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twomontis · 3 days ago
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Reference sheet for okay_kiri_kiri !!
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tevinterdays · 3 days ago
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tunemymusic, in my experience, is bad at its job (especially for more obscure music). soundiiz is far more effective and is also $5/mo which you can cancel immediately.
also worth noting about tidal: search (at least on mobile) is a premium feature
FINALLY got around to dumping Spotify after their CEO continued to prove he's a fresh turd. (As if being a billionaire, not paying musicians, shoving AI garbage at us, and having an atrocious carbon footprint wasn't bad enough, he's now the chair of a AI-based weapons manufacturing company.)
I used TuneMyMusic ($24 annual fee you can cancel immediately, effectively paying only once) to transfer almost every single song from our Spotify account to Tidal. Tidal already has much better sound quality and they pay their artists much better. It migrated over 99% of our music, too, so there wasn't a huge loss.
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blitzy-blitzwing · 3 days ago
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Updated Blitzwing look. :U
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sapphicides · 6 months ago
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in honor of black history month 2025, i’ve put together a list of books written by black sapphic authors for you to read in the month of february
non-fiction essays/memoirs:
all about love: new visions by bell hooks
black lesbian in white america by anita cornwell
sister outsider: essays and speeches by audre lorde
mouths of rain: an anthology of black lesbian thought by briona simone jones
blues legacies and black feminism by angela davis
does your mama know?: an anthology of black lesbian coming out stories by lisa c. moore
fiction:
the color purple by alice walker
loving her by ann allen shockley
the gilda stories by jewelle gomez
in another place, not here by dionne brand
pomegranate by helen elaine lee
the summer we got free by mia mckenzie
these letters end in tears by musih tedji xaviere
dead in long beach, california by venita blackburn
girl, woman, other by bernadine evaristo
young adult:
escaping mr. rochester by l.l. mckinney
this ravenous fate by hayley dennings
faebound by saraa el-arifa
so let them burn by kamilah cole
where sleeping girls lie by faridah àbíké-íyímídé
adult:
honey girl by morgan rogers
the deep by rivers solomon
sweet vengeance by viano oniomoh
come back (love concealed) by terri ronald
house of hunger by alexis henderson
short stories:
the secret lives of church ladies by deesha philyaw
additional info:
-> “why wasn’t this book listed?” probably because it wasn’t black sapphic-centric, the author isn’t a black sapphic themself, or i just simply haven’t heard of it! so feel free to add on if it meets those two criteria
many of these books require trigger warnings, especially some of the older ones that are more likely to feature racial struggles of the time. please do your due diligence and search for tws if you want to read them!
please feel free to add onto this list in the rbs or comments! happy black history month
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badly-drawn-doflamingo · 3 months ago
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This is how some of these cases feel
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I know he just lies.
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keferon · 3 months ago
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First of all. HOLY SHIT THERE'S PART TWO OF THE REVERSE MECHA RATCHLOCK FIC
Second - I got so excited I decided to design Deadlock~ Because yeah. We didn't really talk about him but Gemma just keeps giving me serotonin and my body is a machine that tirns serotonin into art
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styrofauxm · 4 months ago
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Honestly, I am pretty frustrated by the "haha why would anyone hate ace people" responses to Rowling's tweet.
Don't get me wrong, the support is nice. But if you want to be an ally, you have to do so on our terms, not yours. And that means actually engaging with the aspec community, not just posting positivity every now and again. And what those responses highlight to me is what I've known for a while; you guys only support aspec people when it's easy and convenient.
It's easy to support aspec people when it's J.K. Rowling being awful again. It's easy to support us when it's just reblogging an "aspec people are queer" post.
But what about when we are talking about amatonormativity and the relationship hierarchy? When we are discussing the enforcement of compulsory sexuality? When we are pushing for greater awareness and support for aspec identities that are not asexuality or aromanticism? When we are criticizing terminology that you use but harms us? Because I can tell you right now, I rarely see allo people engage with those posts.
Why do people hate asexuality (or any other aspec identity)? Because it challenges the societal norms that benefit them. And that is uncomfortable and scary. So they turn to hate and oppression in order to assure that the changes we push by just openly existing never happen.
