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The blush??? The tenderness in the barely there touch with the sand that mimics gaara’s fingertips??? hello??? Naruto initiating the handshake but it’s gaara who encourages him to follow through bc he’s the only one who understands how hard it is for them to be vulnerable like that??? Because the fear of rejection is always lingering underneath it all??? Oh I’m gonna be sick
#if naruto had less of a saviour complex and would actually work in his abandonment issues#he would actually have ended up with gaara instead of sasuke#like I’m a doomed toxi yaoi enthousiast as much as the next bitch#but unfortunately for me I’m also a multishipper and gaara and naruto just work#they’re the healthy endgame#sasuke is the one that got away and gaara is the patient lover who picks up the pieces#brb crying#on a not shipping way though this really is the first time naruto tries to help and actually succeeds in saving one of his friends which is#why this moment is so so special and important to his growth#saw a post somewhere that saw everyone sees something else than Naruto when they look at him#a fallen friend#lover or teacher#or even a reflection of themselves#but only gaara sees naruto for who he is#I think both can be true in their case but that’s for another post#narutomaxxing#narutoposting#reread
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★ 067 // “Kiss Collab”
#jjba#jojo's bizarre adventure#steel ball run#sbr#gyjo#johnny joestar#gyro zeppeli#offerings#tools used:#note it app#I drew the Johnny. My partner drew the Gyro!#I wonder if this is at all reflective on how well Johnny and Gyro draw themselves in canon. I'd say this honestly seems accurate.#67 is my boyfriend's favorite number so I wanted to do something that would remind me of him or honor him somehow.#I had some other loftier ideas. But I think this came out perfect.#Our love is so simple and fun! And I think this reflects that perfectly.#I think a big reason why I like gyjo so much is there's something about those two that reminds me of us.#And I don't even think it's the personalities that resonate most but just like. the never-ending devotion to one another. y'know?#I would give up all the corpse parts for him.
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Something I really like is that April’s constant stream of odd jobs she goes through is somewhat reflected in the boys as well. Like, you have April working at random pizza places or getting a crane license or being fully willing to apply for a job at a place clearly made out of cardboard. Then you have the boys as well who do anything from working as a basketball mascot, building a massive dog park, being waiters, getting a whole band gig at a theme park, etc, etc-
Main difference is that April actively applies for these jobs (and is hopefully paid for the short time she’s in them) whereas for the bros the jobs usually find them (and they practically never get paid.) It doesn’t even stop at jobs either, they just seem to casually amass skills in general.
I don’t know, I like how both April and the turtles are just so ready and willing to do things. Sure, they’re not always good at these things, but they do them readily! In a way, being heroes is just another job (well, more like volunteer work/vigilantism/another fun activity) that they initially took on because of their general sense of “why not?”
They’re very willing and open to trying out new things despite their tendency to revert back to what they enjoy (and how commonly trying new things ends up going wrong), and I think that adaptational interest of theirs really helps them be well rounded in multiple regards.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt headcanons#like not even just jobs these characters just like to go out and do things!#even if they’re initially not interested they’re so curious and stuff that they’ll do it anyway#I wonder if April being as curious and incredibly open minded as she is rubbed off on the boys growing up#and they like…osmosis’d this personality trait from her to be like ‘yeah sure whatever’ to any antic#I also just think that they’re bored teenagers with a TON of time on their hands so they like to just live it up#I think the boys always had the desire to go out and apply themselves but meeting April likely pushed them more#y’know I wonder#what if April narrowed down just one job when in college and she actually managed to keep it#like…almost as a form of growth - she narrowed down jobs and careers and schooling as she hit early adulthood?#it’s kinda reflected in raph as well - originally so open and for goofing off but now much more singularly focused on hero stuff#kinda a sad way to look at growing up but it works here#because you have the three younger sibs still readily doing other things#not as focused on responsibility or singular paths#it’s sad because adulthood absolutely does not mean not being open to other things#but at that time in your life sometimes there’s a pressure and unwanted responsibility to pick a path y’know?#and it’s a relief to learn that actually there was never just one set path with one set trail you always had to stay on#and I think that’s reflected in how raph at the end of the movie opens back up to playing around and doing things for the fun of it
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And remember kids, the next time someone tells you, "George R. R. Martin wouldn't make Jon Snow the typical fantasy hero because that's cliche".....
