stupi-did

[stupi-did]

Go check out @antiendo-originterms

They make CDD alter origin terms not using genic and no mocking xeno origin bullshit

Entirely anti traumagenic terms >:)

I love it

Love to see it

GOGOGO

[stupi-did]

we just recently found out that one of our friends from middle school (that we havent talked to in years) was shit talking us and fakeclaiming us because we were "friends with fakers" even tho they were literally in our friend group when we cut off the ACTUAL faker in the group

the other 2 systems we knew were both medically recognized and one was literally in therapy with a DID specialist so idk where they were getting all this bs from

anyways I just needed to share that, the moment I was told about it i was like "i gotta send this to stupi-did"

As you should SEND ME IT ALL

But thats INSANE

Hypocrite fr if they were also friends grr

[stupi-did]

We thought we were “less valid” as a system because when someone learns a new skill, we all learn it.

Like crochet for example, all of us know how to do it. Some may have tighter or looser tension with the yarn, but we all know how to crochet

Referencing this post btw: https://www.tumblr.com/stupi-did/793859047282573312/op-is-not-the-stupi-did-here-dw-love-ginger

Yes! The only difference you usuallly see is stuff like tension and mood with art varience, but the skill can remain the same as you all share a body :)

[stupi-did]

Silly idea

Fake-Claim Friday

Every Friday you guys flood my asks with stories of the Stupi-DID-est fakeclaims you've ever gotten or you've heard of

That way you've got the whole week to think up a story since memory is hard lol

[stupi-did]

Op is not the Stupi-DID here dw love ginger emotes

Honestly people who complain that the style needs to be different between alters can fuck off

Alters having a different art style is entirely case by case and some choose to have a different style for a sense of individuality

You can absolutely have the same style amongst your system and anyone who fake claims you or gives ypu shit for that can fuck off

Some systems collectively hold skills meaning you're going to have the same art style and some have slightly different styles but relatively similar because some draw faster, slower, more or less controlled, ect based on how they behave/carry themself

Shit some littles (both sys[can apply to non regressed mindset littles] and not) draw more loosely and childish either because of their mindset or because they want to and/or want to not care about how it looks

Op you don't have to prove yourself to anyone and even if they are similar it doesn't mean anything bad, it just means your slters are living in the same body (WHOA I knew crazy right)

Take care

Keep making cool things

"your alters all have the same art style!!?!/1/!!?!?11" meanwhile, the styles:

[stupi-did]

Diagnosed only discord servers can eat my dick

"We don't ask for diagnosis proof"

Okay anyone can walk in

"We need diagnosis proof"

Okay cool you have no right to demand that from people

Stop being fucking entitled over a disorder juat because you were diagnosed

Some people cant get diagnosed and some people choose not to because it literally ruins their chances of getting a job

If you can't tell I'm vague posting

Fucking neutral self diagnosis JUST for people who can't do it is annoying as shit

We are pro self diagnosis given you properly researched the disorder, not just if you can't get it, if you choose not to get it and are in an okay space that is YOUR choice and shouldn't dictate where you can and cannot go

If you can sit and tell me all you know about the disorder and how you think you have it and it makes sense

And I have no basic questions

that's fine by me good luck

Fuck that person block me you give me the biggest ick of entitlement

[stupi-did]

Bouncing off the point about source mems being used Vs pseudo mems..

Most of my system is fictionkin. the term typically used for fictionkins memories of their life is source memories (i believe?). My system uses source memories because of that. Also it makes it easier to hide the things that are pseudo mems (similar to our own trauma since pseudo mems usually reflect that), therefore making us the slightest bit safer.

Yeahh fairfair

[stupi-did]

One of our little thought this side blog was for people with DID who are stupid

Just felt the need to share

Why not both

[stupi-did]

We’ve had people (in 2021) get mad at brainmade alters who say source memories instead of psuedo memories.

My brother in arms they’re using the term ���source memories’ cause it’s easier for us to say + they like it better than psuedo memories for personal reasons.

It also made it harder for people at the time to try and guess who was and wasn’t a fictive, source separated or not, cause we met some nasty people when it came to some of our fictives who had problematic sources

Gadamn 😭

[stupi-did]

Hi Stupi-did, I’ve been the stupid one here. I want to admit to the fact that I have been malingering some of my experiences with DID.

When I initially started suspecting DID, I’d done lots of research and then around a month later told a teacher at my school so I could try and start the process of getting help for it, whether it was DID or me misinterpreting stuff.

