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God why do I always gravitate towards things with the most toxic, hellscape fandoms? I just wanna look at fanart without stumbling into a dang flame war.
#the people commenting on said fandom get so tiring too#constructive criticism is valid#but full on harassment and bullying is not#learn the difference
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Comic by Shami Stovall on Twitter.
#comic#wwi#historical fiction#there's always something#everyone's a critic#write your story#fuck the critics#some of them do have valid points so learn to know the difference#between constructive comments and just being a dick
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so funny to me how ppl on tumblr will read a post that says, within the post, SEVERAL times, “hey this isn’t super well-thought out discussion and shouldn’t be treated as such i’m just sharing an individual opinion and my word should not be taken as fact” and then refuse to understand that whether they agree or disagree with the op
#marzi speaks#before anyone asks this isn’t a reference to anything in particular. just a trend i’ve noticed here#someone will go ‘i’m kinda emotional rn so this post probably won’t be the most well-constructed i’m kinda just venting’#and then either be like ‘THIS OPINION IS THE ONLY CORRECT OPINION TO HAVE THANK YOU OP FOR BEING RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING AND TEACHING US’#or ‘UMMMM no fuck this. fuck you. this one sentence felt vaguely aggressive to me and therefore you are WRONG and HATEFUL’#‘and you need to apologize to me and everyone else bc you’re being a Shit Person’#like genuinely. i know this is the piss on the poor website but can we learn critical thinking. please#like we need to consider intended message. intended audience. and intended impact#if someone making a vent post on their blog with 20 followers uses highly emotional language#that is not them presenting a subjective argument as objective!#intended message: op is experiencing a negative feeling#intended audience: their 20 followers who know and understand that this is just someone expressing a frustration#intended impact: little to none. maybe receive comfort or validation#not every post made on the internet is someone giving a college lecture or a speech or even standing on a soapbox#it’s like hearing someone mutter to themselves in public and deciding that they were trying to teach a class#also not everyone who disagrees with you is trying to change your mind#that’s another thing i’ve noticed. many folks here view disagreements as a thing to be won and moralized. it’s kinda shit imo#anyways post done. funnily enough i feel the need to disclaim that this is not a smart mars post this is a ‘this thing annoys me’ mars post
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While I understand both Anon's objections and your explanation for the way it is like it is, I gotta admit I'm getting tired of Levi's unending suffering. It's true recovery is not linear, the relapses are fine, but the amount of external shit happening to him is too much too. I really need him to stop suffering. Preferably with a happy ending, but really, at this point, I'd welcome just an ending. I get a little depressed/ anxious with each update when I see there's no final chapter yet, and thus no foreseeable end to the constant whumping. :( I may have met my Angst ceiling.
You're free to stop reading any time you want. It's not like anyone is holding a gun to your head and "forcing" you to read my story. If it's really causing you to feel "depressed" and "anxious", again, it's your responsibility to look out for your own mental health, not mine.
And I'm sorry, but this much bad shit can and does happen to people in real life. If you don't want to read about it, that's fine, and if you don't have the patience to wait for me to get to his eventual recovery, again, you don't have to read it. But I'm not going to tailor my story to your specific needs, I'm afraid.
My answer to that anon ask wasn't a free invite for people to just come in and dump on my story, by the way. I said "constructive criticism". Telling me you get depressed reading my story and telling me you think it's "too much" what Levi is suffering through isn't constructive, it's just criticism.
Stories have to have catalysts for why things happen. Otherwise, there's nothing to hold the readers interest and nothing to drive the story forward. There has to be conflict, whether that's internal or external. There's been maybe 3 or 4 external events that have contributed to Levi's internal issues in my story, so I don't know what you're talking about with there being too much "external shit". Most of the external things that have happened to Levi in my story have been a catalyst for his other mental and physical problems compounding. One is necessary for explaining the other. Both his mental and physical illnesses in my story are the result of one another, being compounded by one another. It's rare for either mental or physical illnesses to exist in a vacuum. They always have a high rate of comorbidity.
