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i hate crushes uGHH

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the one time i actually could’ve talked to you, i just said a few words and walked past by. and you literally complimented me and my friend (who’s also your friend) started up a conversation in which i can actually talk to you and get to know you. but i didn’t ahhhh man :((

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Watching a 10 minute video for homework feels much longer than watching that same video in your free time.

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they’re gay because they’re gay, sharon

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don’t be a jerk if somebody confesses to you! think about how you’d want to be responded to, even if you don’t return their feelings, be polite and honest!

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i’M BACK

no eating disorder is going to kick my butt, i’m back with a vengeance and ready to set up the queue with as much as i can right now!! thanks for the love and support, i’m emailing you all one free hug to redeem with whoever is happy to right now!! (i’m not, but tbh tell me if you need one, i’ll work at it! :D)

love you all lots, hope you’re doing ok!! <3

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*punches through your wall* you deserve good things. and that’s a fairly simple sentiment and it’s much easier to say than believe, but even keeping that idea in your head can really help towards building self-worth

*starts crying and trying to fix your wall* in relationships, it’s easy to place yourself as somebody that’ll do things for others without a second thought but feels guilt in asking for favours or comfort. sometimes this can be an incredibly good quality, but if it starts impacting negatively on you, or anybody else, your selflessness might take a toll on you, your time and your esteem

*supergluing your wall back together* remembering that you are worthy of people’s time and effort is important to building self-worth and working to balance valuing yourself with valuing other people

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How do you go from a complete stranger,only passing them in the halls, to becoming friends and hopefully sparking a relationship with your crush?

just like you’d make any other friend! spark a connection through a friendship you have in common, an interest you both have or a club you both go to/want to go to!

what i would recommend is that instead of keeping the idea of a relationship in your head when you’re interacting with them, really take it as it comes! learn about them like you would any other person in your life! learn about their interests and what they’re like, because really, you don’t know much about them yet, even if you’re crushing on them!

(much easier said than done, but i promise, the initial conversation/finding a reason to talk, is really the most difficult part!)

good luck!!

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Boop their nose. Just do it. Even if you don’t now you’ll think about it. And they’ll be intrigued by your gaze. But secretly, you just really want to boop their nose.

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i don’t want to grow old with you

i want to stay in this perfect stage, frozen in dumb happiness and soft glowing honeyed moons. 

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reasons plants are better than people

no romantic tension

soft

huggable

pure & good

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I really want to hold you in my arms and kiss you until we fall asleep

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she is the night sky.

spread across the universe like softened butter for the world to look up at, every imperfection, every pucker in her skin to be studied in complete awe of her beauty.

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MY CRUSH LAID HIS HEAD ON MY LAP AND WE PLAYED WITH ONE ANOTHERS HANDS AND WE KEEP TALKING ABOUT ADOPTING A DOG TOGETHER I WANT TO DATE HIM PROPERLY FUCK

(aaaAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!)

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You may not be perfect in everyone else’s eyes but you are in mine

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This is what happens when Luminol reacts with oxygen. 

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Miep Gies, tiny, white-haired, gentle and courageous, is an unfamiliar name to most people, but without this remarkable woman, there would be no The Diary of Anne Frank. During the Nazi occupation of Holland the Austrian-born Dutch woman risked her life daily to hide Anne Frank and her family from the Nazis.