#commitment phobic
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I know it's certainly been said before, but I just know in my heart of hearts that ronan (impulsive, romantic, religious, all or nothing) woke up with a ring in his palms the morning after he and adam kissed for the first time. and then he probably didn't dream for a while, after his mom and gansey and cabeswater and noah - but once he started again and also started sharing a bed with adam I just know that he dreamt rings again, and I just know at some point adam caught onto it, and I just know adam (practical, logical, love-skeptic, took a year to consider his feelings before making a move) freaked the fuck out. and I think that's hilarious.
#trc#pynch#don't TDT @ me I'm not interested#but I just think it's such an interesting dynamic - ronan doesn't think anything through and adam overthinks EVERYTHING#and in trc we see that balances out; adam gets to carefully and throughouly consider his own feelings#without having the chance to doubt ronan's affections because ronan is SO consistent with his staring and gestures#and I think adam's obsessive independence and absolutely shit family history will make him soooo commitment phobic and wary of marriage#but it's just impossible to not have to evaluate your feelings and have necessary conversations about it with yourself#when your boyfriend consistently manifests his desire to marry you lmao#pynch dynamic is adam trying to convince himself he's unknowable or lovable#and ronan annoying the fuck out of him with concrete proof it's fundamentally untrue#when your bf is so annoying it makes you a better and more emotionally healthy person 🤗
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Round 6, Hill Farm 6 / 8
Eisu knows better than to make any remarks about this dalliance to Drustan. One, he probably wouldn't listen; and two, might as well let him learn from his mistakes, eh?
Diseta: Sun, if you get fish guts on that dress, you have to wash it.
Sun: Ughhhh, yes, Mum.
Diseta: I guess at least one of us was fine with this. :|
Jia: Those flowers look so pretty on you.
Sun: Thank you!
Jia: Hug attack!!
Sun: Augh! If you knock me into the water, Jia, I swear!
Drustan had too much mead. :'(
Gytha: Weakling!
You're one to talk, girl.
Jia: Where is she?
Sun, where did you get that from? I expected you to just show up on a horse. 😭
#TS2#eulalia: Veridia#sims: Eisu#sims: Xiang#sims: Drustan#sims: Jia#sims: Sun#sims: Orla#sims: Diseta#sims: Gytha#actually if Drustan has the commitment phobic trait maybe dating someone already married is perfect
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I swear every time poor Dylan's phone rings in the middle of the night another parent passed away. And this time it was our ILLUSTRIOUS FOUNDER,
THE ICONIC LENNOX RIVERS
The funeral was very classy, with many family and friends in attendance.
#obv dylan had to serve a Look for her mom's funeral#also girl... he dont wanna see pics of your family HE WANTS YOU#invisibly thread theory but its just Nyon's commitment phobic ass being in love with Dylan since he rejected her back in high school#the sims 4#ts4#ts4 gameplay#rivers world tour#ts4 legacy#rivers legacy#rwt#rivers legacy gen 2#rivers 2#dylan rivers#hendrix rivers#lennon rivers
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my avenbee board is so ridiculous bc i have such a hard time seeing him doing like...intimate couple things that it really limits the pics i can save
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Finally, Letting Loose...
Letting the kids get dirty, letting the good times roll, letting their family be the secure unit it was always meant to be!
Previously. (After the Rain Comes Rainbows...) | Next. (Too Free??)
#serial romantic or commitment-phobic??#ts4 mm gameplay#ts4 screenshots#ts4 simblr#ts4 gameplay#ts4 legacy#ts4 scenery#the sims 4#sims 4#ts4#simblr#ts4 legacy gameplay#sims 4 screenshots#sims 4 legacy#sims 4 gameplay#Black simblr#Black simmer#Black sims 4#nyrarachelle plays.#thedysonsistersts4
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the housing market sucks for all of us for a lot of reasons, but a reason near and dear to my heart is that i should be living alone in a small wartime house that i have all to myself to do whatever i please with and invite over whomever i want, instead of spending $30 on taxi fare to go fuck somebody on the other side of town because because we're both stuck living with other people but his roommates just left for work
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we don't talk about hawkeye wanting to marry nurse erika enough tbh
#for a commitment-phobic guy he sure does have a history of trying to commit#hawkeye pierce#my mash#helen speaks#4077 nurses#sorry for putting this in his tag i just like to keep my shir organised :(
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#ok i don't think there's a het explanation for ''wicked''#i didn't ship them growing up but. I See It Now#in the movie tho imo elphaba does like fiyero. just also glinda#truly a story that would have a lot less tension if ppl were poly#(& yes i caught the guys being into fiyero; imo that's bc this movie will not commit to gelphie & wants to not look home of phobic)
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having a set end date on a relationship is not something i’ve ever done before but now it does sort of feel good. it’s like ok so we’re only going to be in the same country for x amount of time so let’s just date until you leave. why have i not thought of this before
#as long as i don’t get overly attached then we’re good#hopefully not a problem because i’m a very avoidant and commitment-phobic person and i run away when i experience emotion#it’s like i’ve got two and a half months to treat this person like a goddess#i’m laying that shit ON. and then it’s over
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i should work on art is dead……………
#the first iwbft fanfic i ever wrote and the one i’m struggling the most to continue#it is just so hard just let me start another wip pls 😭😭#i’m commitment phobic pls
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Top, Mew, you guys are very cute but if you could just slow your roll for five fucking seconds.
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just saw this ss in my gallery. i almost had what i wanted but he had to be a commitment-phobic-mfer 🤡
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five minutes of honest conversation and ill want to marry you
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Blocked that anon. Sorry that i think rounding up an entire culture into re-education camps and forcibly sterilizing them is fucking evil. Get your tankie ass off my page. Bet you think Tibet shldn't be its own nation either huh.
#'si.nophibic' go fuck yourself like actually.#the government in ch.ina commits human rights violations daily. criticizing a government does not make you any kind of -ist or -phobic#you loon#same fucking rhetoric zio.nists use to deflect criticism no less. 'you criticized the government so you hate the people there!' no bitch#thats a completely different sentence fuck are you on about
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I don't mean to speculate on the personal identity of strangers but i do think somebody explaining the concept of aromanticism to him might improve captainsparklez's life
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When people say you're an interesting person but then don't spend the rest of their life with you, it feels like being lied to, and that sucks.
Like, don't give me any attention if you're gonna turn around and also give it to other things. Don't lead me on, because even though I know I can't be loved, there's still a part of me that wants to be.
Blehhh. Relationships are tough.
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