worstbisexual

[worstbisexual]

“Most of my relationships with men in my youth were convenient, based on their interest in me & little more, and I thought this was enough. In my mind's eye, there is a 14-year-old version of me who's first kiss is her best friend in the hallway at breakfast, instead of a guy she shares nothing in common with.

The slow burn of my realization that the moral panic just might be about me becomes worth it when my little siblings tell me, through mutual tears on my bedroom floor at 2AM, that I'm the reason they could afford to know so young.”

A little something about being bi and not knowing it. Except everyone else does.

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Literally so hungry I feel faint just moved into a new place all my money I spent on rent n other nesscisties and need grocery money /fast food money to eat today, $hopesoda

Or vnmo:hope-soda

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Gofundme since my mom stole all my grandpa’s money instead of paying our bills for like a year & a half! Me, my 3 little siblings, & my grandpa will be homeless if we cannot raise this money!

^ me when I was very young, thumbsucking in the living room and my brother when he was even younger, gamecubing in the same living room surrounded by our toys

Short story for those who have not seen the liveblogging as this has unfolded: my grandma died November 2021, responsibility for handling my grandpa’s & disabled uncle’s finances was handed over to my mom. She developed a serious gambling addiction and stole all of their money. My grandpa’s retirement check & my uncle’s disability payments, loans in their names, maxing out their credit cards. She has not paid a single one of our bills in several months, and didn’t tell us until recently when the house people called her & threatened foreclosure. The house is over $6000 past due. Mom swore to help catch up the payments but so far has fallen through on every promise, and threatened to kill herself sooo. Not expecting much.

I can’t post a lot of pics for my family’s privacy but this is thee only real home we have ever had. My grandma is buried in the backyard. My dog is buried in the yard. Not to be dramatically Native American but the gigantic tree my great x3 grandmother planted, which every generation has gathered & played under since, is in this yard. We NEVER imagined this house would ever leave our family. Ma nanka nei- I belong here, and I’m so afraid to leave.

Pila’huk (THANK U) - if you dislike gfm I am heartemojie on cashapp + venmo and @13thead on paypal, please include a note that it is for the house if you can. ANYTHING helps

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Hey besties. My motor is. Well shes dead. Dead dead. I got ran off a mountain road and lost my oil plug, battery function and everything whatsoever. 💚 I have no idea how the hell I'm going to get back, tow truck wants $740 to get it back home and around 3k to get a new engine in the bitch.

Um. Help?

If I'm quiet my phones also dead teehee

Pay links below

Paypal.me/jaggeds

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happy lesbian week <3

[worstbisexual]

Gender expression in bisexual women: Therapeutic issues and considerations

“Identities such as butch and femme and butch/femme expressions of gender are as core to an individual's sense of self as bisexual identification; having to silence one aspect of the self (e.g., bisexual) in order to choose the other (e.g., butch or femme) is an unacceptable compromise of the self. This silencing can lead to feelings of being disingenuous and inauthentic, exactly the experiences many butch/femme bisexual women ardently seek to avoid, and this self-silencing can lead these women to experience anxiety, depression, and feelings of rejection (Hiestand and Levit 2005; Levit, Gerrish, and Hiestand 203; Levit and Hiestand 2004). For many of these women, being true to their inner feelings and attractions and being comfortable in how they present themselves to others are the keystones of their psychological health (Garnets et al. 1991). Therapists can help these clients explore the impact of living in multiple communities that are sometimes at odds with one another, assisting women to understand the threats these conditions pose to their psychological health and sense of well-being.”

From Becoming Visible, Counseling Bisexuals Across a Lifespan. (2007)

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i like dis top

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Hey :( I hate to ask for help but my car is making some Weird noises and I need to get it looked at ASAP. I have $500 I can use for repairs (that’s if I don’t eat much this week and next..lol) but it’s looking like it’ll probably be more than that. If anyone has anything to spare, I’d really really appreciate it. Please reblog if you can’t help 💖

C*shapp, v*nmo, and p*ypal are all @ anarchogarf

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hi, i'm bj. i'm a disabled trans bisexual aboriginal australian living in the city, and i need help with general health and monthly living expenses.

i no longer have a job that can cover the majority and physically cannot work the hours necessary to cover it anyways.

i have rent, utilities, groceries, transport (specifically rideshares for when i'm physically unable to walk at times), appointments and medication to pay for monthly. i've been managing by the skin of my teeth so far but with specialists i can officially no longer afford all of this on my own.

any help is appreciated, and any hate will be deleted. please do not use any d0no etc. tags for this, i cannot risk it being hidden.