Oh yes he would!
One viewer wants to know what character would you play (on the show)? GRRM: If I could magically clap my hands and become a different person, it would be cool to play Jon Snow who's much more of the classic hero. Everybody wants to be the classic hero! ABC Interview, 2014
GRRM: And the character I’d want to be? Well who wouldn’t want to be Jon Snow — the brooding, Byronic, romantic hero whom all the girls love. Meduza Interview, 2017
In fact he already has ☺️
#asoiaf#jon snow#yes grrm has criticized neo-tolkein fantasy - a lot!#but like....dpmo#I need so many people in this godforsaken fandom to familiarize themselves with grrm's engagement with the genre#he isn't trying to say “chosen one boy protagonist bad” where tf did people get that???#he's directly trying to challenge the more unsatisfactory elements of lesser copies of tolkien's legendarium#the ones that lift lotr wholesale without actually understanding what makes tolkien's writing snap#at the same time he has admitted himself that he has borrowed from lotr albeit with his own twists#but people in this fandom need to know that ye old man LOVES sword-and-sorcery fantasy#he LOVES a good epic#he LOVES pulp fantasy and sci fi#and those inspirations are directly reflected in asoiaf#the way he's named arthuriana/lotr/MST and many pulp stories with brooding dark heroes as key inspirations#almost all of which have mcs who fall into the typical fantasy hero role#and they inspire elements that are reflected back onto jon more than anyone else in asoiaf#like seoman snowlock = jon (+bran)#frodo - who btw is the mc in lotr not aragorn!! = jon (and bran)#FUCKING KING ARTHUR IS JON SO MUCH SO THAT RLJ IS LITERALLY A 1:1 COPY OF ARTHUR'S BIRTH STORY LIKE??!!!!#anyone who's even a little bit familiar with le morte d'arthur will be like oh yeah jon is literally king arthur like 😭😭#same with anyone who's ready the once and future king - which grrm has directly identified as his fav take on arthurian lit#ntm that jon is based on some of the most prolific characters in arthuriana - percival/galahad/lancelot etc#did you know that there's an iconic sci-fi series whose main character is called Eric JOHN STARK?#well grrm has directly quoted that series and the mc as a foundational book in his life#funny that huh? 🙂#do people even know what tf they're talking about when they say stuff like this???? ajdhhjshsbvshja#grrm engages very heavily with traditional fantasy tropes but he of course provides his own spin on them#never has he said that he's trying to avoid stories with hidden princes or chosen ones as boy protagonists#like someone find me a direct quote of him saying that - but I bet you can't smh
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"ewww jimmy is so ugly.... of course he looks like that... YUCK!!!" he literally just looks like the most average guy imaginable which is the whole point lol
#he's not insanely attractive either he genuinely is just really average and “normal”-looking#which is the whole point of his character; jimmy is absolutely someone who you could and possibly have met and is even supposed to#reflect the player to a degree#the devs have literally said that people are meant to see aspects of themselves in jimmy which is what makes his character that more#haunting and compelling#dax rambles#mouthwashing#jimmy
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super fun how you can see the way the writers switched-up on vi's character through literally like. two lines. one from s1 and one from s2
line from s1 [paraphrased]: "we don't mix. oil and water" from the break-up scene
line from s2: "i am the dirt under your nails, cupcake"
oil i ascribe specifically to vi and i think that story does too, as the only time it's previously mentioned is by vander's when emphasizing the importance of vi's role to the kids that follow her around.
