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he's cosplaying

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ive witnessed a terrible crime

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so i took part in @hermitadaymay challenge this year and here's all the drawings i've done :] kinda tried to come up with season 10 designs for all the hermits. i'm not happy with some of them and i'll work on those more later for sure but it's not a bad result for a month of work considering all the stuff that was happening to me in may :"D

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Soulbound ❤️‍🩹🪡💔🫀

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happy two time rework day.

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FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU!!!!!!! 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

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@rubydreamsuwu ik ur futurama era ended like forever ago but this did made me think of u

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It's such a shame the Secret Soulmates thing is so often portrayed as Grian being selfish or vindictive for no reason because I think the actual events leading up to Grian's decision to seek out BigB are way more interesting than just "Grian's a selfish cheater". So like, because it's not covered much, I'm just going to detail the entire narrative from Grian's pov leading up to his decision to go to BigB.

For the first part of the first episode, Grian actually really seems to be romanticizing the idea of soulmates. Multiple times, he describes his search for his soulmate as "looking for love" and he hits everyone he meets with almost excited anticipation.

The moment Grian and BigB first look at each other is surprisingly romantic? I mean, it feels like what you'd expect from someone meeting their soulmate, from someone who just knows.

BigB and Scott finish testing if they're soulmates, and BigB is mid sentence when he turns around and look at Grian, and BigB just stops mid sentence and goes "Oh", which Grian echos (also when bigb looks at grian, grian holds his shield up for a good few seconds which just gives me the image of him hiding behind it and peering over the top which is uncharacteristically shy for grian but also really cute). "Are you ready?", BigB asks, and he waits for Grian to give him the go ahead before hitting him.

And..nothing. They aren't soulmates. BigB sounds disappointed. Grian sounds almost distraught, "I was so sure- I've never had such a broken heart in my life."

Shortly after Grian's soulmate takes significant damage. Everyone present rushes to give him food, though Grian would later credit BigB specifically with the very warm sentiment of having "saved" him.

And Grian's first meeting with Scar is..different.

Grian already doesn't seem to want to be Scar's soulmate, doesn't want to be teamed again, for one reason or another. And Scar..doesn't make it easier. Grian tries to talk to him, as the realization sets in, tries to say it, that they're soulmates. Grian does say it. But Scar isn't listening. Scar actively talks over Grian to brush Grian off, walking away while Grian is trying to grapple with the fact that they're soulmates.

Scar doesn't notice. Grian said it, mind you, in plain English- "Scar I think we're soulmates"- and Scar heard him, Scar responded to him, Scar just wasn't listening. Scar doesn't look for his soulmate, and he doesn't figure it out either for the rest of the episode. Grian tries to tell him twice more, and twice more Scar isn't listening. The first time, Grian calls after Scar twice as he's running off, "Scar I need to tell you something", but Scar doesn't turn around. The final time, Grian literally forces Scar to look at him and drops dripstone on their heads. Scar somehow still doesn't see him. Grian demands Scar look at him, actually look, this time, and finally, with great effort, he manages to get the point across.

One of Scar's first questions is "do we have to live together?", and Grian responds that it would be nice to, a sentiment Scar doesn't immediately echo. Grian pulls Scar along, back to the base Grian got working on by himself earlier.

At the start of the next episode, they have a disagreement. Scar brings home some pandas without consulting Grian, and Grian reacts very negatively, making a no pandas in the house rule and prompting Scar to help him with work instead. Grian specifically delegates the job of getting oak wood to Scar while Grian continues working on..everything else..himself. And after a bit of procrastinating from Scar, he does go to do his "chores" as Scar describes them.

Except that Scar doesn't actually.

Well, I mean, he does do the "chore" Grian gave him, but while he's out, he takes a break to think of a way to punish Grian, coming up with the idea of using powdered snow to hurt Grian as a punishment for Grian not letting the animals in the house and making Scar do a "chore". Grian doesn't technically know Scar did this on purpose, but with tick damage being a very distinctive type of damage that you usually would have to do on purpose to take as much as Scar did, I wouldn't be surprised if Grian figured it out.

It's at this point, that Grian decides to go to BigB. And it doesn't feel like he's just doing it for shallow reasons or to be mean, it fully checks out.

Because Grian's not happy with Scar at this point!

Partially because Scar himself doesn't seem interested in Grian at all, wouldn't listen to Grian to the point of talking over and brushing him off when Grian tried to tell him, and didn't want to live together after finding out. For Grian, who genuinely did seem to have a rather romantic view of soulmates at the start of the first episode, it probably kinda sucked to have his soulmate look past him like that. I can't fault Scar for not being particularly interested, but just because Scar didn't do anything technically wrong doesn't mean Grian's not allowed to be unhappy.

And then there's the other problem. The one I see surprisingly few fans talk about in regards to Scar and Grian. "Why does everyone else get a real partner except me?", Grian asked shortly before deciding to go to BigB. It's a sentiment we get from Grian multiple times. He says being Scar's partner is like babysitting, like having a toddler, Scar doesn't feel like a partner, he feels like a source of emotional labor who has no interest in lessening the burden for Grian. And. Yeah. Grian has good reason to feel like Scar makes him do all the labor in their relationship. I mean, Grian needed to get very pushy to even get Scar to agree to help build their shared base, Grian had to do the job of managing Scar on what specific task to do, Grian gave Scar a very small job comparative to the work Grian was doing around the house, and Scar still complained and found a way to punish Grian (the powdered snow) for "making" him do "chores" and not wanting animals in the house.

