#just nonbinary things

[cozymushroom13]

Tonight two people asked me if I’m a man or a women, I am glad I apparently still look androgynous enough to confuse people and not as much like a man as I thought.

[actualalivecreature]

i kinda miss my tits but then again id probably only like having them if i wasnt me lol. i like the IDEA of having tits. not actually having them.

[novelconcepts]

pretty sure my entire neighborhood just heard me yell, "for the love of GOD, stop giving me bra ads, i don't have boobs anymore", so that's. how my thursday is going.

[tahinnia]

Transmasc Zamasu because I vibe with it so much.

[head-empty-river]

please just let me have an enby trailblazer. whenever they say she it kills me, but they made caellus look so bland and she looks pretty gender neutral. pompom and the aeons get to use they/them, why can't i?

(like i do understand they have censorship laws and such, and they'd have to redo a lot of voicelines, but i wish they'd just had a gender neutral option from the start. idk. like i'm not expecting anything by posting this, it just kinda sucks. like i heard all of silver wolf's dialogue making fun of me for how long i was spending on the pick your trailblazer page.)

[spaceventrilo]

on da computer posting my silly little thoughts to this silly little blog :3

[cardcaptormadoka]

I've been invited to the Women's Day event at my work, because most people there have just kind of assumed that I'm a woman. But I know I'm gonna show up and immediately feel like three cats in a woman costume, you know?

[strabius-berry]

amab with butch lesbian energy

afab with yaoi femboy energy

[wildberryautumn]

i'm not dressing up as ken & barbie this weekend because i identify with either of them, i just happen to have clothes that fit each character - and that's my gender

[cozymushroom13]

It’s so weird getting dysphoria “the wrong way”

[dhap53]

Keep getting recognized as a man and i can finally say that im a man but not really because most days i feel in-between

[spencer-is-someone]

happy pride month to all the “weird” queers. The ones who use neopronouns, the ones who feel xenogenders fit them best, the ones who use micro labels that barely any people know, the ones that make their own flags. I love you, and you’re not “too weird” to be in this community.

[just-a-geekygoth]

SLAY, SUZERAIN!

"just not seeing enough people talking about carl clemons-hopkins, the first out nonbinary actor to be nominated for an emmy, and the nonbinary flag gown they wore last night"

@mattxiv

Carl Clemons-Hopkins on IMDB

[luckylunatix]

The nonbinary struggle for me is not wanting to be femme because it's physically and emotionally uncomfortable for me but also kinda wanting to be femme at the same time cuz it feels like I'm missing out on something really great and fun and that maybe I'm just rejecting it cuz I'm afraid I can't pull it off

[cozycryptidcutie]

Trying to think of a new username and then I’m complicating it bcuz I also want a new name name and then I’m like do I care if real life ppl know about it or do I want it to be just like my current internet name?

[deni-means-flor]

Working a corporate job for the first time in my life and being called "lady", "ma'am", "sweetie" so often is exhausting, sometimes I just want to curl into a ball but this post made me smile 💜

feminine afab non binary people and masculine amab non binary people are still non binary, and thus, trans. it's not okay to excuse slipping up using an afab non binary person's pronouns just because they "look cis" to you. they are not cis. they are desperately trying to get you to understand that gender is not as black and white as it seems. they are existing in a real niche of real people that struggle to be seen as who they are and contributing to that helps no one.

i see you, fem afab enbies and masc amab enbies. you are still non binary. you are still trans. you still have a right to what pronouns and identity you use. you have a right to get upset when they call you a girl or a boy when you're not. people do not have the right to misgender you just because they don't understand the niche you fall into in life. you are justified in being upset when someone misgenders you because they refuse to see that gender is a broader spectrum than we give it credit for.

you are trans. you are non binary. the right people will see you for who you really are. don't give up telling people who you really are. stand your ground if you must. you are loved and seen for who you are even if it doesn't seem like it right now. don't give up.