#idle stuff

[sailorjisunq]

소연 + 정국

[aeolianblues]

in the best case scenario my asexuality is a ticking time bomb that will have to be dealt with family-wise sooner or later. In today’s society it’s just not a normal accepted thing to simply be by yourself your whole life. Especially as people start breaking off into the family structure and friends who were once your community and support system become a smaller presence in your life because spouses and kids take precedence— I don’t know any ace people who haven’t worried at some point about dying alone. You don’t simply ‘have a housemate friend’ you live with where e.g. there is someone there for you if you have a sudden emergency. What if you can’t move? What if you’re ill and can’t get out of bed? I’m glad our worlds are better connected today, but the chances that you’ll be with someone safe and known if that happens are smaller than if you’ve got your own family, right? Or is the bleak best case scenario that an ace person has an emergency while at work?

Aces are a pretty small % of the population in general. To say you’ll find another ace person and cohabit is a really small chance. As most people start to move in with their partners, single people, ace people kind of find themselves either priced out of housing options unless rich, or being forced to find other strangers in unusual living circumstances.

I don’t know. I just feel like you are left more on your own in a societal structure that prioritises two-parent-and-children households. Or more generally, that sets you up for marital and couples living rather than necessarily community living, at least in the west.

So what I’m saying is that maybe ‘oppression’ isn’t the word to bring to the advocacy table. It is saying that maybe the thing to remember is that ‘oppression’ won’t look the same for everyone. It’s a reminder that comparing the weight of apples and watermelons doesn’t even make sense.

(This isn’t even aimed at the shortsighted people that think pride is all about labels and being ‘in’ the club. This post is aimed at people that remember pride is a political struggle to improve the lives of people left behind by our current norms. It’s why e.g. disability activists also calling their advocacy disability pride is instantly understood by most.)

It’s why ‘[x] queer group is so not oppressed’ is the emptiest and most wasteful statement you could make in the context of queer rights advocacy.

[technikki]

they should have kept one thing from paper jam in brothership and it's her

[plisuu]

There's a certain level of imposter syndrome that hits when you're a creator that hasn't made anything in a while. I feel like I'm constantly swearing up and down that I make stuff and I draw and I write. I promise. You just have to believe me even though I have nothing to show for it

[insan3girlblog]

me while he doesn’t want me

[another-goblin]

According to totally real leaks, they are finally going to address the controversy of a certain very obvious character not being from Amphoreus despite everything indicating that they should be:

[3v4ng3l1ne]

How life feels listening to unreleased Lana♡

[purebbyfawn]

me when i make a reference irl that people don’t understand

[rainyyheart]

[bisexualvader]

"what little light that's left, we need to keep it sacred"

[sailorjisunq]

雨琦

[sersfandomthings]

wanderer

(referenced from that one shot in the 3.3 interlude quest)

[risartblog]

#miqomarch day 28 :: Favorite City (Dawntrail)

I love both DT big cities, but the view of Solution Nine never fails to make me awestruck. I'm a sucker for this color scheme,,

It seems someone else agrees, so here's Noa and a familiar miqo'te enjoying the view.

[insan3girlblog]

i’m so happy that summer is almost over i miss the violet harmon fall vibes sm

[eddiegettingshot]

idk why i’m even talking about this. but. i know nobody wants to rewatch the finale or whatever but there’s such a weird distortion around the chris situation that makes me feel sort of crazy. first eddie tried getting chris to engage with him. when that didn’t work he enlisted buck to try and help to make sure chris was fine. he expressed wanting chris to open the door for him. when his parents showed up he was blindsided and initially unsure about letting chris go at all until they essentially pressed him into agreeing that it was the good choice. before chris left buck talked to him a last time and eddie very clearly told him he hated that chris was leaving and that he would always come to get him no matter how long it had been and most importantly that he loves him. after chris left he kept trying to maintain contact virtually despite chris barely speaking to him, he threw him a birthday party, he told him he thought he’d want the autograph in his room in LA. through all of this he’s clearly been aware that his parents have their own motives and that he’s being shut out. then he decided that he needed to consider going to chris as a real possibility if he didn’t want to miss out on any more of his life. Like……. it’s debatable whether he made the “right” or “wrong” choices but (1) eddie did not just fold without trying and fighting and he has actually continued to do what he can for their relationship and (2) he is just trying to do what’s best for his kid in a bad and complicated situation

[paranoidswan]

i cant wait to get out of here..