Like I said, if you don't enjoy the story anymore, then I don't know why you're still reading it. It's marked as "angst" and "heavy angst", and "hurt/comfort". It has all the appropriate tags. You know what you're getting into, so complaining about the dark content and saying it's "too much" and claiming that it's triggering you in some way isn't valid. That's a you problem.
I think your issue may be that you think a happy ending requires Levi to be fully healed from his trauma, but the reality of trauma is, you never really get rid of it. You learn to live with it, but it never disappears completely. So if you want or expect there to be some miraculous moment of recovery for Levi where he simply no longer suffers from any of the issues I've presented in the story ever again, then I'm afraid you're going to be sorely disappointed, and you should probably just drop it, because I can't and won't give you what you want.
This is meant to be a realistic depiction of chronic mental and physical illness, and in reality, it's often the case that those things remain lifelong problems for people. You can't just hand-wave them away, and I refuse to do so just because my story might make some readers uncomfortable.
#anon asks (I guess)#seems more like hate#but whatever#it never fails#you invite someone to offer their valid constructive criticism#and it attracts all the people who think it's some sort of invite to dump all over your work#because they decided they don't like the way it makes them “feel”#that's not a valid criticism#its my story and I'll make Levi cry if I want to#lol
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My favorite idiot gay wizards
#I love cursed child so much#any criticism of it?#invalid.#I’m joking of course cuz constructive criticism is always valid lmao#but i love it#even if that’s not the consensus#and like I went on a school trip and ALL THE KIDS were like#God DAMN Albus and Scorpius are gay#anyways boop boop bedoop I love them#albus severus potter#scorpius malfoy#scorbus#albus severus x scorpius#cursed child#harry potter#harry potter and the cursed child#art#my art#fanart#harry potter fanart#cursed child fanart
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i try my best to stay away from any negativity on the internet but sometimes it happens that i read a couple of comments and god.... the hate taylor gets has no limits and i know it isn't a rare case but with the age of the internet it's on a very huge scale.
and i know extreme fame brings extreme hate, but honestly if i was taylor and happened, by any means, to read the amount of vile things people write about me, I'll never leave my house. and I'm not talking about the constructive criticism, but the straight up bullying. yes she's a very powerful and rich person but why can't people understand that this doesn't numb the feelings we all are born with?
and at this point, it isn't at all about taylor but also about her. and by that i mean, people are so MAD that a woman has this amount of power and control and that millions of young women would just have her back no matter. that she doesn't fuck up publicly as much as people want her to.. that there are no clear evidence of her failure or her missteps. yes, she isn't perfect, yet people have not enough/actual/undoubtable "proof" she is a villain. and that's the MAIN reason they hate her this much.
the fact that her success is attributed to possibly anything except hardwork or talent...... i don't support everything taylor does but she's not the worst out there by any means and... she has great mental strength i honestly can't imagine accidentally coming across the vile shit i see written about her.
I think it has a lot to do with the need to categorize people as either 100% good or 100% bad. I think I said this before but as a long time swiftie, the speed at which her fame skyrocketed in the recent two years is very reminiscent of the 1989 era and it's lowkey anxiety inducing for me as a fan who has no personal stakes in her career/life, can't even imagine what it's like for her 😵💫
#you ask for the tab*#ngl Ive seen a lot of valid constructive criticism. Which I respect. And I've curated my experience enough to not come across blatant hate
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I’m requesting yet again for yall not to leave me comments, I don’t need them and I don’t even necessarily want them. Especially if you’re going to question me and I don’t know you. I don’t care to defend myself. I hate conversing through comments, yeah I know it’s a thing but I don’t like it. I prefer messaging on tumblr or even an ask.
My reputation as a Shinichi hater is alive and well. Good, cause it’s true and I won’t deny it. I’ve been trying to escape this ship for years now and I still haven’t. I’ve said a million times I’m just here for Shiho, give me a better option and I’ll jump ships in a heartbeat! I just can’t get over how cruel he was to her, and how he tried to get into her good graces by pretending to be nice. Plus the canon ship propaganda is so tiring. Sure recently we’ve gotten some stellar moments and I try to focus on that, but I just think my queen deserves better. She deserves someone who can and will love her loudly without making her feel like they settled. Yes his actions speak louder than his words and it’s clear he cares about her, but then I get stupid shit about the canon ship and I’m just like really? This again? Give me a reason to root for them! Or at the very least let my queen live and let her move on. I could care less about him. Everyone fucking loves him already, where’s the love for my queen? I swear most fics go on about how perfect he is and how she’s the problem and how much she needs him, miss me with that bs. I get that in canon, and I’m so over it.
