#nonbinary venting

[ryskyourheart]

Hiraeth No More

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I never thought that someone who became one of the best friends I’ve ever had

Would so quickly become someone I wish I’d never met.

I don’t regret the time we shared. Or I didn’t think I did. But I start to regret it more and more each time.

I don’t know what you think I did. If it’s something that I don’t even know about. But clearly there’s something terrible if you claim you can ruin my whole reputation.

Ha. Not that I have much of one.

I can’t decide if I’d rather go back to the good times, and just enjoy them deeper and make sure I change my actions in the bad parts and at the end. Or if I’d prefer to just forget it all ever happened.

You would say I should pick the second one because the first one isn’t possible. And that I need to move on.

But I don’t think you ever considered that neither are possible for me. They’re both just fantasies. So why not dream?

I always thought I’d never had a nightmare. But if I’m not careful, you will be one.

How I wish you were just a dream. Not a bad dream. Just a good one that turned weird and bad in the end.

I don’t have anything to be afraid of. But I still am. That’s anxiety, after all.

I was so afraid of hurting you and then I guess I still did. I messed up. I wish I hadn’t. I was so careful. I guess we were never right anyway.

Hope you have the life you deserve, baby.

[renrockzzzz]

"my daughter is fine"

no, your daughter isnt fine, nor your daughter. he's your son, and he's not fine either, because he can't tell you he feels this way and he's fucking tired of it.

[tommy2020]

I’m a boy and I kiss other boys.

I’m a boy and I was not born a boy.

I’m a boy and I use unconventional pronouns.

I’m a boy and I want to live as a boy.

I’m a boy and I want to be free to say that out loud.

I’m a boy and I want to live without fear of being hurt.

Just like the other boys.

My friend is a girl and she likes boys.

My friend is a girl and she was not born a girl.

My friend is a girl and uses she/her.

My friend is a girl and she wants to be called a girl, not a slur.

My friend is a girl and she should be allowed to live as a girl.

My friend is a girl and she shouldn’t be assaulted because she is a girl.

Just like the other girls.

My sibling is nonbinary and they like every gender.

My sibling is nonbinary and they were not born that way.

My sibling is nonbinary and uses whatever pronouns they feel like.

My sibling is nonbinary and wants to be perceived as a person too.

My sibling is nonbinary and should be allowed to choose what they call themselves.

My sibling is nonbinary and shouldn’t be shoved under the rug because their gender identity “doesn’t make sense”.

Just like other people.

WE ARE PEOPLE.

TRANS RIGHTS ARE HUMAN RIGHTS.

[penumbralwoods]

i love being transneutral i love not only being constantly excluded from things in my everyday life by virtue of being nonbinary but Also excluded from trans spaces and discussions bc i dont want to be 'aligned' with the gender binary in any way its awesome

[prispage]

life as a trans masc:

internet: "shut up about misogyny you're a man!"

real life: "shut up you are a woman. you will always be a woman. i'm gonna get you married."

[viviaaan]

So... you're telling me you're a "trans ally". You're telling me that you want to support trans people in such hard times.

But you're wearing a shirt that says "sisters not cisters". But your post is entirely about transfems. But the only way you mention other trans people is by saying "trans men are men and nonbinary people are nonbinary".

It just gets so tiring. I'm tired of never being fully told that I'm valid. I'm tired of always getting those dry "shut-the-fuck-up"-ing lines of "trans men are men, nonbinary people are nonbinary". I'm tired of my "sort" of transness not being seen as beautiful and inspiring and radical and joyful. I'm tired of always being mentioned just as a formality at best and being completely erased at worst.

[shelberrie]

I Do it to Myself, Again and Again (original vers)

|| twitter | instagram | tiktok ||

[boodledeeboops]

[looz-y]

touch grass or click to be useful! 👈

[t-mourningangel-t]

With Trump announcing that there are only two genders moving forward in America: I love the jokes, with the good baristas disappearing and whatnot. I really do find them funny.

The thing is, though, nonbinary people are in a way becoming illegal. As well as anyone in the transgender community. Not yet, really.

It may come to that if you are seen expressing yourself as the opposite sex from what you were born, or, in Trumps words, "conception," you will be arrested. Trump is stupid, I swear... (since everyone is proven to be female at conception).

He has also removed around 15,000 people from the military for being trans. That's 15,000 people willing to risk their LIVES for this country. It shouldn't matter if you find it confusing. It shouldn't matter if the only reason they're in the military is to raise money for gender affirming surgery. The only thing that should matter is that they are PEOPLE willing to serve their country.

The only thing confusing about people who identify as the opposite binary or out of them completely is the fact that you don't WANT to understand them.

(Edit: Someone corrected me on a few things, so here is an actual source to check out)

[sci-bax]

Is this real or nah

[jirai-dirt-2009]

Trans masc but not in the sporty cool guy way

But in the pathetic guy who doesn’t leave the house, looks a wee bit malnourished way

[eldritchlani]

Having parents that are good parents but aren't accepting of lgbtq stuff is weird because like, why am I grieving you while you're still alive. I'm going out doing stuff with you guys as a family that I would usually want to avoid because 'welp, when they find out, this is never gonna happen again.'

Like I just went fishing with my dad today. I have never wanted to go fishing before, until earlier when I realized that when they inevitably find out about the gay stuff, I'm never gonna have the chance to do it.

Every time I'm having a good time with them, I'm happy. I can pretend for a minute that everything is gonna be fine and dandy forever. But there's always this pit in my stomach knowing that it's not really gonna last.

And I know it goes without saying, but it really fucking hurts.

All I want is to stay close with you, to go out to dinner, to joke around, to help with the yard work, to show you my art, to visit on the holidays, and spend birthdays with you, but it's not gonna happen.

[proudfreakmetarusonikku]

hate how people have started using transmasc and transfem as a new binary like. going from “are you a boy or a girl” to “are you boy aligned or girl aligned?” is not actually that much better for nonbinary people like thanks you’re including a small fraction of us but the rest of us are still just casually being excluded i guess. and now it’s just become a “all afab enbies are transmasc and all amab enbies are transfem” like personally if you called me transmasc I’d punch you

[drakkonyan]

Let me out this vessel

[lijep-vampir]

"Perfect Things"

04-03-25:

Venting my frustration with the American gender binary, which defies nature at every turn. These "perfect" examples of sexual dimorphism can't be found anywhere except in the idyllic biome of the human imagination. "Male" and "female" are like dolls, coveted for their symmetry, for their Whiteness, for the supple strength of their bodies. But above all else, they are idolized for their complacency, for their rot, cleverly mistaken for divine truth.