#absolute cesspool

[13tinysocks]

Creepypasta headcannon blogs with MINORS DNI in their bio with an icon drawn by a 16 year old

[rebelcompany]

Logged onto twitter for the first time in 8 years and was absolutely bombarded by hard right and conspiracy content

[fiona-fififi]

Call me homophobic, but I don't actually think it's great representation to stick a complex, dynamic, newly-realized bisexual character permanently with a flat, boring, underdeveloped love interest just because that was the first guy who showed interest.

[silent-wolf]

sometimes i forget the batkids are just a bunch of theatre kids which makes it funnier when u remember that gotham's entire justice system is run by a bunch of costumed role players

edit: wtf i didnt expect this to gain sm traction, but check out this post. pls dont let it flop

[chewyhanniebug]

finding out about the latest villain infighting is always so funny like what do you MEAN people are getting pissy over jungji being ??? jungji ?????

[rosemaryentombed]

thinking about jonathan and martha in the absolute universe…… i think it would be so cool if they adopted kal even tho he’s a grown man. reminds me of the earth 2 smallville stuff when clark inevitably finds his way to jonathan, even tho the clark of that world’s a luthor and ultraman. i know in the mirrorverse, the kents aren’t always the best ppl, but i hope in absolute superman, they’re good people 😭

[orcelito]

Also I just need to say it but I absolutely despise the tumblr popular funnyman thing of being mean just for the hell of it or because they think it's funny as if that's not a real person behind there with real feelings

Like fuck dude I only have a few hundred followers but I'm so careful these days to be conscientious of what I say and expose about others (in terms of screenshots and whatever else) just in case it could have a negative effect on someone. And then these very popular blogs are posting cruelty left and right, most of it not even justified, while their followers sit at their heels and praise them and call them bullied because some people Dared to politely point out that they'd done something cruel.

It's irresponsible, & it honestly feels like a cult mentality. Absolutely insufferable.

[the-kipsabian]

i feel like wrestling fans in particular should periodically be reminded of the saying "dont yuck someones yum" tbh

[sunlitsighs]

unfortunately in one of those moods where the desire to bang my head on a desk is deep and overpowering

[satanstruemistress]

I’m gonna start replying to awful wrestling takes with this.

[borderlands-confess]

I love borderlands. I love all series (not ntftbl.) even if they're not perfect. I joined this fandom pretty late. So I didn't realize how bad it had got, because I never saw it in it's light, it's best era.. It's crumbling and is about to fall and I didn't want to believe it until very now.

These games.. Made me realize something about myself. And I grew up a little. So I'm proud to know about these and to be a part of them.

Usually nothing catches my eye. It's hard to find something that will keep me entertained for long enough.. But borderlands? I'm pretty sure I'm gonna be here for a good long time. But that's what I'm afraid of, too. I love it, and I want to stay. But staying where you can almost predict that the roof will fall and crush you.. I don't want to, but I can look up and see the cracks and pieces already falling off.

Maybe it's not that bad. Maybe it won't fall apart. But now it just feels like a lie.

I wanted to love it, I wanted to be a part of it. I still do.

It seemed to me like a gold. And I don't know, whether those were just pink glasses or it actually wasn't that bad just a year ago.. But now I can see that. I can see that it's not gold. It's just a cheap amethyst. But I love amethysts. So, I guess that's why I'm gonna stay. And even if I'm afraid, I want to watch how it will end. I want to watch, whether a new era will come or it's gonna be the end.

Uh.. All I wanted to say.. It's shitty and fandom is probably gonna die, but I love it and the games, and I'm afraid to stay alone in this pile of shit even if I kinda adore it.

It wasn't a necessity to stay anonymous, but I'm pretty shy so, yeah, sorry

P.S: Stay strong. Your work means a lot.

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[nebulouswinds]

As I get deeper into wedding planning, I am realizing that the conflation of legal, civil, spiritual, religious, and social weddings is really causing distress for people. The frequency of complaint about separating aspects of the wedding in a way that is meaningful and effective for the couple is truly astounding.

Generally, there are four aspects in which a marriage is validated (in NA / Xtian-based systems): legally, religiously, socially, and reproductively. Not all marriages will include all aspects, but it is generally understood that the normative marriage will be legally recognized, including be recorded by the appropriate government and confer certain benefits upon the married couple; religiously structured, being performed within a religious tradition and conferring particular responsibilities upon the couple; socially recognized, where the couple is treated as a unit within social circles, with certain boundaries applying to thenunion; and reproductively - the couple are assumed to be having sex and eventually children.

To examine the different weddings:

The legal wedding is filing the marriage with the local court.

The civil wedding is the signing of the contract, often but not always done in a ritual manner including ritual phrasing.

The spiritual wedding is the joining of the couple in a manner consistent with their spiritual beliefs, but not necessarily within a religious tradition.

The religious wedding, naturally, is the ceremony following a specific religious tradition the couple (hopefully) subscribes to.

The social wedding is the representation of the couple as a married couple to society at large.

Often these weddings are comingled with each other, with a single ceremony fulfilling multiple categories, but they need not be beholden to each other. And none is lesser than another. Each is both entirely a wedding and also incompletely a wedding; one form may lead to another, as in a common law wedding.

Some of these aspects are not equitably available to a couple for various reasons (a non-religious couple; a couple who rely on disability benefits; a couple where one is unable to receive a divorce; and so on).

Bitches haven't a fucking leg to stabd on when they complain a couple have completed one (or more) forms of wedding before another. Stop fucking complaining about the "elopement" (signing the wedding contract and filing it wkth the court in order to receive marital benefits). Stop fucking complaining about the "elopement" (holding a closed religious/spiritual ceremony with only close family and friends, or those who are of the same religion). Just fucking enjoy the g-ddamn social wedding (a party celebrating the new marriage). Just fucking recognize that every part of a wedding the couple find important are critical to the wedding. Are part of the ceremony. Go eat your fucking cake and stop complaining about your sister having a ceremony last year for the legal benefits and having the celebration now, when it is financially or socially feasible.

Do you think you need to watch the consummation too?

Just as you won't be invited to stand before the marital bed, you weren't invited to sit in the courtroom. What the fuck does it matter? Why do you have to watch the ceremony (what do you mean by ceremony? the religious wedding? the courtroom? the months or years of discussion beforehand?) in order to take part in the social wedding? In order to eat cake and dance and help build the couple's household goods?

Good fucking hell.

[archliches]

god if my basic needs were taken care of i would quit this job right now. right fucking now!!

[robotleech]

good lord what the fuck is tumblr tv…. how many times do we have to teach you this lesson old man?

[jimaxjamiejoanjimangelo]

ya know,

liking a conventionally attractive character while you’re on the aro/ace spec is a very cool and interesting experience bc everyone is making thirst trap edits and humping their phones (you know the ones) while you’re just thinking about what they’d make for breakfast.

It’s an experience that is both weirdly validating of one’s sexuality (yes, these thirst traps make me uncomfortable) and also very invalidating (why do I like him, do I like him bc he has abs or bc he’s funny and pathetic) I could 100% be alone in this, everyone experiences a character differently, I just thought it was neat.

[steve-brules-rules]

I got a Bluesky account >:] my bluesky will function the same as my Twitter: it’s where I’ll post my art and not much else ! Hoping I can find other w101 artists to follow over there too 🫶