#CANNOT HANDLE
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fall out boy played coffee's for closers for the first time since '09 and mikey fuckin' way played saturday with them
#I'm devastated#i just#so much for tour dust#coffees for closers#fob#fall out boy#petekey#pete wentz#my chemical romance#folie a deux#nobody look at me#I'm on the floor in a pool of my own tears#what year is it#my heart#cannot handle#this band it ruining my life#this tour is ruining my life#mikey way#2023#shut up#sweet little dudes
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I'm wondering if, as a society who cares about vulnerable people, we could stop saying "traumatize" when we truly mean "upset"?
I am sick of hearing sad books or movies "traumatize" their readers. I simply do not believe that happens. A traumatic experience might be adjacent to books (I have vivid memories of books I was reading around certain experiences and even how the contents of those books affected my processing of the experiences). But it's not caused by the book. And, y'know. The weather is Christofascist Censorship Attempts outside.
Meanwhile from the other side I continue to be surprised at just how badly people fail to understand trauma and traumatic experiences in general. Watering down the term isn't helping. Find other hyperbole to express that The Bridge to Terebithia gutted you, chewed on your heartstrings, and made you cry your first pair of contact lenses right out of your preteen eyes.
(ETA here although it's impossible to edit reblogs: over the months since this post really took off, there has been valuable discussion in the comments. I stand by the passion with which I wrote this post and with the general message, but not all the exact wording. I talk more about the way I'd re-write this post in a response here, replying to an addition that added a ton of useful context [other additions touched on similar themes, but that person had it all together in one reblog]. With that said, I am muting this post.)
#I know I'm not the first person to say this but#a book cannot put you in visceral fear of your safety or someone else's safety#reading is not a traumatic experience#it may be a triggering experience if you are already traumatized by something else. that is different.#meanwhile actual trauma is not always experienced as consciously upsetting!#people may act extremely chill while being traumatized!#only to then be judged by a peanut gallery on how they handled things#<one reblog recommended not using 'peanut gallery' in the future so I'll amend to say: an audience of uninvolved onlookers#trauma
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yoooo guys these wings my dad made look INSANE i can’t wait to try them tomorrow
#icarus#icarusposting#guys there is more to this post PLEASE check the notes i cannot handle one more chicken wing comment#<- person who did the chicken wing thing on purpose and now is regretting it
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For somebody who gets off on pain I really cannot handle watching people get injured
#not saying the movie but#eughhh#really messing with me#and not in a fun sexy way#just looked up if the guy dies in the movie I could not handle watching#there are some scenes that I will as an adult cover my eyes and ears or skip#cannot handle#listed them out but I really don’t want to see that in my feed so#ughghghghggggg
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God, I just know that the family hates playing Scrabble with Jason, because they agree being casual and not search for unusable words through dictionaries intentionally - side eye at Tim, who prior the Scrabble night learned by heart the whole dictionary and spluttered words the next day without even remembering their meaning just because he wanted to win - and then they forget that Jason is English & Literary major. And his casual words are like. Unknown by the half of population.
Jason: Hm-m, geoluread. Dick: There is no way this word is real. Jason: It means yellow-red, actually. Poets and writers used it to describe-- Damian, aka. Nerd Jr: He is right, it is a real word. Tim, groaning: Can we play Uno? Duke: No, no, wait, I use Jason's bizarre knowledge for making my own dictionary to use in school essays and impress teachers, let him cook. Cass, nodding: Good source information. Dick, frustrated: THIS IS NOT EVEN FAIR Stephanie, reaching for her phone: I smell a fight--
#Dick is big sister (he cannot handle losing in family games night and will fist-fight Bruce if he wins him in the Monopoly)#Jason DOES use these words intentionally but he also thinks that it is others' fault if they are not educated like that.#Tim is also competitive asf but Dick banned him from acting on it. like a true hypocrite.#Damian used to be competitive but the older he grows the more he realises how ridiculous and embarrassing it looks from outsider POV#so he drops it and spends his time to bully his brothers#jason todd#red hood#batman#dcu#dcu comics#dc universe#batfamily#bruce wayne#batfam#dick grayson#tim drake#damian wayne#stephanie brown#duke thomas#cassandra cain
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ugh Zoro is so cute in thriller Bark😫😫😫😫😫😫😫
I love this moment:
Zoro pretending not being interested in Thriller Bark, but hey, Luffy wanting Zoro to be with the crew.
And then Luffy says he'll share his food with Zoro if he goes for a walk, like, Zoro is that special to Luffy huh.
Don't forget about how Zoro just looked at Luffy while he was smiling and laughing in his own goofy way, Zoro couldn't say no.
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THE BREAKFAST CLUB (1985)
+ IMDb trivia | in/sp.
#the breakfast club#thebreakfastclubedit#filmedit#80sedit#my edit#dailyflicks#userangelic#usermaguire#userallisyn#usersugar#useraurore#nessa007#userrlaura#userclara#usermandie#userchess#userlaro#userchristineb#userbeckett#usereri#userkayleigh#usersavana#userpunk#usersnat#tuserdana#No idea who to tag so feel free to ignore if I tagged you and this isn't your thang!#Me this morning: Sure I'll download a 2 GB movie to make a gifset!#Also my PS crashed halfway through making this... Breaking news: PS cannot handle a 2 GB file! Who knew?!
