#First Choice

[yeesiine]

Choose your fighter!

[thedeadpoetshadow]

You DESERVES to be someone's FIRST choice not a REALIZATIONS

[amancalledseven]

[doublespreads]

Interview Magazine vol. 6 issue 5 May 1976. First Choice by Barry Mackinlay. Editorial. Body Fragmented .

[take-drugs-it-always-works]

Why is it so hard for someone to love or want to be with me.

I’ve got so much love and care to give to someone.

I wish I was someone first choice.

And not someone’s fling, side piece or mistake.

Will I ever find love?

Will anyone ever want me?

Will I one day know what love feels like.

[abronamedjp]

I want someone whose first thought when they wake up and the last thought they have before bed is me.

[msznxqx]

[karihighman]

Day 6️⃣: creative day ft. Chenford inspired quote on second love ❤️ because Lucy is Tim’s second chance at love & Tim is Lucy’s first choice 🥺 and I think that’s beautiful

[djevilninja]

First Choice - Love Thang (Original Tee Scott Remix)

[heart-for-thought]

And I think that no matter how strong I appear, even if my skin is thick, my heart is still fragile and I will always have the doubt of being someone's first choice. It is a feeling I cannot explain.

[poptartcrush]

First Choice/ So Let Us Entertain You

[yejimoonbmzxx]

I only wish.

yeah alcohol is cool but have you ever been someone's first choice? me neither. pass the bottle.

[lolitassin]

Me cuz i’ve never been someones 1st choice

[evilhorse]

First Comics subscription ad (circa May 1989)

[glowingcowboy]

I used to cry a lot when I was around 13-15 because I was never anybody’s first choice. I was always like a spare they could fall back on. But over time I stopped thinking about it. And I realize now, a decade later, that being someone’s first choice was never that big a deal. I don’t need to be to be important. I’m there when it counts. That’s all that matters. And they’re there when it counts.

That’s all there is. Being there for the people you love when they need you. And hopefully, they’ll be there for you too.

[sproutandscribble]

Your first choice

Something came to my mind today, this idea of being someone’s favorite person, or the first choice, it’s a nice thing, I think everyone would like to be in this position and I’m the first one of all. But then I tried to think of who my favorite person is, who would be my first choice, and I honestly couldn’t choose.

You know when you get asked, if the three people you love most in the world are in trouble and you can only help one, who would you choose? And questions like that, I play all the scenarios in my head trying to figure out how to save them all, I can’t choose a favorite person among all the people I love. Of course I would choose my friend when I want someone to encourage me, and I would choose my mother when I want someone to hug, and I would choose to play with my little cousin when I want to leave all my stress behind. Without a second thought I would choose my father if I needed help with technical things, and I would choose my brother to talk about cars.

If I can’t choose a favorite person then who am I to require this from others? Then it came to me that I don’t want to be their first choice, I want them to have so many people that they love until they can’t choose, I want those people that I love truly to be surrounded with too much love, that if someday something happened and I’m not there for them anymore, they will still have others to get them through it, they will have another favorite people to care about them as much as I did and more.

So no I don’t want to be your favorite person, I don’t want to be your first choice, I just want to be among those who you love and care about, I want to be one of many people that you go to when you want someone to talk to, and I don’t even care if I’m your last choice, I would be grateful that you have a family and friends and colleagues who care about you and who you can confide in, I would love you to the point where I’m willing to be selfless when all I want is to be selfish and have you all for myself.