#venus in 12h

[kierstins-astrology3]

Astrology Observations #6 ♀☆

Venus edition. 🩷

Observations on the planet Venus which represents beauty, aesthetics, romances & ur wants & needs in relationships in astrology. Venus is also the wife in Astrology. Where���s Venus in your chart?

☆Venus in 1h, in Aries or at 1° 13° 25° degrees: emphasis your appearance, body is beautiful. You could be a bold, confident lover and love hard. Your relationships could come in fast. You could put a lot of effort into your appearance, body, self. You could want a bold, passionate relationship & lover. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to women your fs could have Aries placements : Aries =1H.

☆Venus in 2h, in Taurus or at 2° 14° 26° degrees: emphasis on your beauty, aesthetics, self-esteem, stability. You could be a stable, beautiful, loyal lover. Your relationships can be stable or can attract stable long relationships. You could be naturally beautiful. You could want a relationship with romantic gestures, stability, someone secure and financially stable. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to women your fs could have Taurus placements : Taurus= 2H.

☆Venus in 3h, in Gemini or at 3° 15° 27° degrees: emphasis on your communication, learning, internet, short travels. You could be a very witty, smart, funny lover. Your relationships can need a lot of mental stimulation & communication. Your communication could be beautiful. You could want mental stimulation again, learning , someone funny, smart, good with technology in your relationships. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to women your fs could have Gemini placements: Gemini =3H.

☆Venus in 4h, in Cancer, 4° 16° 28° degrees: emphasis on your emotions, family, home, intuition, the mother. You could be a very emotional, nurturing lover. Your relationships can have traditional roles / values or you can want a traditional relationship dynamic. You could need a lot of care, love and nurturing in your relationships. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to women your fs could have Cancer placements : Cancer= 4H.

☆Venus in 5h, in Leo, 5° 17° 29° degrees: emphasis on your creativity, fun, talents, romantic life, children. You could be a very creative, fun, romantic lover. Your relationships could be short term because the 5h is also short term connections / hookups. Your relationships can also be fun, have lots of romance in them, loyalty. You need a lot of fun and love in your connections. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to women your fs could have Leo placements: Leo = 5H. If you have a Leo Venus or at Leo degrees your love life can be well-known for a period of time.

☆Venus in 6h, in Virgo, 6° 18° degrees: emphasis on your daily routines, health, work, animals, helping others. You could be a very good, helpful, healing lover. Your relationships can have to have a routine together, staying healthy together, healing together, helping others together. You need a lot of stability in your connections. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to women your fs could have Virgo placements: Virgo =6H.

☆Venus in 7h, in Libra, 7° 19° degrees: emphasis on your relationships, business contracts, beauty, balance, open enemies. You could be a very beautiful, balanced, romantic lover. Your relationships can have to have a lot of beautiful moments / romance in them. You need a lot of balance, harmony in your connections. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to women your fs could have Libra placements: Libra= 7H.

☆Venus in 8h, in Scorpio, 8° 20° degrees: emphasis on power, transformation, wealth, the occult, intimacy. You could be an intense, powerful lover. Your relationships can have to have transformations in them, having power in them and possibly having wealth together. Also with Venus 8h your relationships could possibly be intense even toxic. You need a lot of transformation and intimacy in your connections. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to woman your fs could have Scorpio placements: Scorpio= 8H.

☆Venus in 9h, in Sagittarius, 9° 21° degrees: emphasis on travel, spirituality, religion, learning. You could be a smart, adventurous, wild lover. Your relationship can have to have learning & having new adventures, spiritual or religious belief systems possibly. You need a lot of adventure and teaching / learning in your connections. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to woman your fs could have Sagittarius placements: Sagittarius = 9H.

☆Venus in 10h, in Capricorn, 10° 22° degrees: emphasis on work, career, reputation, hard work. You could be a hardworking, serious, devoted lover. Your relationships can have to have hard work put into them. You need a lot of devotion and seriousness in your connections. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to woman your fs could have Capricorn placements: Capricorn=10H.

☆Venus in 11h, in Aquarius, 11° 23° degrees: emphasis on uniqueness, friendships, the internet. You could be a unique, friendly, rebellious lover. Your relationships can have to have independence in them, your partner to be your best friend. You need a lot of uniqueness and individuality in your connections. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to woman your fs could have Aquarius placements: Aquarius =11H.

