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okay sorry to be a hater this morning but every time i think about how interesting and compelling and deep lucanis and spite’s relationship could have been i lose my mind. but this game was written like marvel’s avengers lived in a portland queer house where everyone is required to use therapyspeak in every interaction. so they’re nothing. remember when justice learned about love and loss and oppression? when he was angry and lashed out and felt so so deeply? and spite learns about eating candles and gets sent to “play with the wisps” when his host wants to fuck. there’s so much potential there but it just falls short.
#sorry i’m feeling feisty today bc i was thinking about anders.#i miss anders so badly.#his writers hated him so badly but at least he got to feel his trauma and lash out and feel like a person#lucanis gets…. glimmers of it. little glimpses of what could be a narrative about trauma and growth for him and for spite.#but it’s never fully realized.#i don’t even think the way he deals with spite by like trying to parent him and work with him is Bad i just think it’s too surface level#like there’s something interesting to find in guiding spite back toward determination#but they did not find it. LOL#he’s not even spiteful dude.#datv critical#da
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its so frustrating how a lot of scu fans cant handle other sonic fans not having the exact same taste in sonic media that they do. like i feel like you can say something negative about literally any other sonic media on here and people generally wouldnt care that much but the second you say anything less than positive about the movies people start getting all weird about it and trying to argue with you ive had it happen to me and seen it happen to others as well .... like the sonic franchise is very big and has many different media types and writing styles not everyone is going to uncritically love everything. get over it ? im not trying to be mean but idk what else to tell you
#this isnt solely about the person who sent me that ask last night i was actually already thinking abut it before#(though it is very confusing that they did i literally havetn been talking about the movies lately they just yelled at me out of nowhere#i mean they apologized so no big deal i guess but like. huh)#i mean i understand not wanting to see a bunch of hate of something you like and its fine to disagree with peoples criticisms#but people are being VERY unreasonable about it when it comes to sonic 3#cant help but wonder if this sort of behavior is a result of the fact that a lot of people acting this way got into sonic through the movie#after sonic's reputation improved a bit and dont know what constant widespread hate for everything sonic actually looks like#so they dont know how to handle criticism or opinions they disagree with regarding what sonic media is good or bad#and place sonic fans criticizing it because they love sonic and think sonic and its stories and characters deserves better#in the same category as people who just mindlessly hate on sonic for no reason#not that im saying anyone who likes the movies is a new fan or that new fans are fake fans but you get what i mean hopefully#also this is going into hater mode but personally. sonic 3 is one of the least deserving candidates of this type of defensiveness#like. for one its not that goodand actively disrespects the source material in so many ways. but thats more of a subjective opinion i guess#but also its a very popular and successful movie . most people who watched it liked it from what ive seen#randos on tumblr not liking it isnt taking away from that ??????#also paramount doesnt deserve your money anyway#like whats the point in defending it so hard . who cares..
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Was rereading pjo and found these lines:



And then in hoo: Jason Grace was the first friend Nico had ever had (or something like that I don't quite remember the exact words).
Me:

#okay whatever#just another example of rick invalidating platonic friendship for the sake of romantic love#yes maybe their relationship was shaky and complicated because of bianca and hades and shit#but you can't convince me that never once in their life had they considered each other as a friend#if i had a say in this nico should have form a bond with everyone on that labyrinth quest#he and rachel should be besties#but noooo obviously nico couldn't have any friends in pjo because he needed more ~issues~ to deal with and an ~arc~ to go through in hoo#btw no hate on jason he was the sweetest#and i 100% support jason and nico's friendship#but why did rick have to shut off the possibility of nico having other friends before jason#after everything he'd been through in pjo#this is just ridiculous#percy jackson#nico di angelo#percy jackson and the olympians#heroes of olympus#pjo#rick riordan critical#rr crit