"you ask for a fire, they show up with oil" (also paraphrased). you could characterize oil as something inherently impure when compared to water and that it's used to degrade her but oil in the earlier way it was mentioned contextualizes it as a spark that lights a fire and is ultimately useful in the undercity. water as ascribed to caitlyn when looking at oil as a spark can be seen as pointing to an inherent unavoidable nature to extinguish vi's fire but whatever. that is not the point of this.
when vi compares them to oil and water it emphasizes the separation of the two and that they'll never mix, but something to note is that oil sits atop water after settling when someone attempts to mix them together. when vi takes agency to separate herself from caitlyn she compares herself to oil, this metaphor does not situate vi as someone lower than caitlyn despite the inherent purity associated with water versus perceptions of oil as dirty
the line from s2, though, spits on this by directly characterizing vi as dirt, to start off with. then in her specifically being under caitlyn's nails, she places herself as physically lower than caitlyn. like, she describes herself as this dirty inconvenience that can not be dug out. very stark contrast from the way she displays her agency in the break-up scene from s1.
i think the lack of care the writers put into her character in season 2 can be seen in much larger ways but its also shown through something as small as the non-living things vi compares herself to
#sorry if you read this and thought 'its not that deep' unfortunately it is that deep to me (girl completing a bachelor's degree in english)#my whole thing is over-analyzing texts and even if this was unintentional the subconcious views the writers must have had of vi while#already sidelining her in the narrative showed themselves through how she views herself. vi is not a person with free will so every word#that comes from her mouth is a reflection of what the writers think of her#and they went from thinking of her as a character with agency who disregards hierarchy to reinforcing that status quo#and managing to display that just through the inanimate things she compares herself with in s1 versus s2! imagine that!#arcane#arcane season 2#arcane s2#arcane meta#arcane critical#vi#vi arcane#caitlyn kiramman#caitlyn arcane#caitlyn#caitvi critical#vi critical#caitvi meta
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thinking about how that solavellan ending actually Works for lavellans who want that hopeful ending but arent as forgiving abt the whole situation as veilguard presented it. and i do think in ashara's case, yes, she goes with him out of love, but more so out of duty. post trespasser she drops the name lavellan in favor of her family name, dhavise, since her place in the clan had already been cast into question and her allegiances with the chantry/solas are cause for doubt as to whether she's even welcome back anymore. but i think by the end of veilguard she's reaffirmed her identity as Lavellan no matter what, and truly does see herself as the Keeper of not just her own clan but of her whole modern people, and with that rekindled purpose she chooses to watch over them all by way of watching over fen'harel. protecting them by protecting him from himself. which ironically is the reason the dalish HAVE keepers in the first place
#oc: ashara#datv spoilers#datv#tay plays datv#sorry but we're doing solavellan tag essays again i fear#i am so :))))) abt lavellan's capacity to be for solas EXACTLY what varric was for rook in that prison#a guide. a reminder. an anchor. a hope.#started from the bottom (''fen'harel ma ghilana'') now we're here ("ar ghilana fen'harel'') !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#anyway the way i imagine the prison situation is that its exactly like any other place in the fade. changeable depending on emotion#and interpretation and point of view.#i think regret is so powerful as a prison lock bc anyone who believes themselves to be a god lacks the self awareness to even FEEL regret#so it WORKED for the evanuris. but it didnt work for rook because they arent a god and facing regret IS possible for them! and then like#the solas ending where he says “i am a GOD” Guarantees he cant escape bc hes PAST that point. the neutral ending leaves it open to anything#but the redemption ending is the one where he most clearly reaffirms that he is NOT a god and so the capacity for him to impact the walls#by facing its nature and by extension his OWN nature is... hopeful :) so i think its probably gonna look like it did in the game for a whil#but it will heal as he does :) im picturing a little house where everything seems a little bit brighter day by day#and when regret creeps back in and the fade reflects that then lavellan is there to fix it. and fix it again. and again and again if needed#until it finally DOES look like the way that end mural presented it. dare i say the black city goldened ...........
