#Loben Attraction

[redacted-coiner]

Preisic & Loben Self Ship

[PT: Preisic & Loben Self Ship]

Someone who's self shipping can be described as Preisen Attraction(link) and/or Loben Attraction(link)

Template Used(link)

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[Tag] @tertiary-attraction-archive, @radiomogai, @liom-archive , @liomarchive , @imoga-pride , @the-mogai-archives , @yumechive

[Extras] @gender-mailman , @dreaming-of-mogai , @pawette

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag.

[acore-ballt]

Loben Attraction

[nichelink]

Nichegroup: A newly coined and mostly likely niche dynamic between a group of acquaintances that differs from social norms, but is consensual and aware of potential risks. It may come with specific predefined roles and tasks, or be casual. It's a sister term to nichelink.

compared to nichelink, this term is slightly more relaxed, because i want it to be accessible to both casual "haha our friend group is kind of like a cat colony" and to people like myself who crave a semi-organized specific dynamic where one person is dominant over others in their group. it still uses the age rating system that nichelink does, but i personally picture that most of the terms coined for this will end up with lower age ratings because of the room for relaxed and casual identification.

examples of nichegroups could be:

a cat colony

a pokemon team and their trainer

the programs on a computer

a warrior cats clan

other things which are specifically meant to be applied to a group of people/your group of friends if you took "our friend group is like [thing]" seriously

nichegroups can be serious like i just said, but they can also be more relaxed. it can be a whole Thing that your group agrees to, such as you deciding which person will have what role and having a discussion of what they can and cannot ask the others to do, or it may be more casual. either way, i suggest having a formal discussion, creating a contract, or having some other kind of guidance when you bring up to your group that you want to do this, so that everyone involved knows what it's going to entail, even if it only ends up being a simple "can we x?" "yeah sure" and that's it. nichegroups should not be done with implied consent.

some reasons people may use this term:

attraction types like drift attraction, pack, considatore, peculic, forms of social or platonic attraction, etc

lightheartedly deciding you'll treat your group like [insert thing]

desire for companionship with people who understand your [insert any identity that relates to being alterhuman, having atypical dysphoria, etc]

anything dysfirming, really.

grammar:

nichegrouping: the state of being in this kind of relationship with someone else. “we’re nichegrouping” “we might start nichegrouping since we're all dogkin”

nichegroup: 1) the specific terms themself. “i coined a nichegroup,” “definition: an all-ages nichegroup where…” 2) the relationship itself. “our nichegroup scheduled a party tomorrow,” “his last nichegroup broke up”

nichegrouper: someone who participates in nichegroupings or wishes to.

nichegroupies: the people in your nichegroup (general term, you can also just call them your groupies, friends, partners, or whatever word is used in the definition of a term, such as calling them "gems" in the definition later in this post)

nichegroups are titled as [thing] Nichegroup, but you can drop "nichegroup" when you're talking about it outside of the official title because this can make sentences really fucking long. here's an example:

Diamond Court Nichegroup: a 16+ relationship dynamic agreed upon in a group of people where one (or more) person(s) are the "diamond", and the others are the "gems" of their "court," akin to the relationship between a diamond and the gems in their court in Steven Universe.

this may include, but isn't limited to:

finding Diamond+Pearl nichelink appealing but choosing to do it in a group, and/or one member of the group also being in a Diamond+Pearl nichelink

the diamond "assigning" a specific gem type to the members of their court

tertiary or alteraffectis attraction terms like performer, bonding, evoic, oric, aish, loben, preisen, etc

people in the group using the gem presentation system, being gemhede, crysgema, etc

following diamonds devoted

the diamond dressing up the gems, shaping them, having the gems perform menial tasks for them, or having them entertain them when bored

the gems being recovering r*dqueers and/or f*lt members and the diamond giving them a safer outlet to express their desire to be influenced/changed/owned/etc

the gems wanting to be "owned" and "used" for any reason, really

the diamond making decrees of how the gems should behave, within reason

everyone can coin nichegroups, some nuance/info and post templates are under the cut:

Thing Nichegroup: a(n) All-Ages | 16+ | 18+ relationship dynamic agreed upon in a group of people where one (or more) person(s) are | is the "[thing]", and the others are the "[thing]".

if it's Fiction-Based, add "akin to the relationship between a [thing1] and their [thing2] in [media]."

this may include, but isn't limited to:

basically, here i just list things that occur to me that might make someone seek this out. for example, someone who is pokemon alterhuman might seek out a pokemon related nichegroup because they miss being on a team and want that relationship with a trainer and the rest of their party again, one where they explore, have allegiance to the trainer and obey them, but have their own life and personality still. and then i go, okay, so pokemon don't exist in the real world, how can they emulate this online or offline?

if i know of atypical dysphoria related terms like dissomei, desirdae, non rq transid, alterpathy, etc, i will also include those

if i know of, or can find on @tertiary-attraction-archive or @alteraffectis, an attraction that involves wanting to do or be [thing this term describes], i will add that

and then i also try to think of "what is something that's not considered 'healthy' by normal people's standards but could easily be replicated with care and consent to make people with atypical dysphoria happy?"

[and then please link to this coining post and tag me]

other notes:

every rule about age ratings i already mentioned for nichelinks still applies here. if it involves erotic content, it's automatically 18+. if it involves modifying someone's identity or training them, it's automatically 16+. i will continue to update the faq on the nichelink carrd to add a nichegroup page, so i really implore you to read that over if you haven't yet.

there is some crossover between nichegroups and nichelinks, and if you aren't 100% sure whether your relationship should be one or the other, that's okay. and: people in a nichegroup can also be in individual nichelinks, whether separate from the nichegroup's theme or related to it.

nichegroups should never encourage harm on purpose. by nature, this term cannot include asking your nichegroupies to self injure, not drink or eat, or engage with content that will trigger their delusions or triggers. please affirm your identities within reason.

for the reasons above, please do not make nichegroups based on cults.

i haven't finished it yet, but a template for the flag will be in the archive soon.

tagging: @nichelinker | @radiomogai | @relationship-type-archive | @beyond-mogai-pride-flags // ask to be untagged

everyone can coin but i would like to "claim" the cat colony one, i have some ideas for it so i want to be the one to do it lol.

[flagtism]

praised & praiser flags.

meant to be used for identifying as (a) praised/praiser. made with the loben/praisen attraction partner terms in mind but not exclusive.

tagging @radiomogai.

[dreamliner-bah]

✈ ⋮ Welcome aboard, rice!

☁ ⋮ First class w/ extra labels + music add-on as my first entry (prompt 1) for @dinonuggets-bah's 100 follower event!

✦ · Names: Adorette · Annie · Arlo · Bambi · Bowie · Chalmer · Clemmie · Cooper · Denver · Emma · Finn · Floyd · Ford · Gabby · Jaime · Juno · Tacey · Zavier.

✦ · Pronouns: She/her · he/him · pro/protect · care/cares.

✦ · Age: 20s.

✦ · Gender: Bigender · girlboy · gender non-conforming.

✦ · Orientation: Bisexual · demi-romantic · fragarian · objectum.

✦ · Extra labels: Offis · auxilior · tutelary · loben · instinic · silly attraction · veilic · alteraffectis · weaponwieldus · weapum · soundrum · music equipment objectum · paleotherian · archetrope · caregiver (in the regressor community sense) · big sister/brother cg · protective big sister/brother cg · playmate.

✦ · Alterhuman identities: saber-tooth cat therian · knight archetrope.

✦ · Source: Rice (food) · this post.

✦ · Roles: Physical protector · emotional protector.

✦ · Sign-offs: 🛡️ · 🍚 · 🌾 · 🛡️🍚 · 🛡️🌾.

