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i have been following you for a long while and i’m SO HAPPY to see this!!! reading this IMMEDIATELY <3 love love

edit: i read the whole thing. i COULDN’T resonate more.

key takeaways: (spoiler ahead)

DREAM OF LOVE

Originally formatted as a challenge, this document blossomed into an informational guide targeted primarily to those who need a simpler understanding and/or appreciate instruction on the law of assumption. The purpose of this document is to enlighten you on how to go from desire to fulfillment, to disengage from unfavorable imagining and start living a life of righteousness. 

My loves, after two years since I've last posted an informative doc, I am back with a brand new perspective of the law of assumption reflecting the evolution of my understanding since then. I fully intend on updating it hence why I'm not posting it as a link so this is not its final form. I invite you to send any questions and feedback you have as I will account for them in a future update. Please enjoy and let me know your thoughts.

Missed you dearly. See you soon.

- Hera ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚

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THISSS!!! and i can confirm bec this is more or less what i did and my life changed significantly

Why you don’t feel pretty (It’s not about your looks)

Have you ever looked in the mirror and felt like something was just off—like no matter what you do, you still don’t feel beautiful? The truth is, it’s not really about your looks.

So many of us tie our beauty to external validation, seeking approval from others without even realizing it. If your confidence depends on how others see you, you’ll always feel like you’re chasing something unattainable. The people who seem the most beautiful aren’t the ones with perfect features but the ones who move through life with effortless self assurance, embracing their own unique features.

It’s easy to look at certain girls and think, She has it so much easier because she’s beautiful. And in many ways, it’s true—pretty privilege exists. Attractive people often get treated better, receive more opportunities and have an easier time socially.

The women who benefit the most from pretty privilege aren’t just attractive—they own their beauty. They expect good treatment, they carry themselves with confidence, and they present themselves in a way that makes people take notice.

Ever notice how some women who aren’t conventionally “perfect” still get a ton of attention? It’s because beauty is an energy. If you constantly shrink yourself, avoid eye contact, or assume people won’t be drawn to you, the world picks up on that.

And then of course, there’s comparison. Social media makes it impossible not to feel like you’re falling short. Perfectly lit, edited, and curated images trick us into thinking that beauty should be effortless. But even the most stunning women have insecurities. The difference is, they don’t let those insecurities define them.

Sometimes, feeling unattractive isn’t about your reflection at all—it’s about how you experience yourself.

Do you take care of yourself? If you’re running on empty, constantly stressed, or neglecting your needs, it doesn’t matter how flawless your makeup is—you won’t feel beautiful.

Do you feel valued by the people around you? When you feel overlooked, disrespected, or under appreciated, it wears on you, making you feel smaller and less significant—even if nothing about your appearance has changed.

Are you holding onto past hurt? Painful experiences can shape how we see ourselves. If you’ve ever been rejected, ignored, or made to feel "less than," it’s easy to carry that hurt into the present. But your beauty isn’t something that can be taken away. The moment you decide to release those old narratives, you start seeing yourself differently.

Feeling beautiful is a full body experience. It’s not just about looking in the mirror—it’s about how you show up in your own life.

Instead of rushing through your morning routine, turn it into a ritual. Light a candle, play music and actually enjoy the process of getting ready.

Wear clothes that make you feel good—not because they’re trendy, but because they feel like you.

Take slow, confident steps. Speak clearly. Look people in the eye. These small things change how you perceive yourself.

When you start treating yourself with love, your mind follows.

So many people put life on hold, thinking, I’ll start doing things when I feel prettier. But confidence doesn’t come from waiting—it comes from living.

Go out. Travel. Meet people. Try new things. Stop waiting to look a certain way before you let yourself experience life. The more you engage with the world, the more you realize that beauty isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present.

Treat yourself like someone worth taking care of. Move your body, nourish your skin and invest in your self—not because you have to but because you deserve to.

Stop waiting for permission to be confident. Walk, talk and carry yourself like you already are.

Focus less on how you look and more on how you feel. When you feel good, you look good.

The moment you stop chasing beauty and start owning it, you’ll realize—you already are.

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Why you lack emotional control & act erratic ( and how to fix it)

You’re not crazy. But if you’ve ever had a moment where you reacted WAY bigger than necessary, spiraled into a meltdown, or regretted something you said five minutes later…emotional control might not be your strong suit.

First off, your brain is not out to sabotage you, I promise. Your emotional outbursts usually come from one (or all) of these

You could have unprocessed emotions that are stacking up. If you keep pushing your feelings down like a stuffed closet, they WILL burst out at the worst time.

