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[youryanderex]

Before I update my profile theme I'm gonna make a round of sanrio yandere flags >:3

[youryanderex]

yandere dividers i made

[id: a banner with a pink to white transparent gradient background and heart monitor line borders on the top and bottom in a mirrored pattern, two images of yuno gasai on either side, one looking down with a shy smile and the other looking at the viewer with scissors in her hand. in the middle of the banner pinkish red text reads "BPD, OLD, Psychosis Vent blog. IRL Psychotic Yandere. read dni in pinned post before interacting or risk getting blocked. end id]

[youryanderex]

Jirai id pack pretty please? (⁠๑⁠•⁠﹏⁠•⁠)

I will attempt my best though I'm unfamiliar with the jirai/landmine community !

Names:

Bow / bo / boe , bowey / bowie , blade , bladey , bomb , bomber , bombette , bubble , bubbles , bandage , bandaid , bonbon ,

Cross , cut , cutter , cig , cigarette , cute , cutie , corse , corset , claymore , candy / candi / candie ,

Demure , demura , demurs ,

Goth , gothi / gothie , gothic ,

Hart / heart , Hartley ,

Ira ,

Jira , jirai , Jersey , jewel , joker , jokette ,

Knife , knives , kuro , kurom / kurome , kuromi , krome ,

Lace , lacy / Lacey , love , lover , lovely , lovelett , lovess , lovette , landmi , lanmi , lanmini , landmina , lanmina , land , Landon , liz , lisa ,

Mine , mina , mini , monster , melo , melody , maid , maiden , maideline ,

Needle , needy / needie ,

Obse , obsess , obsessa , obsesser , obsessive , obsessi ,

Pill , pink , pinky , pocket , punk , puff , puffy ,

Rai , ribbon , ruffle , razor , rhinestone ,

Sharp , sig , smoke , sweet , sweetie , sweetly , sweeter , sweets , syr , Syri , syrin / syrine , syringe , syrina , sugar , sugary , slash , slasher , slice , slicer ,

Tick , ticker , timer , toffie / toffee , taffy / taffie , taffeta ,

Vi , vio , viole , violen / violene , violence , violent ,

Wrap ,

Pronouns: (3rd pov)

Bomb/bombs ,

Cute/cutes , cu/te , cute/cutie ,

Fem/fems , fem/inine , femi/nine , fem/feminine ,

Ji/jirai , jir/ai , jirai/jirais , jirai/kei ,

Kni/knife , knife/knives , kni/fe , knife/knifes ,

Land/mine , landmine/lamdmines , land/lamdmine , lo/love , lo/ve , love/loves, love/lover , love/lovely ,

Obse/obsess , obsess/ion , obses/sion , obs/obsessive , obsesse/obsesses , obsessive/obsessives , obsessed/obsessed's ,

Rib/bon , rib/ribbon , ribbon/ribbons ,

Sweet/sweets , sweet/sweetie , swe/et ,

Ticking/bomb , time/bomb ,

Vi/violent , vio/lent , violent/violents , violent/violence ,

Titles:

[Prn] who is soft and obsessive , [prn] who hides a knife , [prn] who adores you intensely , [prn] who is easily set off ,

[prn] of pills and sweets , [prn] of sharp things and shinies , [prn] of heart and threats ,

knower of your secrets , knower of desires , knower of weapons , knower of hidden places to observe from ,

The landmine , the mine , the ticking time bomb , the hidden explosive , the waiting explosive , the loving bomb , the explosive lover ,

The sweet knife , the cute blade , the adoring cutter , the candy hearted razor , the sharp lover ,

The violent sweetheart , the dark darling , the dearest stalker , the feminine killer ,

Your darkest desire , your deadly darling , your sweetest landmine , your sincerest bomb , your ribbon clad blade , your pink clad stalker ,

Yours until death , yours forever , yours before the trigger , yours and only yours , yours in pink and black , yours in lace and ribbon , yours in sickness ,

Coinings:

AmeStylic

Born As Jirai / BunnJirai / BPDDPD /

DesirJiraiKei / DecapMagi

Gender-Landmine

Healing Jirai

JiraiDigital / JiraiCure / JiraiSlaughter / JiraiSlimeGirlet / JiraiHaunted / JiraiGirl + JiraiEnby + JiraiBoy / JiraiSquid / JiraiAbomination / JiraiOctopus .

JiraiJuggalo / JiraiDollita / JiraiLolita / JiraiNyandere / JiraiFuckOff / JiraiFairyNist

JiraiKeiPerspeque / JiraiKeic / JiraiKeic2 / JiraiKeiDollic / JiraiKeiMasc / JiraiKeiIdol

Jirai Kei Magical Girl Gender / Jirai Kei Queer / Jirai Kei Lesbian / Jirai Kei Achillean / Jirai Kei / Jirai Transfem / Jirai Intersex / JiraiKei NPD .