✦ · Typing: veeery casual, only capitalizes names and for Emphasis. uses proper punctuation, though! likes to use "lol" and smiley emoticons :D a lot.

✦ · Speech: Considerably talkative and pretty giggly at times.

✦ · Likes: Felines · music equipment · physical music media (DVDs, tapes, vinyl) · comics.

✦ · Hobbies: Roleplaying/play-pretend · board games · pencil & crayon drawing.

✦ · Music: Starlight by Muse · Knights of Cydonia by Muse · In Clover by Joywave · Traveling at Speed of Light by Joywave · Sleepytime Fantasy by Joywave · The Apology by The Heavy · What Makes a Good Man? by The Heavy.

✦ · Personality: She's very protective of those in her life, but is also very lighthearted and playful! Getting to enjoy fun times with someone means a lot to him, and he's always down to just hang out.

✦ · Faceclaims:

(Drawn by myself!)

✦ · Graphics:

✦ · Fancy icons:

[pawette]

Loben Attraction

❝ Loben Attraction is a form of emotional attraction and desire to praise a specific individual. One who experiences loben attraction may desire a preisic relationship, or simply desire to praise the target of ones attraction. Some indicators one is experiencing loben attraction is feeling excited, fuzzy, overjoyed, and/or simply desiring to praise a specific person. A loben crush may be called a preis, while a loben partner may be called a praiser or praised. ❞ — @pawette

[revenant-coining]

Lobendernic

[ pt: Lobendernic ]

[ID: a rectangular flag with 7 equally-sized horizontal lines. colors are in this order from top to bottom and reflected after the last listed color: blue, light blue, pale orange, orange. in the center of the flag is a diamond symbol. the outline is blue and is filled with pale orange. End ID]

Lobendernic: an aldernic term for one is or wants to be the embodiment / personification of loben (link) attraction, or when one has or wants to have a body that is connected to loben attraction.

Etymology: loben, (al)dernic

@radiomogai , @imawanokiwaaa

[ID: a pink line divider with a pink and purple sun in the middle. End ID]

[chargedeck]

ᓚᘏᗢ — All Our Labels — ♡

（⌒_⌒）GENDERS !

tmascneu / tneumasc. tboy / tman. aesthetigender. xenogender [hoard]. boyic. boy+. bixenary / xenbinary. male. sortabinary. MtM. AFAB man. genderspirit. boybase. admasculinity. boycreature. monsterboy.

each label has its own definition, feel free to ask for it（⌒_⌒)

୧( ˙ᵕ˙ )୨ SEXUALITIES !

achillean / mlm / nblm. omniromantic. asexual. hyperace. acespec. greysexual / graysexual. sensexual. polarsexual. vexesexual. myresexual. amberic. rosesexual. hyperace. semiasexual. reciprosexual. aziacean / qlw. lilacean / qlm.

each label has its own definition, feel free to ask for it ୧( ˙ᵕ˙ )୨

/⁠ᐠ⁠｡⁠ꞈ⁠｡⁠ᐟ⁠\ PREFERENCES !

polyamorous / polyamory. polygamish. omnimasc. male lean omni. cedural attraction. T4T. T4T polyamorous / polyamory. loben attraction. preisen attraction.

each label has its own definition, feel free to ask for it /⁠ᐠ⁠｡⁠ꞈ⁠｡⁠ᐟ⁠\

( ｡˃▿˂ )੭ꠥ⁾⁾ OTHERKIN !

aldernic. alterhuman. fictionkin.

each label has its own definition, feel free to ask for it ( ｡˃▿˂ )੭ꠥ⁾⁾

(⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠) ALDERNIC !

alderanthayn. aldernoid.

each label has its own definition, feel free to ask for it (⁠≧⁠▽⁠≦⁠)

ꉂ(ˊᗜˋ*) ALTERHUMAN !

ghostkin. werewolfkin. batkin. werebatkin.

each label has its own definition, feel free to ask for it ꉂ(ˊᗜˋ*)

…⁠ᘛ⁠⁐̤⁠ᕐ⁠ᐷ FICTIONKIN !