You could have high cortisol, which means more anxiety, more overreactions and more "why did i just doo that?!" moments.

If you grew up in chaos your brain defaults to fight or flight mode when you are stressed.

If you don't check in with yourself, your emotions will check in for you. Not in a good way. Please, you guys, these are not normal reactions and I am not saying they are your fault because they are not. But we have to love ourselves enough to uncover the root issue so that we do not continue to do things that hurt us or others.

Emotional control is a skill and you CAN train yourself to be calm, collected, and (mostly) unbothered.

Before you respond to anything emotional, take a deep breath (or five). Give your brain time to shift out of panic mode. Tell yourself how you feel instead of acting out. This will stop you from spiraling. Then you can ask yourself if there is a better way to handle the situation. Maybe you are overreacting. Maybe you misconstrued the situation. There is a reason communication is key. Even more, there is a reason why delivery in communication is more important. If you want to 48 laws of power it, think of it as a strategy and not emotion.

The more you practice calming yourself, the more your brain learns that emotional freak outs aren’t necessary. Your future self will thank you. Your power in every situation lies in emotional control. Like I said earlier this week, emotional control is not about hiding your emotions, it is about managing them.

A lot of people assume they’re in control when they’re actually running on autopilot, reacting instead of responding.

If every small comment or action feels like an attack, your emotions are running the show

If you find yourself exploding over something minor, it’s a sign your nervous system is dysregulated

If your emotions linger for hours (or even days), your body is stuck in stress mode

If you keep reliving arguments, failures, or embarrassing moments, your brain is reinforcing stress patterns

If your mood depends on how others treat you, emotional balance is lacking

You’re not doomed to be at the mercy of your emotions forever. The key is training your brain to respond, not react. The more you practice, the more emotionally balanced (and way less stressed) you’ll feel. You have the power to step back, breathe and handle things in a way that wont blow up in your face or make you regret it tomorrow (or 5 minutes later)

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Discipline principals every woman should know for divine femininity 🎀

OMG I love this question!

💗 Self respect! Establish clear boundaries in all aspects of life—emotional, physical, spiritual etc. When you honor your own needs, you teach others to do the same. Respecting yourself is the foundation of all your relationships.

💗 Embrace the flow. Flow = Alignment Trust your natural rhythms, whether that’s aligning with your menstrual cycle, the seasons, or your intuition. Your intuition will never fail you, but it will disappoint the wrong people.

💗 Prioritize self care. Practice mindfulness, eat healthy foods because you love yourself, and do things that makes your soul happy, because you love yourself.. etc.

💗 Take your time in all things. Whether in your actions, speech, or thoughts, moving with grace and deliberation enhances your feminine energy. I don't even look at this as being feminine, I see it as a calm nervous system and moving slowly allows you to make better, smarter decisions instead of force.

💗 Femininity thrives on love, kindness & empathy. Be Love. Have compassion, empathy while still maintaining your boundaries. Embody all of these things and don't overplay your part. That is the abandonment of all these things because it means we are looking for things outside of ourselves.

💗 Many women are conditioned to give, but divine femininity also requires the ability to receive. Allow yourself to receive love, support, & abundance. In general when you are in alignment with yourself, you will natural attract all of these things.

💗 Speak your truth. Be authentic. Don't be afraid to express your needs, boundaries, wants etc. If you don't stand up for yourself, who will?

💗 Be patient, but more importantly be super confident about your goals and desires, knowing you will get the things you want.

💗 There is power in vulnerability. Letting yourself be open and authentic with others is a sign of strength, not weakness. (Also its a power move with men). A lot of people fear vulnerability because they feel out of control with themselves or afraid of their emotions, maybe even past experiences they haven't healed from.

💗 Recognize your power and beauty. Divine femininity is not about conforming to any standard, but about owning your unique essence and walking confidently in your light. That is literally why you see some women, and they have a magical radiance about them. The own their looks and beauty. Needless to say, anyone who tries to make you feel like you have to suppress this... RUN.

💗 Always be grateful. Gratitude is a magnet for miracles. Gratitude transforms your energy. Be thankful and grateful for all things, big and small. This shifts your mindset from lack to abundance.

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such an interesting way to look at standards.

Your standards are there to protect you, so that you can find the right person who fits your life. They aren’t there for you to make demands and try to force people to meet you at a level you already know they are not. It’s not about anything other than your own protection and peace.

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𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞.