Now, I spend a lot of time in online spaces that are system inclusive. A lot of these systems split frequently, talk about having control over switches, are mostly high introject systems etc. I’m not saying they’re fake for that, just that it’s how systems are often presented online in my experience.

However, I don’t experience that frequent splits (I do split occasionally due to still being in some traumatic situations), there is no control over switches and we are mostly brainmade alters, or at least they’re the ones who front frequently.

Because of this, I started acting like there was a part in the system who had control over switches, I also feel like I might have faked some splits (not entirely sure though) and I also think I might have faked some fictives too. I don’t know if I have definitely faked those things or not but I do know I’m not fully honest about how I experience what I suspect to be DID from a pov of how I experience the different parts affecting me.

I know I want to be open and honest now, but honestly I’m scared as to how my friends are going to react if I say I think I’ve done that. I know I don’t want them to be all “oh you wouldn’t have, you’d never” etc etc, but knowing them they probably wouldn’t say that. I just also don’t want them to drop me either (hence the anon in case any of them see this post).

You know what

I get that and Im glad youre opening up abt it

System spaces online tend to talk heavily of splits and alters and DID falls under the neutodivergent umbrella so you see a good few with autism ect and hyperfixations can bring on heavy introjection aka a lot of introjects to cope

I dont blame you for feeling like youre out of place in such a space due to being less so introject heavy nor splitting much

We dont actually split too much dispite having roughly 30+ of us- we are 19, I doubt theyre all recent splits lol

We are introject heavy too but we dont talk abt it as much as some do bc its not important really-

I think being open abt feeling isolated in your own space for not being the norm of DID is a good start and can help explain why such happened

Malingering can happen accidentally so you are at no fault

Im proud of you for realizing what had happened and sharing

As for the control aspect thats entirely valid to pretend theres control

Its hard in a disorder that can have no control or feel like youre losing your own life

I actually encourage you to maybe no fake having control but seek out ways to take control collectively

To come together and try to communicate with your parts

Even if its just slower switching to kind of prep yourself for the change

Tldr I understand your side, Proud you were truthful abt it and try looking into ways to build communication to take some more control

Sorry if my response is a bit bad Im super dissociated but didn't want to wait haaah

If I think of smth else later Ill add it deffo but good job and good luck

[stupi-did]

Hot take

Endo neutral isn't real it's an excuse, it's ableist, or its for your own gain

"Endo neutral idc" you don't care abt ableism

"Endo neutral *reblogs pro/neu/anti endo things*" you just dont want to bother filtering yourself. If you reblog pro things you support pro things idc get out

"Any system can use" okay so like what you just dont acknowledge the bullshit going on- theres being open and being too open you cant please everyone sure but you can avoid giving things to those actively hurting the community youre trying to support with your product

I would respect someone being unaligned/unable to look into it for their mental health more than endo neutrals given they don't use that as an excuse to fuck around and do whatever they want

Also ppl with no views shown and saying syscourse dni pmo

Your stance does not = syscourse

Syscourse is system discourse, the discussion and back and forth about systems

That may include your stance, your side IN syscourse, but that does NOT count as one

Thats like being anti conversation bc you dont like that arguments can exist but not disclosing the part you dislike about conversation so ppl juat dont talk to you like you just dont want to hear it bro

Anyone with syscourse dni and no given stance I will assume you are non traumagenic neutral bc you pmo thats not a stance thats just "I have a view but Im not telling and dont wanna argue abt it"

At that point don't even fucking put it on your bio

[stupi-did]

People who think describing the development of DID using "Split"* isnt a big deal can fuck off

*The term not the movie oh my god that movie has wrecked DID fuck you Split

[stupi-did]

You ever seen how endos "sell" alters? It's wild.

Lmao yeah on our main we got bored and joke asked ppl to pretend to advertise an alter but replace the name with ✨️ to show it was a joke

Was quite funny

But no I have no idea how the hell ppl think they can just do that it's fucking WILD

[stupi-did]

As someone who suspected OSDD before realizing we actually suffer from PDID (I was co conscious when alters fronted and fake claimed the hell out of us when I could kind of rememeber other members being almost like the head of front per se) I applaud your spreading of information to prevent misinformation and confusion oml I really do!!!

We personally experience emotional amnesia primarily but do experience some general amnesia as I recently lost literally 2 months suddenly when parents swore I had wasted that time paying for adobe..? (It was for college classes we were barely passing. So already it has negatively affected us financially in that sense)

They also don't tell you about the amount of imposter syndrome and feeling different than the other alters for being front stuck 24/7

Sorry for the ramble

Sharing to this blog because INFORMATION!!!! /POS

Thank you op

OSDD vs P-DID

For some reason I've been seeing this misconception more recently, I so want to clarify: OSDD and P-DID are not the same thing, and OSDD is not being renamed to P-DID.

