#imagine your romantic f/o

[lovelystarship]

★ : quick !!! think about your f/o doing the cartoony thing with the lovestruck gaze and hollering and their heart literally jumping out of their chest at the sight of you. you don't even need to dress up to have that effect on them, believe it or not. you might just be busy with your usual routine and then you do that little something that's so unique to you and only you, that is so indicative of your personality... and they're as good as gone. they want to explode you and then themselves from how much they love you, dammit.

[indigohoneypot]

okay but to my self shippers with f/os who are tough, strong, and hardened—

imagine babying your f/o <3 and them absolutely melting and loving it. maybe they’re more reserved, maybe work makes them closed off or scary or tough…just imagine the way that they melt when they’re the little spoon, when you call them a sweet term of endearment.

maybe they’ve never been spoiled like this before, never been loved gently the way that you love them. i can’t imagine the relief they feel when they can be soft with you and only you.

your f/o must love the way you make them feel like an angel and the most precious thing in the world !!

[stellaeerrantes]

Hello everyone, there's something that I'd like to share with everyone here, because I believe it will help a lot of people.

For us folks who engage in imaginary worlds, with canon characters or our own creations, who have deep conversation with their faves in their heads or need their comfort character's shoulder to cry on, there is an unavoidable phenomenon which I took the liberty of naming "Character burnout".

"Character Burnout" essentially means that you have no energy in order to visualise your character(s) in your mind or engage with them on your imagination. I've come to the conclusion that it can be a result of an actual burnout (mental) or it can be irrelevant to mental state and your mind is overwhelmed. Simply put, it is the way your mind kindly asks you for a small break to charge its batteries. After all, picturing an entirely different reality needs a lot of energy.

Now, the reason I'm saying all this, is not for the sake of just mentioning it. I understand that a lot of us are extremely attached to our comfort characters/ f/o(s) or whatever you prefer calling them, myself included, and this situation can be very stressful. Personally, I panic, thinking that I've lost interest to my favourite characters or "grew out of it" to the point I become unable to function at all, but, after a small amount of time I can connect with them again.

So, when you experience this, please don't jump into conclusions or let fear overcome you, the connection will come back again as enjoyable as ever, you just need to be patient and give your mind the time it deserves to recharge in order to take you places again. It may take days, or weeks, but the love we have for our characters is never gone.

If anyone wants to talk about this, please do speak your mind, and I'm open if someone wants to discuss it with me as well.

So um that's it, and and sorry for the long post!

[1111-sunset-circle]

f/o who is inexplicably gentle with you, even if you don't believe that you deserve it. not in a patronizing way, not like they're walking on eggshells around you. in a way that makes you feel like the most precious thing in the world

[sheepie-self-ships]

GOD I AM A SUCKER FOR THOSE TIKTOKS,

IMAGINE your F/O’s reaction when you’re still dating, and you call them your husband/wife/spouse 😭 imagine how giggly they might get, or how they only want to be called that the rest of the day, or if they’re more serious how they ask that you “address them as such moving forward”,

or mAYBE they stop you in your tracks. “Not yet, give me juuust a moment” and they get up just to go plan the wedding THAT VERY MOMENT-

[spiders-selfship]

Absolutely no one: …

Me: OLDER MEN F/OS!! OLDER MEN F/OS!! OLDER MEN F/OS!! OLDER MEN F/OS!! OLDER MEN F/OS!! OLDER MEN F/OS!! OLDER MEN F/OS!! OLDER MEN F/OS!! ❤️💕💖💞💗

[pining-prince]

Imagine your f/o with you during boring times in your day. Imagine them in the seat next to you on the bus asking about your day, or that they’re in the passenger seat of you car on your commute home, singing loudly when their favorite song comes on. Imagine them chatting with you when waiting in a long line or while doing boring tasks at school/work. Imagine them holding your hand in support in the doctor’s waiting room.

Imagine how much more bearable monotonous things can be w/ your partner in crime there with you

[ridley-ships]

Okay but what gets me every time is the domesticity

Imagine coming home one day and discovering your f/o cooked you your favorite meal. The smell hits you as soon as you open the door and they’re there with a plate ready.

Imagine doing the dishes with your f/o. Is it getting done with relatively little mess or are you getting each other soaked?

Imagine taking one of their hoodies straight out of the dryer and wearing it to bed on a cold winter night.

Imagine just…waking up next to them and feeling the steady rise and fall of their chest pressed against your back.

Imagine putting your cold feet on them when they least suspect it

Imagine existing around each other. Simply quietly basking in each other’s presence.

Imagine redecorating your space together. Rearranging furniture or doing shopping for decorations.

Imagine the random acts of kindness and care in every day life.

[lovelystarship]

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⌗ thinking about the not-so-obvious displays of love between you and your f/o . them automatically chuckling at smth you found funny just because they heard your laughter . you being able to lean your knee on theirs to make yourself more comfortable in a sitting position and vice versa . their tension visibly melting away little by little , their shoulders relaxing the moment they spot you in the room . its just all so sweet yk

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[indigohoneypot]

f/os who are sososososo obsessed with you ₊˚⊹♡໒꒰ྀི´ ˘ ` ꒱ྀིა

maybe they're texting you 24/7, gushing about all the details of their day between asking you all about yours.

orrrrr they're visiting you at work, stopping in during your lunch hour just to spend one more minute with you, one more second; talking about your work day while sharing a meal.

and the touch starved f/os who have to be connected to you in some way at every minute of the day, or else a dramatic pout dons their pretty face as they whine for you to sit a bit closer. i'm sure they giggle as you roll your eyes and comply, giving them a little kiss as you fold again for them.

f/os who love sitting in silence with you as you both coexist, loving the peace between you as there's no pressure for conversation, stimulation, or anything. there's nothing better than sitting in perfect content with the one you love. especially when you don't notice the little glances they steal to admire you ♡

pro/comship dni

[selfcareselfships-moved]

Imagine giving your f/o little kisses all over their face. Maybe there’s a part of their face they are self conscious about, or they had a rough day and need cheering up. They laugh as your lips tickle their face with your affection, happy to have you to help pick them up when they’re down.

[1111-sunset-circle]

f/o who uhhhhhhhh kissies..you….

[sheepie-self-ships]

Imagine holding your f/os hands, and them swinging your arms and stuff :3c what do they feel like? Are both of you guys’ hands a little clammy, or just one of you, or do you/they have dry hands? How warm are their hands? Are they icy cold, or do they warm you up like a fireplace? Are they human hands? Or are they more monstrous, alien, or not even hands at all? Do they hold your hand firmly or loosely wrap their pinky around yours? Why are you guys holding hands? IMAGINE COMPARING HAND SIZES,,,, is there a difference in finger length/width or do you guys have similar hand sizes? No matter the differences, your hands fit perfectly in each other’s grasp 💛

[spiders-selfship]

Do you ever think about what type of ring your F/O would propose to you with or are you normal??

[maggswaggs]

Imagine your f/os finding safety with you. Being able to rely on you to listen when they feel no one else will. You never make them feel taken for granted and you've supported them no matter what. They'd trust you with their deepest secrets and their most vulnerable moments because you're not a threat with them and there's no one else they'd rather share this feeling of security with.

[sels-ships]

For those who have f/os with a tail of some kind, imagine them being around you and their tail starts wagging like crazy. Maybe it was a long day and they missed you, or they were excited to talk to you about something. Regardless, you bring them so much joy.