#involuntary age regression

[caregivingchrysalises]

for the darlings who involuntarily regress and feel their hearts are stuck fluttering between headspace’s, papa ‘tala is here to tell you it’s okay! it’s okay if regressing right now doesn’t feel productive~ it doesn’t have to be, honey. regressing isn’t going to flutter to every little star the same way,, and that is perfectly okay! regressing without meaning doesn’t make you bad, love… needing care, love and support doesn’t make you bad,, and most certainly isn’t a reason you would be in trouble, angel. you’re allowed to take a break from being big, you’ll flutter back to your big headspace when your heart needs to, baby… but for right now, can you follow ‘tala’s breathing, sweetness? deep breaths in and then out,, just like that my little dove. papa’s here with you, sweetheart. i’ll take care of you, and see that you flutter through headspace with love, kindness and care! you’re safe in the chrysalis dewdrop~ you’re safe with me!!

{masc terms for a genderfluid carer}

~ you’re not bad, lovebug,, papa promises,,, hugs 🦋

[puppys-tiny-space]

🖍️Tips for tinies that struggle with hypersexuality🖍️

First of all it is completely valid and fine to struggle with hypersexuality while regressed or before regressing. This can be for any number of reasons and all of them are okay! It does not make you any less valid or precious. You deserve healing, love and gentleness. I will also be making a post for affirmations to deal with impure regression and hypersexuality.

🧮stop regressing if you need to, if intrusive thoughts or feelings get too much stop regressing, take a break from it, clear your head and calm down🧮

🧃do affirmations, remind yourself that you are precious, your regression is healing, you are clean and deserving of love🧃

🖍️avoid triggers, if you know what triggers hypersexuality try to avoid them extra hard while small, if it is not having close skin contact, not wearing tight close or whatever🖍️

🧮don't be shy to cope, cope however you need to, let out your painful feelings, scream, break things, run or write whatever helps you let it out do it🧮

🧃do not act on it, do not act on intrusive thoughts or feelings no matter how much you think it might help it won't, it won't make them go away it will make it worse🧃

🖍️journal, journal about your feelings, about what hurts and what helps, build skills that work for you, they don't have to be what other people do, it is your healing and nobody else's🖍️

🧃talk it trough, talk about your feelings with somebody, be it a therapist or somebody you trust, you deserve a safe space🧃

🧮teach yourself, teach yourself you do not need to do sexual things to deserve love and kindness, you have a right to gentleness and to being fragile, you don't have to be pure to be loved🧮

🖍️don't compare yourself, comparing yourself with others is never a good idea especially not with this, it might feel like you are alone with this issue but you are not, others struggle with it but most regressors don't talk about it as it's a very personal thing🖍️

Fun fact of the day: you can tell the difference between rocks and fossils by licking them

[bealittlesblog]

《Wishing I had someone to talk to》🥺👉🏽👈🏽

Other than my lovely grandmother💜 I wish I had someone else there for me when things get tough after my therapy sessions sometimes grandma may not be available, those nice check ins and gentle reminders that I'm doing great is all I need. I got alot of thoughts running through my head but I'm also proud of myself for getting through these tough times as well! (May vent about it later on here idk yet)

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My main goal in life is to have my own place, nice career, healed from traumas and probably away from family? I lowkey wanna be a farm wife 😭😭 idk I love animals and nature🐄🐽 that's the future I manifest for myself ~♡

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[unfamiliar-ghostly-system]

Shout out to people who are permanently regressed, to people who always have a small part of them regressed, and those who are constantly switching between different regression ages.

[kadeyyy1]

୨୧involuntary neurodivergent age regression୨୧

You are not less important as an neurodivergent regressor

It's okay if you can't control when you age regress

It's okay to be overwhelmed sometimes

It's okay if you do "weird" stims while age regressing

It's okay if you don't like the texture of your clothes or your blanky

It's okay if you can't figure out how to talk, be as quiet as you want

It's okay to age regress if you are feeling overstimulated by loudness or bright lights

It's okay to be an involuntary regressor.

As an involuntary age regressor with diagnosed ADHD, I feel as if this isn't spoken about enough. People tend to talk about age regression itself and not what the difference is between voluntary and involuntary. I want to be able to be seen as someone who can not control when I age regress.

What is the difference between the two?

voluntary and involuntary is basically if you can have control or not.

