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If anyone saw that reblog, no you didn't... We forgot to swap what blog we were posting to. :(

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(from last ask) but somehow i got the traits from the parents who owned them reversed, i got the victim mentality from my dad bc he never let me do hard work and the i'm never wrong mindset from my mom bc she overpraised me as a kid and then very suddenly did a 180°, so i adopted that mindset to protect my ego. i feel like i never had real parents except myself, and parenting myself while dealing with multiple traumas and mental illnesses was a very very hard taskload for a young kid to bear. i couldn't always be present for myself or make the right choices. i didn't have the knowledge and wisdom adults have to determine what's right and wrong either. man, i just wish i had proper parents, or at least better parents

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nbpd culture is inheriting my dad's "i'm never wrong" mindset and my mom's victim mentality

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nbpd culture is feeling like the world is ending whenever you crash

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bnpd culture is faint by linkin park

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Nbpd culture is not being able to get over a fp who hurt you because your thoughts are either "They deserve to die for what they did to me" and "I deserved it didn't I :(" </3

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Nbpd culture is splitting on your mutuals for something minor and are constantly stuck a state of wanting them to explode but then when they like or comment under your post you mayyyy forgive them for a few minutes (this is literally just me)

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Hi! Sorry I haven't been active in a while. I've been trying to focus on my mental health, and we've been distracted with matters regarding physical health as well. I was just recently officially diagnosed with PCOS, and we're adjusting to the pills we were prescribed... The estrogen has made me a little more moody, and we've been struggling with depression. We hope to start being more active on here soon! ❤️

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as a person who has self diagnosed bpd and npd for years already you are SO COOL, is it okay if i confess here?

Awww thank you! Of course you can! We're inclusive of self diagnosed folks ❤️

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i know you said transids dont interact but im (technically) one

i have bpd, i also have every single npd trait

but the professionals saw the existing label of bpd and denied it, thats why i have label myself with transnpd

i have npd just as much as anyone else who a doctor diagnosed

i get you wanting to "keep your community safe" or whatever but frankly the only difference between us is a doctor's choice in agreeing i have something and that sounds like the same things transmeds say

Self diagnosis and "transNPD" are not the same thing. Equating self diagnosis to "transitioning to have a disorder" is horrifically ableist. You are self diagnosed, you don't need to call yourself "transNPD." You aren't transitioning to anything. If you fit the criteria for NPD, then you have NPD, point blank period

You can't change your race, and you can't "transition" to having a disorder you don't already have. Self diagnosis is valid by itself and is not the same as transitioning. Being against cultural appropriation, ableism, and abuse is not "transmedicalism." Equating this is wildly transphobic.

We will not be responding to any more asks on this subject. You will just be blocked and ignored.

Anyways, we will be going back into our little hiatus for the time being, as I still don't have much energy. We've been going through a lot. We are highly dissociative, recently split, and don't really have the mental energy to maintain this blog at the moment. I promise we're not ignoring anyone... We will respond to the other submissions as soon as we can.

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This is a really cool blog thank you for making it :)

- a person w possible npd + bpd

Hii! We're glad that others are enjoying this blog ^_^

We haven't been active on Tumblr in a few days because we've been struggling with our mental health. We'll get to our other inboxes as soon as we can! We're still recovering, as we've been dealing with a lot. We see all of your messages, and I promise we're not ignoring any of you ❤️

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Just to make ourselves clear, "TransNPD"/"TransBPD" and other "transdisorders" are not welcome on this blog. People who are RCTA/trace are not welcome on this blog. People who are "transintersex" are not welcome on this blog. People who promote abuse in any form/are pro-contact are not welcome on this blog. I cannot believe we have to say this. If we catch you following us or interacting with our posts, you will be blocked.

Children and animals cannot consent. You cannot transition to another race, and you cannot transition to having a disability or disorder. You cannot transition to being intersex. This is incredibly disgusting, racist, ableist and intersexist as someone who is Native American, intersex, a sexual abuse survivor and disabled in multiple ways.

We apologize profusely to anyone who thought we enabled or allowed such behavior on our blog. Our pinned has been updated and made clear that we do not tolerate such people. We had no idea that we had anyone like this interacting with us until we checked just now. If you recognize anyone exhibiting such behavior interacting with our blog, please let us know because we may have missed it!

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Astarion Ancunín from Baldur's Gate 3 has narcissistic and borderline personality disorder!

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NBPD culture is immediately devaluing someone as soon as they hurt you or the people you care for. I no longer have empathy for you. I feel nothing but disgust. Crocodile tears don't work because I'll just think you're pathetic. Good. Cry some more. Hope you cry a puddle, slip on it, and hit your big ass head.

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nbpd culture is arsonists by ethan bortnick methinks

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NBPD and ex religious culture is being so done with this one youtuber i watch, he makes ex-religion videos and he uses and believes in a lot of pop psychology stuff about npd which is a real shame because he genuinely has actually helpful content that’s well intentioned, it’s also a reason why i wrote literally six paragraphs explaining why him using narcissist (and other ableist terms) as a insult is bad but I’m really tired of waiting for him to see it. I guess I’m back to being on my own now because his channel was one of the few channels (of the religion i left) that doesn’t have pro genocide/zionist views. Idk how to feel

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nbpd culture is being divinekin

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