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i really do believe that the answer to a lot of people's self hatred is not to try and reassure them that they are wonderful and okay and enough, but instead to remind them theyre a completely unremarkable regular ass person who is not the center of the universe or especially important so why would they expect themselves to be some superhuman savior. like there really is a kernel of out of control self importance at the heart of thinking youre an evil lazy piece of shit. because why would you expect you be anything but just like some guy. if you wouldnt expect the guy who works at the vape shop or your mailman or whatever to be able to do something then why would you expect yourself to? youre just some random ass person. its fine

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i kno its not rly a popular statement and it sounds dismissive but you'll be miserable for as long as u deny ur own agency in ur own happiness

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hey here's a website for downloading any video or image from any website.

works w/ youtube, soundcloud, twitch, twitter (gifs and videos), tumblr (video and audio), and most other websites you're probably lookin to download stuff off of.

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i don’t think people understand how much of life is grief. not just people dying, but losing the version of yourself you thought you’d become. grieving the city you had to leave. the friends you lost not in argument, but in silence. the summer that will never come back. the feeling that maybe you peaked at 12 when you were reading books under the covers and believing in forever

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So my sister is on vacation and has sent me a photo of the store she was buying clothes in.

I'm going to lose it.

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fuuuuck i just realized that the future idealized version of myself cant exist without current me being the catalyst for change and doing hard things. has anybody heard about this

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this line delivery has lived in my head for 10 years

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“laughter is the best medicine” WRONG. hormone replacement therapy.

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lil snoopy tattoo i got at a tattoo festival yesterday :] decided that, going forward, am gonna collect a snoopy each time i come across one, and have like. a charm of snoopies on my right forearm ,,

snoopy we all say in unison :]

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bro, the me inside your head is kind to you, right? haha? 🤨

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Actually, I rather like being trans

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has this been done yet?

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results of said next part of life, let's fucking goooooo 🕺🎉

college interview in 20 mins :] ! nervous but excited to start the next part of life :]

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