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“what if kids identify with something and it ends up just being a phase-?” good. stop teaching and expecting kids (and adults honestly) to formulate permanent traits and ideas of themselves. everything in life is a phase. that doesn’t make it any less legitimate while you experience it. let people explore themselves and know it’s okay if what you think about yourself changes.
#there is no permanent state of self#expecting that makes people fearful to explore options for fear of being wrong#trans#lgbtq#ftm#transgender#trans man#transmasc#transgender man#trans pride#donnieisaprettyboy#ftm problems
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I... DONT... LIKE... CHANGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! [MY TELEKINESIS THROWS EVERYTHING ACROSS THE ROOM] [I SEE MY ITEMS STREWN ABOUT THE ROOM AND GET EVEN MORE UPSET]
#text#peer reviewed banger#this post was made by an aro trans man! if u have a problem with any of those labels go away
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Can you believe I'm having to make this meme even after successfully finishing up taxes and applying to job
#adhd#autism#Dad: Don't worry little man it's super simple! Just let me - the figure you seek support from - tell you to not be afraid#and then - stay with me here! - juuuuuust do it!#voila. my job is done you're welcome have fun doing all the research and figuring out without issue now <3 no problem#(and no of course I won't acknowledge your previous adulting accomplishments bc that's just expected stuff anyway)#||#vent#i guess? man#i don't have opinions or feelings on the internet often but man
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Finally caught up with Apothecary Diaries. I can't believe they gave Maomao a gun.
#the apothecary diaries#maomao#jinshi#I started watching back from the beginning and oh man...this series is a delight.#Maomao is one of my favourite protagonists for the fact she is a unique mystery lover who also loves to stay in her own lane.#She's here to solve the 'how' of the mystery but the who? Not her problem and not her job.#No crazy leaps in logic. Just a girl who loves her posions and puzzles.#I want to say so much more about this series but It really is best enjoyed as something to discover on your own! It's a mystery after all!#I want to draw some crossover art for this series so badly...Perhaps...perhaps...#This dehydration story comes from my own life - in which my flatmates have a running bit about calling sport drinks 'potions'.#This was very relevant when I was suffering from dehydration (low sodium intake + over drinking lead to a very bad time).#That's right. You can dehydrate via drinking too much water. Low sodium and low potassium can make you very ill as well.#Sometimes what you need is someone aggressively reminding you to add salt to your dishes and drink your goddamn potion.
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I cannot stop thinking about Episode 5 of TADC because Ragatha is, however unintentionally, one of the best examples of how isolating and difficult it is to interact with the world as an autistic person I have ever seen. To the point it genuinely makes me sad to think about her. I need to make a post expanding on this at some point but rn just. The way everyone assumes there’s some sinister hidden meaning to everything she does and says but she’s literally just trying to be nice and she doesn’t understand why it’s not working. The way she tries so hard to make connections but it constantly falls flat, she says things that hurt without realising how or why. She follows the rules she’s been taught will make her friends — she’s kind, she’s forgiving, she’s accepting and apologetic when she messes up, but for some reason it’s just not working. She tries to mimic other people, she tries to laugh at past experiences, tries to open up about her past like everyone else is doing, but now everyone’s uncomfortable and looking at her like she’s crazy and she doesn’t get it!! She doesn’t get it!!! Jax is a jerk and he’s mean to everyone but for some reason Pomni likes him and she doesn’t get it, she doesn’t understand! Pomni tells her it’s okay to be a jerk sometimes but Ragatha doesn’t like being mean, she wants to be nice to people, but she does it anyway, she gets mean like Jax and Zooble do but now Pomni’s looking at her like she’s done something wrong but she just did what she asked her to!! She doesn’t get it!! At the end of the episode everyone goes off into their groups and Ragatha is left alone, after having tried so hard to make friends and fit in and make people like her, she’s still alone, and everyone thinks she’s weird and unapproachable and she just has to give up and accept that she is inherently unloveable. Her evil alter ego tells her she’s going to die alone and nobody loves her and the only thing she corrects her on is the fact that they can’t die here. The few that might like her when she’s around don’t miss her when she’s gone, because there’s nothing to miss. Ragatha has spent her whole life systematically stripping away everything that makes her different and unlikeable in order to make herself more palatable to others, and in the process she has made herself a personalitiless blank slate with no unique identity for others to latch onto and appreciate. She has nothing to add to any conversation because she’s too afraid of being disliked to have a memorable personality beyond being generally polite and nice. And just. God. Someone get this girl some noise cancelling headphones and a therapist on speed dial, being this good of a representation of what it’s like to be autistic, especially to be an autistic person with trauma, is not good for the soul. That final shot just destroys me right in the heart. My poor girl.

