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We succeeded with running ALL the energy out of Daisy #daisyjean #toddlerdown #success https://www.instagram.com/p/Bm1yvzbn6lJ0rnMORy7x4LL0nLfAgzK9mEzZ3A0/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1c2ptv7pccum3

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What mom doesn’t have ball pit balls rolling around the floor?

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Term of Endurement

You know how there is always that one individual that you can’t seem to get on the same page with in your family? My Dad always called my mom’s parents his “in-loves” instead of his in-laws and I’m finally understanding why. It definitely appeared as in higher esteem, but in reality, I believe it may have been a term of endurement...yep, just a step below endearment. God tells us we are to love one another and that one or two family members make that a VERY difficult task some days. By enduring them in love, we are living out our calling to love one another. Loving doesn’t mean liking or agreeing or understanding or any other “ing”ing... who are you in love with?

Self? Disregard the thought.

Others? We know you’re lying...

God? Then act like it.

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Potty Trauma on Holy Ground

That’s right ladies and gents. It was otherwise a normal Sunday night at our church’s summer worship series. Good food, fellowship, and of course my toddler had to pee.

We exit stage right into the building from the courtyard straight to the bathroom near the nursery (familiar territory). The door wasn’t locked so we began opening the door slowly. Lights were on, but no one was on the toilet. I could hear the water running, but by this point figured someone would have yelled if they were occupying the room.

Y’all God puts you places just in time. I immediately realized I had walked in (with my two year old) on a vandalization attempt. I was able to turn off the water and unplug the sink before any water escaped to flood the floor. The toilet was in deplorable condition, but at this point my little one was peeing her pants, so we darted to the next restroom and I called my husband.

Another individual entered the vandalized stall before I was able to report what I found and attempted to flush the purposefully filled toilet. I hoped they would report it, but it took a second individual finding the condition of the restroom to report it before my husband got to me. I told him what I found, but the pastor was already attempting to “unclog” the toilet by time we had our toddler cleaned up and changed.

I told the pastor the condition of the restroom when I found it and the reason I was unable to get to him before the toilet became “clogged”. I pray for the individual brazen enough to defile God’s house. I pray that individual is found and punished for their foolish actions. I pray that the corrections for this act will prevent further escalation of their terrible behavior before it hurts others.

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BOOM!

Goal achieved. Now this will not seem like much to...well,anyone, but I am STOKED. Today I ran two miles pushing my double jogging stroller with my two toddlers along for the ride.

Most importantly, I did not experience any post-mommy-of-two leaking (the struggle is real y’all)! My hard work is paying off.

I began this journey power walking two miles with short sprints for the last quarter of each mile. Once that became routine and less of a struggle I decided to go for the goal. It took about a month to feel up to the challenge.

Point is: get out and do it. Whatever your fitness goal, start small and go hard. Keep building yourself up and you can achieve greatness!

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Awesome family outing

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Think first, then speak

Or type. Think again before you post. Why is it always the individuals that make hurtful or stupid statements, either verbally or electronically, that are wearing their religious jewelry, t-shirts, bracelets, or have a profile littered with religious quotes and passages?

It makes me so sad! Then I get angry. As a religious individual I can admit I fall short and am in every way human as anyone. However, are we not supposed to strive earnestly to set aside ourselves and put the needs of others first? Absolutely, so please, show the love and refrain from making unnecessary statements and posts degrading individuals.

By all means stand firm for what you believe. This is important for your spiritual health and well-being. But you can still be used for evil and must stay on guard. Check yourself before you hurt another’s feelings by attacking their physique or personality. We are all given blessings that are valued or devalued on an individual basis.

THINK. Think about how you would feel if someone said or wrote your statements to you! If you are your own god, then disregard, because it all revolves around you. Everyone else, however, please be considerate. Our goal should be to encourage and support one another. If your statement is not meant to be up-lifting, do everyone a favor and keep it to yourself.

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Cravings

I’m setting out on a new adventure of self-improvement. The goal is to start small and grow by identifying the obstacles that have been barriers or deterrents in the past and address them on the spot. So, cravings, not because I’m hungry, or thirsty, or tired, but because I’m depressed and looking for a fix...correction, a temporary fix. Well, now let’s stop right there.

Ice cream. I tell myself I deserve it, or I’ve earned it. How? What did I do that was so special? Nothing, and if the answer is nothing, then I need to go address the true feelings driving that craving.

Sleep. Nap? I don’t think so. You did absolutely none of the tasks that you needed to get done today and then stayed up late doing anything BUT those tasks. Therefore, you didn’t want to get out of bed. Weak-mindedness does not equate to your body being weak. Not sleeping at night because you are not tired with a second wind from staying up doing nothing productive is no excuse. Get on a schedule, make a to-do list, and get to work. You are sure to be tired and sleep when it’s appropriate.

Instant gratification. Really? That’s not how life works. If you want results and success then you have to put in the time and effort. Excellence is only achieved one step at a time. Quit giving up or changing the plan because you do not see monumental change in three days! You will be better and stronger if you persevere.

Cravings are feelings for which you must identify the root cause, address in a healthy manner, and continue to fight to reach your life goals. Feelings do not go away, so the same is true of cravings. How you confront your cravings is a whole person approach: mind, body, and spirit. Overcome.

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Surprise?

I do not understand astonishment and lack of belief when looking at the state of the world. It just so happens this is exactly what was predicted, prophesied, and promised years ago. Simply read. It is all there. Unlike the recent omnibus bill, my copy is only 1698 pages with exponentially greater odds of world-wide positive impact. 

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A minute of my life #daisyjean #amylynn #bathtimefun (at Picatinny Arsenal)

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#daisyjean #oneofthesethingsisnotliketheothers (at Picatinny Arsenal)

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Anyone willing to help a girl out? #messykitchenisahappykitchen (at Picatinny Arsenal)

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Puppy Christmas 🎄 #candycane #dogtreats #stockingstuffers (at Picatinny Arsenal)

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Merry First Christmas #amylynn 🎄 silly #daisyjean #njchristmas (at Picatinny Arsenal)

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Tyler: Do you have my nuts? Me: In so many ways. #marriedlife #roadtripsnacks (at Rt 80 West)

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She is getting so big! #almostninemonths (at Picatinny Arsenal)