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#healing#trauma#grief#recovery#constructive anger#feelings#your feelings are valid#your pain is valid#your trauma is valid#self care#reparenting#mental health#glimmers#creativity
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How Anger Shaped the World: The Fire That Forged History
It’s true—anger has a bad reputation. It’s blamed for wars, feuds, and ruined relationships. But what if I told you that without anger, civilization might never have advanced? That the world as we know it was built, in part, by the fire of indignation? Let's take a journey through time and science to see how this force shaped human history.
#anger and history#power of anger#revolutions and anger#anger in science#historical impact of anger#constructive anger#how anger shapes the world#role of anger in change#anger and innovation
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I think one thing genuinely missing from Veilguard was court intrigue. This is of course true from the perspective of the events in game but it is also, crucially, true from the glimpses we see into Solas/The Dread Wolfs past prior to the veil coming down.
One of the most intriguing little moments in DAI is when Solas begins waxing poetic about how he missed court intrigue, politics, how these places linger with sex. If you call him on that and ask hey WHEN did you experience that, he immediately gives you disapproval. This is the closest the inquisitor can get prior to trespasser to catching him in an outright lie and KNOWING it.
Further, the dalish tales that we have heard about Solas say that he could walk in multiple worlds, and pass himself off as whatever the moment called for; that's one of his trickster aspects.
Yet in absolutely all of the visions we see in the past the rebellion is literally just fighting or breaking into a location to fight in there. The closest we get to that not being the case is breaking into ghilianhans lab but even then it's just fight fight fight the whole way through. When Solas and Elganan are speaking to one another, they frame it as them being family or siblings having an argument rather than as the sort of political rivals that I had imagined from DAI.
Part of me wonders if this was yet another sacrifice of Joplin (the original plan for DA4) which was a sneaky heist game. Joplin sounded like it would take a lead on some of its major missions from missions in the past like Wicked Eyes Wicked Hearts in DAI and Mark of the Assassin in DA2. DAtV simplified a lot of those concepts down, making the game polished in terms of technical gameplay but lacking in critical roleplay decisions which I think are more key to a game focused around politics and court intrigue. The decision to make Solas a lone actor rather than the leader of the dreadwolfs agents also slashed the chance at this; making the game the first in the series where none of the companions have ulterior motives in joining your group/none of them are lying to you.
But ultimately I do think it's sad we never truly got to see Solas act the dreadwolf in regard to court politics. It sounded like he really did miss it and it sounded like a side of him that we had only glimpsed briefly in DAI; I was excited to see it in all it's glory.
#dragon age#datv#dai#da2#i guess this is#veilguard critical#although i mean this in a more constructive criticism way#im sorta past the outright anger#and more on the 'noting down ideas for my eventual post dai fanfic' of what i think worked and also didnt work#solas
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fuck.
#animal death#i had a lot of waves of sadness early on when he was hospitalized.#going from being sad that we might only get one to two years with him to hoping we'd get to bring him home at all#processing all of the guilt and heartache and anger#feeling every time like i had done something constructive. opened a box‚ pulled out its contents‚ found a place for them all‚#put the box away‚ rested a moment. rinse repeat#or...taken a bite of a big meal in front of me. something nasty that i dont want to eat but which i have to#bite. chew. chew. chew. swallow. wash it down. rinse repeat.#it was miserable. thanks to that process i...i wasnt *ready*‚ when he started to go downhill. but i was more ready#and then when the time came‚ and he was lying slumped on the floor‚ face in the carpet‚ barely able to purr when i pulled him into my lap#i was ready.#but theres still more to process. the look on his face when they took him back for euthanasia#[the vet said that the animal often struggles more if the owners are there for it. i imagine they sense the owners' distress.]#theyd taken him back for bloodwork many times. i wonder if hed learned from that‚ that he'd get held for a second‚ pricked‚ and returned#i wonder if he believed it would just be a moment and hed be back in our arms#its a really really really sad thought. but. also a comforting one#that maybe he wasnt scared. maybe‚ if he was capable of it‚ he thought of us.#i know we loved him. i know he loved us‚ if in a different way‚ a cat way‚ not a human one#i hope he knew we loved him.#in the end i held him in my lap and he put his paws on my husband's‚ too. he wanted to touch both of us. and he purred.#he felt safe with us...he wanted to touch us and be with us. he felt content when he did. thats the same as knowing we loved him i think.#waves of sadness. over and through. tides and seafoam. rinse repeat.#this too shall pass
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I wonder what the conversation between Richard and Henry’s father would have been like if the Greek class had actually fled to South America…I think about this like once a month