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Someone online: criticizes the unnecessary rape attempt in the Ithaca Saga and correctly brings up how it's only used to prop up Odysseus
Epic fandom: OH MY GOD HOW COULD YOU SAY THAT NO MEDIA LITERACY YOU JUST HATE ANYTHING POPULAR IT WAS FINE ACTUALLY WHY CAN'T YOU LET US HAVE FUN
#it was a bad idea#get over it#grow up#jorge is a grown ass man#he doesn't need you to defend him#he can deal with criticism#or he should stop making art#he's not a god#he messed up and he can handle it#epic the musical#the ithaca saga#fandom nonsense#i hate this fandom
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going to high school was harder than my entire undergraduate degree at a top university. i'm starting my master's degree in a month and i bet I'll be able to say that high school was more difficult. i don't know how i survived that environment
#dark academia#studyblr#being in school from 8am-3pm daily was so sickening#growing into a person was harrowing#it was so surreal#trying to gaf about algebra while dealing with mental health issues tht were magnified by the fact that i had no control over my life#i didn't have coping mechanisms or know how to develop them#i had no personal space at home and wasn't allowed to set boundaries with my parents#i hated being taught in a way that didn't encourage critical thinking#thank god im old now
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I think it's really annoying that leo has completely falsified memories of jason too and this is barely acknowledged in the books
#it is also barely acknowledged by the fandom but I blame the books for that#call me crazy but I think that's a big deal actually!#he grew up with nothing! no close friends! now his memories of his best friends are fake!#the whole tlh gang obviously become close in the end but I just think leo and jason in particular warranted more thought#rick clearly doesn't dwell on it with leo bc friendships and romance are not given the same weight#one of the first things pov jason says about leo is “if someone like this guy is my friend then my life must be messed up”#(not a callout of jason I think it was hilarious and understandable. he is So Confused)#but idk instead leo's reaction in the books is mostly framed as Ok finally I don't have to be the third wheel anymore#Wait fuck they're dating again anyway!#which is also understandable but I would love to also see him Struggle More with the fact that those memories aren't even real to begin wit#something something friendships are just as valuable and significant and consequential as romances#leo valdez#jason grace#rr crit#<- this is barely a fleshed out criticism of the books themselves but just in case#pjo hoo toa#I could say something about how people hate jiper for this same reason but I won't bc I don't care about jiper really#beyond my general feelings that the way their breakup was written was one of rick's worst writing moments
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The no hextech timeline proves silko right One of my big issues with the alternate timeline stuff is that we're shown a better zaun, a better way, how things Could have gone And the only Real Reason for said change we're given is Vi dying Vi dies=no hextech=no/less oppression somehow??? Sure no hextech would cause extreme changes in the timeline but it would not make the rich suddenly develop empathy and change laws n whatever To me, the only logical explanation here would be that there was a riot. Vis death being a spark that lit a fire in Vander again. Vi dies in jayces apartment. This causes the rest of the kids to stay there, to shocked to leave before the enforcers arrive(we see this happen) and the enforcers, after getting over the initial shock of the whole thing, then arrested the kids. When news reaches Vander it shows him that no matter how much he grovels for piltovers scraps of peace there will never be Real peace without a fight. He cannot meaningfully protect his family in a system that punishes them for existing, no matter how hard he tries. He now Agrees with silko, they need to fight back, he has to get his kids back. He has to make a better future for them. This is the only way I could realistically see them reconciling And I feel it's the only way there could be this big of a change in such a short time, a few years is Nothing in politics, the rich will fight you every step of the way when you try and change the status quo. The only way they would have gotten those changes is by denying piltover the ability to say no to them.