☆Venus in 12h, in Pisces, 12° 24° degrees: emphasis on creativity, spirituality, emotions, delusion. You could be a very romantic, creative but delusional lover. Your relationships can have to have a lot of romance, creativity and heavy emotions involved. You need again romance and even to feel heavy emotions and a spiritual connection in your connections. If you’re a man or a woman attracted to a woman your fs could have Pisces placements: Pisces = 12H.

Having Venus in Retrograde rx can mean challenges with your beauty, aesthetics, your relationships, what you want in them.

My Venus placement: Gemini 4h 21° (Sagittarius) degree. My fs could have Gemini, cancer and Sagittarius placements.

[queen-of-signs]

This is a pretty weird ask lol. But...I have Venus in Virgo, on the 12H 🤡 (And Mars 💀)

As I never had a real boyfriend or something, I have always been "in love" with public figures (actors, rockstars, YouTubers) since I was a teen and until THIS DAY...

Of course I know they don't know me lol, and of course I know this isn't real, but it's like I'm so in love with their physical apereance that I can't distinguish the "character" from the real person, to say so, and I develop an obsession and start to develop "feelings" and talk to "them" as a way of...dealing with my eternal loneliness, is something like this common for people with Venus 12H?

(When I tried to said this to a therapist she said it wasn't common in people of my age (30) and I can't talk about this since then.

How can I disntinguish from the fact that I love someones apeareance and not their...true self? A birth chart reading could tell more?

Also...if I like someone's features, that's exactly what I'm always looking for, I had long distance relationship with a man that marked me so deeply (toxic af) and recently I discovered an actor named Taylor Zakhar Perez who it's the spitting image of my "ex" and now I'm obsessed with finding a look alike... obsession is so common for me...ALWAYS.

I totally get you, it’s kinda like you’re in love with the idea of someone rather than the real person. The 12th house is all about hidden stuff, so you might not even realize it, but you’re projecting your feelings onto these public figures, turning them into this perfect image in your head. It’s totally common with this placement, you’re kind of falling for the fantasy.

Add a spoon of Mars here, and it gets even more intense. You probably feel super passionate about your crushes, and when you're attracted to someone’s looks, it’s like game on. You get fixated and that obsession energy kicks in.

Honestly, it's totally okay to have these kinds of crushes, and I get why your therapist might’ve been a bit thrown off as it’s not something everyone experiences, but it’s not that weird either!

Yes, a birth chart reading could tell more about you on all 360 degree, LOL.

[oliviamillss]

my solar return predictions for age 19!

12h stellium again :( -> praying for no deaths this time, and no fainting issues again! i am quite nervous, last time i had this my mental health was really bad, it genuinely was an awful age from start to finish. i only want to make a positive prediction about this, and i hope it means i will heal mentally!

sun and chiron in 1st -> with sun being here, i think i will express more of my personality more? i have always struggled with understanding myself, and who i am as a person, and how i am perceived. but with the sun in 1st maybe i will be able to have a personality more? and with chiron here, i think i'm going to have a few body issues this year tbh

mars in 5th -> maybe i will be able to stand up for myself more. i think i will prioritise what makes me actually happy, i may have more of a social life? romantically however, i think this placement shows i am sticking with my 'no commitment' era that year.

moon in 8th -> this placement, along with the fact it is in my natal sign (!!) i think shows i am going to heal. i have been struggling emotionally for about 4 years now, and haven't been able to heal. i think this provides me with closure and healing so i can finally recover from the emotional trauma from a while ago

capricorn mc -> i think with starting uni, and starting new jobs etc it will be a very productive year. but with saturn in 12h maybe i will hide how much effort i am putting in?

libra dc -> i think, with mars in 5h, i will want a relationship but talk myself out of it, to prevent myself from being hurt.

venus in 12h, in pisces, conj saturn -> with libra dc especially, it reinforces the whole 'want a relationship but i prevent myself from it' thing. i will restrict myself from what i want. maybe due to being too busy with studies or jobs.

conclusion: i think this year will be a lot of battles with myself, whilst also healing from past experiences. i think there could be an element of fun to it? keeping my fingers crossed xx

[bluebubblebits]

Everytime I read a post about venus in 12th house here on tumblr,I get emotional because its a placement that is hard to define but damn the way tumblr astrologers articulate it so well...

