#friendship

[acegineer]

@localmothseeker

actually no, we're not "dating". we're bound together for infinity. like the stars. so, fuck you, actually.

[fallintomidnight]

Sirius, after crying about something that happened in grimauld place : "James, can I ask you something?"

James, holding sirius' hand for comfort : "Ofcourse pads, you know you can ask me anything..."

Sirius, looks at James nervously : "Is my eyeliner smudged up?"

James :

Sirius :

James, sighs incredulously: "A little bit."

[minimalist-quotes]

I didn't grow up with role models. I grew up with people I DIDN'T want to be like.

[joannamarieart]

What helped for me was reframing: "Would I be annoyed if someone sent this exact message to me?" and the answer is always absolutely not, I would be delighted! So I can reasonably assume this person I'm reaching out to would also be delighted. I've been a lot more proactive with building friendships in the past 3ish years, and have made more friends in that time than in the previous 10, because I stopped being so scared of rejection and being perceived as annoying! And to be fair, I do still feel annoying sometimes and even get the vibe that other people find me annoying... but only people who I didn't click with either, so it ends up not really being a big deal if someone doesn't reciprocate my friendship gestures - I just move on to foster/find those who will.

what they don't tell you about making friends is you gotta be a lil annoying. you gotta push past the fear of "what if they don't want to talk to me" and simply ask someone how their day is going, send a meme. you cannot connect to people if you're both just awkwardly waiting for the other to start.

[lalagetg]

[ironicallydumb]

[caidenthewitch]

You may be the same person from my memory, but to me, you'll never be them.

─ Margaret Atwood

[365filmsbyauroranocte]

I vitelloni (Federico Fellini, 1953)

[fairyboy1111]

A digital offering for Philotes, the Greek goddess of friendship! May she never stop bringing wonderful people into our lives ❤️

[btpretty]

° ¸• ☆. ¸♥ .¯`· . 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚍𝚘𝚗'𝚝 𝚝𝚎𝚕𝚕 𝚖𝚎, 𝚢𝚘𝚞'𝚛𝚎 𝚗𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘 𝚠𝚎𝚊𝚛, 𝚋𝚎𝚌𝚊𝚞𝚜𝚎 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚌𝚊𝚗 𝚠𝚎𝚊𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚜 ° ¸• ☆. ¸♥ .¯`· .

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[gemwing1988]

😁

[lingering-zephyr]

"I think a part of me will always miss loving my friends."

~zephyr.

[minimalist-quotes]

Isn't it sad when you get hurt so much, you can finally say "I'm used to it.

[abreathlessplace]

"i wonder if we ever think of each other at the same time."

[a-study-in-bullshit]

"I love you , I'm glad we're friends"