Now excuse me while I continue to write CoAi fics that end happily
Update: while I’m here ranting on my blog. I truly don’t understand why we continue to romanticize the idea of him being an idiot and expecting them to be closer when he didn’t fucking ask or make things clear. The amount of times I’ve heard my irl peeps complain about not knowing where they stand with someone cause it was never clarified is annoying. I don’t want that in fiction too even if I do prefer things to be realistic! Either let my queen make a move and be like this is what I want with you or have him say the actual words to get them together! What’s with all this not knowing and not being on the same page even though you’re supposed to know each other best??? Idk man. I just find it ooc for her to be open with her feelings so I think he has to be the one to spell it out. But then I read this fic and I’m like it’s well written sure but why is it my queen’s fault that she thinks they would be better off apart? That’s very in character to me. And yes him having a problem with it also makes sense, but then to have him go around and play the victim and be like why don’t you understand me???? Like what???? Boy you fucking didn’t say shit! And okay sure you can say she avoided him cause she would, but then why wouldn’t he be clear when they have the actual convo like why make her guess? She’s going to second guess cause of course she would! And that just makes it a whole mess again! Cause now he’s upset with her and she doesn’t get it and he still isn’t being straightforward. It’s 2024, is it really that hard to get a real confession out of him? Must it be coerced like whatever bs happened with the canon ship? Does he really have to lose her to finally go after her?? Cause at that point I low key fucking wish he would. I just really freaking hate that it’s always her fault. Why the fuck is it always her fault for not catering to him? I’m so annoyed cause I like the writing style but it’s exhausting reading this bs. I want out of this fandom. I really want to be done. I care way too fucking much and it’s not healthy at all for me.
#cynply ranting#I’m about to update my profile on ao3 again and say no comments#I don’t want to moderate them cause I’ll just delete and block if I’m not feeling it#but I also don’t want to disallow comments cause I do have some folks there that aren’t here#and it could be a genuine question but again I don’t know you and I don’t want to waste time explaining if you’re gonna fight me on it late#it’s always a struggle cause I pride myself on being an excellent commenter#so yall should just get on my level#not for my fics though go leave love letters for authors who want them#I don’t need validation or praise I’m just here#it’s nice if you’re gonna be kind but if you’re not then I don’t care#was having a discussion with my friend and he wanted constructive criticism and I’m like nope not me#I do this for fun I’m not looking to improve#I just want to get the idea out and be done with it#I have a real job that I love that takes most of my energy so I’m not pivoting into writing
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Hello fellow artists!
Art is hard, and self doubt and art block are NOT helping at all, and we all have to deal with it.
I'm here to help with that
Feel free to tag me in your or a friend's art if you want some validation. I'll also give art ideas, give constructive criticism, and proofread comics. (Please don't send me NSFW, an actual human being is behind this, not a bot.)
Tags I use: #art validation #art ideas #constructive criticism #proofreading
Don't be so hard on yourself, you're amazing
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Am i doing this right🙈
#my art#digital art#lineart#ballet#ballerina#colorless#wip#(but theres no more progress to be made its gonna be left like that oops)#ballet barre#im sorry to all the actual ballet ppl for potentially seeing this but i do need validation or constructive criticism#like im rly curious if i got this right😂#en pointe
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Does this story need to be published ? Is it not enough to have it written down in my laptop?
Does this story need to be written down? Is it not enough to have it simply live in my head?
#because publishing means people judging#and am not very good with criticism#constructive and destructive can fuck itself before it can fuck me#I am fragile okay#like Mimosa pudica#love me#appreciate me#validate me but from distance
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alright Tumblr I have to share my possibly incredibly controversial opinion

also I just grabbed a random tier list pls don't judge
no I am not making any mistakes and if you like orange starbursts
no you don't
#starburst#:3#tier list#like half joking#i don't really like pink starburst tbh#pls don't judge#i told you i can't handle constructive smile#criticism#damnit#anywaysies#ur valid if you like orange starbursts and stuff#ig
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AI passed the Turing test? I'm proposing a new test!