[eudaimonia-o]

🫧 natal astrology observations part 3 🫧

✫ it's really hard to ever know what a pisces moon is thinking or feeling, their inner world is a mystery to everyone including themselves

✫ mars conjunct venus can be super bold, romantic, and have a really high libido

✫ sagittarius mars loves driving, not just in a car it could be a motorcycle, riding a horse, they may skate, anything with wheels or makes you go faster

✫ leo venus NEEDS a partner to be loud and proud about their love for them. they are the definition of "want you to make me feel like i'm the only girl in the world"

✫ aquarius moons aren't always "unemotional", they may feel deeply, but about things most deem unconventional. they may struggle to emotionally connect in their personal life but feel deeply about humanity as a whole, really they just care more about injustice and the bigger picture

✫ 7H chiron x codependent partners

✫ sun square lilith women could have a dad that tries to control and constrict their sexuality "where are you going wearing that" "you can't date till your 35"

✫ I have never met someone with sun square moon whose parents are happily together (I have this and my parents divorced when I was 1)

✫ 2H venus and 4H venus are elite hosts. they completely elevate whatever space they have

✫ mercury opposite mars turn every conversation into a debate

✫ 12H chiron could have carried wounds from their past lives that effect them in this lifetime. + the fact that their wounds are hidden and sub/unconscious can make healing hard, yet very rewarding

✫ sun conjunct neptune can have a strong spiritual connection with their father even after he passes. they may be able to talk to him in the spirit world or in their dreams. while he's alive, they may idealize him

✫ every aquarius man looks like flick from a bugs life to me

[myun-saidthoughts]

✿❁✿❁✿ 8th House and Pluto Synastry ✿❁✿❁✿

8th house/Pluto synastry — especially when you carry deep wounds around self-worth, love, value, and abandonment — can feel very similar to the peace people describe during near-death experiences, and that's not a coincidence.

When I hear stories about their near death experiences, they always mention a sense of pure bliss, serenity, comfort, and calm that is surrounding them. It's as if any and all wounds within dissipates and all that is left is love and fulfillment. The 8th house carries themes of change, ego death, transformation, and everything that comes with surrender and release.

So when you form an 8th house connection with someone and carry those wounds, it’s as if this person lifts you into a frequency where all that internal pain vanishes — just like what happens when you actually pass on from this physical earth.

When someone’s Pluto touches your personal planets or activates your 8th house, the feeling isn’t just healing — it’s otherworldly. There's suddenly no more abandonment wounds, no more aching past; the deeper your wound, the more powerful their presence will feel.

8th house/Pluto synastry mirrors this freeing frequency, and it's the one your soul knows intimately, the one your consciousness is most familiar with and that's why this person will feel like "home."

Imagine experiencing even a glimpse of that kind of peace here, on this chaotic planet we call Earth — and then trying to let it go? That’s why it can be so hard to let go of this person, that's why your soul looks for them when everything else within you says you shouldn't.

it’s so hard to detach from this kind of bond. The dilemma of wishing to letting go is constant, the deeper the desire for love the more conflicted your soul and mind will feel.

Being with them feels like all the pain inside you finally quiets. It’s no coincidence that the one person who unlocks this part of you also holds the key to releasing all the human hurt you carry. This is why this house holds so much karma—they help you confront the inner wounds this physical world has caused. And so, saying goodbye to them means letting go of the version of yourself you always wished you could be—the version you held onto before the world convinced you that you weren’t enough.

[thatsherastro]

RANDOM ASTRO NOTES: PART 6

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Never underestimate a mutable Mars ability to beat someone up. Once these people are angered it’s nearly IMPOSSIBLE to stop them. ( Sagittarius, Virgo, Gemini, & Pisces) . That mutable energy can make these natives VERY unpredictable and hard to control .  

Capricorn moon , moon-saturn , moon- pluto  & even scorpio moon  Be very mindful not to become emotionally detached , apathetic or obsessive. These people have to remember to turn their pain into purpose.  

Virgos tend to project a lot. They are hard on themselves so they project that energy outwards.  I think sometimes it bothers Virgos when they see people living without the pressure to be a perfect human being.  

Capricorn men aren’t really the type of men to be sugar daddies, they prefer to find someone who already has a foundation and then work their way up. 

Will a taurus man spoil you ? yes. Will that taurus man try to take everything that he’s ever given you once you guys break up ? also YES! 