Everything is effortless when done in and with Love. And when i say Love i don't mean romantic or even platonic love, i just mean pure utter Love. You don't need motivation when you're in Love. Do you feel the need to motivate yourself when you are eating your favorite food? Do you feel the need to give yourself a pep talk when you're about to listen to your favorite music? Do you have to listen to motivational videos before doing any of your favorite activity? No, because you Love doing all that. You'll feel the need for all that when you're doing things you don't Love, things you consider a burden like studying or working. One person may Love painting while the other despises it and so when they have to paint, each of them feel a differently about the task, to one its pleasant while to the other they'd much rather be doing anything else in the world. They're both doing the same thing, do you see how Love changes everything?

This applies to the law as well, if imagining your desires and persisting feels like chore to you, you're doing it wrong. And i don't mean it in a scolding manner. What i'm trying to tell you is that its supposed to be effortless and lovely. And when are things the most effortless? When done in and with Love. So if you are having nights where you don't even want to imagine, times where you sigh and groan in annoyance when you think about the law or your desires, just relax and do it with truly and utterly out of Love and make sure its exactly what YOU want, not what you think you should, not what you have to or else, not you must in order to make it happen. Just whatever YOU want. Now tell me when you do exactly what you want in imagination, when you imagine what you've been yearning for just as though it were real, won't you feel joy and ecstasy? Here's a few other reminders to help you feel lovely when you imagine : 1. Like i said, Do exactly what you desire. Don't try to bring in rules. 2. Imagine in the NOW, not 'when it happens', no that is daydreaming. 3. You're not imagining to make something to happen, you're imagining who and where you want to be. 4. You're not assuming for it to be so but because it already is so. 5. 3D will reflect, you need not worry about that. Its the nature of things, the law promises, Neville promises, God promises. Trust. 6. "Make it fun" says Neville.

*I've quoted @edwardartsupplyhands here and there so credits to him.*

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❗i want NONE of you lovely bbies crying abt being in their cr and not waking up in their dr after this

|| why you keep waking up in your cr

i saw a girl make a tiktok about this and i thought it was a really interesting idea so i wanted to share it with you!

i think we can all agree that one of the biggest ideas on shiftblr is that all you need is intention

but i also think a lot of people can agree with me when i say: “if intention is all you need, why do i keep waking up in my cr?”

ill relate it to lucid dreaming.

most people who want to lucid dream use reality checks as a method to do so

you reality check throughout the day so your subconscious remembers while youre dreaming

maybe it doesnt work the first night you go to sleep, but you keep reality checking as part of your routine until your subconscious remembers too.

another girl related it to birth control

she used to have an alarm set everyday for 1pm to take the pill

eventually, she didnt need the alarm anymore, because her subconscious remembered that around that time of day, she needed to take her birth control pill

its the exact same way with shifting

you set intention to shift before you go to sleep, and you wake up in your cr again

“but i set intention! why am i still here?”

you begin to doubt yourself, in your abilities to shift, that maybe intention doesn’t actually work.

but it does.

sometimes it just takes a little longer for your subconscious to remember the intention you set, for the intention to stick.

many people’s shifting success stories happen when they go to sleep like any other night

they don’t intentionally do a method or set the intention of shifting, but they wake up in their dr.

how does that work?

after going to sleep and setting your intention night after night after night, your subconscious starts to do it on its own.

like reality checking during dreams, or setting an alarm to take a pill

your subconscious doesn’t have eyes, it is something that has to be trained, all it knows is what you tell it.

not everything can be mastered on the first try, you just have to keep trying.

moral of the story is:

intention is real. and its important. dont give up on yourself. keep setting intention. keep going to sleep knowing you will wake up in your dr.

one day you will.

i hope this helped or resonated with some of you, because when i heard about this idea, it gave me a lot of hope that im not doing anything wrong, my subconscious is just taking a little while to catch up.

happy shifting!

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my bday was exactly 2 weeks ago sooooo… i’ll j do it

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okay, so how fucked i am if iiiiii postponed doing any sort of work for my future exams to manifest something and now i have two months left BUT I FEEL SUPER CLOSE BUT AT THE SAME TIME I AM SCARED THAT I WILL FAIL

be blinded by the fact that you will succeed.

when we study, we are basically reinforcing into our minds that we will pass and get good grades. i know ppl who study but think that they’re not gonna score well and they really don’t score well; i’ve been there myself too

you are not fucked, you are who you think you are. as i’ve said in my earlier posts, desperation enforces the state of lack. so it you want to reinforce the wish fulfilled state, maybe you can study. ultimately it’s the mindset that will manifest.