It's called the Professor test and it applies to large language models, since, y'know, we're carrying the spirit of the Turing test.
You are a scholar/university student/apprentice, etc. You want to ask AI advice about the topic you are researching. It must give you a valuable answer that is 100% true and only references REAL SOURCES. Real laws, real historical events, real studies, etc. The more of the topics the AI passes, the better it is.
The topics: - History - Philosophy - Literature - Science (physics, chemistry, all the topics usamericans learn together as "science"... I dunno the rest by heart, I learned them separately) - Law/a court case - Art/Art history - Politics - Programming/computer science - Engineering/mechanics - 1 joker topic [translation, health advice/dietary advice, architecture, fitness planning, how to repair stuff, relationship advice, anything that gives ADVICE and STEP BY STEP guiding]
#ai#llm#large language model#turing test#tech#pls pls pls share your thoughts with me!!#I'm so sick and tired of people using AI as Google#it's bad and lies all the time#dunno how to tag this#just reblog if you're interested#I want this to get out there and I want your opinion#and criticism too (if it is valid and constructive)
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#tag talk#reading more of whipping girl and uh. my main takeaway is.. yikes?#she's attempting to be egalitarian about how gender is this social construct but it feels like she's#she's so terrified to let go of biological essentialism wrt gender for fear of dismissing her own gender experience#like. of course hormones don't make women cry more! except they made me cry more so I'm definitely a real woman because of it.#feels like she's so afraid of letting go of biological gender even while arguing against it.#and sure. she's got some good insights. some good things to say.#but I can very much see the validity in the massive criticism levied against this work#especially wild because as a guy who's been on estrogen for over a year now. sure I've experienced the physical changes#but my emotional state is pretty much the same outside of the emotional growth you go through when you accept your identity#like. I cry less now. but I'm also way more emotionally stable in general. I don't experience the world differently.#yeah sure my skin texture is different and I sweat differently now but like.. those are physical changes.#like. idk. people are so desperate to enforce gender barriers to maintain “no I belong here see?”#I haven't gotten to the shit she says about nonbinary people but I'm braced for it because I've seen criticism about that too#anyway my lunch is over so I gotta run. bye#like seriously. haha gender is way more fluid than rigid traditional society believes of course. except for the ways it benefits me.#ready to deconstruct gender insofar as it benefits her. but not so much that she can't use traditional gender arguments to support herself#a bit disingenuous
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honestly
#write any kind of female character you want to#because somebody someway somehow for some minor or even no reason at all is just going to get mad at them anyway#it's inevitable#but screw'em and their biases#unless their constructive criticism is actually constructive and/or valid#then good day to those rare few i wish there were more of you
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farts are cache equivalent of living organisms
#this has been in my mind since yesterday#i can only say it out loud here#open to constructive criticism and/or validation
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People nowadays be like: “Nono you don’t understand this 4 year old’s drawing is cringy! It’s cringe! Yes I have to say something how dare this 4 year old be cringe!”
Like bro shut up, cry more.
#There is a difference between legitimate criticism and being a dick#And there is a difference between a mistake and art style.#A mistake is often something not consistent between drawings because… you know… it’s not intentional.#A style is consistent#A mistake is one arm being too long not both arms consistently being long#Yes beginner artists#myself included#tend to have worse anatomy not related to style.#However that doesn’t mean everything is a mistake. If it’s *consistent* that the face looks like that the artist just wants it to.#And yes you can not like a style but don’t pretend making fun of it is valid criticism#You’re just making fun of someone’s art style because it’s not to your tastes#For instance I will admit there are art styles I am not a fan of. That just means I’m not the audience#The art style is weird? Picasso’s was also weird that doesn’t mean he didn’t know how to draw#he mastered realism then chose not to do it#There’s clearly both not a problem with the style and an audience for it#And as the post says: calling someone cringe is in no way constructive or going to make the art more to your tastes.#Especially for a kid they will be less “cringe” over time#They are just starting and are not adults#Let them be cringe#Cry more
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