Marry a man who wants to be a husband, not a man who just wants a wife. Read that again.
A man who WANTS to be a husband is a man who’s willing to provide, protect, & fulfill your rights. He is READY to do whatever he can to make things work. A man who JUST wants a wife is a man who's only thinking about what YOU can do for him, & not what HE needs to do for YOU.
I was trying to be in my “nice girl give men the benefit of the doubt” era but I literally do not care anymore. I like rich/successful men who drive nice cars and who carries themselves well. I like going out to five star restaurants on dates. I like to be spoiled. I’m an unapologetic gold digger and It’s in my right to have these standards forever instilled and to never settle for any less. I’d rather be alone than to settle with anyone who doesn’t match these standards.
unpopular opinion but if a man likes you all you have to do is be loyal and pleasant to him. you don’t have to be paying his bills,you don’t have to prove anything to him, you don’t have to be cooking him him 3 course meals every single day or be his maid. A man that has you doing all the emotional, physical and psychological labor in the relationship doesn’t love you