#it just pissed me off that were shown this happy au something that gives ekko a hope for a better future#but theyre so scared of having actual Opinions on politics that they couldnt show us How they reached a better future#it just happened Shrug#extra annoying when the founder of the city itself is just chilling there living his best life avoiding consequences#after having failed zaun for so many years#like huh u wanna stay here in this nicer better version of reality instead of dealing with the mess tthat ur partially responsible for??#im not hating on heimerdinger btw i think this aspect of his character is really interesting#i just wish it was done intentionally n actually explored#(semi related: he does not seem to care at all/acknowledge that if he stays he is like... stealing his universes heimerdingers life???)#anyway for my other beef with the no hextech au u can check out my previous post like n subscribe B)#arcane critical#arcane#arcane spoilers#arcane criticism
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WARNING!!!!: Rick Riordan Critical
look, riordan has made a lot of odd characterization choices for apollo and most of them really can be justified and explained by the behind the scenes backstory and post myth developments he gave to the gods and him in particular
but the one characterization I just cannot accept or see or even make sense of even in-universe, and I find just,, so incredibly ooc, is making him a frivolous oath taker
no way. just,, no way
like, I can see him being an oath breaker, I can even expect him to be one given the theme of change and revolution and his relationship with zeus, but I say that fully sure he understands the weight of what he's doing. literally his thing is measuring his often lose-lose options and then making a fully conscious choice, it's why he's the foresight and knowledge and truth guy
To make him someone who doesn't understand the weight of oaths is just,, so ridiculous and out of character, even if you exclude the way it's against all his ideologies, on the most basic and mechanical level, how do you even conceptualize the god of prophecy who was also the god of song and poetry of a culture that only survived thanks to oral tradition not understanding or considering the impact permanent magic words have on the fabric of reality
#I HATE this plot point#that it's a thing in the first place#AND THAT IT'S TREATED SO LIGHTLY#like#this would be a BIG deal for apollo#toa#trials of apollo#pjo apollo#toa apollo#riordan critical#rick riordan critical
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If I found out my sibling planned to sell out our whole family to our eternal enemy because they were a little bit suicidal and bored with eternity, I’d tear them to pieces. Like find a new hobby don’t hit the fucking nuclear meltdown button jfc
#critical role#cr spoilers#cr3#f a s c i n a t e d by the Archhearts whole deal#would Hate to be one of the gods he’s deciding this for#but fascinated by them nonetheless
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not to be a super complainer mid-liveblogging but i feel like having a faction draft is just such a bad idea. a lot of people are Very concrete in their ideals and each faction has their own agenda so i can't imagine it playing out well in the long run. not to mention that it'd create a lot of conflicting and confusing lore. i mean, green and yellow almost immediately chose to oppose one another (honestly mainly because of bad and foolish but i digress), it wouldn't make sense "in-lore" to have them all suddenly be jumbled up in patchwork factions?
if balancing is the issue then why not disband the factions and move on to the next thing. the primary excuse for "balancing" them that i could understand would be the fact that yellow has the strongest and most grind-y members so Physical conflicts would seem like an uphill battle to other teams. but then again, red and green have been successfully killing Yellow Faction Members every week and more ? there's other ways of dealing with problems than just hand-to-hand combat? quests are scaled per team and boss fights are supposedly scaled per-player so there's not really an issue there? i just don't really see the point in a draft lmao
#the realm liveblogs#neg#discourse#<- not really just critical ig but just in case#sorry im a hater#purgatory 1 and 2 fucked me up i cant take another faction draft#loved purgatory . hated the draft#and like even on competitive smps the solution isn't to Change Teams usually#its to find some other third and random way to deal with ur enemy than just fighting one on one#might delete later idk i just wanted to get my thoughts out lmao
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Oh no, I’m realizing I’m starting to get a bit tired of seeing TF One megop/dpax stuff
It’s not that it’s bad or anything, but I’m coming to the realization that they tend to be the same few genres of images and comics. I’m trying to figure out how specifically to word what I mean, but it’s not coming to mind at the moment. But they sort of evoke the same ideas and feelings I think
Technically you could say this is true of other varieties of megop as well, but usually when we see those, they’ve already been fighting for a long period of time, so you’ve got their current dynamic and long time of being apart to work with, as well as their origins. With TF One, the breakup just started, so the timeline and dynamic that comes with it is significantly more condensed and limited. If that makes sense
I’m also not criticizing people who make their dpax/megop stuff like this, honestly I probably would too if I drew them more. It’s kind of just a product of the movie being an origin story and the dynamics only now shifting between the two. There’s a very clear way to do content about them in this movie
It’s just that I’ve noticed this, and now it makes me a bit more disinterested in this version of megop, at least for now. Makes me want to seek out other variations a bit more
#okay I think I’m being hampered by the fact I’m a bit too vague on what the sameness is#but like you know what I mean right?#if it’s dpax it’s usually about Orion doing something stupid but also sweet that D secretly likes#or them being happy together (like looking at stars or something idk)#and if megop is included there’s usually a final recreation with one of them alone or their current fighting#showing how they don’t have that anymore#or how they still miss each other and how they were always together but now aren’t#if it’s Megatron it’s usually him trying to forget or the Decepticons dealing with it (negatively)#and how Megatron now hates Optimus when he used to love Orion#there’s probably one phrase that explains this genre of stuff with them#because they’re similar in some way#but the words aren’t forming#but yeah I’ve noticed this now and I don’t know how I feel about it#again it’s not anyone’s fault or a criticism#it’s just that the movie leaves things in a very specific situation and the fandom’s really big for it#meaning there’s a lot of it#and when I see too much of the same thing I start to get bored and tired of it#transformers#transformers one#megop#dpax#personal opinion
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Izzy when Ed is signing the Act of Grace document:
"Think about what you're doing, Ed. Do you really want to lick the King's boots?"