JiraiKei DPD / JiraiKei Magical Girl / Jirai Kei HPD / Jirai Kei BPD / Jirai Bunny Bisexual / Jirai Kei DPD2 / Jirai Kei Bisexual /

LandmineBride / Landmine Alter / LifeJiraiSylveonPokean /

MoodSwingy

PuresCure / Pastel Goth / Princess Landmine

SadJirai

Viorume

ZombieLandmine

Other NPTs

Girly Kei NPTs

Jirai Kei NPTs / Jirai Kei Sys Names / Jirai NTs

Let me know if anything should be removed or can be added!

(Pro) endos, radqueers, transid, narc/borderline abuse believers please dni.

[youryanderex]

licks you :3 /aff

Hehe hiii bab I missed you

[youryanderex]

Kinda wanna update this profile

[youryanderex]

Hello flag coining community!

I'm Kori, a primary fronter of our system!

We aren't new to mogai, but we've been out of it a while, so we decided to finally get this blog up and running.

Since we,ve been coining some flags lately already, I thought I would make a promo post!

We make textured flags mostly, but we also do colour pics, recolours and alt flags, flag edits, and some occasional term coining!

Our requests are open, a boost is appreciated, please be mindful of our dni!

While this blog is run by DC introjects, DC isnt our coining focus! A handful of our mods, like myself, are multi sourced introjects and we have an interest in a lot of fandoms so we are more than happy to try coining for a vast number of things.

We also have specific blogs for coining for different media and mediums or topics, check out our blog list if you feel like browsing! Thank you!

[youryanderex]

ᴋɴɪɢʜᴛ ᴛʜᴇᴍᴇᴅ ʏᴀɴᴅᴇʀᴇ ᴀꜱᴋ ɢᴀᴍᴇ

HONOR ━ is there a specific way you would prove your loyalty to your beloved? how long would it take for you to truly devote yourself for your darling?

CHIVALRY ━ are you quiet with your obsession? if there is a threat, do you remain polite and civil or do you react blindly without consequence?

KNIGHTHOOD ━ would you rather be the damsel anointing knights or become the conferred knight ready to protect and serve?

SHINING ARMOR ━ your beloved is stolen and swept off their feet by another, how would you react and what route would you take?

SWORDSMANSHIP ━ what technique or choice of violence do you use? are you physical, brutal, strategic? or are you more of a pacifist, passive aggressive or calm? how good is your skill?

WHITE KNIGHT ━ no one is without flaws, everyone has their own duality. what are your most endearing obsessive traits? secondly, do you wish to save your beloved or be the one to corrupt them?

BLACK KNIGHT ━ similarly to the previous question, could you ever hurt your damsel? even for the greater good? a shining armor saves the royal from the dragon, are you selfish enough to hurt them in order to keep them all to yourself?

SHIELD ━ amid hardships, are you aware of your own weakness? how do you choose to handle them or improve them?

HERALDRY ━ a coat of arms lets others know who you are, what you value and represent, who you belong to. give a symbol or multiple that you believe best represent you. may it be a creature, thing, color, etc.

HELMET ━ are you swift when going to your damsel's aid? are you possessive or protective in manner?

MORDHAU ━ sometimes love calls for sacrifices, painful ones. what is one way or one thing you'd sacrifice for your love even if it hurt you whilst doing so?

BEHEADING ━ you've been sentenced to death after you've killed your love's betrothed! what are your last words?

GAUNTLETS ━ another yandere is after your beloved, knowing the same tactics and ways as you do - how do you go about removing them differently?

ARMING SWORD ━ besides marking your lover as yours, how do you mark your lover into yourself?

[youryanderex]

✤ ﹕ yandere ask game ⌑　 ❔️⸝⸝ thank you for 100!

✜ 　 ⁺ 　 ⌇　﹒  ❦   ﹒  ⁘   ׂׂׂ 　

sobriquet — favorite petname/nickname to use or be called by?

silhouette — favorite stalking method? offline or online?

bitemark — preferred way of marking your beloved as yours?

radical — how would you confess to your beloved?

novelty — what's an unusual date you'd like to have?

limerent — how did you fall in love with your beloved?

crucify — would you discipline your beloved, or prefer to be disciplined?

secret — what's your strangest desire that you can't bring yourself to express?

razor — in terms of sadism & masochism, which do you more prefer? (and why?)

scripture — what themes do you like indulging your obsession/devotion in? (ie. religious, pet/owner, etc...)

gospel — do you have a shrine? if so, what's your favorite things to put in a shrine?

confection — what's your love language, and how do you want to be reciprocated? (ie. words of affirmation -> recognition of efforts)

[youryanderex]

hello reds followers: i need more 20s+ yan blogs to follow, if u could be so kind as to like/rb this ask on ur yan blogs if ur in ur 20s or older i would love to follow u

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[youryanderex]

Feel free to reblog for more votes

[youryanderex]

My visa limit is 2500 and if I can pay it off I'll probably lose my card.

