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Ways Need for Routine and Predictability Might Show Up







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>breadtuber makes content about sociological stuff
>they use a lot of big words, but in a practical way, to convey meaningful ideas that they're genuinely interested in exploring
>they use philosophical and historical references in this way too
>they're being very clear in terms of the language and terminology they use, but the ideas are (sometimes) so complex and counterintuitive they're still genuinely hard to understand even if you're paying attention
>it comes off *almost* like they're resorting to well-done intellectualism as a defense mechanism
>not in a grifter kinda way, more as if they're trying to cut their way out of some of the parasocial mess that comes with being an online figure by being able to say "look, I expressed my ideas clearly and concisely and so you don't get to make it any more personal than that"
>almost like they see the communication part of their job as more easily done by sticking to a script
>a few years later you find out about their autism diagnosis
Who could've seen it coming?
#alexander avila#he's the most obvious example#then there's#sarah z#although she usually makes an active effort to stick to ideas that are easy to a normie audience to swallow#and i do respect her for that#and i do have a few more examples who brought up autism in a way that was ambiguous in regards to whether or not they have it#but i don't want to list their names down on that website#i would love to say that the troublemakers among you who routinely step over basic lines between audiences and creators know who you are#but you don't#and that's the sad part#breadtube#autistic influencers#autistic youtubers#autistic online figures#autism
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I know that was a shitpost for the latest Danny Phantom fandom meme, but I'm genuinely impressed and how authentic it sounds. How much of Dash's monologue is real advice, and how do you know all of that? Do you work out?
Yes I'm so sorry to inform my good people of Tumblr that I've secretly been a part of the gym fandom for all this time. I've only recently come out as a gymbro in this phandom via my creation of the current dp gym bro au meme that I've forced upon everyone in this good holy christian space. I mix whey protein into my overnight oats, I track my macros, and I have a closet full of Gym Girlie Outfits™️.
And just know it's a badge of honor that I carry to be able to say I've converted multiple members of the Danny Phantom phandom into regular gym goers as well 💪
#all jokes aside i grew up in a very athletic family#where talking about things like gym routines and protein tracking was very normal#i worked as a tennis coach for a few years before i was injured (by my own hubris) and was forced to quit#i've been rebuilding my body basically from like the ground floor since the injury#and while at first it was frustrating cuz i had to learn how to do things i'd always been able to do before#(and yes i did cry on my yoga mat more than one time in the beginning)#now i'm learning to have fun with it!#im still very weak compared to where i once was#and it doesn't help that i was set back by other injuries that came from not taking care of myself like a bad knee#but slowlyyyy i'm getting there#i once thought i'd never be able to do an unassisted pull up again#and now i can see it within my reach!#very exciting#i love love loveeeee being strong#Also yes it's real advice to train the 'minor' muscles#for example a lot of lower back pain comes from a weak glute medius#ppl be focusing on the glute max cuz it's the big one and forget about the other glutes#compound exercises are a great way to hit multiple muscles at once
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violently forcing myself to have better days
#everyone’s different and this isn’t true for everybody of course:#but a lot of the time we have more control over things than we can see in a difficult moment#like for example#a negative thought is inevitable and not something you can just stop. however you CAN decide from there how you let it effect you#it’s way easier said than done but you genuinely can be like hey I’m going to have a good day today#I like to set my intentions for the day and not allow my trauma nightmares to dictate how my whole day goes#but in order to do that I have to consciously decide that I deserve better and then create that for myself#does this make sense?#do things you know you enjoy/ things that make you feel better. take care of yourself. create little healthy routines to do each day#even if it’s just for 5 or 10 minutes#you have to act to make a genuine positive change in your life and circumstances#tried to say this as well as I could but I struggle w articulating exactly what I mean#like my thoughts are too complex to translate into words#anyways though I just wanted to add this- this post is not to make anybody feel bad whatsoever.#if you struggle with certain disorders and such it genuinely might be close to impossible for you to actually be able to have that control#and that’s okay. it doesn’t make you any less of a person and it is not your fault that you experience those difficulties#I just wanted to remind people that it is possible to control certain aspects of your life and it is possible to snap yourself out of it#I know I need to remember this as often as I can#that’s why I shared it#I hope this makes sense I do not know if it does lmao#(the tags)#my thoughts are so jumbled up. idk what other word to use lmao
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new collection i want to start but can't think of a name for: things that expand your vision of what is possible in the world. "oh, you can do that?" things that blew your mind a little bit
does not need to be impressive. in fact many are relatively mundane.