Meanwhile Izzy literally earlier that week:
Plotting with the English Navy (essentially the sea police) to get Stede killed just so he can have Ed handed over to him, in exchange for his services to the King.
I'm sorry to break it to you Iggy, but isn't that also licking the King's boots? But for an entirely selfish reason that disregards the feelings of the person you're supposedly doing it for?
#i just rewatched this episode and i just cant deal with Izzy's logic#if i was better at meta analysis i could probably write more in depth on this#but truely he was just thinking of himself here and didn't give a flying fuck what it would do to Ed#imagine if Stede had been killed by firing squad#izzy gets what he wants and Ed just has to go on living a life he was already hating and fantasising about ending#izzy critical#<cause im not about getting into a fight over this im just recording whats there#ofmd#our flag means death#edward teach#stede bonnet
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thoughts about Epic Winter, & reconciling its place in Ever After High’s story as a whole
i wanna talk about epic winter because it—arguably more than any other aspect of the franchise—is definitely ever after high’s ‘ugly duckling’ piece of media, so to speak.
now obviously, a lot of it has to do with being the final big installment in eah’s main story, its premise being a side quest that sidelines the main protagonists in favor of new characters who are comparably far less compelling as the show’s actual leads, leaving the audience without any actual closure to the story which they were following.
in isolation, epic winter isn’t that terrible (though i think most would agree its better parts are the ones centered around already-established characters as opposed to the new ones), but in context it leaves a sour taste.
i entirely understand why anyone rewriting the series would either heavily rework it, only keep more important story beats such as daring’s arc & faybelle’s side plot, or completely remove the outing altogether.
in my case, however, deleting epic winter isn’t an option; my intentions are to continue where ever after high left off, and organically finish what they started. that means epic winter stays in tact, sanity be damned.
with that writing handicap, i can’t edit any pre-existing media in the ever after high animated lineup, which has forced me to brainstorm ways to recontextualize the purpose for epic winter’s place in the story and make the time spent on its story retroactively feel, at the very least, a little more worth it.
and the solution i found comes from viewing all that is introduced in the special through chehkov's gun.
(if you're unfamiliar, chehkov's gun is a narrative rule that everything introduced in a story must be done so with a purpose to serve. i.e. if you give a character a gun, they must shoot it.)
what's done is done; if we have to go on this detour following crystal winter and the top of the world, so be it. but let's pocket it like a tool that can be used later.
so here's my idea: bring crystal and the winter kingdom back into the story later down the line when the events of the story have reached a far more grandiose scale.
basically, i think the best way to use crystal would be when the story reaches a point of confronting and opposing the ruling powers in the fairytale world. having become the new snow queen, naturally, she'd be included in a gathering of the rulers of the kingdoms in the fairytale world.
i want there to be a moment in the story where the ruling powers gather together, and we see familiar faces return (including ones that we'd be introduced to after epic winter but prior to this), such as snow white, king charming, the queen of hearts, and of course, crystal.
with her outlook that would most reasonably be more aligned with the students at ever after high, she could end up being one of-if not the sole person-those present to voice opposition to whatever unfavorable verdict the rest of the rulers have made, as it would serve as direct conflict for the protagonists. she'd find herself outnumbered and ultimately her voice holding little to no power to sway the decision (especially being disregarded for her rather young age). afterwards we'd see her reflect on her frustrations with her colleagues and their rule of the system, thinking about it in terms of what kind of ruler she wants to be, before seeing her find determination towards something, though we aren’t yet shown what she actually decides to do.
the next time we'd see her would then come a little later, the conflict reaching the most dire circumstances. all hope is lost for our heroes; raven, apple, and co. would be down on their luck against odds they're unable to overcome. and that's when crystal would show up to offer her support, providing the numbers of her kingdom as allies to help better the odds. (she wouldn't be the only ally to show up, as this would be a 'getting help from all the friends we made along the way' ordeal. she would simply be one of said friends.)
crystal's help would ultimately play a part in winning the conflict. and because the audience would be familiar with crystal and the winter kingdom to a decent extent way prior to that point, the inclusion of it in the present fight at hand wouldn't feel like an ass-pull or a deus ex machina of sorts; it would make sense and feel earned for the most part.
and i think that's honestly the best thing to be made of epic winter's main adventure. we can't change it or fix it as it is, but we can create a payoff for it all later down the line. think of it like begrudgingly doing chores that lack any enjoyment factor, only to find that afterwards, you're glad you did.
so, yeah, that's my idea for how to give epic winter a genuine purpose. but i'm just spitballing.