I need to pay this off as well as pay for medication and food at the very least.

Any help would be appreciated be it donations, commissions, buying from my store or what have you.

It's stressing me out to the point its making me physically ill which is only triggering more flares in my conditions that I really don't need.

If I'm accepted into uni I'd like to not have so much credit card debt let alone only being able to use that by the upcoming fall semester. I'd like to be able to go to my classes instead of rotting in bed but without medication and with all this stress I'm honestly scared wherever I get heatstroke this summer it'll just kill me before that.

There are a lot of things available on my kofi, it accepts PayPal and stripe among others both of which I have accounts set up with.

Examples of my art exist on @spirits-art and on my Instagram cassderolo.

I offer tarot readings, art prints, sensory friendly (pride) bracelets and more.

Seriously anything helps my situation right now.

It's rare that I do any drag shows, it's be nice if I got book once a month but it's more like once in a blue moon ATP. I'm trying to get booked for more, they pay decently especially with tips from the audience. But only for a side gig.

Still out of a job and job hunting, wish me luck I suppose.

[youryanderex]

Yandere princess? mayhaps?

Already done it months ago love

[youryanderex]

Disabled artist - comms open!

[disabled artist - comms open]

Hi! I'm spirit, I'm an artist, physically disabled, 21, and taking commissions! My main is @gravediggerss

Right now I have a visa debt to pay off and medication to buy but I don't have the money.

I have more than just art commissions open on my kofi, such as bracelets, art prints, tarot and more, and I'd be incredibly grateful for any help.

[youryanderex]

Yanderegender / genderyandere

For when ones gender ties to one being a yandere.

Exclusive to those with obsessive tendencies who can reclaim yandere.

Alt flag / new template, for @youryanderex and I to coin yandere genders. Requests open.

Transid, radqueers and pro-endos dni. See pinned for the rest of our boundaries.

[youryanderex]

I'ma make it a poll

If there's a different option you want please comment it!

You're also welcome to reblog

And no I don't support yandev, I'm critical of my sources.

[youryanderex]

━━╋━ obsession.

♱⃝⠀ a flag for alters whose formation was caused by an obsession. this obsession can be anything, including a person or people, a piece of media, a theme, etc.

[youryanderex]

i have a question. is a darling still a darling if the object of their attention isn't a yandere? if so, what's the difference between a darling and a yandere?

i'm super new to all this so i'm sorry if it's a stupid question 😓/gen

Okay I understand the confusion here, not a stupid question at all, it's important to inform people. /G

A darling is a term a yandere, a person with obsessive tendencies, uses to call the object of their obsessions and affection.

It can be incredibly unhealthy as it's all due to mental illness, the reason we have these obsessions to begin with. But with proper support systems and communication it's fine.

A yandere is someone who expenses symptoms of obsession, someone who has bpd is the best example of this and yandere was a trope meant to demonize us, we're reclaiming it.

A darling is the object of a yanderes obsession, the term darling being used because it's the most common term of endearment used by us obsessive folk depicted in media.

Someone calling you darling doesn't always mean they're obsessed with you as again, it's a term of endearment, so phrases like "you're a darling" are common polite complements in a "thank you you're sweet for doing that" mannor (if not used condescendingly as seen in plenty media often in BBC soap operas and the like where there's a snobby girl)

Yanderes are people who obsess and have jealous and possessive tendencies due to things like bpd splitting symptoms or obsessive love disorder. Everything stems from a fear of abandonment, needing to rely on someone and fill the void of a lack of proper healthy love that trauma left us.

Darlings are our people (or objects if you're objectum) rely on, obsess over and look to for support. Another word is FP (favourite person), more common in bpd and cluster b spaces than darling.

A yandere can absolutely be or desire to be a darling out of desire for mutual yearning for what we lack and need.

However most people who call themselves darlings looking for a yandere on here, that I have seen, are actually just looking to take advantage of the fact that we love and feel emotions so intensely and don't actually want to reciprocate

In some cases it can be unhealthy for a yandere to seek another yandere as it can feed into each other's symptoms but the other side of the coin is that if they work on the relationship and communication then they can actually help each other manage their symptoms and heal while having their needs met.

Sorry I went on a bit of a tangent but I hope that clears some things

I know there's a lot that not everyone understands, especially since the majority of yandere blogs are vent blogs

All that said to answer your original question. If your partner wants to use the term of endearment darling on you they can, you don't have to be with a yandere for someone to call you it.

You're not a darling because *your* object of attention is a yandere, you're a darling because you are the yanderes object of obsession. But it's always good to communicate boundaries with your partner if anything ever makes you uncomfortable, it's important to work together so you're both accommodated.

I really hope that helps you understand better, nonnie,

Tldr;

no you're not a darling in this context unless you are the object of a yanderes obsession, the difference is that a yandere experiences symptoms like obsessive tendencies and intense emotional episodes, while a darling is just a term a yandere calls their object of obsession.