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fuuuuck i just realized that the future idealized version of myself cant exist without current me being the catalyst for change and doing hard things. has anybody heard about this
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🍖 How to Build a Culture Without Just Inventing Spices and Necklaces
(a worldbuilding roast. with love.)
So. You’re building a fantasy world, and you’ve just invented: → Three types of ceremonial jewelry → A spice that tastes like cinnamon if it were bitter and cursed → A holiday where everyone wears gold and screams at dawn
Cute. But that’s not culture. That’s aesthetics.
And if your worldbuilding is all outfits, dances, and spice blends with vaguely mystical names, your story’s probably going to feel like a cosplay convention held inside a Pinterest board.
Here’s how to fix that—aka: how to build a real, functioning culture that shapes your story, not just its vibes.
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🔗 Culture Is Built on Power, Not Just Style
Ask yourself: → Who’s in charge, and why? → Who has land? Who doesn’t? → What’s considered taboo, sacred, or punishable by death?
Culture is shaped by who gets to make the rules and who gets crushed by them. That’s where things like religion, family structure, class divisions, gender roles, and social expectations actually come from.
Start there. Not at the embroidery.
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2.🪓 Culture Comes From Conflict
Did this society evolve peacefully? Was it colonized? Did it colonize? Was it rebuilt after a war? Is it still in one?
→ What was destroyed and mythologized? → What do the survivors still whisper about? → What do children get taught in school that’s… suspiciously sanitized?
No culture is neutral. Every tradition has a history, and that history should taste like blood, loss, or propaganda.
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3.🧠 Belief Systems > Customs Lists
Sure, rituals and holidays are cool. But what do people believe about: → Death? → Love? → Time? → The natural world? → Justice?
Example: A society that believes time is cyclical vs. one that sees time as linear will approach everything—from prison sentences to grief—completely differently.
You don’t need to invent 80 gods. You need to know what those gods mean to the people who pray to them.
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4.🫀 Culture Controls Behavior (Quietly)
Culture shows up in: → What people apologize for → What insults cut deepest → What people are embarrassed about → What’s praised publicly vs. what’s hidden privately
For instance: → A culture obsessed with stoicism won’t say “I love you.” They’ll say “Have you eaten?” → A culture built on legacy might prioritize ancestor veneration, archival writing, name inheritance.
This stuff? Way more immersive than giving everyone matching earrings.
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5. 🏠 Culture = Daily Life, Not Just Festivals
Sure, your MC might attend a funeral where people paint their faces blue. But what about: → Breakfast routines? → How people greet each other on the street? → Who cooks, and who eats first? → What’s considered “clean” or “proper”? → How is parenting handled? Divorce?
Culture is what happens between plot points. It should shape your character’s assumptions, language, fears, and habits—whether or not a festival is going on.
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6. 💬 Let Your Characters Disagree With Their Own Culture
A culture isn’t a monolith.
Even in deeply traditional societies, people: → Rebel → Question → Break rules → Misinterpret laws → Mock sacred things → Act hypocritically → Weaponize or resist what’s expected
Let your characters wrestle with the culture around them. That’s where realism (and tension) lives.
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7.🧼 Beware the “Pretty = Good” Trap
Worldbuilding gets boring fast when: → The protagonist’s homeland is beautiful and pure → The enemy’s culture is dark and “barbaric” → Every detail just reinforces who the reader should like
You can—and should—challenge the aesthetic hierarchy. → Let ugly things be beloved. → Let beautiful things be corrupt. → Let your MC romanticize their culture and then get disillusioned by it later.
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📍 TL;DR (but like, spicy): → Culture is not food and jewelry. → Culture is power, fear, memory, contradiction. → Stop inventing spices until you know who starved last winter. → Let your world feel lived in, not curated.
The best cultural worldbuilding doesn’t look like a list. It feels like a system. A pressure. A presence your characters can’t escape—even if they try.
Now go. Build something real. (You can add spices later.)
—rin t. // writing advice for worldbuilders with rage and range // thewriteadviceforwriters
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🕯️ download the pack & write something cursed:
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man sometimes i really want to get back into welding but then i remember that the guys from the first course i took won’t be there and change my mind
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Beginner DM me (the Fool):
I gotta PREPARE for D AND FUCKIN' D! My players deserve a Fun and Organized game! Spreadsheets! Full premade plot! Full character sheets for 13 critical NPCs! WORK MAKES FUN HAPPEN!!!
Baby Players with no idea what a bad game even looks like:
Weeee! 🤪 Nat 20'd my Stealth roll! I Friend the Deadly Giant Spider! 🥰 Use Mending to resurrect this bread! 🙌
~2 Years and 54 Sessions later~
Now-Jaded-to-my-friends'-particular-flavors-of-bullshit DM me:
...oh dang, it's 7 minutes to gametime and I forgot to think about today's session. Um..... Blood Cakes? Yeah, I think the Druid would like Blood Cakes. I'll start with Blood Cakes idea and wing it from there.
