#reminder to self :’)

[miso-so]

miso reminder 🫶

You can simply let the good things happen because you deserve it.

[refat-ahmed]

Ibn al-Qayyim رحمه الله:

"Every time the slave has good thoughts about Allāh, perfects his hope in Him, and is truthful in his trust in Him, then indeed Allāh will never ever disappoint him nor let him down, for He does not break the hope of the hoper, nor will he waste the deeds of the doer."

[al-Fawā’id]

[wheelchairtetris]

It's okay if you've pushed yourself too far. It's okay if you overdid it and are dealing with the consequences. It's okay if you did something that made your condition worse, intentionally or unintentionally. You have autonomy & do not have to only do things that make you "better".

[bear-tr4p]

mmm wip (theyre abt to kiss)

[muirmarie]

[exhaling a long, slow breath] it doesn't matter if they don't like you, you don't exist to be liked by everyone, you exist to live, to like yourself, and to stay close to the people who like you as much as you like them

[the-ravenscove]

a reminder: you are worthy, you are worthy, you are worthy

[tuttle-did-it]

It’s really weird when you’re super dyslexic and in the M*A*S*H fandom, and Star Trek fandom. Cos you see one post talking about Jamie Farr and then the next post talking about Pon Farr.

And your dumb dyslexic brain has to mentally break down which reality you are currently in. Every time you see a post with ‘Farr’ in it.

[miso-so]

[refat-ahmed]

Shaykh Al-Uthaymeen رحمه الله said:

"The wife will be the coolness of the eye for her husband, and the husband will be the coolness of the eye for his wife (only) if they do what is required of them from the deen of Allah."

[Al-Liqaa’ Ash-Shahri 40]

[hippolotamus]

Unlike self criticism that asks ‘am i good enough?’, self compassion asks ‘is this good for me?’

I heard this quote a few days ago and it really stuck with me. It feels incredibly relevant right now, when we’re bound to find ourselves in changing spaces, whether that be fandom, politics, etc.

Whatever you're feeling right now - mad, sad, happy, afraid - is valid. If it doesn't feel good in your soul, don't ignore that, but do take the steps that are in your power to change. However small they may be.

Pay attention and treat yourself well, lovelies 💞

[destinationtoast]

It's always worrisome to see a post going around where op asserts something followed by a chain of reblogs all going "no way! my mind is blown!" -- but if you glance through the notes you find a whole lot of people debunking it. And it's doubly worrying when it's about health stuff.

Gentle reminder that if something makes you go "no way!" you might want to fact check... and if you aren't sure what to google, you can also skim the post notes to see if someone else has already done it. There are some awesome science folks on Tumblr who like to go look up the relevant papers and share highlights in the notes.

[thejournallo]

GENTLE REMINDER:

You are a clock that ticks at its own time. Stop trying to tick faster than you should.

[brownsugar4hersoul]

“Whenever you are about to find fault with someone, ask yourself the following question: What fault of mine most nearly resembles the one I am about to criticize?”

― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

[magicratfingers]