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so. Dream gets cursed by an spurned admirer/ex/random vindictive magic user which he pays absolutely no mind to because he's definitely been cussed out worse than that.
But suddenly anyone and everyone he encounters becomes a simpering mess/fawning idiot around him. in the Dreaming, everyone acts so horrendously out of character that it becomes so so awkward for him. absolutely tanks his productivity. the earthquakes (dreamquakes?) may or may not facilitate in some necessary physical distancing. someone lobs the L word at him and he nearly rips a hole through space and time to get away. it's better/worse in the Waking world. he doesn't know these people trying to seduce him. but they are still trying to seduce him so he does the Endless version of power walking away from this problem.
and he makes his way to The New Inn where he knows Hob is. he has absolutely no idea what Hob can do but going to a friend is a better alternative to just going from realm to realm, power walking away from a collection of people convinced they are in love?? with him????
Hob is definitely at his usual place in the New Inn and can absolutely feel the change in atmosphere the moment Dream enters. suddenly everyone zeroes in on Dream and Hob...has never seen that expression on his friend's face. like a cornered animal, if only in the form of a more than a god, no less than a goth that is Dream of the Endless. so Hob manages to shoo away the crowd from Dream, using his extraordinary powers of being the owner of the inn everyone is in to good use.
they hole up at Hob's place and try to figure out what the actual fuck is going on. Hob concludes that yes Dream, someone saying that "your lack of understanding of love is obviously caused by the scarcity of it in your life," and "that can be solved easily," is at the v least a red flag and at most the reason why there is a horde of people on your walking aphrodisiac ass rn. Dream points out that it's mild criticism not a curse. Hob does not have the training or time to unpack that one today.
hijinks that occur while they're trying to uncurse Dream:
call in Constantine for back up. the house call goes very badly for everyone involved. there was a sultry come on. a creature older than humanity lowkey scrambling up the kitchen shelves. an immortal testing his immortality by throwing a hissing magic user out the door. anyway. the consultation goes on much better on the phone. everyone promises never to talk about this incident ever again.
Dream contemplating on whether he should call on his siblings because they might know something about this or even causing it. but what they also get affected by this curse. would Dream be able to handle that?? and his thoughts spin out of control until Dream wordlessly just lies down on Hob's living room floor. Hob panics because is this the next part of the curse??? no it's just Dream borrowing trouble which is it's own curse but one at a time please and thank you.
Hob fighting off a delivery person who nearly breaks the door down when they catch a glimpse of Dream still on the living room floor. no one was hurt, no dumplings were forsaken, a huge tip was placed on the delivery person's face before closing the door.
the nature of love is discussed over dimsum. it's mostly how Dream deserves to be loved and respected (Hob) vs huh what a concept (Dream)
Matthew tries to sneak in so Hob and Dream have to find new hiding places in the Hob's place. the current favorite is under a blanket with a flashlight on
At some point Dream realizes that Hob is just. the way he usually is around Dream. no throwing himself af Dream or flowery declarations or anything??? Dream concludes (wrongly) that Hob's immortality might be making him immune. Hob is just sitting there, wondering if going "lol no, it's too late for that!! i've been down bad for you for centuries!!!" would be an appropriate response. it's not but god is he tempted. he gives in to his other temptation and lets Dream think that "yes immortality has anti-curse properties i guess, you really do learn something new everyday (cue nervous laughter)" 👀👀👀
#dreamling#TBC because im down to 5% battery lmaoo#but yea the curse is obsession at first sight and it goes away when Dream is out of sight#because that's what the curser felt about Dream and it reflected in the curse#vs Hob caring and loving (and definitely at least a lil bit obsessed) about Dream#even if it has been defined by the 100 years apart as much as the meetings themselves#thoughts have been thunk
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monstrilio – gerardo sámano córdova
[TEXT: Our son died before the dogwood pushed out its first flower, a bloom so simple with four white petals and a burst of yellow-green in the center—a beginner’s flower. I believed that flower was my son reincarnated. One believes the stupidest things in grief. I spoke to the flower and called it my son. And then I laughed because how ridiculous—how cruel, really—it would have been if my son was reincarnated as something so ephemeral, frail, and beautiful. I killed that first bloom with one swoop of my hand. Dead again, my son could become something else: the shell of a tortoise, strong and ancient, or a hideous fanged creature deep in the sea where he’d see wonders even he could’ve never imagined.]
