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There I was scrolling through tiktok when I came across a video of a girl doing her makeup with an audio of another girl saying that she doesn't like makeup because it capitalizes on women's insecurities. I checked it out and of course it's a trend. Several women using this audio in videos of themselves doing heavy makeup with the obvious intention of satirizing it. I watched the original video where the audio comes from and it's a woman speaking on a podcast. The comments are miserable, to say the least. There is no hope for women.

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Fr, they're angels 🙏

terfs are not human.

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A little rant about being sapphic, not directly related to radfem, posting on radblr just out of affinity.

I'm a gnc woman and of course other women expect me to always be the one to take action — to text first, to keep the conversation going, to ask them out... I used to not have much of a problem with this, despite being a shy person, but honestly, it's been really tiring. The fact that I'm always the one who has to make everything happen for both of us exhausts me. Of course, this isn't just about me being gnc, but also about how women are socialized to have more restrained and demure behavior, and I understand that this isn't our fault, but holy shit, it's just so hard. It's so hard to try to keep contact with a person who puts all the responsibility of maintaining that relationship on you. I love women, and I hate to say it, but I hate the process of trying to get into relationships with women. Everything is so less direct, full of conditions, full of terms, full of bureaucracy, so much dragging out... Does anyone else feel like that?

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Also I've seen recently some prints on tt that shows he used to ship wincest. I think he admited it himself actually.

Reminder: Ethel Cain is a gross ableist and misogynist

In 2023, Cain made these two posts, using slurs in both of them. I’ve kept the receipts ever since, because all of Cain’s little white girl fans keep denying this happened. (And some used AAVE and said “she ate, what about it”🤮)

“Ret*rded” is an ableist slur. And no, I don’t care if Cain is autistic. You can reclaim a slur for yourself and yourself ONLY. You don’t get to call other people that and get away with it because you’re neurodivergent.

“Bitches” is a misogynist slur and I do not care if you don’t agree with me. The meaning of “bitch” is a female dog used for breeding, so if you can’t see how calling a woman that would be extremely dehumanizing, then you’re just a misogynist.

And don’t even get me started on “small breedable 12 year old anime girls.” What point are you trying to make here? I’ve never once heard a radical feminist use those words to describe women. And no matter what point you’re trying to make, using “breedable” in the same sentence with “12 year old” makes you a gross pervert. Pedo-adjacent even.

Cain also uses the words “beast” and “nasty little slug,” to describe women with body hair, which is a direct shot at GNC women and women who don’t conform to gender stereotypes, which as we all know, trans women love. Just because you shave your legs and wax your balls doesn’t mean you’re a woman, friend.

“He/she’s not gonna fuck you” is a phrase used by incels. No further explanation needed. Also, we terfs don’t want men to sleep with us anyway, tf? We hate men and we make that very clear😂

Anyway, I just thought everyone on radblr needed a reminder of this.

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Gnc radfems: what do you girls think about queer theory considering "butch" a gender identity? Whats your opinion about that?

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Could anyone please recommend me feminist books critical of femininity?

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You harass homosexuals for not feeling attracted to you and try to make them feel ashamed of their sexuality and yet somehow you're still trying to play the victim. Hope you'll remeber why so many people in the community are turning against you next time you see another transactivist calling a homosexual person transphobic and telling them to kill themselves simply for being same sex attracted.

“LGB Without The T”

personal art. it seems like the tide of lgb folks turning to viciously attack trans folks has seen a sharp uptick recently, at a time when we, the trans community, need all the support and protection and community we can get. it was trans women who fought for your rights, it was trans women who were on the front lines, it was trans women who lead us into revolution. trans people have always existed and the community was built on their sacrifice, their blood and sweat and tears and corpses. how dare you reap what we sowed and then shun us from our own crops. 

artist’s pronouns are they/them. artist is a nonbinary lesbian.

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Not ironically I saw a video some days ago of a woman who stabbed her boyfriend because she found out he was cheating on her and I think that was the very first time I saw something like that

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Hey so I thought we had already established that whole discourse about "not confusing the reaction of the oppressed with the violence of the oppressor" and about the oppressed never being the primary responsible for their oppression but apparently I was wrong, this logic only applies to other minority groups, not women.

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Another example of how you TRAS don't know anything about radical feminism or radical feminists in general. Most of us were once transactivists too and became radfems because of transactivism. I myself was a staunch trans activist and I only became critical of trans ideology because I started seeing a lot of videos and tiktoks of gender-fluid people reinforcing gender stereotypes that hurt me as a butch woman. No wonder, even when this started to bother me, I still said that despite identifying with many radical feminist agendas and criticizing certain positions of transactivism, I did not support any type of speech that hurts or insults trans people. As op said, many radfems became radicalized based on experiences they had with transactivism themselves.

You are almost conspiracy theorists. The entire universe is conspiring against you. The evil feminists apparently have no reason to criticize your ideology other than "cis white colonizer" propaganda, they really just woke up one day, saw a post saying "kill your local trans person" on the internet and decided to start hating you. Yep, that's exactly how it works.

Don't make me laugh. The world doesn't revolve around you. Go outside.

Isn’t it funny how, when you actually talk to the evil terfs, you find out that they didn’t actually wake up one day and decide to start hating trans people for no reason? That their contempt for trans ideology stems from the actions of TRAs, TIFs, and TIMs? That most radfems who are not only gender critical but against the trans movement in general are against it because they’ve either seen it ruin others, been hurt by the movement itself, or dealt with a predator hiding behind the trans identity? Or the other multitude of reasons??? Because its a lot easier to paint terfs as miserable women hating on the innocent trans people for ✨no reason✨ because then you don’t actually have to acknowledge the damage your trans ideology causes.

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Wasn't relating penises to men and vaginas to women transphobic or something.

Yes, you heard that right, lesbians. If you’re not coddling trans-identified males, you’re just a bigot.

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Am I the only person who thinks that sex nowadays (especially among younger people) has become something extremely... mechanical? I think pornography has made young people create ready-made formulas of what they find sexually stimulating (or what they are supposed to find) and now every time I have sex with someone I have the impression that they are performing, almost as if they are following a script. I'm not a very sexual person and to be honest I prefer masturbating to having sex (which is probably related to what I'm saying) and maybe I was too much exposed to certain sexual content on the internet as a teenager that made me see sex in a very idealized way, but I always thought that sex should be something very spontaneous, frank, without artifices. Realizing that most people my age see and have sex in this pornographic way (in other words – artificial, scripted, systematic) and knowing that they will expect me to follow the same ready models... just the idea of ​​having sex makes me lazy. This completely turns me off.

Does this make any sense?