"Experienced" Players who remain blissfully unaware of some of their core class features but have now acquired dumb magic items/ pets:
Woo!🤪 Let's grab groceries for my baby iguanadon! 🥬CABBAGE BEER! Who wants 🎶Blood Cakes? 🎶 Aw dip, Druid just caught the vampirism. 👹
#its like jingling keys in front of giggling 30 somethings#i literally made up whole arcs cuz the Rogue checked a random goblin house for dino bones and I said 'yes'#last session my players got me high first and I made up the entire thing on the spot.#and these idiots Love It and want MORE! THEY MADE ART!#slap the next person who claims dming is hard#they just aint sinking low enough#dungeon master#dnd#let your players do whatever and they'll find their own story threads#its a fucking game
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GUYS I JUST SAW THIS ON TWITTER AND I AM DYING


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The American consumer doesn’t actually want trucks and cars that are huge enough that you can’t see a six foot tall person over the hood. They make vehicles that big now to avoid environmental regulations related to engine efficiency
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"How are you going to pay for it???"
Tax billionaires? Cut funding for military and police? Re allocate the taxes the government already has so there are more social programs and less corporate bail outs? All fucking three???
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By the way friends, since I am being reminded that summer is here and therefore so is the heat, here are some reminders for you lot too!
1) active cooling, like an AC, does require you to remove heat and vent it somewhere else.
Nothing that does not vent hot air outside is going to provide active cooling, like magically making your whole room immediately colder
Never believe an ad that tells you you can instantly cool your space without a visible heat vent to outside they are lying
2) passive cooling absolutely does not. It’s slower, has a smaller radius, and is in general less effective, but also requires less energy
Things like filling all your sinks/bath tubs with cold water (or ice water for preference) will provide passive cooling
(You may have heard the term “heat sink” if you’re a computer nerd. Basically, same thing - you put the heat in your cold thing, your cold thing heats up, everything else cools down)
Depending on your humidity, you can do a lot of passive cooling with water - there’s a reason it’s our natural default, but it does require humidity less than 80-90%
(Because you need the water to be able to evaporate and leave)
Ice is, of course, king; if you have a freezer, make as much as you can ahead of the heat wave and keep it in water-tight containers for refreezing
If you don’t have a freezer, hotels have ice machines usually right by the elevators. Clearly you have a very good friend you need to drop off a charger for in the nearest inattentive hotel. Bring big pockets. For the charger.
Also, freeze dish cloths or small towels if you can, by lightly dampening and applying ice. This kicks ass for heatstroke on the back of the neck, so do at least 2 to have one refreezing while you use the other
3) if you sweatin’, you need electrolytes. This is why we’re told they’re specifically for work outs, but the truth is they are for sweat, because you lose salt and shit when you sweat
Get that hydralyte, whatever, and if you can’t immediately get your hands on proper official electrolytes, toss a salt packet like they have at fast food restaurants in your water
Normal water ain’t gonna cut it when you’re a sweaty spaghetti you must be seasoned
If you touch your tongue to the salt and it is wicked delicious, you are probably dehydrated. Add an extra salt packet or two
4) defy purity culture and spread your legs
For real
You lose a lot of heat through your grundle, and keeping your legs closed will trap that heat in your body. Open up and feel the cooling
Also applicable for arms etc be a starfish
5) do not fucking use your oven. Don’t.
Big hot appliance makes big hot home. If you can only possibly cook via oven, do it at night when it’s coldest and you can maybe get some cooler air by opening windows
Use the bbq outside, the microwave, the stove top, the air fryer, anything but your goddamn oven, but honestly? Maybe eat cold food. You will be cooled down
Charcuterie boards comeback round 2?
6) basements are OP, and anywhere you can lie on cold cement kicks ass until all your joints get fucked on by the hard cement
Pretty good for keeping water cold though. Stick it on basement floor
7) hydrate or die-drate
Seriously, we talked about electrolytes and shit, but I mean it. Drink more than you usually would, even if that means smuggling extra water bottles to your local drinking fountains and fill em
If your pee is orange you are dehydrated as hell
You can also eat wet bitches like watermelons to rehydrate yourself, slorp up the juice and if anyone complains tell them it is vital for your health
8) shade! Bring your umbrella, bring Big Hat, fuck the sun it is the enemy you wanna have something between yourself and it while you rest
Sunscreen also good but you do not want your head in the sun for long periods because sunstroke is a bitch and will sneak up on your ass
9) furries I am sorry this one is for you you NEED a fan in the fursuit and you NEED to take it off if you get tired or wanna nap
NEVER fall asleep in your fursuit in the summer, ALWAYS be prepared to get outta it in a hurry, and bring triple water or have a planned water stop
Inflatable folks too you are wearing a dinosaur or a pikachu not fur but that is still a goddamn closed environment and will also cook you
Manual fan, electrical fan, water bottles, ice packs are required for safe summer fun and probably also a shirt inside so you can go into ice cream store
10) con goers, save yourselves $15 and go to a dollar store or local equivalent and buy a cheap folding fan before the con
Bring it to dealers or panels or just out for the day you can buy fans at the con usually but they are marked up because they know you need it
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