★ selfhood/ID & ☆ high kin

♡ medium kin

♡ Michelangelo / Mikey / Mike

source: teenage mutant ninja turtles ( tmnt ) 2012, 2007 & 2003!

🎉 <- using this when i kinshift!

kinmem: sometimes!

♡ reginald / reggie

source: julie and the phantoms ( jatp )!

🎸 <- using this when i kinshift!

kinmem: sometimes!

★☆ gareth / gareth the great

source: stranger things 4 ( st4 )!

🥁 <- using this when i kinshift!

kinmem: often!

★☆ klaus / klausie / seance / number four

source: the umbrella academy ( tua )!

🪦/4<- using this when i kinshift!

kinmem: often!

☆ eddie / eddie the banished

source: stranger things 4 ( st4 )!

🎲 <- using this when i kinshift!

kinmem: often!

sometimes we will use “we” for us for comfort and to refer to both me and fickins! feel free to ask us anything you want honestly, im fine w both sfw n nsfw questions but for nsfw only if youre around bodys age ( 16-17 ) …⁠ᘛ⁠⁐̤⁠ᕐ⁠ᐷ

[nichelink]

Diamond+Pearl: a 16+ nichelink relationship/relationship dynamic where one person in the relationship takes the role of the "pearl", and the other/s are the "diamond," akin to the relationship between a pearl and a diamond who owns them in "Steven Universe."

this may include, but isn't limited to:

the pearl being kin/stel/introject/etc of a pearl, and/or the diamond being kin/stel/introject/etc of a diamond

the diamond being intusharmful, desirmanipulator, etc or the pearl being desirharmed, desirmanipulated, etc

the pearl wanting to be "owned" and "used" for any reason, really

tertiary or alteraffectis attraction terms like performer, bonding, evoic, oric, aish, loben, preisen, etc

one or both of the people in the relationship using the gem presentation system, being gemhede, crysgema, etc

one or both following diamonds devoted

the diamond dressing up the pearl, shaping them, having the pearl perform menial tasks for them, or having the pearl entertain them when bored

the pearl being a recovering r*dqueer and/or f*lt member and the diamond giving them a safer outlet to express their desire to be influenced/changed/owned/etc

nichelink coining

the flags somewhat inspired mine:

genderpearl

diamonds devoted

grimdiamondauthoric

white diamond

tagging: @relationship-term-archive | @dreaming-of-mogai | @liomogai-hoard | @redacted-coiner

tumblr is still not letting me directly upload images, so i took a screenshot of it and put the full proper flag here:

https://files.catbox.moe/gkxo1c.png

does. anyone want to do this with me. haha just kidding. ...unless?

[revenant-coining]

whats loben attraction?

woop, coined here (link)

Loben Attraction is a form of emotional attraction and desire to praise a specific individual. One who experiences loben attraction may desire a preisic relationship, or simply desire to praise the target of ones attraction. Some indicators one is experiencing loben attraction is feeling excited, fuzzy, overjoyed, and/or simply desiring to praise a specific person. A loben crush may be called a preis, while a loben partner may be called a praiser or praised.

[pawette]

hey I wanted to let you know the Loben Attraction post has the Preiser Attraction definition ^-^

i thought i double checked !! aughh !! ty for letting me know , i'll fix it right now . ♡

[radiomogai]

[PT: Loben Attraction. end PT]

Loben Attraction

❝ Loben Attraction is a form of emotional attraction and desire to praise a specific individual. One who experiences loben attraction may desire a preisic relationship, or simply desire to praise the target of ones attraction. Some indicators one is experiencing loben attraction is feeling excited, fuzzy, overjoyed, and/or simply desiring to praise a specific person. A loben crush may be called a preis, while a loben partner may be called a praiser or praised. ❞ — @pawette