Which isn't to say Scar is bad or malicious or something, I love Scar, hell, I love Desert Duo, I think they work very well together in a lot of cases, but I think there is very much a labor imbalance- both in actual work and in emotional labor- here and it's understandably upsetting for Grian.

And in comparison, BigB looks..wonderful, to Grian?

BigB wanted him, for starters. They both felt it, the previous day. Scar kept looking through Grian, but BigB's eyes met Grian's and they both felt something. BigB seems considerate too. Grian feels like he has to pull teeth to get Scar to help him with the house (and then gets punished for it), meanwhile BigB is the one who "saved" Grian the previous day, jumping to give him food, not to mention the considerate gesture of BigB checking in to make sure Grian is ready before hitting him for the soulmate check. And, well, Grian clearly likes BigB.

Grian wasn't just going to someone else to be mean to Scar, and he didn't go for BigB just because he wanted someone, Grian was- validly!- unhappy with Scar (who didn't seem to want to be together much either) and actively liked BigB and thought he'd be a good partner.

Also, Grian very notably announces that he's defying destiny and asserts that he has a choice in who to be with, which adds a thematic layer of personal agency to the whole thing too. You get the impression Grian was mostly with Scar because he felt like he had to be, because the universe tied them together. But here Grian considers, for the first time, the thought that maybe it's okay to be with someone he wants, and who makes him happy, instead of resigning himself to be with the one he's 'supposed' to be with just because he's 'supposed' to.

(this idea of agency in who you love is relevant to double life as a whole, as i've made many posts about, but also is relevant to desert duo specifically. as much as i think they really cared about each other in third life, grian was also with scar because he was supposed to be for most of the season. being with scar had always, up to that point, been something grian was obligated to do, something grian didn't feel he had much choice in. so grian finally asserting here to the audience that he has a choice feels very relevant thematically.)

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for the fanon art swap, could you draw Scar as a watcher?

secret life!Scar for u anon! <3

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thinking about life series + rewatching everything from etho's pov + lots of skizzle for some reason

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he's a bird

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thought I was muted and just had this exchange with a coworker on a zoom call

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having a normal one tonight. this is something a sane person would make.

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Skizz: Actually, is Ren on, by chance? I owe Ren a deck. Scar: Here's Ren again. Skizz: Oh, good--gg-goodbye! Tango: See, you can't stop talking about him, I know. Skizz: (faux angry, yelling) We talked about it two hours ago! Scar: Gem, have you noticed that, uh, Skizz has a crush on Ren? Skizz: No I don't. Gem: Skizz has a crush on Ren? Skizz: No! Tango: Yeah, he does. Scar: He does. Skizz: (petulantly) He has a crush on me. Gem: Really? Tango: Yeah. Gem: He is very handsome-- Skizz: See? I knew it! Gem: --It's okay. Tango: See? Skizz: That's why I said to my wife, "you're about to meet Ren, don't fall in love." (Gem giggles, and Skizz exhales a laugh)

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Exploding them with my mind

Transcript:

Impulse: "Did you see you and Skizz by the fire out there?"

Tango: "No"

Skizz: "What's up?"

Tango: "Oh"

Impulse and Tango: *laughs*

Tango: "Ehh looking good, look at that physique, yeah!"

Skizz: "So, is it- I get all the static from Grian and Gem when we're playing Guess the Build for not putting clothes on people, why would they do this to me and Tango? What kind of camping trip do they think Tango and I go on?"

Tango: *laughing* "Camping trip"

Impulse: "Think? Oh, they've heard the stories"

Tango: "Oh yeah"

Scar: "What stories about naked camping with Skizz and Tango?"

Skizz: "There's no such thing and don't say that stuff out loud on the internet!"

Impulse: "They like to reenact the show Naked and Afraid so they go in the wilderness buck naked for 21 days to see if they can survive it"

Tango: (overlapping) "Absolutely, it's so good"

Scar: "Oh my god"

Tango: "Just hanging around the campfire, roast our chestnuts on the open fire"

Impulse: (overlapping) "I heard they made it like 8 days last time which is pretty impressive"

Skizz: "Tango's always the one- he's always the one who's like "I'm cold, we have to- we have to, you know, we have to- our body heat"

Tango: (overlapping) "We have to skadoodle, yeah"

Skizz: ""We have to skadoodle" and I'm like "we're not even out of the car yet, bro""

Scar: "Together we're strong"

Impulse: "It is kind of odd that he always calls big spoon considering he's the smaller one between you two, but whatever"

Tango: *laughs* "It's not about how tall you are, I mean"

Skizz: "It just looks like I'm wearing a backpack"

Impulse and Tango: *laughs*

Tango: "It's like Luke Skywalker when he was carrying Yoda in Empire Strikes Back"

Scar: "Did you guys see Andor?"

*more laughing*

Tango: *Yoda impression* "Oh, to the naked first we will go"

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