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hinamie · 2 months ago
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together, we do the same thing again //
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styrofauxm · 3 months ago
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Honestly, I am pretty frustrated by the "haha why would anyone hate ace people" responses to Rowling's tweet.
Don't get me wrong, the support is nice. But if you want to be an ally, you have to do so on our terms, not yours. And that means actually engaging with the aspec community, not just posting positivity every now and again. And what those responses highlight to me is what I've known for a while; you guys only support aspec people when it's easy and convenient.
It's easy to support aspec people when it's J.K. Rowling being awful again. It's easy to support us when it's just reblogging an "aspec people are queer" post.
But what about when we are talking about amatonormativity and the relationship hierarchy? When we are discussing the enforcement of compulsory sexuality? When we are pushing for greater awareness and support for aspec identities that are not asexuality or aromanticism? When we are criticizing terminology that you use but harms us? Because I can tell you right now, I rarely see allo people engage with those posts.
Why do people hate asexuality (or any other aspec identity)? Because it challenges the societal norms that benefit them. And that is uncomfortable and scary. So they turn to hate and oppression in order to assure that the changes we push by just openly existing never happen.
That means that to be a good aspec ally, you can't just make a positivity post every now and again, and you can't just laugh about how stupid aphobes are. You have to openly challenge the societal norms that harm us, even if they benefit you. Including but not limited to:
The idea that romantic and sexual attraction is the default state of being (amatonormativity)
The idea that a romantic, sexual relationship completes a person
People in marriages receiving special privileges and benefits
The idea that platonic, familial, etc. attraction are default states of being
The idea that not feeling some form of attraction must be compensated for through another form of attraction
The idea that love (not just romantic) is inherently morally good, while not feeling love is inherently a moral failing
The idea that any one form of relationship is inherently more important or deeper than any other (relationship hierarchy)
The idea that any one thing makes someone human
The idea that not having sex is shameful or infantile
The idea that having sex without romantic love is callous
Gendered divides of sexual and romantic attraction
Other aspec people please feel free to add on/challenge any of this. Allo (not aspec) people please feel free to ask questions.
Additions:
Addition from @blkaroculture
Addition (in tags) from @fluffytimearts
Addition (in tags) from @cjreblogsthings
I've placed some resources for learning more about these topics under the cut.
Amatonormativity:
[PT: Amatonormativity:]
1. Amatonormativity Coining
2. Introduction to Amatonormativity
3. Challenging Amatonormativity
4. Effects of Amatonormativity and Compulsive Sexuality on Asexual and Aromantic College Students
5. Effects of Amatonormativity On Black, Polyamorous Men
6. Essay on Amatonormativity From a Aroallo, Loveless Perspective
Marriage Benefits:
[PT: Marriage Benefits:]
1. Article about Singlism and Marital Privilege
Other Aspec Identities:
[PT: Other Aspec Identities:]
1. Aplatonicism
2. Afamilialism
Loveless:
[PT: Loveless:]
1. Loveless articles on the AUREA website
2. Essay on Amatonormativity From a Aroallo, Loveless Perspective (repeat from Amatonormativity section)
3. Follow-up Essay on Lovelessness and Aroallo Antagonism
4. Results of a Survey of Loveless People (part 2 is linked instead of part 1 as part 1 is mostly demographic information)
5. Guide to Writing Loveless Characters (it focuses on fictional characters so should not be taken as a catch-all for real people, but it still has a ton of good information about lovelessness and loveless antagonism)
Compulsory Sexuality:
[PT: Compulsory Sexuality:]
1. Effects of Amatonormativity and Compulsive Sexuality on Asexual and Aromantic College Students (repeat from Amatonormativity section)
2. Breakdown of Compulsory Sexuality
Relationship Hierarchy vs Relationship Anarchy:
[PT: Relationship Hierarchy vs Relationship Anarchy:]
1. Relationship Anarchy Coining
2. Breakdown of Relationship Anarchy
3. Issues Presented by the Relationship Hierarchy
Oppression:
[PT: Oppression:]
1. Aphobia Masterpost
2. Asexual History and Oppression
3. Asexual Theory 101
Miscellaneous:
[PT: Miscellaneous:]
1. Research on Aromantics
2. Ace in the UK Research and Activism ft. Yasmin Benoit
3. Asexual History and Oppression (repeat from Oppression section)
4. Asexual Theory 101 (repeat from Oppression section)
Books and Video Essays:
[PT: Books and Video Essays:]
An Ace Discourse Retrospective by Jenny Geist
Ace: What Asexuality Reveals about Desire, Society, and the Meaning of Sex by Angela Chen
Refusing Compulsory Sexuality: A Black Asexual Lens on Our Sex-Obsessed Culture by Sherronda J. Brown
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c-kiddo · 3 months ago
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guys she split the apple down symmetrical lines and what she found was kind of scary made her just want to drive to the skyship the skyship the skyshiiiip the skyship. lalala old drawing i will force myself to post so here it is and you see it
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misguidedtreestump · 2 months ago
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Unit 2
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femmejesterart · 2 months ago
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Rinaa🩵💚
If you like my art, consider kofi!!
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mistbornthief · 6 months ago
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"two years later" cowards just wanna cop out of Gi-hun having neon red hair the entire season like COWARDS
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l4tchk3y · 7 months ago
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Taking mission orders from a very rude little man.
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modernchemical · 7 months ago
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maybe i was born to meet you.
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br3adtoasty · 7 months ago
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rendering practice with lady medea
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lovelydragon003 · 5 months ago
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BABIES FIRST PORTAL!!! i actually rendered smth for once do u guys like it...
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c-kiddo · 3 months ago
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i bet cad falls asleep during tmn group conversations and theyre all just like . oh. ok. hold him so she doesnt fall on the ground. also i think that instead of the rly straight yass but kind of lifeless hair in his level 20 art it should be big frizzy 70s hippie hair instead 🙂‍↕️
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koolaidashley · 10 months ago
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EWWWWWWWWWWW dtiys ☺️☺️☺️☺️☺️🧡🧡 HAPPY 2 YEARS CUPCAKESLUSHIE AND EW ‼️‼️‼️
@cupcakeslushie
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femmejesterart · 5 months ago
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Some pearlz
If you like my art, consider kofi!!
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horrorpolls · 2 months ago
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lonely-abstraction · 6 months ago
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☆ New DJ oc ! ☆
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What do you think of her ?
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thatneoncrisis · 3 months ago
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finished my homework just in time to force you all to look at this
any mention of ianthe will be met with a loud wet fart sound
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