#it/he/that/thing

[feralbutchboy]

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last edited wednesday, june 25th, 2025 at 11:20pm

under cut because its long and also i use slurs. not a tw but informing you. this isnt an sfw blog. i am an adult and i talk about adult things.

you can call me ethan :)

had a bit where i used it/he/that/thing and i’m too lazy to change it on every post so expect things more akin to “OP uses he/him right now” or “OP uses it/its right now” to start cropping up instead. turns out im pronoun fluid between those four sets. ill update you on every post.

abrosexual and aromantic. yes, my boyfriend knows. no, he doesnt care. no, it doesnt make things difficult. yes, i love him. no, im not humoring him. yes, it could be alterous. no, i dont know, nor do i care. no, we arent friends with benefits. i love him and that enough for both of us. if youre curious, i flip between bi (with varying preferences), pan, lesbian, and gay. no, i dont have occasional boughts of asexuality. yes, i am aware i am a male lesbian on occasion. yes, this is possible. no, im not watering down what a lesbian is. no, im not predatory (at least not sexually /j).

both canine and human viv-terms are okay, canine ones being preferred

trans man, genderqueer, genderpunk, genderweird loserboy, fagdyke, so many labels. if its masc or neu or both then its me. if its dirty and gross and creepy then its me. im the slugs on a sidewalk after it rains, im the sweat driping off of my body after a good workout, im greasy hair and sleazy laughs and a grin with teeth too sharp and eyes too yellow, im a zombie, im a being of eldritch horror, i have eyes all over my body, i have no eyes, im claws dripping with alien blood, im the monster under your bed, im a broken beer bottle, im a mosh pit, im a dirty bandana, im tufts of fur in the swamp, im bones in the swamp, fuck, i AM the swamp, im flannels and shitty guitar playing and whiny screaming into a microphone, im smoking weed at 2 am by the highway and trying to sort the cars that drive past, im dirt under my nails, im black nail polish, im metallic screeching that fills your heart with dread, im a cracked record, etc etc etc (normally summed up with genderqueer (trans) man)

im a singlet and thus do not and will not partake in endo discourse. i am endo neutral. i am also pro-para and anti-contact (for the big three). i believe that the harmful ones (pedo, zoo, and necro) need help but what happens between consenting adults (or if theyre both teenagers, lets not pretend that teenagers dont have sex) is none of anyone’s business. also pro-kink at pride. someone wearing a silly little costume isnt gonna hurt anyone. these are things i dont argue about. you wont change my mind.

voidpunk and a furry, cryptidkin, werewolfkin, ghostkin, german shepard therian, and spotted hyena hearted. i consider myself demi-human (like humanoid)

i listen to will wood, bauhaus, nirvana, david bowie, billy idol, rob zombie, ice nine kills, etc.

im an artist and a writer. i suffer creatively TWICE :) i have one book i am working on entitled “Somewhere A Banshee’s Scream Is Heard”

i have a lot of loud opinions and thoughts on fixing things

i live in america (yay /s)

i like cryptids, gravity falls, queer history, sharks, spiderman, dc (the batfam), 80’s slasher films, cowboys, the umbrella academy, etc. i collect comics and physical media (cassette tapes, records, cds).

i am a feminist and a social-anarchist

my father sucks

if you have a story request, go for it. no incest, no illegal age gaps. no fem readers either. itll either be masc or gender neutral.

types of people i block and disagree with (not a dni because those are impossible to enforce): terfs/radfems, islamophobes, racists, misogynists, misoandronists, queerphobes, exclusionists, ablelists, anti-semites, trumpers, alt-right, procapitalists, truscum, nazis, pro-con harmful paras, and their supporters, anti-therians, anti-furs, detrans & scat/piss/vomit fetish blogs, anti-kink, anti-theists, etc.

i am a monster fucker. there will be monster fucking posts. theres your warning

im also jewish.

i dont care i will not debate you to prove the validity of my existence. neither will i prove the okayness of my religion. i dont hold my beliefs for you, i hold them for me. fuck off. not that i should have to say this but yes, i am pro-palestine (still anti hamas, wont budge on that one.) i dont do debates but i will answer questions on PERSONAL beliefs and feelings. i am not google and i am not a journalist. i am aware i might sound hypocritical but if you are asking for JUST FACTS then ask someone or something else. i have no issues providing nuance and a living or sympathetic touch to facts however.

i might have autism/ADHD? also looking into BPD. i havent been diagnosed with anything so ill let yall know. the diagnosis i do have are as follows

- C-PTSD

- GAD

- unspecified depressive disorder

- social phobia

- gender dysphoria

- unspecified panic disorder

i am an XNTP (too introverted to be an extrovert and too extroverted to be an introvert and ambivert isnt in the myers-briggs category) and a taurus if you care about that kinda stuff

taken -> 2/1/2025

i’ll tag trigger warnings and sort my posts as best i can. these are the tags im using currently to sort some things that arent just my talking, shitposting, or reblogs.

