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shitty and dangerous friend vs literal eldritch god physically and psychologically abusing his ex-worshipper to the brink of complete insanity

#it’s honestly stupid but it just pisses me off that ppl think this is the same dynamic#yes ford brought fiddleford into very dangerous and traumatic situations and dismissed his concerns#but fiddleford had complete autonomy the entire time. he could back out if he wanted#i think when ppl compare these dynamics they’re thinking of billford through a watered down lens#when bill literally took advantage of a praise-hungry man who was ridiculed his whole life and used him until he was no longer useful#ford’s assholishness was due to neglect#not maliciousness#ford pines#gravity falls#stanford pines#also bill was planting seeds of doubt into his mind and actively encouraging him to distrust fiddleford#i cannot stress how much these are Not The Same#bill wanted to completely control ford’s life#ford simply wanted a lab partner#and i also cannot stress enough that i am Not excusing ford’s behavior i just don’t think it’s on the same level as bill’s treatment of ford#bill cipher#fiddleford mcgucket#cw abuse mention#fictional abuse#book of bill
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check out my game in actual play!
if you like TTRPGs about dark fantasy and mental health, queer joy and fighting fascism, and a whole lot of setting things on fire, you'll probably like my game 'til it kills us a whole lot too
and if you like supporting queer creators making awesome actual play content, you'll probably love the wonderful people at TheQueerXP
so naturally, you should go listen to them play my game right now!
#ttrpg#indie ttrpg#actual play#my games#ttrpg podcast#podcast#ttrpg community#rpg#indie rpg#queer#i have been vanished due to some chaotic real life stuff#but i cannot encourage you enough to check out TheQueerXP#they had me on to talk about the game and they were LOVELY#(that ep is end of this month iirc)#Spotify
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just finished A Man On The Inside it was so amazingly heartwarming im surprised there isnt a whole damn crowd of people talking about it it was such a wonderful watch
#cried on 3 seperate occasions during the finale aurgh#michael schur just cannot dissapoint#ALSO THE GUEST APPEARENCES GIGGLINGGGGGGG#<3333#loved the whole cast and crew i cant reccomend this show enough#i could make a tag about stuff ive seen actually#stuff i finished#which doesnt happen like ever#like yk as an encouragement of sorts#sure why not#charlie just completed ___#<- good enough for now? idk#charlie yapps#EDIT BECAUSE I FORGOT TO TAG THE FUCKING SHOW omg.... ->#a man on the inside
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Omfg....... I figured out how I'm gonna do my impending plot twist for ITNL.... which I had a vague idea of before, but rereading those trimax volumes made me think about it again... and now I KNOW........
I'm feeling actually excited about ITNL again. I still need to reread it, & I still wanna go thru and reply to old comments like I'd originally planned, BUT... well, if I'm motivated, that hopefully won't actually take that long to do. If I Stay Motivated, I could try to finally get working on ITNL chapter 20. Finally.
#speculation nation#itnl shit#i know i keep revving the engine and being like 'this time for SURE im gonna start working on it again' and then j dont#but this time feels different. bc rather than me wanting to go back to the fic for the fic's sake#it feels like i have passion for the source material again. which is what i was missing before.#which Yeah i never fell out of love with the series as a whole. but specifically the passion for *trimax*#the driving force behind itnl. i cannot write itnl without the passion for trimax.#and im feeling it again. finally. feeling excited about my fic again. rather than just obligated.#and im really hoping this lasts for long enough for me to do something with it.#i wanna update at least once before i graduate. At Least. but if i can get truly hooked on it again... i could do much more than that.#one can only hope.........#anyways if ur looking forward to itnl being back pls like this post and/or cheer me on to give me encouragement#to hopefully help add to the passion for the fic 😂😂 reminders that people still love it...#itnl im coming back for you... *soon*......
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my heart soars when i think of you, dearest coco 🫶 you are so amazing and strong and wow. i hope you know my day brightens when i see you on dash! hope your studies and exams are going well! so proud of you 💟
my qTea 🥺 you always have such a way with words and somehow say the things i feel that people need to hear the most (´•̥ ω •̥` ) ♡ thank you so so so much for sharing such sweet sentiments with me babie. i hope you know i am wishing the exact same for you!! i am never not in awe of how you manage to make time for all your friends on here, despite how busy you are… all i hope for is that kindness and love to be beamed back at you 10000 fold!!!! 10000000 fold!!! you deserve the universe tea 🥺💗 holding your hand through grad school, we’ll make it out together okay!!!!!! (๑•̀ᴗ•́๑)
lookies, even meguru is cheering you on!! Fighting❣️❣️❣️