12H moons , listen to your dreams. This will be a guiding force for you through life 

Geminis actually love chaos. No matter how much it takes a toll on them mentally. The obvious decision will be right in front of a gemini and they will take the hard route just for the plot . 

Scorpio Mars needs to have a healthy outlet to release negative emotions. try boxing , strength training, and HITT workouts to take the edge off.  

The stereotype is true, Taurus mars are lazy. They take their sweet time to do simple tasks. It’ll get done,but in 2 years.  

The reason why cancer is the BEST emotional manipulator out of the water signs is because Pisces take their manipulation too far AND they always paint themselves out to be the victim to the point that people start to not believe them.  

Having a Capricorn Mars at the 29th degree can make a person cruel , controlling, & calculated . Their need for power will make them do some crazy things

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BEFORE I GET INTO THIS, I WANT TO REMIND YOU THAT THE CELEBRITIES/PUBLIC FIGURES THAT ARE LISTED HERE ARE USED FOR AN EXAMPLE TO HOW IT COULD MANIFEST IN ONE'S CHART. I DO NOT SUPPORT THE ACTIONS OF SOME OF THE PEOPLE I HAVE LISTED, THANK YOU.

♇ before we expand about the planetary joys placements, we need to understand what it is about.

♇ planetary joys comes from hellenistic astrology, so nothing after the planet saturn [uranus, neptune and pluto], are not included within the belief. but planetary joys is about where the traditional planets in rejoice in a chart. [where they work the best].

SUN ⟶ 9H; the house of God.

MOON ⟶ 3H; the house of Goddess.

MERCURY ⟶ 1H; the house of Helm.

VENUS ⟶ 5H; the house of Good Fortune.

MARS ⟶ 6H; the house of Bad Fortune.

JUPITER ⟶ 11H; the house of Good Spirit.

SATURN ⟶ 12H; the house of Bad Spirit.

♇ in this, the benefic planets, venus and jupiter are associated with the benefic houses. [5H AND 11H].

♇ in this, the malefic planets, mars and saturn are associated with the malefic planets. [6H AND 12H].

♇ sun, saturn and jupiter are diurnal, meaning it's at the top of the chart, the morning or the day. whereas moon, venus and mars are nocturnal, meaning its at the bottom of the chart, the night.

♇ mercury can be both since it's on the helm, the ascendant, the first house.

PLANETARY JOYS PLACEMENTS ⬎

SUN IN THE 9H

♱ the 9H is known as the house of God, connections to beliefs, faith and philosophy. also with education as it is about arrangement about what someone could believe in.

♱ people that i've seen with this are wildly liked, especially celebrities that i'll list after this. they could also be people who have massive supporters, and they can be very vocal about their opinions, bad or good.

♱ they can be very provoking people, but they can also be people who make other people take accountability or even make a movement; or they could make other people aware of another person's behaviour.

DAKOTA JOHNSON = ELLEN.

KENDRICK LAMAR = DRAKE.

MARTIN LUTHER KING = WHITE RACISM.

they can also be known for their great smiles.

celebrities with 9H sun ⟶ martin luther king, billie eilish, brigitte bardot, jessica alba, kendrick lamar and dakota johnson.

MOON IN THE 3H

♇ the 3H is known as the house of Goddess, it's opposite the 9H. thus the name Goddess. along with it being associated with the Moon, and the Moon Goddess is Luna/Selene which translates to Moon. it is about alternative religions, different ideas, and can be people who like to spread messages or commands.

♇ very strong opinions, they also have a lot of supporters, though they could also be very annoying and provoking. if they're not careful, they can come off as know it alls.

♇ as celebrities, they're very easy to market and they can do well with influencing other people. can have a really wide smile as well.

♇ could be the type to never practice what they preach. or they could preach their opinions more than actually teaching someone or having a cordial conversation with them.

celebrities with 3H moon ⟶ mariah carey, adolf hitler, eminem, robert pattinson, zendaya and margot robbie.

MERCURY IN THE 1H

♱ in Hellenistic Astrology, before the First House was called the Ascendant, it was known as the House of Helm. the 1H is entirely about you.

♱ people with this placement can speak about themselves, A LOT. always making something about themselves. either way, these people are usually spoken about and even edited.

♱ they could have the decency of being very annoying. but its a great fame indicator because they're very marketable. they also have to be careful about what they say because it can come off as very different to others.

