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Parents job
There is a very fine line between letting your child take decisions and making them follow you. It is similar to being a friend and a parent to a child.
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Parents role
We as a parent need to understand and guide our children and let them face the world themselves. There are parents who shelter their kids assuming they are protecting them as they care but unknowingly they are making them handiqkept. If parents allow the child to take their own decisions they will not only learn practical lessons ,But their self esteem, confidence and ability to tackle the situation will increase tremendously.
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Small children
When children are small it is duty of parents to teach the good and bad , right and wrong. Because as a kid they think all that they see around or do is all right. If they do something wrong ,You as a parents need to patiently and calmly explain why it is wrong and why. Children you think are small and are unable to understand but trust me they are way more smarter then we think. If they are explained with the reason and explanation they will do as u said.
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Happiness in life
I think that happiness cannot be measured by they money,and all materialistic things but by love ,affection from the people around. There are cases where a lady have best of the things in the world. Branded car馃殬,branded clothes 馃憲馃幗馃憳馃憭,lots of servants 馃檱but she is not happy 馃槓馃様from within as in-spite of all this she does not have anybody to talk to , who can make her feel loved, secured and wanted. On the other hand there are cases where the woman is hardly having latest electronics like washing machine or microwave or smart phone 馃摬or anything but she has lovely family nice kids馃應 ,very loving , caring,understanding husband 馃拸and her friends and family 馃懐who seeks her help and company and she feels she has all the things in life and feels happy and contented. That is a true happiness in life.
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urvismistry-blog-blog 9 years
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My time
How many woman actually take care of herself? I think hardly 20-25% of woman in INDIA must be really taking care of herself. I do not mean the social lady who attends one or the other event every single day but my reference is to those who are having family , in-laws, kids, social responsibilities etc. these women go to parlour when they really have to and cannot do without it. They have to really adjust the timings and schedule to make time for her grooming. Forget about the spa or massage and all ,for them it is a luxury ,even if they can afford monetarily they cannot socially .
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Every parent must have experienced this in some stage of their parenthood
Where you keep your needs aside and buy what your kid needs. And hats-off to all the lovely fathers out there. Salute you all . Fathers are the ones , doing all the hard-work , sloughing themselves for countless hours , and they have to spent most of the earnings on their loved ones. Wether it is parents, wife or children. The great thing is they never make their loved ones feel bad or burdened about the same.
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There is one more hidden wish i want to accomplish
I am pretty sure it will b accomplished. I want to go on an all women tour to some country and enjoy like a small kid. I want to go in this 鈥渨ow club "to some nice country and have a blast leaving behind all worries of life , home , children , husband etc. etc. i am pretty sure in 3-4 days i am going to miss my hubby , my kids , my sweet home but i definitely want to go and i know i will. 馃憤
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There was one other hidden wish that i did not want a miscarriage or abortion to b done.
And yes it was possible with the grace of all mighty God. As these things are not in our control. Thank you God for all that i have.
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There were few hidden wishes that i had and it got accomplished
Like i always wanted to drive a car on a freeway all by myself and thus i ended up participating in only women鈥檚 rally. That was the happiest and proudest day of my life. Had an opportunity to see outer world there were cars decorated with different social messages. I had chose to support awareness of breast cancer and hoe it is possible to cure it with early detection.
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Everybody have a hidden wishes which they to accomplish
I have experienced such hidden wishes which I have hardly told about it to anybody , but it remains in my heart to do it accomplish it some day. It is like doing self talk which draws you near to your goal and makes it possible to make it happen.
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urvismistry-blog-blog 9 years
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There must have being times that your sixth sense do give you hints,
But at that time you are thinking with your mind and not your Heart and later on when you release you regret not listening to your heart. Think it over there must be some such incidences in your past where you had to make a decision wether to listen to your heart or your mind ,( i.e. to be logical or emotional. )
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When you have a baby and your are expecting another baby , all parents are aware that
They need to involve their elder baby and all the parents Explains the elder one how to play , take care and share stuff with small brother or sister. But we as parent sometimes stuck in balancing home , office & kids , we are not aware that directly or indirectly we are sometimes making elder one feel neglected. We have to make conscious effort not to scold the elder one for any mistake or if he does something to grab our attention we have to give time when he demands.
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Very little couples know the fact that any child is hurt a most when he sees his parents fighting.
Believe me even if u both think that they are used to ur daily fights since years but they still feel bad n hurt. You will be shocked to know that this applies for unborn child as well. There is one workshop for to be parents and they make both the parents hug each other and rub against each other and they call it love juice. Soooo sweet na and it really works wonders.
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The key to be a friend to your kid is u have to be with him
to patiently listen to all that happened in school and outside school and also do not scold if he tells what mischief he did but just explain him the consequences of it. And b rest assured that you will the first and in some case the only one to know his secrets.
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urvismistry-blog-blog 9 years
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The difficult part being a parent is to balance urself being a friend and at the same time maintain the respect from your kid for being a mother. I was successful in becoming a friend to both my sons. Their friends envied them for having such a cool mom. They shared each and every thing with me.
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As a mother of two sons , I have also grown along with them.
The whole journey was of teachings them all that i learned , the good thing , the bad things , family values , respect each and every human being. Wht i learned was we should treat the person with the respect u expect for u.
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