#its about grief and the way we act in grief#its about the unfair expectations and the ideology of strength and normality even in the memory of your child#your son is not allowed to be fragile and gentle even in death because then he'll always be that fragile in your memory#which twists the tragedy of his death into something that was inevitable and lessens the weight of that loss#and how that pressure of views is reflected upon M's life. going from free and themselves while feeling loved loved#to hiding within themselves to not be a disappointment before they remember who you truly are (an imposter unworthy of love)#which causes M to flee so they can exist without the restraint of whats socially expected which will kill you before you are deemed normal#but okay okay im done. for now.....#Monstrilio#Gerardo Sámano Córdova#cryptcites
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i love that dasein was kind of meant to be the closest thing we get to seeing the wizard in "canon" bc its like. imagine being the wizard and teaching the ''nothing'' how to ''be'' and having to watch in horror as everyone and everything around him tries to twist him into something he doesnt want to be and taking advantage of his kindness and genuine urge to help and having to be like. holy shit. this is what its like to be on the outside of all that
dasein just wants to BE in the similar way that the wizard wants to be i think. and both of them are "outsiders"—they dont well and truly belong in the spiral, and give themselves away to the detriment of their own health and sanity. so when dasein understandably gets stressed out and starts malfunctioning, thats also a reflection of the wizard
#val.txt#and i mean reflection as in this is the closest thing we'll get to seeing how the wizard ''is''#theyre kind and help out even if they get what they wanted in the end#and even despite being betrayed over and over again they never deny someone their help...#by saving him theyre also like... saving themselves u know#to me this is kind of like an eclipse tower part 2#dasein confronts the ''nightmare'' of absorbing the old one and having to see what the old one did..#the relationship differs from wizard to wizard of course and everyones canon...#but idk! thats how i generally interpreted it anyways#i think i saw people talking about this too when novus first came out#tbf though i think arc 4 kinda hamfisted it a little. the narrative was too self aware to its detriment#too many people talkin about how the wizard is sooo powerful and throwing bosses at us that are only there to show how strong the wizard is#thats why i wanna see the yw LOSE in arc 5#wizard101 spoilers#just in case
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I just want to say one more thing for now, to anyone who is struggling right now because the Bad Batch has been your comfort show but how they handled Tech has potentially ruined that for you, you’re not alone. I know that doesn’t make it any easier to deal with, but you aren’t alone.