#blab#the secret history#tsh#dark academia#henry winter#richard papen#I imagine Henry’s father with anger issues idk why#just some big mean red faced construction guy
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Rant under the cut (people telling me to change things about my blog [like the way I tag things???] and just general Rings of Power hate towards me
Hey just so you know, it's not my job to cater my personal blog (that I made for fun) to your personal preferences. This is a Rings of Power & LOTR blog. I am going to post about both because it's my blog. If you only follow me for my Rings of Power stuff, great! If you only follow me for my LOTR stuff? Also great! follow me for both? Awesome! Spectacular even! but like, If you don't like one of the fandoms I post about, then block the tags or just ignore it instead of going onto MULTIPLE OF MY POSTS and messaging me, telling me what to change about MY BLOG.
This is all because I tagged something Rings of Power related with a LOTR tag and a few people got mad at me (comments and messages) saying that "The Rings of Power isn't LOTR??? Can you not tag it like that I don't want to see Rings of Power stuff. I follow for LOTR" like what???
They exist in the same universe whether you like it or not?? And lots of people tag TROP stuff with LOTR tags too. Plus, sometimes I am talking about both in the same post (like comparing and contrasting things that are the same or different from the show and movies) so I am going to use both tags for that. Besides, why are you telling a complete stranger who posts her stuff for fun to make her blog okay for YOU? I make my blog and posts for me so... Maybe just block me and move on if you don't like how I post things, or tag things.
Also, it's not my problem if you don't like Rings of Power?? Don't interact with it then?? Like, you can control that? My blog is pretty clearly a Rings of Power blog. I literally have Morfydd Clark's Galadriel as my pfp lol
If you don't like it don't interact with it. I could care less if somebody hates the show I genuinely enjoy because it doesn't affect my enjoyment if someone dislikes it. Just don't be a bully and don't tell me how to run my blog because it's upsetting when the only comments I get are "I don't like this show can you stop posting about it," and "Don't use those tags pls I don't like seeing Rings of Power on my feed."
Cater your experience to you and I'll cater my experience to me. If you are going to be entitled and tell me how to run my blog, I am just going to block you <3
If you read this to the end, you deserve a The Rings of Power Galadriel for your troubles.
#sorry for the rant lol#I usually don't like to post stuff like this but it has happened multiple times with different people and I am just fed up#Don't tell me to not to post rings of power stuff on my rings of power blog#It's just weird to be honest lol#especially when my blog is clearly for TROP stuff#and don't tell me how to tag things either#It's my blog I'll do whatever I like thanks#If I was making a legitimate mistake on my blog I am 100% open to constructive criticism#but if you're going to be rude about something that you can control by blocking or ignoring me than I'm just going to block you#this is a rings of power blog as well as a lotr blog so i'm going to tag it and post on it as such#and if trop bothers you than cater your enjoyment of the LOTR universe to you#I don't care if you hate trop just don't take out your anger on those who DO like the show#Post your opinions on your own blog#don't tell me to change mine#blue blathers#the rings of power#lotr#lord of the rings#rings of power#rings of power positivity#trop#<- using both trop and lotr tags because I'm feeling spiteful lol#sorry for the spelling and grammer mistakes I was angry haha
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for all its flaws the MCU genuinely had incredible potential, it had a good cast and good directors, it was building on and fleshing out the source material in interesting new ways, it was character-driven and the characters were compelling, it was building an intertwined world and for a while it really did work, and despite its current reputation even the visuals could be striking and the humour could be effective. but it built up these interesting stories and it squandered them over and fucking over because above all else the MCU is run by spineless fucking cowards
#space viking tag#constructive complaining#stage of grief: anger#they killed my favourite character four fucking times and for WHAT.#original thor: ruined. reboot thor: ruined. IW thor: ruined. EG thor: ruined. the fucking loki show: ruined. LET THEM OUT#i don't like all these phases and i didn't even like all the original avengers#but the way the mcu drops ANYTHING that isn't maximally popular at a moment's notice and starts again while claiming it's the same thing#is genuinely despicable#have some integrity#have some fucking self-respect
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#current events#kindness#compassion#it matters#be kind to others#be kind to yourself#be kind to the earth#just be kind#activism#compassion fatigue#activism fatigue#self and others#constructive anger#hopepunk
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Minho gets angry when he gets scared
Newt and Alby tried to ease him out of that for years, but living every waking moment in the Maze, that instinctual conversion from terror to fury kept him alive. Kept him moving.
