and rainbows

🥀your cg (if you have one) doesn’t hate you just because you threw a tantrum, they understand

🥀your plushies will forgive you it you release your anger on them or just throw them. they are your friends that are here to help

🥀it’s okay to want to cover your pretty drawing with a black crayon because it wasnt ”good enough”

sorry if i messed some words out, english isn’t my first language!

[uralternativecarer]

“This user __ “ i relate to

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no matter how much you hit, kick, bite, scratch, or yell, bubba will always be here for you. you're not a bad kid or a bad pet, mama will never return you, you're stuck with me!

i know everything is hard right now. i know you're sorry baby it's ok. there's no need to cry and whine. you can't push me away, im yours, and you're mine, i will never give up on you.

mama is here for you baby, im never letting go.

[uralternativecarer]

Draculaura Stimboard

Requested by: 🐰🪻 Anon

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EEEEK THIS WOULD BE SO ADORABLEEEE

Okay but imagine if agere was completely normal and we had cute videos everywhere. You'd be scrolling on tiktok and you'd find a video like "please watch my little while i do something" and a cg drops their little in front of the camera and goes away. The little plays with the phone for a bit and maybe babbles to it. Or videos like "I was recording and then this happened" and it's the cutest thing you've seen a little do. omg...

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:0 holy graf zeppelin!!/ref

you call your blog the bat cave!! that’s so silly :p who’s your favorite batman character big bro?

yess it is so silly!!! hmm that’s a tough question.. but i might have to say batman himself or joker :P

[uralternativecarer]

Online caregiver who can’t be there with you in person but who does their best to take care of you anyway,

“Make sure you bundle up today kiddo! It’s chilly out there!”

Online caregiver who asks you to send them pictures of your drawings and coloring pages,

“So pretty little one, you did such a good job!”

Online caregiver who sends reassuring messages and check-ins throughout the day,

“Hi baby, did you get all your chores done? I’m so proud of you for trying.”

“Reminder that [cg title] loves you so so much and that you’re worthy of love!”

“Hiya tiny, I know you’ve been having a rough time, can [cg title] help?”

While I am someone who really enjoys in person interaction it’s way more likely that I’ll find another caregiver online than in person so I’ve been daydreaming <3

DNI banner by @/clumsypaws

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Please make sure to drink water little one, you need it <3

[uralternativecarer]

Caregiver Section

Responsibilities of a Caregiver

Being a caregiver is about providing emotional safety, consistency, affection, and structure.

1. Build Trust

Always respect boundaries.

Be consistent — show up when you say you will.

Let them know they’re safe and never judged in headspace.

2. Know Their Regression Style

Ask them about:

What age range or pet type they regress to

Triggers and comfort items

Things they love/hate during regression

Preferred names (e.g., “little one,” “puppy,” etc.)

3. Establish Clear Communication

Use “check-ins” like: “How are you feeling right now?” or “Would you like some little time?”

Have a system for when they want to regress and when they don’t (safe words, emojis, etc.)

Be able to spot non-verbal signs of distress

Emotional Support Tips

Be Gentle

Regression often stems from emotional overwhelm. Be soft-spoken, validate their feelings, and avoid raising your voice.

Give Reassurance

Say things like:

“You’re safe now.”

“It’s okay to feel little.”

“I’m proud of you.”

“I’m right here.”

Set Loving Boundaries

Gently redirect tantrums or overstimulation.

Offer choices: “Would you like juice or water?”

Always stay calm and don’t shame regressed behaviors.

Resources

Here are some wholesome places to learn more:

r/ageregression (Reddit)

Tumblr tags like #agere #petre #caregiver

Discord servers (should be 18+ if you're an adult, or underage-only if you're a minor — NEVER mix communities, especially at the cost of people's comfort.)

Consent and Caregivers

Never post about them or share pictures without consent.

Be very careful with roleplay that mimics parenting — always make sure it’s mutual and safe.

Age regression/pet regression should always remain non-sexual

Tips for Handling Regression Crises

Sometimes regressors have meltdowns, flashbacks, or anxiety.

Crisis Dos:

Use grounding words like “You’re safe,” “Breathe with me”

Offer a familiar item (blanket, toy)

Move them to a quiet space

Dim lights or use soothing sounds

Crisis Don’ts:

Don’t force them to talk

Don’t scold or dismiss

Don’t leave them alone unless they ask

🛑 Boundaries and Safety

Respect Non-Regression Time

They’re not always “little” or “pet” — don’t force the dynamic.

Know Your Role

You’re not a parent or therapist.

Offer comfort, not control or discipline.

Don’t infantilize them in adult mode.

Be Trauma-Informed

Ask about triggers and avoid them.

Make sure you keep boundaries in mind.

Do NOT Purposefully trigger your little/pet. this is a major red flag and will doom you to the fate of being a person who is problematic.