#the bad batch#the bad batch tech#tbb tech#star wars#i also want to say to people who are struggling with themselves right now because of it that you’re also not alone#i’m in a spiral because i’m so angry with myself for being so upset about something fictional#(that’s not a reflection on others it’s because i struggle badly with being ‘abnormal’)#and that i’m so upset about something fictional when there is so much going on in the world#i feel pathetic for it#so if anyone is feeling even remotely the same#i’m with you
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similar to Goodhart's Law (when a measure becomes a target, it fails as a measure), we should also have "when a critique becomes a shibboleth, it stops being critique"
#to explain/elaborate:#critique is about questioning our understanding and assumptions about something#looking at it more deeply and considering not just what something seems to be but what it is and how it exists in the world#a shibboleth on the other hand is a marker of an in-group#its a way of signaling to others that you too are a part of the group and that you belong#and that anyone who doesnt use the shibboleth doesnt#but when something that was once a critique (a subjective examination of an idea) becomes a shibboleth (a rigid membership symbol)#you can no longer work through the ideas presented by the critique because even that is interpreted as out-group behavior#even if you broadly agree with what the shibboleth is indicating you cant question any aspect of it or youre immediately “cast out”#and the people solidly within have no reason to question themselves because theyre the in-group. they belong#this was prompted by discussions of ai art but its hardly limited to it#itll happen any time you respond to someone questioning your assumptions with hostility instead of reflection#and its where all kinds of nonsense incestuous logic-loops come from#anyway thanks for readin love you mwah
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why do i love the conflict more than anything else . the misery . the incompatibility that spreads like oil slick . wanting so desperately for resolution that never comes . hmmm
#its the allure of like . mismatch btwn right person / wrong time . maybe in personal development and such#or wrong person / right time and trying 2 make it work but the circumstances are set 2 separate you#i think the guilt ford harbors over his relationship w fidds is good and i think hes had a lot of reflection . 30 yrs at least#but i dont rly care for like a . HELPP SRY IM LIKE talking to myself#i dont rly care ‘if’ they got back tgether in the end#fanon wise or whagever obviouslyy . no avrually emma-may kicking fidds out over the xmas thing its over HELPPPP#i feel like i always hve to clarify bc then theres that one guy whos like ‘smth smth you cant read . ooc loser .’idgaf . not gaffing today#i think mcguckets decision to forgive him is rly sweet And i do like the recognition of .. the whole incident being a misstep on both their#parts ykwim ? like ford was an ass for sureee but also mcgucket + memory gun was his own autonomous detriment#but#no i cant read the other tags i was writing i forgot where i was at#anyways im so obsessed w like . this being such an imperfect event with imperfect equals#ford theory and fidds the mechanics . which brw im also obsessed w how That is revered in canon .#but yeah like imperfect event imperfect people who shared an incredible connecfion in my freaking mind#that was ultimately squandered to fords pride and fidds reticence#ugh like i love the rise and fall i love the strenght of their connection generally corroding over time#its just such a cool motivator for both themselves and like its a history they share together and post weirdmageddon get to finally think a#knowing now what they didnt have the tools to recognize then#idk.^__^ they r so crazy to me . playing w them like dolls in my head#fiddleford mcgucket#stanford pines#gravity falls#every time i think ab this wrt every challeneged dynamic i think ab mars in the discord#talking ab x and y charas epic divorce arc#and im not even saying this to discredit Good relationships in media#bc those have a wealth of fun and interesting concepts or dynamics to dive into#its just something ab like . poetry of anger bro . and how love and hate can feel so similar and be borne from the same place#how one can transform into the other and back again due to . idk whatevee the hell theyve got going on^#prev post got me wishing we had more meat to the fallout#or that it was extended in content or scope . i want 2 see how they dealt with losing the other and then
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#web weaving#jjk#jujutsu kaisen#itadori yuuji#ryoumen sukuna#the idea behind this web is yuuji and sukuna as reflections of each other#and also the very strange mutual respect they have for each other that is brutal and twisted and unrivaled in viciousness#i think they have a very curious dynamic#i think they probably loved each other in the only way that they were able- how can you not love someone who holds a piece of your soul?#to clarify i dont mean this romantically#i mean it as the way yuuji tried desperately to understand sukuna even if he couldnt exactly forgive him#and the way sukuna couldnt leave yuuji alone or let him go until the one leaving wass himself#the way they both fascinated and repulsed each other#existing as two sides of the same coin#their relationship is complicated and multi-faceted#they hate the other for the things they force them to see about themselves#but thats also why they cant help but care about each other too#even if that 'caring' isnt kind#even if that 'caring' manifests itself in a fixation that burns and bites and bleeds#'caring' in the sense of mattering not necessarily tender emotion#anyway#yeah#just itadori and ryoumen sukuna
