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I love this website. It has profiles of over 100 female writers in translation from before 1700, with extracts from their work, relevent secondary sources, and where you can find their works in print or online. 

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whatever girlie invented the word scrote needs 10k deposited into her account and her pussy ate STAT bc that is the only word that comes close to being the male equivalent of “cunt” in terms of disgust and disrespect, and just being a great insult

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Imagine if you met someone who can't eat watermelon. Not that they're allergic or unable somehow, but they just haven't figured out how to do that. So you're like "what the hell do you mean? it works just like eating anything else, you open your mouth, sink your teeth in, take a bite and chew. If you can bite, chew and swallow, you should be able to eat a watermelon."

And they agree that yes, they do know how to eat, in theory. The problem is the watermelon. Surely, if they figured out where to start, they'd figure out how to do it, but they have no clue how to get started with it.

This goes back and forth. No, it's not an emotional issue, they're not afraid of the watermelon. They can eat any other fruit, other sweet things, and other watery things ("it's watery?" they ask you). Is it the colour? Do they have a problem eating things that are green on the outside and red on the inside?

"It's red on the inside?"

Wait, they've never seen the inside? At this point you have to ask them how, exactly, they eat the watermelon. So to demonstrate, they take a whole, round, uncut watermelon, and try to bite straight into it. Even if they could bite through the crust, there's no way to get human jaws around it.

"Oh, you're supposed to cut it first. You cut the crust open and only chew through the insides."

And they had no idea. All their life this person has had no idea how to eat a watermelon, despite of being told again and again and again that it's easy, it's ridiculous to struggle with something so simple, there's no way that someone just can't eat a watermelon, how can you even mange to be bad at something as fucking simple as eating watermelon.

If someone can't do something after being repeatedly told to "just do it", there might be some key component missing that one side has no idea about, and the other side assumed was so obvious it goes without mention.

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love ppl online being like "ur literally 30" like do u think thats not gonna happen to you??

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i love when people react to my post in a way that is supposed to defy my point but the person hasnt actually read or understood the post. yes bro give us nothing

the post: some sex acts are degrading because men perform them with the goal of degrading the woman so it doesnt matter how the woman feels about it

the reaction: wait til op finds out some women like degrading sex acts

the post: buying sex is inherently abusive because money is power and sex buyers knowingly leverage that to coerce someone with less money and therefore less power into sex

the reaction: well some women choose to be prostitutes. checkmate feminists

the post: sex is a tangible characteristic no matter how an individual feels about it

the reaction: you dont get to tell people how to feel about themselves kys

the post: the porn industry preys on young and naive people and produces misogynistic, racist, homophobic, violent and unconsentful content for the sole purpose of sexual arousal. as demonstrated by pornhubs own database

the reaction: um me and my polyamourous lovers produce ethical feminist porn in our garage and all 10 of my nonbinary friends watch it and i love sending nudes to strangers. so shut up

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Researchers found the female body was better suited for endurance activity “which would have been critical in early hunting because they would have had to run the animals down into exhaustion before actually going in for the kill”.

Scientists said the hormones oestrogen and adiponectin – typically present in higher quantities in female bodies – play a key role in enabling women to modulate glucose and fat, which is critical for athletic performance.

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Male Stoicism is backed up by an incredible amount of emotional labor from women

Like men are able to get away with never expressing of requesting help with their feelings because women are trained from a very young age to observe men, watch for signs of emotional need and environmental stressors and deal with them without being asked.  It’s why women worry constantly about emasculating the men in their lives but men never worry about “efeminating” the women in their lives.

Men are “stoic” only because they don’t have to communicate in order to get their emotional needs met.

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ladies don’t forget to fill up your water bottle and put it in the fridge before you go to bed tonight so you can have a drink as soon as you wake up tomorrow. men you can die i guess

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high class escorts who can pick and choose who they sell their body to are the exception because the demand is small. not every man can afford to pay 1000$ but every man from the lowest to the highest class feels entitled to womens bodies, and not only that, but feels entitled to get our bodies for cheap. this is why prostitution will never change no matter how regulated, unless the demand is dried out. sex tourism exists, among other things, because men feel entitled to have sex with unwilling women for as little as 20$. of course you could introduce a minimum wage for prostitution but that will not change the fact that there are not enough women who freely choose prostitution against other viable options to ever meet demand. and consider, the more prostitutes earn, the more sex buyers they can decline, which would increase demand. its a snake biting its own tail. no regulation, kill the demand now!

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men are constantly trying to frame conversations around prostitution and onlyfans and surrogacy and whatever else as “what women choose to do with their bodies” specifically so that you don’t think about it as a problem with what men do to women’s bodies. men are very very very invested in making you think this has nothing to do with them. don’t fall for it

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refusing to drink pulpy orange juice is just like refusing to eat out a girl with an unshaved pussy like ohhhh so when you said you liked orange juice you didnt actually mean you liked orange juice you meant you liked the sanitised boring smooth version because you have to have someone modify it from its glorious natural state in order to make it palatable to you..... got it

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incels are just the first generation of men who have been brought up addicted to porn. every single incel talking point about women is from porn. incels think women are having sex from the time they hit puberty onward bc they watch porn with pedophilic undertones or actual cp/loli, incels think women can have sex at a moments notice w any man they want bc that's what happens to women in porn, incels think women regularly have extreme sex like anal or gangbangs bc that's what porn shows them, incels think women like men who are abusive or violent bc that's what women in porn like. u know that weird meme that's being going around abt white women fucking dogs? yeah that's been an incel thing for years. why is that when men are overwhelmingly the perpetrators of beastiality? bc most men will have come across animal abuse porn by the time they're graduated high school and incels, who watch porn even more than normal men, see women having sex with animals regularly. incels are just men who's only contact with women has been through porn, men who accept that porns depiction of women is accurate, and they hate women because they totally believe what they see in porn. when they try to roleplay what they see with real women, and the women have boundaries and personalities and lives outside of sex, it infuriates them not because they're mad women have been abused and misrepresented, but because they're upset they are not getting the ultimate male fantasy they were promised from childhood.

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And speaking of Sophia Tolstoy, her diaries are just so depressing. 

“I am to gratify his pleasure and nurse his child, I am a piece of household furniture, I am a woman. I try to suppress all human feelings. When the machine is working properly it heats the milk, knits a blanket, makes little requests and bustles about trying not to think […].“

She wrote this when she was 19, one year into her marriage to Leo and as she was pregnant with the first of his 13 children.

A few years later, when she was 25 or so:

“I am so often alone with my thoughts that the need to write in my diary comes quite naturally … Now I am well again and not pregnant—it terrifies me how often I have been in that condition. He said that for him being young meant “I can achieve anything”. For me […] reason tells me that there is nothing I either want or can do beyond nursing, eating, drinking, sleeping, and loving and caring for my husband and babies, all of which I know is happiness of a kind, but why do I feel so woeful all the time, and weep as I did yesterday? I am writing this now with the pleasantly exciting sense that nobody will ever read it, so I can be quite frank with myself […].“

During her 12th pregnancy she wrote about taking scalding baths and jumping from high pieces of furniture to try and miscarry.  And at one point while reading her husband’s diary (which he told her to read) she found the sentence “There is no such thing as love, only the physical need for intercourse and the practical need for a life companion.” In her own diary she wrote “They ebb and flow like waves, these times when I realise how lonely I am and want only to cry…”

A few years before her husband’s death, she published a cycle of prose poems titled “Groans”, under the pseudonym “A Tired Woman”.

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imagine never eating pussy wtfffff