Involuntary:

You have less control

It can be triggered (being stressed, overwhelmed, trauma)

Difficult to stop regressing once you fall into it

Feels as if it is a reaction rather than a choice

In need of comfort

You look for safety

Voluntary:

You can control when it happens

It's a choice

You use it for fun, relaxation, or even self-care

Ability to step out of regression when needed or wanted

Usually isn't triggered

[tinytowertales]

And if you look around, you’ll find that magic from your childhood never really went away. After all, adults are only kids grown up, anyway.

[littlelalaland]

blues clues kiddo moodboard !:･ﾟ✧:･ﾟ✧

[ittlebug]

hey— you— yes, you— you’re allowed to curse when you’re regressed. you’re allowed to be angry. be sad. not want to be touched. not want to be around anyone but yourself. regression is a scary thing, it’s a trauma response, it’s a medical symptom— it’s a bunch of things. and it can be scary. how you act when regressed is not a reflection of you being a ‘bad’ person but more so a reflection of the wrong you have suffered at the hands of others and the trauma that you’ve survived. im proud of you. your regression doesn’t have to be fun. for some of us, it isn’t. sometimes it’s just scary. sometimes it comes when you’re walking home in the rain and you’re scared and wet and all you want is to get under your blankets and fall asleep but your house is blocks away and walking feels heavy. it’s okay. it’s okay. i promise.

[nightlight-dreams]

☁️🌜Lavender water for bed! ⭐️☁️

[heythereimbodie]

You did such a good job today! I'm so so so proud of you!

In fact, I think that deserves a sticker, personally.

Maybe... two stickers?

[helpfandom]

Can you do forced regression hcs with nightwing? If not then just like batman? If you need more to start with I can give you some more?

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Okay! The Nightwing I am most familiar with is Batwheels, so I'm going to go with that one. For Batman, I would prefer having a specific version because it would change between versions, but I can also do a general Batman taking from all the different versions.

@artisticdoofusxx

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Nightwing isn't one who goes to age regression first. Yes, he thinks of you as his baby bird, but he doesn't realize how much he thinks of you as a little baby until he really starts thinking about how much you fight his affection.

Nightwing is one of the the few in this universe that would actually force you to regress to a very young age, unlike a few others who would just force you to be more in the 6-13 age range. He actually prefers it when you are very helpless, around the 1-4 age range, because you are his baby bird.

He's definitely one of the more delusional ones, not saying much given the fact he usually is in most scenarios. While he understands that you don't like being a baby, most babies don't either! He sees your rebellion against infantilization as you simply throwing a tantrum.

He definitely has themed outfits he puts you in, and insists on hand feeding you. He does have a specific room for you in his base in Blüdhaven, decked to the nines with infant toys and sensory books. Only the softest of toys make it into that room and with how much is in there, even non autistic people feel overstimulated.

He's definitely a drugging yandere too. Forcing a pacifier into your mouth with chemicals designed to make you as sleepy as possible just so he can lay you in your crib without fussing. He hates having to do it, but he can't have his baby bird hurting themselves while trying to avoid bedtime!

[boywithdragon]

Ziggy Dragon by Bukowski 🐉💚❤️

[tinytowertales]

Christmas is over, winter is depressing now, I’m manifesting a nostalgic Spring.

[littlelalaland]

random pics I like c:

[mochiipudding]

[ittlebug]

shoutout to the age regressors that aren’t ‘little’. tweens i see you. teens i see you. young adults i see you. all big kids, i see you. your regression is just as valid as anyone else’s.

regressors with ‘scary’ theriotypes, i see you. wolves, tigers, lions, bears, coyotes— all of you. you are important. your experiences matter so much.

regressors that get mean when they regress, because it is a trauma response, you’re seen. you deserve kindness and gentle hands when you’re 3 and want to color, and also when you’re 8 and have growing pains, and also when you’re 12 and are starting to see yourself and form an identity and needing an adult more than ever to guide you and help your insecurities. to aid you and show you the right path.

regressors that were always torn down for showing emotions when they were younger so now you’re stuck at 10 and all you can do is cry and scream, beg for a hug and then pull away because of how scared you are.

regressors that feel like they’ll always be 13, scared, hurt, betrayed in their heart. waiting for someone to heal the inner child’s wound, because you feel like you can’t, because you’re still just 13 yourself.