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huge eric fan now for how he is about his weird little two-thousand-year-old enlightened teenage dad . like, oh, i'm huge and tall but i never want to seem like i'm looming over you so whenever we're face to face i'll kneel or sit below you and look up like you're some kind of jesus . when i met you i thought you were death and you said come walk with me through the dark and i said what's in it for me? and it's been a thousand years and i'm the age now that you were then and i haven't changed; i'm still a careless, blood-soaked opportunist and loving it, but you decided you were a pacifist somewhere in the past couple centuries and i SO SUPER don't get it but i love you so i hope you're happy and enjoying your linen smocks and ancient mien of peaceful remorse. and then i let you die because you think it will help and i hate to let you down. and i never get over you, ever
#do you think if godric hadn't died that eric would eventually be like. oh ive grown past him he has become weak in his dotage#unlike me a strong hot thousand year old bloodthirsty jock#like would his having lived - after having had a change of philosophy - have ruined their relationship?#was his death a catalyst for reflection or a catalyst for stagnation?#because most vampires. they stagnate or they get obsessive . that's just what happens when you live long enough to get bored#but he was having new experiences until his last moment on earth#and that's rare. other vamps - ones even older than he was - are extremely stagnant and extremely obsessive#they find their rut and they grind themselves into it until it kills them#godric was like. well i've had enough of this rut. let's try something else . and then he died. and like. he died -#but he died doing something he'd never done before which is impressive at two thousand forty something#true blood#q
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i agree with what you’ve been saying and while idk if this is exactly what you’re trying to get across in your posts i’ve always thought people in fandom that get so worked up over who tops and who bottoms would benefit from not trying to apply pseudo intellectualism to fictional characters and their fictional sex lives in terms of what positions/roles they would prefer and instead realize there’s no such thing as “evidence” for what a character would be like in bed. like not to say there’s NOT preconceived biases that affect who gets assigned what by fandoms but also i wish more people realized personality ≠ sexual preference and at the end of the day all our interpretations basically boil down to headcanons with no actual basis. me personally i like bottom eddie. because it’s sexy To Me. others like top eddie. because it’s sexy To Them. (and buck is also there i guess) i promise it really can be as simple as just that lmao
yeah i mean this is kind of what it comes down to although i recognize that finding it sexy isn’t necessarily the ONLY thing it’s just usually the thing. and people feel really defensive over that because there’s a lot of baggage tied up in this kind of discussion (which is why imo i also feel like it’s unproductive to wholesale be like why do we talk about this at all? well it comes up across fandoms without fail so obviously there’s something to talk about). but my point is kind of like, this is a completely insubstantial argument because at the end of the day, everything else aside, you are literally just talking about A Thing People Do With Their Bodies. and pretty much all of the things anyone tries to argue around that are going to be caught up in all kinds of rigid ideas about how sex works or what it means to have sex in this way or that way or that doing this makes you that and so on and so forth, and therefore it will pretty much always be harmful—especially given that the vast majority of the time the reason people start talking about gender studies or whatever is because they see that kind of theory as unassailable—while on the other hand like. you are free to just say you just think it’s hot or you like X aspect of it or you just don’t like the other thing, you just won’t have the higher ground that way. idk it’s always funny to me to see the kinds of rules people set up in their heads. like for example im always getting asks that are like um you like top eddie? but he deserves to have prostate orgasms! .. ok? why can’t he? you like top eddie? but he should be taken care of! .. ok? what’s stopping him? like my point is just that i think it is really evident what kinds of ideas people have around certain sex roles in the bedroom and the way they talk about or against those ideas is frequently really really really weird, much weirder if they just said they like what they like
#asks#to me this doesnt apply in exactly the same way when talking about like dom/sub roles#because well first of all i do laugh at dom buck and that will never change. but even in that case for me it tends to be about#what i think are erroneous or unbelievable interpretations of what is actually happening on the show. or bad characterization. or a dynamic#that isnt reflective of the characters themselves. but im not gonna argue against it getting you hot like what is anyone gonna do abt that#like to me this is way more about the psychological/actual character stuff so i mean yeah theres stuff i Will say#however in many ways its obviously still not provable#which i recognize. again i am not trying to claim to be noble. just self aware
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