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not sticking to a decision is so real bec i’ve manifested the unrealest of things bec i persisted but the most obv things, i can’t bec i don’t stick to my decision🤡

“why has it been taking so long to see results?”

{a blueprint of common answers based on like every mistake I’ve ever made}

note: even if you are doing all of these your manifestation is still on its way!!

1. subject is waiting on something external to happen instead of changing internal thoughts.

ie: kira is manifesting weight loss but kira feels guilty about eating everything constantly saying it will make her gain weight. kira is criticizing herself in the mirror instead of appreciating her beauty and thinking as the version of her with her desired body.

2. subject won’t stick to a decision.

ie: Bob wants to manifest kira. Bob has no rizz and is mad kira won’t look his way. Bob takes kira not giving him attention as a sign that she doesn’t want him and Bob decides he’ll just go manifest someone else. Tomorrow Bob changes his mind and realizes he was tripping and can manifest kira to change. Bob starts manifesting kira again. At first he feels confident but finds himself waiting and waiting for kira to see his message. kira won’t open bob’s message, and this effects bob’s entire concept of himself. Bob questions if he has any sauce at all. Bob says fuck you kira and stops manifesting her. Cycle repeats. Does Bob want kira or not? We may never know. We do know that Bob will forever continue to stalk her Instagram and hyperventilate over every guy that appears in her story instead of just manifesting her.

3. subject won’t persist.

ie: Ant is tired of being broke. Ant doesn’t want to flex stacks of one dollar bills anymore; he wants hundreds in his hands instead. Ant starts affirming that he is rich. Ant remembers that yesterday his card declined in front of his girl and held up the whole Walmart line. Ant uses this memory to reclaim his identity as a broke boy and thinks manifesting is BS, and then Ant then continues to manifest more brokeness.

4. subject wants to put the blame on everything else.

venus wants to be a celebrity so bad. venus finds out she can manifest this. venus gets scared of all this power she holds and starts to make excuses like “everyone is going to hate on me for no reason” and “the illuminati is going to sacrifice me” so venus now cannot in fact become a celebrity.

5. subject is reading this looking for what they did wrong, even if they’re doing absolutely nothing wrong.

ie: you. you keep feeling like you’re doing something wrong when you’re doing everything perfectly. you keep asking for people to validate your manifestation journey when you are the sole power. ur good. ur manifestations are on the way.

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i can’t i’m in the middle of klas on the verge of tears

Reposting this because I need to materialize it somewhere.

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the universe isn't working against you

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MANIFESTATION IS EASY!!!

i had someone ask me, “what if i wish to manifest X because if X doesn’t manifest only bad things will happen"

yst i came across this post and this is literally my fav post ever because even tho i always think this, i’ve never found the words to articulate it this well.

and then i realised, that if you can manifest anything, you can manifest coming out of the desperate state, get rid of overthinking and anxiety, do away w negative thoughts etc.

MANIFESTATION IS NOT MAGIC. MANIFESTATION IS REAL. YOU ARE CONSTANTLY MANIFESTING. INTROSPECT AND YOU'LL REALISE THAT EVERYTHING IS A CONSEQUENCE OF YOUR MANIFESTATIONS I.E. THINKING.

here are some things i do for better and anxiety free manifestation:-

dr = desire reality cr = current reality

detach from your dr (desired reality): sometimes we get so obsessed w our dr that in order to manifest it, we start looking at it from the perspective of lack and since manifestation is ultimately bringing your state of mind to life, the only thing that gets strengthened as a fact is that you LACK it. (check the link in the intro of this post) to be able to manifest it freely, you need to detach. set a timestamp of maybe a week or two where you swear you won’t think ANYTHING related to dr. i did this once where i wanted person X to reach out to me, and then for a week of no contact and no thinking about them, boom they reached out to me exactly how i imagined it.

tell yourself you deserve your dr: in Roxie Nafousi’s book “Manifest”, she clearly states that you only manifest what you think you deserve. think of the times you have manifested some things and you haven’t. now compare the self concepts you had while manifesting each of them. i’m sure you’ll feel a stark difference of self worth in both scenarios. while having a good self concept is not absolutely necessary to manifest, it is better to have a good self concept in order to feel you deserve everyth bec really, you DO deserve everyth. in all, wtv you are desiring, you first need to tell yourself that it’s absolutely not a big deal that it happens to you, and you do deserve your dr. (you can try badmouthing/pointing flaws in your dr so that it doesn’t feel unachievable to you).