In the Safe Haven, though. With no Grievers or closing Doors? Minho's biggest fear becomes Thomas.
...he could lose him so easily...
Thomas can't seem to convince him that he isn't in the Maze anymore.
#reread the first part of Death Cure and there's one scene where Minho gets angry and has a fight with Newt#and I'm just thinking in my head ''that right there is a man who is fucking terrified''#no seriously#he's losing his best friend and there's nothing he can do to stop it. They're fighting against WCKD#they're literally fighting AGAINST the cure#every step he takes towards freedom is a step close to his best friend's death#anyway that sort of shift from fear to anger inspired this. I bet him and Thomas have loads of fights#before Thomas manages to promise him that Paradise is real. WCKD's dead. there is no simulation. and he isn't going anywhere#tmr minho#maze runner#I don't take constructive criticism because I'm not wrong
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not to demote gwen stacy but tasm petermj … a model x photographer !!!!!!!!!
#the verison i have constructed in my head ….#glorious#reckless traumatised party girl x ex-reckless cutesy anger issues boy . dear Lord#petermj#tasm#the amazing spider man#peter parker#mj watson#my posts
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i think im going to be more publicly nice because im almost a grownup and dont need to be throwing hands over this comic . Will still bitch to my friends
#also if i redirect my anger into making more girlposts it will probably be more constructive#im tired of going apeshit
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i hate him
#vent post#i have never been a violent person. not ever.#i've never been in a fight#nothing like that#and yet#whenever i hear or read anything that man has said. i hear the fucking kill bill sirens in my brain#and i want to tear something apart with my TEETH. until i see BLOOD FLY.#the next four years will be hard#but please god help me use my anger for something constructive
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Just make sure you're not using it to hurt yourself or others.
#anger#constructive anger#healing#recovery#trauma#grief#your feelings are valid#your pain is valid#your trauma is valid#feel your feelings#sit with it#feelings#emotions#boundaries#self respect
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fun fact youre still being a dick if you're a dick to people when they do something wrong accidentally. even if they inconvenience you or make you mad!
this sounds like obvious bullshit "don't suck" advice but ive seen a rise of this kind of thing online lately where someone uses language they dont know is offensive, or accidentally talks over someone, or misses a social cue of some sort (like doesnt notice when someones getting more terse/annoyed if it isnt stated outright, or cant memorize a massive discord blacklist) and is yelled at or called stupid or otherwise like. "everyone knows that" or "it's obviously x"
like. i get its annoying. but for the love of god have some understanding and dont treat people like they intended to personally harm you as your FIRST conclusion
#i say this as a person with anger issues: if you cant contain your anger or annoyance you need to step away#i dont mean dont correct them or anything. i mean be nice when youre correcting them dont say shut up or you suck or whatever#im also not saying dont get firmer when people do the same thing several times#look. stuff slips out sometimes. i of all people should know. im making this post because i couldnt contain my own frustration#and the reason it isnt more strongly worded is because i stepped away and came back to it with a more constructive angle
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“I am the most angriest person in the whole wide world.” I mutter to myself as I tranquilly stir the water for my chamomile and honey tea.
#ghost posts#I however am not allowed to express anger in most ways so I drink hot and bitter tea instead#most days at least sometimes it’s a chamomile day#the local construction is getting to me
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