#like just. fuck man she’s so good#I really hope they do something with this because fuck dude#like I don’t even know where you go with this moving forward because I’ve not fully solved this problem in my own life!!!#maybe this is just a self report and it’s not as common an autist experience as I think it is#but like. Ragatha I love you I hope you learn about the dsm-5 soon#the amazing digital circus#tadc#ragatha#tadc ragatha#textpost#analysis#tadc analysis#tadc jax#tadc pomni#autism#tadc episode 5#tadc episode 5 spoilers#the amazing digital circus episode 5 spoilers#<- very mild and not really but just in case#the amazing digital circus episode 5
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went on a sidequest this past week to draw some horse girls
#idk if tumblr knows about the horses...well if u enjoy masculine women u may not care i liked drawing their blorbs too#horse race tests#myart#man idk what to tag this as ok...........................if ppl like them ill draw the 4 ones igot left#i had so muich fun.......i miss drawing jocks nobody ever makes anything i like with jock girls#ADDING A BIG DISCLAIMER THIS IS NOT VERY REFLECTIVE ON THE SOURCE SORRY YALL I HAVE PROBLEMS#everyone was drawing the horse blobs as ok anime girls and i was like ok well im about to be hilarious
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man…seeing glimpses of everyone’s personal lives after the shift got me. abbot is an amputee…mel and her sister…whitaker’s homeless…i love that they did that. doctors aren’t gods. they can do miraculous things but at the end of the day they’re still people, and everyone’s going through something.
#idk man be nice to healthcare providers#(if they listen to you. they should listen to you and if not obviously that’s a problem. usually it’s insurance that’s shitty but sometimes#it’s the doctor too)#sorry to get sappy#this is what i get for watching the pitt while wrapping up my first year of nursing school#danaaaa 😭💔#the pitt#the pitt finale#the pitt spoilers
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dream closet . ݁𝜗𝜚˚
#girlblogging#girlhood#hell is a teenage girl#lana del ray aka lizzy grant#lana del rey#coquette#girl is a gun#girlblog aesthetic#im just a girl#just a girlblog#closet#dream closet#baby doll#sleepy girl#older man younger girl#girl blog#cinnamon girl#girl problems#girl interrupted#girl core#girl hood#girl rotting#girl thoughts#girl things#girlcore#older man <3#i love old men#i like older guys#girly tumblr#bed rotting
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I can’t believe I never posted this tapestry I made
(no I didn’t block it okay)
#trans#lgbtq#ftm#transgender#trans man#transmasc#transgender man#trans pride#donnieisaprettyboy#ftm problems#pride crochet#crochet#crochet tapestry
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in love

#spoiled#sugar bae#sugardaddy#sugarbunnies#sugarbaby#pay me money#daddy's good girl#older male#older man <3#older man younger woman#olderforyounger#oldermen#older is better#hot older man#older guys#handsome older man#older man younger girl#age g4p#age g@p#spoiled princess#daddy’s good girl#good g1rl#good kitty#call me a good girl#1cky princess#self love#black beauty#applepay#money#money problems
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UGHGJHTGH THEYRE SO FAMILY TO MEEEE
#transformers animated#tfa#tfa bumblebee#tfa ratchet#ratchet#bumblebee#maccadam#BEE IS SO HARD TO DRAW BUT HES SO CUTEEE 😭😭#tfa bee might be my fav iteration of him hes just so annoying and whiny and its so funny whats his problem#ughhh old man rachet who hates this stupid kid but hes actually lying and he could never hate him and#in my resident evil phase i was shipping everyone with ethan#but in my transformers phase im just giving bumblebee all the parental figures#u get a dad! u get a dad! u get a dad!#I CAST 1 MILLION PARENTS#tfa ships can be cute but i like them all as a big happy family way more im sorry#theyre all best friends and happy and care about each other
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Took a few days but BEHOLD MORE NARI ANGST/WHUMP
Was thinking about trod Narinder being secretly in love with Lamb the whole time and the fact that Narinder most definitely has trust issue and fears of being mortal now
So with those two trains of thought combined, I wanted to explore… other hidden feelings he might have towards the lamb… 👀💧
Eat well, my flock, Cult of Nari Babygirls tm 🤲
#narilamb#cult of the lamb#cotl narinder#cotl lamb#nari is baby girl#angst#trod au mention#I love this pathetic cat man too much y’all it’s a problem#comic
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Love Undying
#my art#my oc#dragon age#dragon age the veilguard#emmrich volkarin#tea aldwir#emmrich x rook#honestly yall veilguard is the most wholesome part of their story#I head canon Emmrich gets obsessed w the thought of tea dying earlier than him because she’s a warden#he goes downhill trying to figure out how to cure the blight and she gets more taken by her calling#I do think he eventually figures it out though!#the man helped make a knife comparable to solas’s#so methinks he could absolutely put his mind to modifying if not curing the blight#and eventually I think his obsession with mortality does end up in him figuring out demi lichdom#which probably causes problems with the other mourn watchers and lich lords that he and rook have to face together#with their baby! because tea gets pregnant right after veilguard hehehehe
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The siren call of making a funny joke about The Character™ vs the fear that people will see your silly little joke as the be-all end-all of your understanding of The Character™ and assume you don't understand them on a deep level (and be mean about it)
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Tbhxers how are we feeling about episode 1
#it's still crazy to me that he hit the pose before jumping bro 😭#that man did NOT care about witnesses that's the agency's problem now#to be hero x#tbhx#lin ling#tbhx lin ling#tbhx nice#tbhx spoilers#i'll make a tag eventually
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I lost the video but recently someone said “y’all want iconic 2000s pop stars again but can’t even handle Sabrina Carpenter” and I think that sums up roughly what’s going on
#also. Like. we have real world problems going on#she’s also a certified man hater look at her music videos?#the album cover is degrading in kinky ways not man obsessed ways jfc#sabrina carpenter#myupload
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