♱ mercury is very happy in the first house, because its in the house of self expression, it's very radiant and likes to express themselves to the world.

celebrities with 1h mercury ⟶ selena gomez, katy perry, elon musk, gigi hadid, bella hadid and blake lively. [see how almost all of them are known to be very annoying]. another set of people who could talk about themselves a lot.

VENUS IN THE 5H

♇ the 5H is perceived as the house of good fortune, sometimes the 9H is perceived as that. but it's mainly known as the house of God due to description i've already provided. though, venus in the 5H is about your self-expression, creativity, pleasure and hobbies that can be turned into jobs.

♇ people with this placement are excellent at portraying the roles they are given. and it doesnt necessarily mean career role, personality role and the expectations they're supposed to live up to.

♇ most of them do have romantic controversy like, princess diana, dolly parton and even henry cavill. and most of them could have problems with battling hyper-sexuality. they're people who are easily liked and can be very influential.

♇ people could want to copy their style a lot, especially people like princess diana, alexa demie and eva longoria. they're visionaries so a lot of people trust their judgement when it comes to making creative decisions, and they usually have really beautiful children.

celebrities with 5h venus ⟶ barack obama, princess diana, alexa demie, henry cavill, dolly parton and eva longoria.

MARS IN THE 6H

♱ in hellenistic astrology, the 6H is known as the house of bad fortune, as it is the house of sickness, competition/rivalry, where we wear our selves down.

♱ in a career, they have to fight for their spot, and could sometimes fight to be known as the "best" as what they do. their career usually involves them receiving critique and validation from the viewers.

♱ they tend to be people who has controversy with their children, like john lennon was said to be abusive with his son, drake once rejected his son until he had a blood test happen and jay-z was said to have a secret child with a woman who was likely a minor when she was im-pregnanted. and unfortunately, sharon tate died eight months pregnant.

♱ they're people who are usually seen to have a classic aesthetic and seen as people who will remain legends or just remembered within their fame. they're usually in conflict or compared to people within the same industry as them.

♱ and women with mars in the 6h tend to be highly admired because of their beauty.

celebrities with 6h mars ⟶ sharon tate, drake, john lennon, jay-z, audrey hepburn and adriana lima.

JUPITER IN THE 11H

♇ jupiter is know as the house of good spirit, about productive belongings, how one makes a living [you can also perceive it as how one is agreeable] and religion.

♇ people with this placement have a bigger than life personality, and sometimes are perceived as the "cool girl" or the "cool guy" people just want to be around them and hear what they have to say, no matter how crazy it sounds.

♇ they usually have a likeable and memable personality. and most of them have a better time with fame, it can be about being liked, or always able to make money out of something. they usually tend to have longevity with what they put out.

celebrities with 11h jupiter ⟶ kanye west, adele, zendaya, anne hatheway, salma hayek and frida kahlo.

SATURN IN THE 12H

♱ the 12h in hellenistic astrology is known as the house of bad spirit, it's where your hidden enemies lie, the realer side of fame, and is also the house of material and hardship.

♱ to have saturn in the 12h shows that how you interact with fame is karmic, how you treat your money and your finances will follow you into the next life. you could be considered as a celebrity who is hard to connect with, or a person hard to connect with in general.

♱ they tend to have rumours and information about them revealed, some of it are usually made up and delusional, considering its the twelfth house as well. can be uptight people and can abuse their power onto the unknown, or people they see smaller than them.

♱ most of them ending up being humanitarians as the 12h is about what you do for the community, particularly people who have less. it's usually apart of their karmic debt to do so.

celebrities with 12h saturn ⟶ angelina jolie, beyonce, kendall jenner, zayn, whitney houston and tyra banks.