examples:
death's dynamic shroud live cover of BAE (digital live 2020) made me realize that if you sample the vocals from someone else's song you can also sing those vocals yourself whenever you want
sakina agoshi (nullmeta)'s fish shaped hair... so cartoonish yet so plausible

#indexed post#Accepting suggestions for names. Not quite wonderposting#I know I have more examples but I can't think of any rn. Need to be asleep!#Also I haven't read nullmeta I just saw her and was like WHOA. We have barely fucking scratched the surface of cartoon girls.#We can INNOVATE... We can reach new heights#I think her hair is especially compelling because it isn't like. say. the pokemon sword/shield dudes (no offense)#The fish hair is like so impossible but also feels like the kind of thing an invested girl could come up with a daily routine for#Like how you can make your hair form cat ears with some clever shaping...
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FUCK. I didn’t even mention Sky

#she is also routinely ignored#which is. telling#she is apart of Viktors motivations and whatnot and yet#and yet…….#she’s the reason he wanted to destroy the hexcore and the loss of her clearly deeply impacted him#and he sees her kind of leading him once he goes purple goop Jesus mode#but does anybody mention this? I have not seen anyone mention it#just another good example of fandoms shelving female characters#arcane#sky arcane#arcane spoilers#i won balls
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very minor thing I still definitely deserve a medal for:
being raised catholic, and now as an adult repeatedly falling in love with characters that fandoms like to declare catholic, but still managing to reject those headcanons because at heart I'm too much of a stickler for accurate analysis to get behind them when i know the person in question is really meant to be anglican/episcopalian/whatever other flavor of christian
i am being, as the poets say, so brave about it
#i dont wanna list examples bc this is just a lil vent post im not looking to make this pop up in any tags & insult anybody#bc tbh some of the worst offenders are absolutely top-tier favorite characters of mine with woefully small fandoms#& the LAST thing i wanna do is be rude about or discourage anyone who posts about/writes for/discusses them#just because i happen to have trouble getting on board with one part of their analysis.#but it does amaze me that this Keeps happening#talk about resisting temptation#& for the record when i say 'raised catholic' i do not just mean christmas and easter catholic okay#im talking 'college was the first time in my life religion wasnt a required subject' catholic#'virtually everybody i knew as a teen went to different single-sex high schools' catholic#horrible uniforms. strict nuns. classes interrupted for masses for even the minor holidays. joined choir for something to do-catholic#as an adult i still have friends & acquaintances who work in/for churches type-catholic#my mom actively tries to hide rosary beads & scapulars in my bags & car every time i come home catholic#(i dont even think most people know what scapulars ARE for christ's sake! & if they think they do they're probably picturing the wrong one#meanwhile i've got a routine list of hiding spots to check for them before driving away)#my point is.#if it made even a scrap of sense for any of these characters to actually be catholics trust me i'd be the FIRST one saying so#bc i know i could write the SHIT out of all the angsty repressed queer guilt religious trauma stuff everyone's drawn to it for#that's like the very least i could get out of having been up to my eyeballs in it for the first two decades of my life#but 99% of the time it just doesn't track w/ what we know about them at all im sorry.#im sorry your moodboard yearns for stained glass saints#im sorry your fic hinges upon a flashback to a certain sacrament#but im just not buying it
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like, I get why people don't like edgelord style characters and find them exhausting, i really do. but I was raised by a style of book that exclusively features edgelord protagonists that intentionally bars them from experiencing a single moment of dignity in their entire lives, and I think that explains why I love them, actually
#an edgelord character allowed to retain dignity? boring. who cares#an edgelord character who is made the center of an insane slapstick comedy routine at least once a day? you have my attention#like yeah all these UF protagonists wear black and leather and are ''badasses''#they are also losers constantly losing fights. their best friends are hairless cat demons or detached vampire heads kept in a gym bag#or a perverted miniature unicorn who can talk and lives in your underwear drawer#(all real examples. yes they are ALL real)#to truly be an edgelord the narrative must rob you of all dignity. it is a MUST#rosie reads#(every day i get closer to writing some absurd dissertation about UF protagonists that no one but me would care about)#i mean there are absolutely UF series that take their protags too seriously and anyway that' why i don't fuck with gena showalter#or kevin hearne (derogatory) etc etc#karen chance writing the dorina basarab series though? she understood the assignment better than most ever will
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As a dedicated grey ridge fan, a fanatic at times (honestly I’ve read grey ridge so many times for comfort) i adore Rhaenyra’s relationship with little Helaena. I especially love how protective and gentle she is! Such a perfect mother. I was wondering Molter if you have any headcannons about Helaena being a mommy’s girl. (Also I absolutely the love the grey ridge prequel! Such a great read! And Leaf and Blade is among my favorites!) much love Molter!