accept the situation as it if first: okay i need y’alls to HEAR ME CAREFULLY. so, you wish to change your cr (current reality) bec you are not happy/satisfied w it. but do you feel comfortable w being in it? have you accepted the situ as it is? ofc if you wish to manifest your life outside of your current life, you do not like your cr. but if you absolutely do not accept it or make terms w your cr, it will only make you more miserable, it will increase your desperation. and we don’t want that. when i wish to manifest smth i do not have in my cr, i firstly accept my cr and come to terms w it.

find a motive: i move thinking that i wish to manifest bec i wish to change this, cr is not making me happy. this gives you the MOTIVE to manifest. embrace the change from cr to dr and implement that. having a clear, defined motive escalates it several folds.

accept that you already have it: okay i know it’s hard to simple live like it, but when you are detached from your goal, it is easier for you to live the way you would when you already have your dr. distract yourself. don't dwell on thoughts of dr. your present needs your more. when you live in the present, it's easier for your to forget about the dr.

you're the absolute maker of your life: this fact used to give me so much anxiety before, bec it used to feel burdensome. but now it makes me powerful. always remember that since you are maker of your reality, you can NEVER NOT MANIFEST. you can NEVER MANIFEST INCORRECTLY. so stop w your intrusive thoughts.

makes fake POVs: okay this technique helps me a lot to keep myself from wavering. so quantum mechanically, since everything is energy, i picture that every time i affirm, the energy of my affirmations is helping to convert that energy into 3d mass. so whenever i check the 3d for my manifestations, i tell myself that the characters of the dr are working right now to make dr come true in the best way possible.

do not react to the 3d: what i have seen is that even when there are things going super wrong in 3d right this very moment, but when i don't react to them, the 3d IMMEDIATELY rewards me and turns it into my favour. not reacting to your 3d and having control on your emotions is the best manifestation gift you can give to yourself. as a very emotional person i did that and my manifestation journey changed wonders. do not think realistically. ever.

lastly, intro-fkn-spect: i'm so sorry for the cuss, but i cannot cannot CANNOT emphasize enough on how much introspection helps me personally to manifest. one thing abt introspection that helps me is to remember the times i was able to manifest. bec we are CONSTANTLY manifesting, it's literally not difficult to not manifest dr w/i days or even hours. and this makes me feel so powerful, and the fact that it doesn't matter what i do, i just need to stay true and committed to my dr. that is literally all.

always, always remember. you attract what you are. you manifest what you think you deserve. you keep what you resonate with.

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aren't you tired? you are constantly wavering, waiting, wishing. take responsibility for your life and let yourself be and experience your desire in your imagination. let yourself be the creator and stop giving power to the outside world. you are your only savior and your being or not being depends on you and only you.

there are no miracles, there is only being.

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I HAVE ALWAYS JUST TRIED TO FIND THE WORDS TO FRAME THIS JDKJHH I CANNOT STAND BY THIS MORE THANK YOU💗

Desperation is the energy of lack

Have you ever heard that the harder you fight against quicksand the faster you sink? Have you ever noticed that you only manifest things after you forget about them?

That's because in the desperation to get what you want you end up affirming to yourself that you do not have it.

Affirm and persist, but what does that mean?

It means you assume your manifestation is yours regardless of what the 3D shows you. It's okay to be upset when bad things happen.

I know it hurts right now. I know it's hard to believe everything is going to work out when you can feel your heart aching in your chest.

You are not cursed never to manifest just because you have strong emotional reactions to things.

It's ok to hurt. Take a deep breath and remind yourself that while your feelings are absolutely valid and deserve the space to be felt they are not the authority on your reality.

Our brains naturally want to make sense of what we're feeling but it often leads us to thinking the way we're feeling is evidence of what will happen next.

"I feel awful and I don't like how often I'm feeling it" often leads us into thinking "nothing is ever going to work for me", but it's important to ground ourselves and realize that feeling like shit isn't divine undeniable proof that manifestation isn't going to work.

Feeling like shit just means you feel like shit, nothing more.

Sometimes we feel awful so we self sabotage and then say "see I was right", when really we're just a self fulfilling prophecy. You don't want to be right, you want the comfort of having your emotions validated and seen.

I am not in anyway saying that you should suppress and ignore how you feel! Holding space for yourself to feel things and feel them deeply is important to our spiritual physical and mental health.

I am however, saying that assigning meaning to it isn't good for you.

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THISSS!!!

If you can manifest signs you can manifest your desire. Stop pretending you don't know how.