#ethan barks -> therio-posting

#ethan draws -> art

#ethan writes -> stories and poems

#ethan in heat -> any horny or nsfw post

please keep in mind that this is my safe space and my blog. it kinda functions like a diary or a journal, i will not tolerate discourse or criticism on how i decide to live my life and run my blog. you cannot and will not change anything about me so dont send me any sort of hate-mail. i block without a second thought and i always have.

i look forward to interacting with yall :)

[feralbutchboy]

just sayin’

it/its pronouns are the coolest thing ever btw and you should give anybody who uses them $1,700 immediately

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

now that trump has tiktok, twitter, facebook and insta in his pocket, get ready for a massive wave of internet censorship. one of trump's greatest weapons has always been misinformation; it's going to become harder and harder to spread facts and criticism going forward. posts that aren't made invisible will be magically ignored by the algorithm. dissidents will have their accounts deleted and voices erased.

this is a suppression tactic. this is another stage of fascism.

[wishfulsketching]

Silco and his terror of a daughter

[cunning-and-cool]

idk man but something about Stanley "taught himself extremely advance physics/math/probably many other things while running a relatively successful business" Pines and Stanford "is wanted in almost every dimension with a judicial system of some kind" Pines is sooo fucking funny to me

[pookapufferfish]

[nightwingsgypsyrep]

*taps microphone* is this thing on? Okay…

🎤 THIS IS A REMINDER THAT ALL OF THE ROBINS ARE SMART, GENIUSES IN FACT. THEY ARE IN A FAMILY OF DETECTIVES. THATS LIKE THEIR WHOLE THING. ALL OF THE ROBINS (AND THE REST OF THE BATFAM TOO) ARE CLEVER, STRATEGIC, AND CAPABLE, NOT JUST TIM. (No hate to my boy Tim, though. I love Tim.) YES, EVEN THAT ONE. Thank you. 🎤

[kensatou]

good thing from jp twitter this week is queen of old man yaoi michiru sonoo discovering the term old man yaoi

update: somehow it got impossibly more wholesome

quick translation: おかえり: welcome home あ 終わった 終わった: ahhh, it's over! it's done! コーヒー? お茶?: coffee? tea? コ~ヒ~ ありがと: coffee, thank you~ ネクタイレア★★ ネクタイ取るレア★★★★: seeing him with a tie on, rarity level ★★, seeing him take a tie off, rarity level ★★★★ にあうな~: it suits him~

also please do follow: AraigumaSha: sensei's twitter account marureviere: maru, who does such valuable work highlighting bl manga for an international audience

[casualfoxwitch]

[feralbutchboy]

im gonna start putting my pronouns at the bottom of all my long and/or important posts because i guess i SHOULDNT mind they/them but it always seems to irk me a little. there are FOUR to choose from, but i guess i cant expect everyone to journey to my blog to use my specific pronouns when “they” is right there and covers most everyone.

to anyone that HAS used they/them for me, im not mad at you and dont feel bad. its just a little frustrating sometimes because the only place where i might get more than he or they is really tumblr and yk. having THREE sets of pronouns that are all ignored is kinda annoying. but its not your fault at all.

here, ill give you a little lesson on how i use each set, to limit confusion!

it/its

- “wow! look at it! its pants are cool and i like its hat too!”

- “of course its joining us at the park! it wouldn’t make us go by ourselves.”

he/him im not gonna do, i feel everyone knows how to use that one.

that/thats

- “that’s name is ethan! that’s very handsome and smart.”

- “that went to the store by thatself.”

thing/things

- “thing helped me with my homework. yeah, thing knew exactly what to do!”

- “thing’s outfits are always so cool, thing’s really got that shit on!”

and if you wanna mix them (please mix them)

- “oh, it really likes sharks. yeah, theyre that’s favorite animal! thing always has some fun fact or other. i swear, i dont know how he comes up with this stuff!”

they are ordered in preference, so to rank them i like it/its the best, he/him the second best, that/thats the third best, and thing/things the least.

this has been a psa (pronoun service announcement) thank you for your time. heres some food for making it so far,

🥩🍗🍖🥓🥛🍪🍩🧁🥧🍰🍤🍣🌮🥪🍔🌭🍕🍳🥚🧀🥖🍞🥯🥐🥔🥝🍓🍇🍒🍌🍉🍎🍐🫐🥭🥦

(tried to put in something for everyone. im a meat-eater {mostly})

OP uses it/he/that/thing

[amygdalae]

My problem with heterosexual romance novels (which I am reading under duress due to my coworker book club but find somewhat entertaining cuz they're not something I normally wld read) is that whenever the love interest is an asshole the author also makes him all dommy dom. when what I really want is for him to be thoroughly put in his place. All of these shithead Christian grey knockoff guys in these books would be excellent brat material but nobody cares what I want. Nobody cares what I want

[swan2swan]

Whoever conceived and animated this moment, I hope they're doing well and thriving. This is S-rank romance stuff here.

[hinamie]

newest issue of first years fashion just dropped

[the-moon-loves-the-sea]

Shared here today by Matthew Boroson on Facebook. (ETA: Gaining inspiration from other authors is great. Lifting passages and avoiding giving credit isn’t.)

Tanith Lee was the first woman to win the British Fantasy Award for best novel, for the second book of the Flat Earth series. She died in 2015. You can buy Tales From the Flat Earth here and here .

[yourockthebeatofmyheart]

I need y'all to watch this clip