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her youngest. her princess. her girl. her little alicent, as sweet and as kind as the girl she met twenty years ago
#i wrote GR helaena in contrast to canon helaena as what i'd imagine she'd have become with two adult parents who loved each other and her#i think - tho didnt make it much into the text - the relationship w Rhaenyra is exceptionally important#a positive aspect of rhaenyra's ilk is that she can make her loved ones feel very safe and very seen to#canon example: luke#:(#but there are undertones of this in the canon relationship with alicent - echoed ofc in the GR relationship#and i think a child like helaena would particularly value feeling understood by a parent by whom she also feels very guarded#and very protected#there is a freedom and restfulness in routine#and safety#and structure#and in her children's eyes#rhaenyra seems powerful enough to enforce and ensure that all continues to exist#also mummys suit jackets are Very Warm when the backseat is a little chilly 🥺
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Man, do any other autistic/ADHD folk not like wearing rings because of sensory issues? Like, rings look super cool and alternative and I'd totally wear them but I just cannot. They feel weird on my skin and I can't draw my attention away from them, and if I wear them for long enough, the uncomfortable feeling causes me to dissociate a little. But the feeling of having something in that area is still nice and pretty grounding, I just prefer to wear a watch or bracelet instead of a ring.
I know what I do love to wear? Necklaces! I love stimming by pulling the chain against my neck or fiddling with the end or messing with the pendent!! I literally have to limit the amount of necklaces I wear so my neck doesn't feel too heavy, and because I have one necklace that I wear all the time (a stim necklace with spinning circles on the end that I'm addicted to lol), that limit is usually one or two more at most. But I have so many cool necklaces compared to just an old ring or two in my jewelry collection.
#I have a funny routine thing that's a prime example of my autism and ADHD overlapping#where I forget to switch jewelry all the time and even when I remember it's hard to switch it too often#cause my brain (somehow??) clings to them like tasks and makes it awkward to switch easily#but if I wear something for long enough then it just becomes “my thing” and I don't take it off#(which makes it harder to switch because I'm wearing a necklace but I don't have my usual necklace)#I got my little stim necklace as a nice treat and now I can't really wear any others unless it's for a special occasion#(and they have to be a different length so I can easily grab my necklace to stim)#and this whole thing is also the only reason why I wear an anklet at all#(put a random hair tie on my ankle and replaced it when it broke and now it's a *thing*)#I have weird jewelry habits lol I'm only kinda normal about earrings (when I remember them)#actually autistic#autism#actually adhd#adhd#actually audhd
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(Loid's first day of working in Albrecht's lab)
Albrecht: Loid, this is Kalymos. She is allowed to go wherever she pleases, make sure the door is always slightly ajar so she can enter the room. On the table is a bowl of water - it is her bowl and it must always be full. She starts her day by eating two vitamins, mix it in with her kibble. That said - she must always have kibble freely available. NEVER buy paste-based wet food, only fillets. Her favorite is tuna, but tuna with squid or with shrimp is fine too. You can occasionally feed her a snack, but no more than 20 bits per day. Do you understand?
Loid: Yes, sir.
Albrecht: Good, now we can proceed to the labs.
#loidposting#loid gets a 3 hr lecture on how to take care of kalymos and then a 20 minute tour of the labs#and yes this is based on the routine our cats have lol#i have the perfect example of overly spoiled cats that literally have zero restrictions#well ok aside from sleeping in shoe boxes with boots in them (long story)
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The Web (1947)
"Isn't there some way we can get together on this?"
"Oh, sure. You confess and I'll arrest you."
#the web#1947#film noir#american cinema#michael gordon#william bowers#bertram millhauser#harry kurnitz#ella raines#edmond o'brien#vincent price#william bendix#maria palmer#john abbott#fritz leiber#howland chamberlain#tito vuolo#wilton graff#robin raymond#hans j. salter#visually this isn't the most impressive example of the genre‚ but in scripting and dialogue this is a beautifully constructed top tier noir#it feels like every line is a sharp retort‚ a witty aside or a loaded innuendo; Eddie O'Brien‚ grinning like a cheshire cat and doing his#best to channel Bogart‚ alternates between rattling off insults and flattery‚ routinely humbled by the wonderful Ella Raines and of course#a young Vincent Price‚ exuding pure smarm as a cool and callous killer who isn't once rattled by O'Brien's strongarm tactics#the plot isn't especially original and offers few surprises but it's honestly so beautifully drawn‚ executed with such precision and such#superb charm that it's kind of impossible not to have a great time. even side characters are fully developed and given their own#full personality and life beyond the central focus (particularly rewarding is Bendix as a deadpan asshole cop whose dogged refusal to trust#anyone at all threatens to see O'Brien swing for a crime he didn't (quite) commit). top notch cast and an excellent script#all ending in a suitably shadowy denouement; there are better noir films‚ sure‚ but this still feels sort of indispensable to the canon
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i think the simultaneously funniest and most frustrating thing abt my brain when things like this happen is that my brain freezes up a bit and can only think of like "aw gee whiz now xyz mundane thing i had scheduled into today won't happen" like girl WHAT there is shit going down and thats what ur thinking about ???
