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women wearing heavy make up & revealing clothes being like "i'm smashing the patriarchy & owning my body with my eyeliner wings & my nose contouring & my ass peaking out of my booty shorts, men hate seeing powerful women who take charge of their sexuality through being sexy" like no. That's exactly what men want from you, for you to sexualize yourself on your own. Nothing will ever be as powerful as a woman with no make up, no bra, hairy legs & arms & armpits & face dressing in comfortable non-feminine clothes. That's what men hate to see, a woman who does not dress to please them.

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women wearing heavy make up & revealing clothes being like "i'm smashing the patriarchy & owning my body with my eyeliner wings & my nose contouring & my ass peaking out of my booty shorts, men hate seeing powerful women who take charge of their sexuality through being sexy" like no. That's exactly what men want from you, for you to sexualize yourself on your own. Nothing will ever be as powerful as a woman with no make up, no bra, hairy legs & arms & armpits & face dressing in comfortable non-feminine clothes. That's what men hate to see, a woman who does not dress to please them.

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‘No one is forcing gay men or lesbians to date trans people if they don’t want to’ Masterpost

Social coercion and shame is a type of force. It’s shaming gay people for their sexuality, telling them that they are wrong and broken, and telling them that the only way they can be ’right’ or ’an ally’ is to date trans people.

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it’s easier, faster, and cheaper for men to buy sex than it is for women to get abortions

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ABOUT PORN. I'm fucking angry

I wanna make an anti-porn post as a former porn actress. And I wanna be really real and harsh and honestly I wanna be a bit rude.

I have worked in porn. There are videos of me right now, today, out on the internet that I will never be able to have deleted. All the arguments to excuse porn sound to me like the "wait that's illegal" meme, and they're disgusting and insulting.

I'm not gonna say which company I worked for, the websites, or my "porn name", because obviously, so don't even ask. But I know first hand what happens, and people just refuse to listen because "guys wanna jerk off :((". It's a slap in the face to all of us who have worked with this, and those who still work with this. No actually it's a spit in the face and a slap.

Have some humanity. Your dick isn't the royalty you think it is.

Example. My brother was on the internet at the time I was "working" and got one of those pop-up ads for "girls in your area looking for you", with my nude picture on it, right in his face. Can you imagine what that felt like for me, or him for that matter? Btw I hadn't sold my pictures to any of those things, they were all stolen. It's normal practice.

"It's ILLEGAL to coerce!!!" Please. Use your brain for one second. We don't live in care bear land. Has it ever occurred to you that some people... are not good people?

Yes, it all happens. Drugging, choking, raping, beating, and coercion. All of it, all the goddamn time. Drugging someone up to their eyeballs to film an especially violent scene? Normal practice. "Do this or no pay"? Every single day. And I'm leaving out the graphic stuff.

Yes. YES, it happens. Yes it fucking happens. Put your ego aside for two seconds and LISTEN to women. Listen to women who have actually worked with, and excuse my french, fucking strange men in real life.

Stop watching porn.

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Daily Mirror, England, January 5, 1938

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‘The women are smarter’ and always have been #FutureIsFemale

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if you consider LGB people defending their rights as an attack on trans ones, then clearly the T is incompatible with the rest of the acronym.

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Breaking The Male Code: After Steubenville, A Call To Action

 (Left to Right): Peter Buffett, Jimmie Briggs, Joe Ehrmann, Tony Porter,  Dave Zirin and Moderator Eve Ensler.

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February 2014: A 13-year-old boy told a UK court that he raped his 8-year-old sister after viewing pornography at his friend’s house.  The teenager told police he “decided to try it out” on his sister because she was small and “couldn’t remember stuff,” reported the Lancashire Telegraph.

November 2013: A different 13-year old UK boy pleaded guilty to raping an eight-year old girlwhen he was 10. A pornography addiction since age 9 was said to have played a significant role in his crimes.

March 2013: Two boys aged 14 and 15 admitted to a British court that they were re-enacting scenes witnessed in violent online pornography when they beat, brutalized, then raped a 14-year-old girl they had tied to a chair.

March 2013: A UK report found that thousands of British children had committed sexual offenses. In all, 4,562 minors – some as young as five – committed 5,028 sexual offenses over a three year period from 2009-2012. Experts blamed “easy access to sexual material.”

January 2012: Children’s aid and sex abuse organizations in Australia largely blamed 414 cases of children sexually abusing other children on the explosion of pornography made accessible to children.

August 2012: A 13-year-old Canadian boy pleaded guilty to repeatedly raping a 4-year-old boy who lived in his foster home. The boy said the idea came from watching “gay porn” on his foster parents’ home computer.

April 2012: A child therapist reported a case of a 13-year-old boy who raped his 5-year-old sisterafter developing a “complex fantasy world” warped by “two years of constant porn use.”

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Peak liberal feminism: criticizing black women being oversexualized is misogyny, actually

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Lupin III Part 2 | Creator: Monkey Punch | Studio: TMS | Japan, 1977-1980  

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every modern pop feminism idea can be explained by this one chimamanda meme though?

queer theory? sex work is work? bdsm and hardcore kink as feminist acts? twaw? the idea of makeup being empowering? bimbo feminism? girl brain and boy brain? choice feminism? men can be vulnerable babies let them cry uwu? rape didn't exist in indigenous cultures before colonial influence? fgm affects men too because a penis can be a female organ and fgm = circumcision?

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“It’s become popular to embrace trendy notions from postmodernism in some activist circles. This includes the idea that gender is a “binary”. But gender is not a binary: it’s a hierarchy, global in its reach, sadistic in its practice, murderous in its conclusion, just like race, just like class.

Gender demarcates the geopolitical bounderies of patriarchy. It divides us in half but it’s not a horizontal half. It’s vertical. Gender is not some cosmic yin and yang. It’s a fist and the flesh that bruises. It’s a mouth crushed shut and a girl who will never be the same.

Gender is who gets to be human and who gets to be hurt.”

— Female Erasure; chapter 23: The Girls and the Grasses by Lierre Keith; 2016

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🤔 It’s like so weird how I’m gonna physically murder YouTube

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“By reducing women to a commodity to be bought, sold, appropriated, exchanged or acquired, prostitution affected women as a group. It reinforced the societal equation of women to sex which reduced women to being less than human and contributed to sustaining women’s second class status throughout the world.”

—The UN in 1992