#bisous!#chérir!#i doodled him so awkwardly chubby i am SO SORRY!!! T T i promise i will fix him up tomorrow and send him your way again heh 🥹💗#bachira encouragement!!! 💪#teaaaa this made me cry aoskedhsk 🥺🥺🥺 i’m so touched by this ask — i cannot thank you enough for saying these things to me aaahh ):#IM SO GRATEFUL FOR YOU 🥺❤️🩹🥺❤️🩹 i hope i can make you comforted just as you make *me* ): you are such a gem!!!! 🥺
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I know I haven't said much about it, but legitimately, "running away" was one of the most pivotal life decisions I've ever made. Probably THE first major life decision I've made, and also the best. If you have an opportunity to go, leave. Get out of there. If you are not safe at home, emotionally, physically, whatever, and you're able to leave, do it. It's going to suck such major ass for a while because you're going to have to deal with the scars they've left on you, but I wholeheartedly, full-throatedly, with-my-chest promise you that it is going to be better. You're going to be better. If you have the privilege of being able to escape, no matter how difficult it feels, then RUN.
#whatever you leave behind is not your responsibility. sometimes you're gonna have a fucked relationship with the siblings you 'abandoned'#but they have to understand that you had to leave. and that you were actively fighting to take them with you the entire time#it's okay to be selfish. you need to be selfish to start to recover.#if you have to be homeless please look up and do your research on local resources first. plan things out.#i was lucky enough to have family who'd been waiting years and years for this moment to happen#if you can go and have your college dorm as a safe haven then absolutely take that chance#if you can go and rent an apartment with the money from your job then take that chance#plan shit. do it. even if your brain fights you. you do not want to be out there without proper precautions or else you could end up-#-seriously fucked over.#also i know i'm encouraging people to get out but in equal measure:#if it isn't safe to leave you are not lesser for staying.#if it's winter and you can't be out there alone you are not complicit in your own abuse yk?#if you have family you CANNOT leave behind like extremely young siblings then you are not at fault for staying.#i was lucky enough to be able to leave quickly and (relatively) painlessly and i'm aware that not everybody can do that#sometimes staying IS the better choice. but that's a choice YOU have to make not me#assess your situation properly. are you staying for your own safety or because you're scared?#etc etc. obviously take all of this with a grain of salt i don't have all the life experience in the world just what little i have#also: prepaid phones are a godsend. MRIs. canned food. make sure to have first aid kits if needed. plan ahead. have a stash somewhere safe#rox rumblings#me things
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unpopular opinion: don’t give writers shit for not stating “x fem reader”, instead look up specific tags for what you want e.g. x gender neutral reader or x male reader
#— chatting break 💬#if you wanna share your opinion about this (politely so) i’ll listen#it’s not enough having to deal with: anti age up people#or self insert haters#or lack of recognition/encouragement#i can’t talk in behalf of other writers but i cannot deal with all this
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PSA since I keep going through my inbox like a kid on christmas: I see your asks, I will not ignore them forever, I SWEAR I’m getting to them they’re just TOO GOOD TO RUSH/DO HALFWAY. stop having good ideas and I’ll stop having to do them justice /j
#in case it wasn’t abundantly clear:#never stop#no need to worry about giving me ‘more work to do’#as long as you understand I might not get to it for a even a couple months#give me as much work as you want#literally the only thing that might frustrate me is anyone saying ‘do this immediately’#which no one has#and I don’t think any of you will#you’re too sweet and nice#and also your nice words#I am scooping them from my screen to keep forever and encourage me#so those aren’t ignored either those are Cherished 💕#anyway I cannot thank you all enough#hope everyone is having a nice time zone with some time to unwind in the near future#not art sorry guys
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Hey y'all! I have to preface this two-part question by saying it is not based on something I am currently experiencing, but something that happened years ago 1. Can anaphylaxis cause low blood sugar? 2. How bad is a blood sugar level in the 40s? Again, based on something from years ago, not now (just in case someone skipped the first paragraph) Like, I understand that that's very low blood sugar and is bad but idk how bad? At the time it happened I was at an urgent care and, uh, not tracking what was happening super well (both the things definitely happened at the same time, but I am unsure if they were related things)
#the person behind the yarn#medical mention#anaphylaxis mention#blood sugar mention#I just assumed it was the anaphylaxis that caused it#but then was like huh maybe I should google that#and the results seemed...unclear?#and if I had super low blood sugar in a medical setting and it wasn't from allergies and my doctors are still saying#no you don't have low blood sugar don't worry#I am going to be a little bit mad. but if it is allergies#(and is something that only happens with anaphylaxis) I guess I can prove to my dad I have severe allergies???#my dad does think I have severe allergies kinda#but more that the allergies interact very very badly with my tachycardia and salt issues#which. to be fair. they do.#I get dehydrated at the drop of a hat so anything that makes me puke risks making me unable to rehydrate myself#thankfully I have kinda cracked the code (the secret is I Cannot Drink Water until I stop puking)#(only drinks that have salt and preferably sugar in them)#but still! would be nice to have him stop encouraging me to try NSAIDs again#because of the like ten hour delay between me eating anything and going into anaphylaxis#the doctors were like well. you took an advil and it's almost definitely that#and the reaction was severe enough you Should Not Try It Again
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ive never had as much fun drawing as i am right now, unapologetically being bad at what i'm learning to draw and just learning by doing and trying to imitate what i've seen in life without ever using references
#words on the wind#having SO much fun just doodling speedrunners....#i know using references would frustrate me to no end because i am by no means a realism artist and i'd have so much#perfectionism about matching the references#(that and the poses i do dont. have any good references)#i am simply learning by doing and having so much fun :)#been spending the last few days drawing fulham. been a lot of fun tbh.#honestly cannot thank pIinkpuff enough for encouraging me all those months ago haha#i think its one of few if not the only reason i actually had the courage to try.
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#ok. was encouraged to just leave my dishes for tomorrow. my compost and garbage are empty enough I’m leaving them too#so at least#there’s that.#I really wish I could just go through a drive through and#grab some hot food#but there’s food at home#and I cannot justify shit at all right now#it needs eating. so I should just microwave it once I get home#…anyway#it’s as bleak outside#as it is in my head#rn
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Everyplate unboxing
I did the Everyplate offer again! Seriously, guys--I'm not trying to be, like, a corporate shill here, but if you do their introductory offer and then immediately cancel, they will beg to give you the introductory offer again. And again. And again. I've done it like six times, all with the same credit card/address/etc. They've even started adding bonus offers--this time I got an extra meal and a packet of steak for $1.
If you live in the US, have a credit card, and like cooking, you should probably do it, is what I'm saying. All you have to do is remember to cancel it when the box arrives.
Here's the box:

It's a nice box, with a corrugated/reflective lining for temperature regulation. It's sturdy enough that you can re-use it (and the ice-packs that you get) as a little picnic cooler several times.
Here's inside the box:

Everything's just kind of jumbled in there, so you have to unpack it and sort out what goes with each meal. I've been doing the 6 meals/2 servings plan the last few times (the first few times I did 3 meals/4 servings), and with the extra meal offer this time I got 2 servings each of 7 meals. (You can get a smaller number of meals, but the shipping is a flat $11 no matter how many you get. If you pay attention when you're choosing which recipes you want, you can easily stretch the box out over 2 weeks--pick some things with vegetables that keep well, like carrots and so forth, and put the meat component in the freezer.)
Chicken stir-fry and dijon mustard steak:

With their stir-fries, I like to add some extra vegetables; I made this one last night and put in carrots and some more peppers, and it ended up being more like 3 servings than 2. The other one is originally a pork-chops recipe, but I'm going to do it with my free steak instead; I'm planning to have it tomorrow.
Shepherd's pie and linguine:

These two I'm putting aside for next week--I put the ground beef in the freezer, and everything else should be OK.
Sweet-potato hash and sausage flatbreads:

The sweet potato hash is also for next week. I made the flatbreads today. It was a little more complicated than I thought--they have you making a white sauce from scratch; I had to go out and buy milk--but it was really good!
Cherry pork chops/chicken:

They do a lot of recipes that are chicken or pork chops with some sort of fruit jam--I've done apricot and fig ones; this one has cherry jam. Since I ordered two meals that came with pork chops (this one and the dijon mushroom one) I swapped one set of pork chops for chicken, but then I also got the $1 steak, so I have an extra packet of meat; once I decide which one I want to have, I'll put the other one in the freezer.
I paid, like, $35 for all this food. I don't really understand why it's worth it to them to keep sending me this introductory offer when I have never bought a single full-price box, but they keep sending me emails asking me to please consider letting them send me a big box of food that they cannot possibly be making any money on, so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ . I will oblige them.
#food#groceries#this can't possibly go on forever#but if you have a US address and a credit card you can get in on it while it lasts#back in the day they used to advertise this thing where you could get 8 cassettes/CDs for a penny “just pay shipping”#but then they would automatically send you stuff every month unless you told them not to#and you had to buy several items at full price before you were allowed to cancel it#this is not like that#you can do the introductory offer and just cancel right away#you do not ever have to buy a full-price box#they do keep emailing you periodically but just to keep offering you discounted boxes with no obligation to ever buy a full price one#I'm guessing it's some kind of enshittification cycle thing where it makes them look good to investors if people cancel and come back?#just spitballing#but anyway it's pretty good stuff and I cannot stress enough how very much they do not try to stop you#from taking advantage of the introductory offer over and over again#they positively encourage it
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'There are other ways to strike other than striking' is such a WEIRD message, I cannot get past this.
#i think the problem is palestinian activists keep calling for a strike (a withholding labour strike) but activists in the west are aware#this is a non-starter and cannot realistically happen widely enough- in a way i kind of respect that they are thinking past this#but honestly can striking EVER achieve goals without it being based in a specific workplace/group of workplaces in a group context?#sidenote i actually remember some leftists on here talking about how a US-wide strike would be able to stop trump going into office#but they were already dismissing it as impossible...a little defeatist but realistic#i feel like witholding labour for better pay or conditions from your workplace makes sense in the way that#witholding labour to call for a ceasefire in another country does not#but as realistically most people can't do it i genuinely think its really fucked up that people are being encouraged to just post instead#at least write to your MP or call your representative! For fucks sake#i know people on here have been saying participating in local or national government is pointless and bad for ages#but do it anyway because posting on tumblr is considerably more pointless
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(in regards to lady whump discourse) i love when the wolves come out of the woodwork to make 5 page long responses about they're tried of people crying about xyz inclusivity. y'all really had nothing to say in support of it the entire time you've been here, but suddenly you've got an essay prepped to defnd yourself against an accusation no one made against you?
[[just to make clear, i totally agree with you about wanting more lady whump in ALL whump roles, its jusst so stupid to me people would rather waste their time and energy to reply "there is lady whump youre just stupid" instead of, i dunno, making more lady whump?]]
man I saw someone reblog one of my lady whump posts with some novella of an argument against me, thought "damn i'm not reading all that lmao", blocked them, and started watching a youtube iceberg chart video essay
you can block people for having shit takes (mine included). It may take years of therapy and repeatedly crying myself to sleep to know that I have upset five (5) strangers on the internet, but I promise, one day, I will get over it...
#ask#anon#ive literally blocked people for having stupid headcannons for my fav character so that i didn't have to see them in my beloved tag#cannot encourage enough to just Zap people you don't like away
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The hill I will die on is that CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) is just gaslighting and should absolutely not be the "default" mode of therapy
#if you feel like your therapy sessions are at best not helping and at worst making you feel worse please look into DBT or somatic therapies!#truly and i cannot stress this enough FUCK CBT#therapy#i have been in therapy regularly for 12 years now. i have done the work#i can genuinely say that DBT and somatic therapies have saved my life and CBT made me WORSE#like it took several years of concerted effort to UNDO the damage that CBT did#its so upsetting that people are encouraged to “get help” but are not given any way to learn about different modes of therapy#like if someone needs therapy badly enough that they are looking into therapists for the first time they might give up after a CBT session#and i would understand!!!#but please dear GOD find a therapist who works with DBT and/or somatic therapy of any kind
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Just read a post about how you shouldn’t trust a doctor who rushes you and like, yes I fully understand the frustration, so here’s what you can do to stop yourself being rushed:
-ask for a double appointment
-ask for a triple appointment
-fuck it ask for an hour long appointment if you think it’ll help
-be outright about what you want/need from an appointment. If you need more time to process information, say that. If you need the doctor to write out all information, say that. If you have a complex case/long history, say that!
-list all the reasons why you want to see the doctor/vet that day and please don’t sugar coat it. “Been vomiting” is a ten minute fix. “Been vomiting after every meal for the past two years” is not. It needs a double appointment and possibly a referral too.
Doctors and vets are overworked to fuck and exploited to hell. Help us out a little, please
#I get the frustration I really really fucking do#But I cannot stress this enough: we do not get overtime#We don’t! If you are booked in for a fifteen minute time slot and it takes 45 minutes we run late. We lose our lunch or we go home late and#We never get that time back. We already work long hours for frankly less pay than you’d expect for someone saving lives#If I run even just fifteen minutes late after one appointment it knocks on to everything and suddenly I cannot HALT#which is the acronym to encourage medical professionals to take care of themselves to reduce human error#(Basically take a break if you’re Hungry Angry Lonely/Late or Tired)#I have known other new grads who have to stay back at work unpaid for 1-2 hours every DAY#Do you know how much that wears you out?#All I’m saying is properly booked appointments are a godsend.#Also don’t sugar coat the reason for bringing a pet into the vets.#‘I want him checked over he’s old’ and ‘I want him euthanised he’s really struggling’ are two VERY different consults#I do get people’s frustrations with doctors but this website has a tendency to forget that they’re still human#If you were forced to do unpaid labour every day because you’ve got an understaffed over exploited work force you’d probably be annoyed too#And I know a lot of people are!!! But people don’t realise medical professionals are too!!!#We’re all in the hell of late stage capitalism together and that means you pay too much for a vet/doctor who does not have#The time or resources they fucking need
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