ok so i was thinking about something so i'm posing a question, drawing when you were little (let's say like 9 and under i guess) if only one of these materials was at your disposal which would you have chose? me personally i'm going with markers, crayons not covering everything annoyed me and i didn't like pausing everything to sharpen colored pencils and those outweighed getting some marker on my hands. choose just one!! if you didn't draw much at that age think hypothetically
I'm curious. what job would you do if money was no object (you just automatically had an income you could live comfortably on)? including work like volunteering, studying etc. please share in the tags :)
If you’ve been stuck trying to please a mom who became abusive/toxic because of generational trauma, realize you won’t save her. You might be the subject of your mom’s rage, paranoia, obsession etc - but you are not the cause of it. And if you didn’t change her after all those years of begging her, bargaining with her, self-harming, isolating, defending yourself, etc, you are not going to change her now. When they say “you can only save someone who wants to be saved”, that applies here. When they say “the only person who you can control is yourself” that applies here. Please let go of this guilt that you carry for something that’s entirely out of your hands. These ideas are pertinent to creating your path to freedom.