#honest to god though i'm positive that had there been at LEAST one more special after epic winter#that shifted focus back to the already established characters and story#even if it was still inconclusive on eah's story as a whole#had it existed#epic winter wouldn't be AS hated as it is#it would most likely still receive a great deal of (deserved) criticism#but there wouldn't be the same amount of disdain held towards it#oh well#eah#ever after high#ever after high epic winter#eah epic winter#epic winter#crystal winter#raven queen#apple white#daring charming#faybelle thorn#ramble#duncontent
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AAAAAUWGHH I HATE BEING SICK ALL THE TIME >:(
#ranting to self#i JUST#it's so fucking sucky because i know the reason why it started but I don't know the reason of why it's still happening#or at least i think i know the reasoning idk#it started 3 years ago and lasted only 3 months and that was that#they thought they figured it out — acid reflux whatever#now it's happening again and started for the same reason but now it won't LEAVE and it's been nearly FIVE MONTHS#and i just#UGHHHH#and i have to wait and wait and wait just so they can do tests and bloodwork and tell me something and it probably won't even be anything-#-of assistance aside from “yeah you're definitely sick” like no FUCKING SHIT#it's this whole life long issue that me and mom would argue over since i was a damn baby despite the fact that it's not an ED#i just don't know what's wrong with me :( i never have and i feel like i never will because this system hates doing shit until you're-#-either in critical condition or already fucking dead so they don't have to deal with it and i fucking FUCK#i just don't wanna be nauseous my whole life anymore#i don't want to have these fits of waking up every morning sick to my fucking stomach anymore#i don't wanna be so anxious#i just#i REALLY hate this#delete later#turned into venting#I'm just#so tired#of this shit man
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I gotta be honest, the ending of JJK isn’t doing it for me. It feels underwhelming. And before anyone freaks tf out and tells me that I “can’t read” or that I “didn’t understand the point of JJK” I can promise you that I did. I understand and I can read between the lines and make inferences. I can also promise you that I know just because the ending isn’t my cup of tea, does not mean that the ending is objectively bad. I get all of that.
And yet, I still think the execution was fumbled and I think that’s a bummer. In a desperate need to be *different* from the rest of Shonen manga, I think the last 10-15ish chapters have felt incredibly similar to the rest of the genre. At least, in my opinion they have.
Argue with the wall if this post pissed you off. I’m allowed to post my opinion on my blog.
#jjk 269#jjk spoilers#jjk manga spoilers#jjk ramblings#I know we have a few more chapters left but those chapters aren’t going to fix anything for me#it’s fine I guess#I just personally don’t mesh with it#honestly it feels like a big disappointment imo#people are also really acting like you’re an illiterate moron if you didn’t like the direction gege took the story#like is this the acotar fandom?#are we not allowed to criticize a piece of media??#it’s been weird to see people JUMP DOWN other people’s throats because they dared to criticize the story#when the reality is that it reads like Gege didn’t know what to do and he rambled and rambled and rambled until he had enough#argue with the wall if you disagree#I’m not going to deal with people sending me hate for voicing an opinion.#honestly I’ve kinda felt this way since the culling games started#I almost wish gege had taken some time off and regrouped#I would have preferred JJK took another year to finish because Gege was on a break than this#jujutsu kaisen#gege akutami
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I desperately need people to stop saying afab when they just mean cis women. I also (for separate reasons) need them to stop saying “afab trans people” when they just mean trans men they don’t agree with.
#i hate agab language so much#It’s just tme/tmi discourse all over again#If the only way you know how to adress a man who is critical of your stance on HIS life#is to refer to him by what he was born with and not by what he is now#then you’re kinda missing the point of that language in the first place#Also I have never ONCE seen amab trans people used in the same way for transfemmes#at least not yet anyway (sorry if that’s a thing y’all have to deal with#hope my point comes across all the same)#And also sorry for venting like this#I’m just annoyed seeing casual transandrophobia from like random art blogs I follow
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