#and those limits include grotesque and inappropriate behaviour that very much should not be talked about

[all-too-unwell-13]

i hate toxic fandom spaces, and honestly, that's why i've stopped posting sm about certain fandoms that i used to love. i don't understand the insane amount of stigma surrounding character perceptions; everyone is perfectly entitled to creating their own idea for these characters, whether it's canon-adjacent or not. that's meant to be part of the fun of said fandom spaces—people can share their individual insights and thoughts on characters, ships, dynamics, etc. but now there's so much shame in perceiving a character differently to the way the majority of the fandom does, for example.

you're allowed to see a character differently. ship different characters. perceive character dynamics differently. and you're allowed to talk about it. that's kind of the entire point!!!!!