$0/$700

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Please help a Black LG(B)T with his rent if you can❣️

Finally got my friend to let me ask for y’all’s help! He’s been having a hard time for a minute & really trying his hardest to take care of things on his own but things keep falling through.

He’s not asking for all of it, just the $200 he lost today and he would prefer I take the donations n pass it on (I’ll post proof that I sent it!). This man has taken care of me thru psychotic episodes and fixed dents in my car with his bare hands when I fucked it up in the middle of the night. It would really mean a lot to me if we could just take some of the pressure off him for a little bit. I have been fundraising for medical debt for a while so please include a note that says it’s for my friend if possible*

heartemojie on cashapp + venmo

paypal.me/13thead

Thanks so much! 0/200

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From the Spring 1997 issue of bisexual magazine "Anything That Moves" (plain text under the cut)

Not A Traitor, Not Weird, Just Happy

Greetings! Just when I was afraid that there was no intelligent life out there, I find Anything That Moves. What luck!

I adored "Bi Femme" by Leah Lilith Albrecht-Samarasinha; I think she and I are sisters under the skin! I am currently embroiled in a passionate relationship with a glorious drag queen, and I was really starting to feel as if I were the only bi-babe who got all sweaty over a guy in a frock.

I, too, have been called a traitor by my gay friends, and just plain weird by my straight friends, but how can you label "happy"? I steal his clothes, he steals mine... and we wear the same size skirt. What more is there?

Thanks again. I shall return regularly.

Ging (from the 'net)

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Hiiii LGBT+ people of color 💙 I’d like to extend an invitation to u

(IDs already in image descriptions!)

My darling friend @lovew1tch works with a small community that’s done great work providing meals, workshops, & other resources to LGBT+ poc and they’ve reached out to me to help facilitate discussion about the language we use to identify & communicate about ourselves, as they’re considering changes to the group’s name and aiming to be intentional & thoughtful especially in terms of how Black people are acknowledged & included after “BIPOC” has been suggested.

September 14th is very short notice, but we’re still hoping to get some more voices in this conversation! Black participants will be receiving small honorariums ($40 CAD) as this conversation began with where & how you fit into it.

I encourage you to come if you find this topic significant to you & your experiences, even if you’re not super confident in speaking or articulating it- the goal is to have an informal, supportive talk with no weird standards for you to meet and I really value what you have to say! Thank you, I hope I see you there 🫶🏽 okay for anybody to rb btw

[worstbisexual]

Hiiii LGBT+ people of color 💙 I’d like to extend an invitation to u

(IDs already in image descriptions!)

My darling friend @lovew1tch works with a small community that’s done great work providing meals, workshops, & other resources to LGBT+ poc and they’ve reached out to me to help facilitate discussion about the language we use to identify & communicate about ourselves, as they’re considering changes to the group’s name and aiming to be intentional & thoughtful especially in terms of how Black people are acknowledged & included after “BIPOC” has been suggested.

September 14th is very short notice, but we’re still hoping to get some more voices in this conversation! Black participants will be receiving small honorariums ($40 CAD) as this conversation began with where & how you fit into it.

I encourage you to come if you find this topic significant to you & your experiences, even if you’re not super confident in speaking or articulating it- the goal is to have an informal, supportive talk with no weird standards for you to meet and I really value what you have to say! Thank you, I hope I see you there 🫶🏽 okay for anybody to rb btw

[worstbisexual]

and is the straight passing bisexual in the room with us right now?

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im waiting to hear back from a few jobs but im not able to pay my full rent or utilities and I hate to keep doing this but I really need help

if anyone can share this that would be great. I'm a neurodivergent nonbinary bisexual who recently got laid off. i haven't worked in a month and im trying really hard to make everything work and be okay but I'm really struggling

venmo, pay pal, go fund me

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my gf has $6 to their name and i have $80. i know people are seeing these posts, please ACTIVELY CONTRIBUTE BC JUST A REBLOG GUARANTEES NOTHING!!! $JSMNRN $80MiN LITERALLY ANY AMOUNT HELPS, I DON’T GET PAID TIL END OF THE MONTH (​like i’m autistic w fibromyalgia and starting a new job and i just escaped my shitty household and they left their abusers last month!)

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butch/femme server <3

for people who are butch, femme, or related identities. explicitly inclusive of all LGBT people, like femme bisexuals and butch gay men!

here’s the link!

in addition to butch and femme, we have roles for stud, stemme, fish, futch, and kiki, and we also allow people who are just exploring any of these identities to join and chat and try things on. the server is adults only (18 and over), with no maximum age cap. if you’d like to join, we’d be happy to meet you :)