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I NEED Loop to be further tormented by finding out confessing to their party doesn't break their loops, and Siffrin wishes to see Loop again so hard he pops out of the favor tree so he gets to be Loop's guide
#isat#isat spoilers#siffrin#loop#I imagine Loop's lack of physical power is the first red herring they get#so Siffrin finds a way to break away from the favor tree and they try the tag-in tag-out AU where Sif handles the fighting#but just exploding the king isn't it either!#and Siffrin got a bit more Character Development so he's the one to be like okay no we HAVE to try talking to the party#which leads to way too many loops where they're just like 'yes yes there's two of us. calm down this is timeloop 101. keep up'#Isa: YOU CAN'T JUST EXPECT US TO ACCEPT THAT?#Loop: oh yeah cause this is SUCH an imposition for you. two of me. like this isn't straight out of your wet dreams#the party: ?!?!???!?!?!#Siffrin: LOOP#Loop: ugh I know I know. banana time#u can tag as ship idc I do think they get frustrated a bunch of loops and make out about it so like#not too many times tho bc I CANNOT bear making this adventure the same level of suffering. cannot stress enough how this would be like#80% silly 20% angst#zilly art#in stars and time
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Ragatha "I don't miss my mother's yelling and berating and guilt-tripping" vs Jax "She's too nice don't you feel like she's trying to take advantage of you" FIGHT.
#tadc#the amazing digital circus#tadc spoilers#episode 5#when you and your worstie's traumas are inherently incompatible#like this makes a lot of sense for both of them#jax is the bully but to him being someone who pretends to be kind is worse#and ragatha cannot handle any criticism and lets people walk all over her. Except jax 'wins' Pomni over anyway when he starts acting genuin#and ragatha never fully lets go of that mask. and now she's alone#why does jax somehow get friends and she doesnt despite all her hard work and trying? - Ragatha's inner monologue#ahhhhh this show
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how to handle john egbert
#digital art#art#ibis paint#my art#my artwork#homestuck#john egbert#meme#redraw#meme recreation#meme redraw#homestuck meme#homestuck art#homestuck fandom#homestuck fanart#homestuck john#john homestuck#john egbert fanart#john egbert homestuck#homestuck john egbert#i cannot fucking handle how cute john is#like i get a physical reaction#i want to pick up the lil guy and kiss his little face#and cuddle him in my hands
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people are mad at chappell roan because she pointed that the "lesser than too evils" party and still in fact very evil and we shouldn't let them continue to be evil just because of the other party is more evil
#chappell roan#chappell#people cannot handle a singluar person with nuanced thinking#like at all#american politics#american politics are fucked#she didn't even say don't vote democrat
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Meanwhile Wade:

#wade cannot handle so many pretty honey badgers#the moody broody psychotic and chaotic honey badgers#at the end of the day wade brough the most chaotic one home#deadpool and wolverine#wade wilson#james logan howlett#poolverine#deadclaws#old man yaoi#imagine your otp#otp writing prompts#age of apocalypse wolverine#old man logan#short king logan#marvel memes#mcu avengers edits#ryan reynolds#hugh jackman#deadpool x wolverine#mischievous thunder
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#babygirl they could never make me hate you#i accidentally saw a dumb post LMFAO dammit all#is2g you guys want complex female characters but literally cannot handle cait lmao#piltover's finest#caitvi#arcane#caitlyn kiramman#arcane meme#arcane memes#vi#vi arcane#type: meme#media: arcane#ok its 2am and im exhausted good night fr
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Fat people deserve mobility aids, too. No matter if it's connected to their fatness or not, because having a mobility issue that is connected to one's fatness won't change that they're still fat and still have the issue at hand. Fat people don't deserve to "tough it out" because fatness should be this divine punishment doled out to those who "deserve" it. Fat disabled people deserve to have the peace of mind that they can exist in whatever way is most comfortable and accessible to them
#disability#ableism#ableism tw#fatphobia#fatphobia tw#also if it's an issue solved by weight loss why would you want them to suffer until the weight loss helps wouldn't that DISCOURAGE them?#because if i were suffering the entire time i sure as fuck wouldn't want to keep going for the ~idea~ of it's gonna pay off!!!#also even if they 'made themself disabled' by being fat or anything else that doesn't matter. they're still disabled.#there is no 'good' disabled and 'bad' disabled and you cannot sort people into those categories#for every 'bad' fat disabled person there are multiple 'good' fat disabled people but you can't tell them apart often actually!#because you would have to know the intimate details of their medical history and familial lineage and tbh if you're...#...being a piece of shit to a disabled person because you assume they're guilty until proven innocent i don't blame others for being...#...weary of you and not wanting to be around you. because you've already proven you can't handle the IDEA of complex disabled experience
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fierce rivals who hate each other 🤨
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A human TFA Shockwave concept 🤨 in this economy?? I always imagined a human Shockwave to be Yknow. At least part machine, cyborg… makes sense to me. I also gave him a bit of a detective look just cuz it fit his role I suppose.. in my Hc I like to imagine he’s actually blind in his two normal eyes, and sees thru his robo eye instead 😌 to keep the Shockwaveness. But he does move his blind eyes around when doing disguised stuff so he seems not-blind in them (tho he’s not uncommonly off the mark with them)

And in every thing I’ve seen with TFA Shockwave is that he lowkey sucks at being a spy and lying 💔 but I have seen some works of him and TFP Soundwave together and I think that goes hard 😌 two tall lanky spies that are kinda unsettling (one more so than the other,) and creature-y… I also just like how Shockwave looks like a deer in Animated
#Tfa shockwave CANNOT handle all that Soundwave 💔💔#transformers#transformer#transformers animated#tfa shockwave#tfa#transformers prime#tfp#soundwave#shockwave#wavewave#humanformers#transformers human au#transformers art#transformers fanart
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