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Oh nooo is it so bad I want a perv bf always finding himself sliding his fingers in my underwear when we're sitting together and toying with me while busy doing something else!!!

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Foie Graphics

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I think your late twenties are about your life falling apart, actually. And just moving on. Continuing to keep going. Its happening to so many people around me and im so proud of all of us

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Can i say something problematique for terminally online millenials and people born after that point: I think the seeming lack of ability or willingness to call one another and chat on the phone with friends unprompted or out of the blue contributes to whatever hellish loneliness everyone is talking about feeling these days. Say what you want about boomers and old people but those guys mostly knew how to keep in touch with each other. Idk man call a bitch today

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The other day, while laying in his arms, I asked if I was not too much and he told me that I deserved to be loved, I almost cried

I like my new man so much, he is so pookie 🥺🥺

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My boy is only gone for a weekend and horny men that I dont want to have sex with are texting. I dont want to text you I want to text my pookie

I like my new man so much, he is so pookie 🥺🥺

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I like my new man so much, he is so pookie 🥺🥺

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okay what if I want me and another sub to whine and hump each other and tear each others clothes off and see who can make the other cry the loudest till we’re both breathless and covered in each others spit and and

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Can we please start romanticizing knowing and accommodating your limits instead of romanticizing pushing yourself to the point of burnout and illness? Like being able to stay within the frames of what your brain and body can actually handle isn't laziness, it's a vital skill that more people should practice even as this society makes it hard.

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Ive been going through some heavy emotional processing the last few weeks so heres a list of things that were fun and cool about today to keep my spirits up

- texted a friend who hadnt spoken to for a while

- Made a new friend really happy by giving him an old unopened set of Ninjago legos (his favorites)

- No one at the atelier was mean to me, friend who I havent seen in a long time even came to check in

- When I realised I had been pushing myself and actually needed to go home and cry, I did

- After crying, I got have a small comfort call from the boy I am dating. He finds big emotions daunting, but wants to be there for me anyways, always lets me know its okay for me to cry

- I made healthy soup and ate healthy soup

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the infuriating thing is that there is genuinely so much good queer literature out there, contemporary and not, but there is also a sizeable chunk of readers who think that a book only "counts" as good queer literature if it's a) unproblematic, b) contains romance as its central focus, and c) has the characters state their orientation and/or gender identity directly to the audience using socially acceptable 21st-century terms (as opposed to resorting to cowardly tactics such as Subtext and Themes)

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Having your main anxiety response be Avoidance is crazy cause you'll think you're chillin and then one day you're like waitttt I've been paralyzed with fear this whole time. Damn

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let’s hear it for being weird and off putting!

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Life if bro lived close by

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I JUST WANNA BE A STRIPPER

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If my dad has anything to say about my behavior in the upcoming weeks, Ill just tell him 'whatever man, you havent gotten my name right even once in the last month'

ANGER IS ENERGY. I WILL NO LONGER LISTEN TO MY DAD. MY INSTINCTS WERE RIGHT ABOUT ME NO LONGER BEING ABLE TO BE QUIET. I WILL CONFRONT PEOPLE FOR MY OWN SAKE.

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I want to sleep but my mother is dead and my extended family has neglected my sisters, my dads and my own grief for 9 years. Also I need to write angry emails to the local transman support group for always eyeing me like I'm the black sheep for being feminine. Also, my dad is always wrong. Why do I still listen to that guy.

ANGER IS ENERGY. I WILL NO LONGER LISTEN TO MY DAD. MY INSTINCTS WERE RIGHT ABOUT ME NO LONGER BEING ABLE TO BE QUIET. I WILL CONFRONT PEOPLE FOR MY OWN SAKE.