#sysian

[pride-stars]

Sysian : a member of a system who is exclusively attracted to other members in their own system.

[plurillean-confessions]

I used to be a persecutor and I tell everyone insys that I reformed because I wanted to be good when really the only reason I reformed is because my boyfriend was there for me when no one else was and helped me realise this system isn't full of idiots who deserve to be hurt, and everyone makes mistakes

And if he didn't exist I'd still be hurting us

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[anendoandfriendo]

Dies anyone else find it REALLY weird that the one person telling people how to be allies to transgender people started saying "I'm not talking about edge cases" after we talked about plurality? And iwrc someone who is cis+ also talked about being cis+ as well? And someone talked about being a cisgender mother of a queer kid????

You know, as in, people who are still genderfucked even if they're cisgender to some degree or have a stake in genderfuckery?????

Anyways, regardless of if that was intentional or not, we're pissed so we made a BUNCH of stuff:

We are very very much going to make more of these, because we also like them but also we can and will shove plurality down peoples' throats until we start being accepted and we are nor longer being nice about it. We will be "friendo" to people who aren't plurmisic and ONLY people who aren't plurmisic at this point we swear —

Anyways in order, we have:

Progress Queer | Original Queer

Gay | Sysian

Plurillean | Transmasculine

Transneutral | Queer Chevron

(Part 2)

[redacted-coiner]

Would you consider praesigenic, plurillean, and sysian pride pixels if you haven't done them already?

https://pluralpedia.org/w/Praesigenic#/media/File:Praesigenic.png

https://pluralpedia.org/w/Plurillean#/media/File:Plurillean_by_plurgai.png

https://pluralpedia.org/w/Sysian#/media/File:Sysian.png

Plurillean , Praesigenic , Sysian

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NOTE: I don’t give a shit about orgin discourse and I’ll block those who’ll try to bring me into it!

[thebluemoonsystempack]

Burning with jealously for just a few seconds, and then going "ahhhh okay, THERE'S the transyandere" when I think about Him, especially when he's anywhere in our system/inner world that isn't literally between me and Winter.

- Issac

[anendoandfriendo]

Thie current fronter almost said "MEEEEE" before realizing they have like, at lwast two wholeass partners.

I know im not good enough to be considered as a partner but would you adopt me as a dog?

[chiroluna]

PAM Lesbian

a PAM term for when one is a lesbian in the innerworld, but something else while fronting.

Tag List: @radiomogai , @pluralterms , @system-term-archive , @plurchive

[apocalymons]

happy pride to me from my headmates who won't stop calling me apocalysexual

[plurillean-confessions]

Content warning for dormancy.

I think, soon, it will have been a year since my partner went dormant. I still feel such intense mourning and longing when I think about him. Due to extreme anxiety and a need for privacy we never really got to talk about our relationship publicly. We got to have our relationship, then he went dormant, and I’ve never been able to talk about it; any of it. I have no one in my life, outside of our own system, who I could talk to this about.

Lately I’ve been feeling little flickers that remind me of him, that feel like him. But I don’t really think it’s possible, not with the reasons he went dormant. Maybe I’m just trying to be hopeful that I’ll get to spend some more time with him. It’s lonely without him.

I still feel like I can’t talk about him though. If I did, others would just hear [his source character from show], but that’s NOT him. Not even close. He was just himself.

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[anendoandfriendo]

3 - 4 in the morning thoughts right now but we wonder how many plural systems out there are saying they're asexual aromantic or similar when they're actually just...collectively sysian*.

Mainly the thought process here is: a lot of the struggles are the same on a surface level, but following the actual reasoning is completely different honestly.

Also, if you're like us and you start out as a much smaller system, it's entirely possible you won't even notice and it ends up functionally the same until your system population basically explodes (assuming it even does) and then someone goes "oh wow, that person is gorgeous actually can I kiss/fuck them??? How does that work in my own head??? Does it even have to be the same physically as an external-world relationship or are there certain processes I can straight up ignore????" and that's when at least a few people figure it out.

And then, like, there is the fact sysian and plurillean are umbrella terms the way achillean, sapphic, and delphinean are umbrella terms, so if you use the split attraction model the way it is supposed to, you could technically also have different sexualities for the inner world and outer world + whatever other orientations you have and be something like sysian lesbian/plurillean heterosexual, sysian gay man/external world ONLY you are demisexual instead (still gay but the modifier is that demi part), and other weird shit that even queers being queer, because we will be honest, plurality makes everything fucking WEIRD even by normie queer standards.

*obligatory disclaimer you can be both, asexuality is a valid sexuality, aromantic is a valid romanticism/romantic attraction and because headmates are separate people you can have, for example, three headmates and all are sysian but one is pansexual demiromamtic and one is asexual alloromantic and one is bisexual heteroromantic. Or smth like that. At minimum our very very last paragraph above should have made this very clear, but, at the same time — this IS the "piss on the poor" website.

[bishopcoins]

  🪙 sysian polyamorous

sysian polyamorous: a romantic term for when one is polyamorous for their own headmates only.

this flag was made with each systems' alters' personhood and a rejection of singlet and monogamous culture in mind.

a flag for plurals, systems, headmates, alters.

🎁original flag coined by @bluemoonsystemrq

[image id: a flag with 7 evenly sized horizontal stripes. its colors go from top to bottom in eggplant, orchid, deep blue, black, red, verdant, and dark green. in the center of the flag is a black circle with a yellow pi symbol inside. underlayed the pi symbol in a light grey is an ampersand. /end id]

  📥 requests open!   📬 for @bluemoonsystemrq   🔗 hd vector

🧺——— coined by requester, designed by red bishop council

i used both the palette for the sysian flag and the tri colored pi polyamorous flag to make this! i hope it's to your liking. — bishop

[enbyhyena]

There's also fictivian for fictive-specific or fictive-on-fictive attraction. Thought I'd tack that on since fictosexuality was mentioned. :)) And if you ever want to mask your plural-aligned attraction (like we do when we call ourselves aroace fictosexual), you could use autosexual!

- Ray (He/They) ☀️

is there an aspec subterm for only experiencing attraction between system members/intra-system attraction? could combine it with other terms like fictosexual or something too. if there isnt I honestly might coin something

[syscultureis]

system culture + sysian culture is being borderline addicted to the love of your headmates.

i dont feel good unless i’m dissociating and laughing with my headmates. i’m neglecting my work and school because i just want to cuddle my headmates. i’m cutting people off because they’re taking up too much time in my life and i could use that time to love on my headmates. i hate not dissociating because it means i’m not with my loved ones.

i know its bad, i know my once healthy coping mechanism is turning into an unhealthy escape from life but god its so addictive, it’s like fucking ambrosia when i just get to talk, joke, and laugh with them

Definition of Sysian

[rusanyas-sunshine]

Happy pride month to sysians! Even if everything else is "normative" the fact that your attraction is exlsuive to your headmates ONLY is what makes you queer.

You have a place here!

YOU ALL have a place here!

[pride-stars]

Sysian flag please?

And endogenic if you haven't yet already?

Done and queued!

[anendoandfriendo]

the idea of both Ash ad James somehow being asexual and/or under the acespec umbrella is —

Yeah

But more importantly the ARO and AROSPEC umbrellas

Ace Trainers

[All comics in order here]