#in emergency situations where i am able to Do Shit i actually am very good at keeping calm though#and doing what needs to be done#in general in stressful situations where im helping other ppl then im such a good person to have around dhdkdl#this came in handy at two of my past workplaces bc i would be able to just do what needed to be done quickly and efficiently#when things got Bad in those places#but shdksl when it comes to situations where I can't do anything or where i dont Know what needs to be done ... augh#then i just shut down a little bit or go numb at least and my brain automatically starts thinking abt mundane and routine things#girl there is a medical emergency happening !!! (''but we've been through this before. several times over the past few months'' says brain)#example a: i feel a little disappointed that i won't get to do crochet with mother like we had planned#example b: i want to go back to sleep even with this all going on#(i feel awful that this is what brain is thinking about rn dhdkdl but. better than incessantly worrying ig? though im doing that too...)#ah well djdlsl I'll go shower so if anything Really Bad happens then at least im clean and dressed and ready to get over to the hospital#dandy.cmd#vent //#medical tw
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i really do feel like a big portion of my stress is just my adhd and autism battling it out
i get upset/anxious/stressed at the things in my life that aren’t a part of my usual day to day routine…
but then i also dread and get upset about some aspects of my routine that stay the same and don’t change enough day to day bc i get bored/dread about it
it’s like PICK A SIDE BRAIN!!!!
#for example#i have a 3 day weekend starting today#i don’t have work (my m-f school job) which feels GREAT#but i still have to go out a little later to do a dog walk i do after work every day#and i have been walking these dogs for 2 years ??#dog sitting for them too#but today i’m just#SO anxious and stressed and dreading it#why??? bc i’m off work today and my routine is different#but i should be HAPPPPPYY to be off from school#but i like CANT bc i have the dog walk and my routine is diff today#like 😭😭😭😭#brain pls#neurodivergent vents
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i ran out of room in the tags but i want to make it known that this was only a small percentage of the things that got predicted. it's my turn to write a chapter now and i want my character to get a tattoo of 9 knives down her back bc it's a tarot reference but i'm afraid of what that might cause so i have not written said chapter. im literally just scared


Shout out to the day i killed the queen via AO3, legendary (name of the fanfic is jigens sick adventure, yes it is a sickfic)
#i have this one story ive been writing with someone else for almost ten years now#we switch turns writing chapters#it used to be a hunger games fanfic technically but we moved it out of the hunger games universe and kept our beloved ocs#so now they're in a original dystopian universe#and we keep predicting political events and i keep predicting personal traumas and physical health problems#like we started writing it when we were 11 so we were like hehe what if we made president Snow really loud and dumb but still really evil#and then there was the year twenty sixt--#that's just one example#and then there's my character who's perspective i write from#she was partly based off me but i've realised a few years ago she's just who i want to be#so it makes sense prediction wise if i wrote her to be tough and funny and unfazed in terrible circumstances#i would uhhhhh start dissociating heavily two years after i created her and be so disconnected emotionally that anything could be funny#listen i was actively being abused and i needed a way to cope#and recently i've been writing her as someone who can occasionally have an emotion#and wow look at that i am learning emotions again#but what's WEIRD#WHATS FUCKED UP#IS THE PERSONAL UNCONTROLLABLE TRAUMAS I KEEP PREDICTING WITH THIS CHARACTER#three years ago#after we took the ocs out of thg universe#i was like#giving my character habits that come from traumas that were in the new universe#so my character has this habit of routinely checking doors and windows especially very late at night#my character can't sleep so she just gets up and checks windows#WELL#LAST YEAR#SOMEONE BREAKS INTO THE WINDOW A FEW INCHES FROM MINE AND RAIDS A NEIGHBOURS APARTMENT (the neighbors are safe)#I GET PTSD FROM THIS EVENT ESPECIALLY BC THE DUDE KEPT COMING BACK TO THE WINDOW TO BE A CREEP#AND WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO INSTEAD OF SLEEPING NOW#CHECK THE FUCKING DOORS AND WINDOWS
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