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[moon-painted]

my personal experience with 12th house synastry

⟢ i’ve been into astrology for 2 years now, and during this time i’ve noticed astrologers tend to not give much explanation to 12th house synastry. and i totally get why, it’s one of the most confusing houses in both synastry and natal charts, but today i’d like to talk a little bit about my personal experience with this complicated house and how it felt for me

⟢ so, for 6 months, i was in love with this boy who had a stellium in my 12H, and gods, was it the most confusing thing of our lives. he had his sun, mercury AND venus in my 12H house, so let’s dive into this. but before i start, i want to mention that this is my PERSONAL experience and what happened in my case, doesn’t mean will happen in yours too

⟢ also, please take notice that other placements and aspects can 100% influence how your own synastry chart plays out

his sun in my 12H

⟢ i can confirm that what they say about the sun person not seeing the house clearly is very much true. sometimes it seemed like he idealized the idea of me while he wasn’t even sure of his feelings towards me

⟢ it seemed like his mind was in a total fog and he just couldn’t understand what he was feeling for me no matter how much he tried to. and i gave him PLENTY of time and patience to understand his feelings

⟢ as for me, the house person, let me tell you that i had so many dreams with him that it genuinely wore me out because those dreams were so vivid too. like i swear i have never in my life had so many dreams of only one person. and they were so frequent too. there was a time when i was dreaming of him almost every night

⟢ as if the dreams part wasn’t bad enough, i started over romanticizing every thing he was doing towards me and even managed to fool myself that he was SO in love with me, when in reality not even he was sure what he was feeling. the problem is that i didn’t even realize i was doing all of that until a friend pointed it out to me

his mercury in my 12H

⟢ now, i truly feel like this was the only decent placement. i noticed we tended to think very alike, always finish each other’s sentences. sometimes i used to think of something and then he would bring up the same thing in our conversation

⟢ for me, i always felt like he was the only one who could comfort me when it came to some serious personal problems of mine. it felt like somehow he always knew exactly what to say to me to make me feel better

⟢ there were moments when our conversations seemed to never end, but don’t get me wrong, there were moments when we would sit in absolute silence too, just scrolling on our phones. but even that silence felt comfortable

his venus in my 12H

⟢ i feel like this was the placement that made it so difficult for us. i viewed him as the person i want to have a relationship with and portrayed him as my ideal partner

⟢ i was confused when he rejected me, but when we talked i realized he viewed me as someone too good for him, someone he’s scared he’ll hurt if he realizes his real feelings and those feelings are platonic

⟢ in our case, he had a time period when he tried to convince himself his feelings were romantic but he wasn’t able to so, therefore his feelings remained uncertain up to now

⟢ there were other times when i would hang out with him then when he’d left, people would ask me if we’re a couple or not. and when i told them no, they’d tell me that he surely likes me then because they see it in his eyes?? yeah and then he admitted people told him the same thing about me. SO it seems that for this placement everyone from the outside tends to see the connection besides the people who are actually involved in it

⟢ 12H synastry rarely works and it didn’t work in my case either, yeah, but if it didn’t work for me, that doesn’t mean it won’t work for you either. just don’t repeat our mistakes and try to talk openly with the other person, so there is no space left for confusion <3

please don’t copy my work. it’s my personal experience and work and i would like to have that respected, thank you.

[hiddenpie]

12H suns/placements are private as hell and maybe lowkey overly possessive with what they share but it’s for good reason!!! 😭like they don’t want people really knowing what they got going on but that is because a lot of people tend to keep tabs on these natives.

Or may even show up to where they frequent if information about that was revealed. Tbh I think the privacy is for great reason and is protection.

[ms-taurusvenus]

Astro Notes 2

2H Plutos have the universe with them financially. Even when they reach a low point financially, the universe always catches them. Ei, a 2H Pluto naive has $20 in their bank account, a few days later they get an additional $150. Then a few days later, they get an additional $300.

Don’t mess with someone with a Cancer Moon with an Aries Mars. They know express and feel their emotions and how to translate them and aren’t going to hesitate when needing to express themselves. Especially when they’re yelling at someone. You can see and feel the impact and how they’re feeling and their anger is very intimidating. NGL, they’re kinda scary when they’re mad.

Moon in 8H, 12H, 6H or weakened Moons can indicate insomnia. 

Although Pisces may be good in the 5H, navies with this placement may feel self-doubt or have a god complex if they choose to indulge into the arts, creativity, & possibly even when it comes to how they view children. 

Complimenting others strengthens your Venus.

6H transits -> potential stomach issues/pain. 6H = Virgo and rules the stomach

3H & Gemini placements may have a tendency to unintentionally talk about themselves.

5H transits may indicate connecting with your inner child, no it doesn’t only mean your love life will get better.

Libra, Cancer and Taurus Mars should do Pilates and yoga when it comes to working out  and fitness.