That means that to be a good aspec ally, you can't just make a positivity post every now and again, and you can't just laugh about how stupid aphobes are. You have to openly challenge the societal norms that harm us, even if they benefit you. Including but not limited to:
The idea that romantic and sexual attraction is the default state of being (amatonormativity)
The idea that a romantic, sexual relationship completes a person
People in marriages receiving special privileges and benefits
The idea that platonic, familial, etc. attraction are default states of being
The idea that not feeling some form of attraction must be compensated for through another form of attraction
The idea that love (not just romantic) is inherently morally good, while not feeling love is inherently a moral failing
The idea that any one form of relationship is inherently more important or deeper than any other (relationship hierarchy)
The idea that any one thing makes someone human
The idea that not having sex is shameful or infantile
The idea that having sex without romantic love is callous
Gendered divides of sexual and romantic attraction
Other aspec people please feel free to add on/challenge any of this. Allo (not aspec) people please feel free to ask questions.
Additions:
Addition from @blkaroculture
Addition (in tags) from @fluffytimearts
Addition (in tags) from @cjreblogsthings
I've placed some resources for learning more about these topics under the cut.
Amatonormativity:
[PT: Amatonormativity:]
1. Amatonormativity Coining
2. Introduction to Amatonormativity
3. Challenging Amatonormativity
4. Effects of Amatonormativity and Compulsive Sexuality on Asexual and Aromantic College Students
5. Effects of Amatonormativity On Black, Polyamorous Men
6. Essay on Amatonormativity From a Aroallo, Loveless Perspective
Marriage Benefits:
[PT: Marriage Benefits:]
1. Article about Singlism and Marital Privilege
Other Aspec Identities:
[PT: Other Aspec Identities:]
1. Aplatonicism
2. Afamilialism
Loveless:
[PT: Loveless:]
1. Loveless articles on the AUREA website
2. Essay on Amatonormativity From a Aroallo, Loveless Perspective (repeat from Amatonormativity section)
3. Follow-up Essay on Lovelessness and Aroallo Antagonism
4. Results of a Survey of Loveless People (part 2 is linked instead of part 1 as part 1 is mostly demographic information)
5. Guide to Writing Loveless Characters (it focuses on fictional characters so should not be taken as a catch-all for real people, but it still has a ton of good information about lovelessness and loveless antagonism)
Compulsory Sexuality:
[PT: Compulsory Sexuality:]
1. Effects of Amatonormativity and Compulsive Sexuality on Asexual and Aromantic College Students (repeat from Amatonormativity section)
2. Breakdown of Compulsory Sexuality
Relationship Hierarchy vs Relationship Anarchy:
[PT: Relationship Hierarchy vs Relationship Anarchy:]
1. Relationship Anarchy Coining
2. Breakdown of Relationship Anarchy
3. Issues Presented by the Relationship Hierarchy
Oppression:
[PT: Oppression:]
1. Aphobia Masterpost
2. Asexual History and Oppression
3. Asexual Theory 101
Miscellaneous:
[PT: Miscellaneous:]
1. Research on Aromantics
2. Ace in the UK Research and Activism ft. Yasmin Benoit
3. Asexual History and Oppression (repeat from Oppression section)
4. Asexual Theory 101 (repeat from Oppression section)
Books and Video Essays:
[PT: Books and Video Essays:]
An Ace Discourse Retrospective by Jenny Geist
Ace: What Asexuality Reveals about Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen
Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown
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kaijuno · 6 months ago
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CROCKPOT SEASON is here!!! 9 easy and cheap crockpot dump recipes
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bigidiotenergytm · 6 months ago
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here's whoreseidon I MEAN poseidon :3c
(some hcs from @shinedoitsulikeabright cause we both own this bitch atp)
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oldmanffucker · 1 year ago
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this is getting me so bad
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tennasbignaturals · 3 days ago
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:)) this was very fun, should be active for another 12ish hours i believe! get in here and join in <3
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Guuuys Toby is doing a cute lil thing where you can say how Undertale has impacted you. Ignore the typo I made but you can also make a lil sprite with your message
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cosmicanger · 9 months ago
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Shiraz Pictoral Rug
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rhiannons-bird · 1 day ago
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add grace and the set is complete
kit was locked in a basement and abused for most of his childhood and jace was locked in a remote country estate and abused for most of his childhood and ash was locked in a princess tower and abused for most of his childhood and that's why they are the blonde grimms fairy tale heroines crew for life ✨️
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hools · 22 days ago
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lamp ref "it is me it's my sona"
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hellothisisangle · 5 months ago
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sticky refs
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