I think this comes from the fact that they're both "DID but not" diagnoses, just used in different manuals. But they are not exactly equivalent to each other.

OSDD is the DSM-V other specified diagnosis for the dissociative disorder category. You receive it when you have significant dissociative symptoms but do not qualify for any of the diagnostic categories (which means you can have it without being a system). OSDD-1 specifically refers to DID presentations that do not meet the full criteria, see below:

So this means that OSDD-1 can be diagnosed when a person has alters that are not distinct, or when a person does not report clinically significant amnesia. Keep in mind that the bar for having distinct enough alters is lower than most people think, all you need is to meet the following criteria:

Note that it specifically says "and/or", not just "and". (Screenshot cuts off but it just says that these symptoms can be observed by others or reported by the person themself). The majority of OSDD-1 patients receive the diagnosis due to a lack of amnesia, not due to lack of distinctiveness.

Partial DID is an ICD-11 diagnosis that is given when a person has a specific presentation of DID in which there is one "dominant" alter that is either always, or almost always, in executive control of the body, and the other alters are exclusively, or near exclusively, experienced through internal voices or co-consciousness, but not full switching (or only rarely). See the criteria below:

The ICD-11 also notes that amnesia may be experienced during episodes of full switching, but P-DID patients generally do not experience significant amnesia in day-to-day life.

However, it is also worth noting that under the ICD-11, amnesia is not required for DID at all:

Here's the full ICD-11 criteria for DID:

Putting it all together:

As you can see, OSDD and P-DID are not exactly equivalent. While the majority of P-DID patients would likely be diagnosed with OSDD if evaluated under the DSM-V due to the lack of day-to-day amnesia, the majority of OSDD patients would not be diagnosed with P-DID if they were evaluated under the ICD-11. They would instead just come under DID, as amnesia is not a requirement and P-DID is exclusively used for DID presentations that specifically have a "dominant" alter and do not often experience full switching.

[stupi-did]

Holy shit

[stupi-did]

"What if pro endo systems are traumatized? (I'm not pro anything)"

If you're neutral, fuck off, if you're anti, why the hell does it matter

Nobody goes "oh why cant the opposite views of me interact even tho its on DNI and I supposedly dont support" bullshit no way bro isnt at least pro or neutral endos

You know how many people are traumatized and STILL fall under basic DNI on a critical level

Thats not a fucking argument

Yes its not great that it happened and maybe influenced their beliefs but shit does this dude think trauma gets you off scott free for being ableist?

"I'm... I'm so sorry I supported non traumagenics.. you see...I actually am traumagenic myself and I don't- " WAH WAH WAH STFU ain't no rhyme or reason for you to support any body making a mockery of your disorder

DNI supporters can fuck off with the DNI criteria they support

Go kiss their asses and the ground they walk on somewhere else

KEEP THAT BLOG POSITIVE GOGOGO GO SEND NICE THINGS FLOOD OUT THE BULLSHIT YAA

LOVE clarifying a point and being sworn at and blocked over it. This is my main. Block it from your main please

[So sorry everyone. Not a positive post. Someone decided to start shit with us HERE of all places.]

You came onto a positivity blog and bothered me over my syscourse stance for no fucking reason. Don't act like you're all innocent, and that I've only done you wrong. I never owed you an answer. I don't know you, and I don't give a fuck about you.

Seeing you were clever enough to block our main, it would have also been wise to read from there that we don't want people starting syscourse with us. It's pointless, and it pisses us off. Go bother people in the syscourse tags.

[This is what they're referring to. I deleted the conversation off of our pinned post.]

I block people I don't want to interact with. Challenging me on my syscourse stance when I would much rather not have anything to do with that shit anymore is a fantastic way to get blocked.

[stupi-did]

Ong this therapist is fucking insane

So I went to a psych ward a while ago right

Mind you, this is supposed to be one of the best ones in the country (it wasn’t lol)

I was talking to the psychologist about how I think I have DID.

Not even thirty minutes inti talking with her she goes ‘you can’t have that’ HELLO??

Her reasoning? ‘It’s too rare’ and she ‘would be able to tell’.

She also said people with DID cannot function and need to be hospitalized for years. -.-

Sorry for the long rant lol

Not long at all dw I love yappage

Fired on the spot eradicated exploded to bits they suck

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DIDISCOVERTDIDISCOVERTDIDISCOVERT*

*most of the time! Im not ignorant gang just a lil lmao