Saturn-Venus/Moon aspects should study somewhere that they won’t get comfortable (bedroom, house, etc) and go outside (cafes, libraries, etc) to get work done.

Debilitated 11H tend to struggle with friend groups and having them and it often results to them having a lot of online friends and hanging out with people individually/one-on-one.

Thank you for reading until the end! Hope you enjoyed, my inbox are OPEN!

[queen-of-signs]

Hello...If I request to you a full birth chart reading, could you tell me, if there are indicators or a chance that I'll be able to leave my "loneliness" behind?

Yes...I have Venus in the 12th house (in Virgo) I feel like the most invisible woman on earth (I used to like what I saw in the mirror and and yet I was invisible...now I hate me more than ever and I feel more and more invisible)

I know the 12th is about love affairs, unavailable people and stuff like that...(Yes...I've been there, my whole life, being used or being invisible)

But what If we can't control with whom we fall in love? People say that Venus in Virgo is "picky" but I don't think so... Wanting to find someone that I find atractive and who also finds me atractive is being picky?

Also...the man that left me in a terrible mental state and with the heart broken, has a terrible hygiene and is lazy as hell, so...I don't think I'm "picky"

it's always the same for me, impossible loves, unrequited love, unavailable people...

By the way...I just read what you posted about Venus in the 12th and being "in love" with celebrities and yeah...that has always been me lol...

I will definitely look into what other factors are at play along with your Venus in 12th house. You are a classic Venus in 12th,especially in Virgo , as it makes you all or nothing when it comes to hygiene. When you are with a partner , you dress up all good and takes good care of yourself. When depression takes over, you could tend to not care about your body like you could be skipping meals. In some cases, this placement tends to have an eating disorder. Poor hygiene as you said will manifest here with this placement. I guess you could be dealing with hair fall too, especially thin hair follicles on the front(if not taken care of). This placement sometimes gives skin and food allergies , dry skin if not taken care of. People with this placement tend to look in the mirror frequently(at least 8-10 times a day) and sometimes cry looking in the mirror to see if they are good looking when they cry. In some cases, people with this placement could hurt themselves with a knife or a blade on their skin.

Don't worry and know that you don't need anyone to feel loved. The lesson with this placement is self-love. When you start taking care of yourself, you would start to attract people whom you want in your life naturally. I have to look into other factors, aspects and planets as well to know why you're experiencing this.

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~Astro Notes From Aris~

~11H Virgo tends to be the "mom" friend of the group. They make the schedules. Make sure everyone gets home on time & in one piece. The one who's always prepared. Make sure everyone is fed & okay. Usually, the friend ur parents will always let you go out with because they know you'll be okay.

~Sag & Pisces Mercuries (sometimes aqua) sound more attractive in their native tongue/accent to ppl. So instead of hiding ur accent, embrace it! These are usually ppl who don't ever lose their accent even if they've tried to. It will also feel more natural/comfortable as well.

~Ppl tend to be very jealous & don't believe that 2H pluto ppl deserve the good things they get/have which in return, overtime, will cause the 2H pluto person to feel this way as well.

~Aries NN usually keep the peace & avoid conflict when they should be doing the complete opposite. They will only find true peace when they learn to stand up and stop letting ppl trample them.

~7H Uranus in Solar Return doesn't always mean a breakup for a romantic breakup; it can be an ending of any relationship where you deem the person to be ur other half or y'all are just very close to one another.

~North Node in Pisces must learn forgiveness towards SELF

~For my fellow steven universe lovers, moon sq pluto synastry is equivalent to the relationship & situation between Spinel & Rose Quartz. Spinel would be the Moon person.

~12H ruler in the 3H-keep a lot of things to urself becuz more often than not ppl don't want the best for you & things will go array after you speak about it. If your 12H is in libra with the ruler in the 3H, things pertaining to relationships esp should be kept under wraps. As well as ur gifts, talents & things that bring you peace

~Air sign/house Chiron & Lilith's, were you ever bullied for being a "nerd" or having an interests that weren't the norm then but is now?

~Venus (trine/sextile) NN synastry is the way the Venus person shows love is what the NN person needs. For example, A Cap Venus's love is steady, stable, longlasting, devoted & gives true old romance which is something that a Taurus NN needs but would also be foreign to them due to their Scorpio SN. The Venus persons way of loving will bring the NN person closer towards where they need to be.

