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The It Girl Diarie Blog

Hi !

The links to all It Girl Diarie Blog Post's. Mwah!

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A Guide For Your It Girl Journey

Living Through Your Alter Ego

It Girl Academic Excellence | The Elle Woods Method

It Girl Vision Boards

Steps I Took To Become A It Girl

It Girl Financial Freedom Through Social Media

How to Clear Your Gut

Stop Giving A FUCK

Networking Like An It Girl

Building A Killer Confidence Routine

Day In The Life Of The Ideal It Girl

Organize Your Life Like an It Girl

The Perfect It Girl Beauty Sleep Routine

The It Girl Wardrobe Essentials

Elegance: Talking with Grace and Walking with Poise

Rebranding Yourself in 90 Days

Financing 101

Beauty Secrets of A Brown Skin Girl

Cultivating Your Signature It Girl Aesthetic

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𝐼𝑡𝐺𝑖𝑟𝑙 𝑡𝑖𝑝 #𝟾 🎀

· never apologize for being yourself

· never agree to something you’re not comfortable with

· never pretend to like something or hide what you actually like just to fit in

· never neglect you’re wants and needs because you’re too busy catering to someone else’s wants and needs

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Hairclips Haul (bought it from SHEIN)

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Pixievu’s Waffle Recipe👩🏻‍🍳

Ayo kita bikin waffle! Simple banget (beneran!) untuk 5 waffle kamu cuma butuh bahan-bahan di bawah ini :

Tepung 50g

Susu 50g

Gula 25g

Butter yang dilelehkan 50g

Baking powder

Telur 1 butir

🦋Cara membuat🦋

langkah pertama adalah lelehkan butternya dulu. Bisa di atas pan, atau didalam microwave (pakai mangkok)

Lalu campurin semua komposisinya di tabung takaran atau gelas takar.

Aduk-aduk sampai semua bahan-bahannya tercampur ya! Boleh sambil dengerin lagu biar engga kerasa asksksksk

Panaskan alat untuk manasin wafflenya sampai beneran siap untuk dituangin adonan.

Timer selama 3 menit supara bisa matang sempurna. Setelah timernya bunyi, angkat deh wafflenya yang sudah jadi! Simple kan!

Ini hasilnya!!! 🤓🤍

Aku suka makan waffle ini pas lagi hangat-hangatnya, bisa pake madu atau nutella! Pelengkapnya sambil minum kopi😍

Selamat mencoba resepnya ya🦋🤍

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Let me drop them here as well because I looked hella cute ^^

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Just my kitten being herself (can’t stop chewing my flowers 🙅🏻‍♀️💭👺)

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Visited this little old town with a friend. Kita udah kenal dari lama tapi ngga pernah sedeket itu. Soooo i was trying to reconnect with him and surprisingly we’re on the same rythm! Kota ini mungiiiil, hanya aja banyak spot2 menarik karena memang lokasinya di dataran tinggi, sooooo akhirnya kita mendaki, main hujan, sambil ngobrol SERU BANGET. Di hari itu kita komunikasi seolah kita sering ketemu! Dia orangnya bisa nyesuaiin tempo dan topik pembicaraan, and i guess… aku juga tipe orang yang sama (karena kita ga berenti oversharing bahkan sampai perjalanan pulang). I was soooo happy that day. Really happy.

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thrifted this skirt only for 1€ 😱💓

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Aku bikin hadiah lucu buat temen2 terdekat aku! Ini terbuat dari clay jadi gampang banget ngebentuknya. Ceritanya aku mau bikin magnet kulkas sama organizer buat aksesoris. Mereka bakal suka ga ya? 🐰🥽

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SELF TALK. Replacing the NEGATIVE things we say to ourselves with POSITIVE words 🦄💜✨✨

When we say bad things about ourselves, our minds and bodies pay attention and start believing those things. It's like a cycle. When we keep telling ourselves we're not good enough or can't do things, our minds start thinking it's true. These bad thoughts can make us act in ways that match what we believe, like avoiding things because we think we'll fail. Over time, our brain gets used to these thoughts and they become a regular part of how we see ourselves.

But if we say good things to ourselves, it can be really helpful. When we're kind in how we talk to ourselves, it can make us feel better and stronger. It's like giving ourselves a little boost of confidence. When we're positive, we can handle problems better and feel less stressed. When we believe good things about ourselves, we might do better in different situations. So it's important to notice how we talk to ourselves and try to say nice things, even if we don't always feel that way.

Negative: "I always mess things up." Positive: "I sometimes make mistakes, but I also learn from them."

Negative: "I'm so stupid." Positive: "I'm smart and capable; everyone makes errors."

Negative: "I can't do this; it's too hard." Positive: "I can handle challenges with effort and perseverance."

Negative: "I'll never succeed in anything." Positive: "I have the potential to achieve my goals through hard work."

Negative: "Nobody likes me." Positive: "I have people who care about me and value my company."

Negative: "I'm a failure." Positive: "I've achieved many things and will continue to grow."

Negative: "I'm not good enough." Positive: "I am enough just as I am, and I'm constantly improving."

Negative: "I'm a burden to others." Positive: "My presence and contributions make a positive impact."

Negative: "I always mess up social situations." Positive: "I can connect with others and enjoy social interactions."

Negative: "I'll never get over this." Positive: "I can heal and move forward from difficult situations."

Negative: "I'm so ugly." Positive: "I am unique and have qualities that make me attractive."

Negative: "I'll never be as good as them." Positive: "I have my own strengths and talents that are valuable."

Negative: "I'm a loser." Positive: "I have the courage to try and the ability to succeed."

Negative: "I'm always so awkward." Positive: "I am learning and growing in social interactions."

Negative: "I can't handle criticism." Positive: "I can learn from feedback and use it to improve."

Negative: "I'm too lazy to accomplish anything." Positive: "I have the energy and determination to achieve my goals."

Negative: "I'll never be happy." Positive: "I can find joy and contentment in the little things."

Negative: "I'm a failure as a parent/friend/partner." Positive: "I care and do my best to support those around me."

Negative: "I'm too old/young to do that." Positive: "Age doesn't define my ability to pursue my passions."

Negative: "I don't deserve good things." Positive: "I am worthy of happiness, success, and positive experiences."

Negative: "I'm a failure because I haven't achieved enough." Positive: "I'm on my own path of growth and accomplishments."

Negative: "I can't handle stress." Positive: "I am resilient and can manage stress with effective strategies."

Negative: "I'll never be as talented as others." Positive: "I have unique talents that make me special."

Negative: "I'm so clumsy." Positive: "I am improving my coordination and skills."

Negative: "I'm too shy to make friends." Positive: "I have qualities that others appreciate and I can connect with people."

Negative: "I'm not good at anything." Positive: "I have strengths and abilities that I can develop."

Negative: "I'm a burden on my family." Positive: "My family supports me and we help each other."

Negative: "I'll probably fail, so why bother trying?" Positive: "I have the courage to take on challenges and learn from them."

Negative: "I can't trust anyone; people always let me down." Positive: "I can build meaningful and trustworthy relationships."

Negative: "I'll never find love." Positive: "I am deserving of love and can create meaningful connections."

Negative: "I'm not creative at all." Positive: "I can express my creativity in different ways."

Negative: "I'll never be able to speak in public." Positive: "I can develop my public speaking skills with practice."

Negative: "I don't deserve success." Positive: "I am capable of achieving success through hard work."

Negative: "I'm so disorganized." Positive: "I can improve my organization skills with time."

Negative: "I'll never be happy with my body." Positive: "I can make healthy choices and appreciate my body."

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