~2H/Taurus plmts are usually big cookers/bakers. Or at least they should, it's one of the many things that'll bring them peace.

~12H Libra/5H Pisces love romance/fantasy/magic/supernatural shows & movies!

~11H Cancer are the "emotional support" friend. The one you can go and talk to about your feelings, emotions and family issues. The one that is the more emotional person of the friend group & sees their friends as their family.

~Sag stells/nep-asc/1H Jup- Do people easily guess ur ethnicity or suspect ur from somewhere else? You may not know what gives it away, but someone will ask "oh are you from ____?"

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is it just me or do other people with 12th House placements attract obsessive people? (this is not a call for help).

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12h virgo (6°, 18°), 12h mercury, and/or 12h ruler aspecting mercury

healing from past wounds

you may have internalized shame around not being "useful enough" or "perfect."

identify your inner critic voices aren’t even yours - who are they? parents? teachers? society?

replace negative self talk: for example "what’s wrong with me?" becomes "what part of me needs tenderness right now?”

let go of the need to "fix" others in order to feel safe or valuable.

working on mental health

you need routines that protect your nervous system, not over-work it.

overthinking is a defense mechanism - use that energy, shift it to embodiment: yoga, walking, breathwork, etc.

watch out for analysis paralysis in therapy or healing...

sleep hygiene, gut health, and regular bodily care is your medicine.

practicing spirituality

you thrive with structured routines: daily tarot pull, breath work, journal routine, tea rituals, etc.

create a sacred space for your inner world: have a clean altar, get fresh flowers, favorite scents, etc.

use everyday tasks for your benefit: meditative cleaning, mindful cooking, etc.

finding peace within yourself

simplicity calms your system. think minimal spaces, slow mornings, intentional routines, etc.

don’t underestimate the power of a nap or herbal bath / steamer shower.

replace caffeine with plant-based things: lemon balm, ashwagandha, chamomile, etc.

12h libra (7°, 19°), 12h venus, and/or 12h ruler aspecting venus

healing from past wounds

aim to heal wounds around resentment, ghosting, and over-apologizing.

reflect on who you became when "being liked" was more important than being authentic.

let go of the need to make your healing palatable. not everyone has to understand it.

forgive yourself for the times you chose pleasing others over your peace.

release relationships without balance - you deserve mutual effort.

working on mental health

you overextend emotionally, then isolate - set boundaries instead.

reclaim your "no" - say it with your chest.

get honest about codependency dressed up as compassion.

practicing spirituality

create rituals that bring internal harmony: music, movement, etc.

visual meditations - think about balance, symmetry, soft color palettes, etc.

silence as a tool - not for peacekeeping, but to hear your own voice again.

connect with using beauty: art, poetry, fashion, aesthetics, etc.

finding peace within yourself

design a quiet sanctuary for yourself - curate for comfort, softness, and sensuality.

cultivate relationships where you’re not performing. no filters. just you being you.

know that you no longer have to choose between connection and authenticity.

12h capricorn (10°, 22°), 12h saturn, and/or 12h ruler aspecting saturn

healing from past wounds

you may have internalized guilt for needing rest, softness, and/or space.

evaluate hidden shame, often rooted in childhood or past-life experiences of being punished for emotional expression or intuitive sensitivity.

repeat after me: "i’m allowed to slow down. i’m allowed to feel the way i do. i’m allowed to not be okay right now."

release the belief that you are "too much" if you feel things deeply.

forgive yourself for the years you spent numbing out just to survive. you did what you had to. now, choose differently.

working on mental health

you may be emotionally self-sufficient to a fault - believing nobody else can hold what you carry. rewrite this narrative.

therapy, journaling, or trauma-informed support isn’t just helpful - it’s essential to build inner strength that you can't denied.

name your needs, name your fears, and name your boundaries.

practicing spirituality

create rituals that include both spiritual depth and practical containment; meditate at the same time daily, journal before bed, practice grounding visualizations, etc.

rest must become part of your sacred routine.

learn to trust silence - it's not emptiness, it is integration.

finding peace within yourself

make space for your peace. have a rhythm for your recovery.

practice holding your own hand when the world gets too loud.

serenity comes not from control, but from learning how to give yourself structure and softness at the same time.

12h ruler in the 2h

healing from past wounds

you may carry past trauma around being underpaid, overlooked, and/or emotionally used.

there’s often a fear of being "too much" or "not enough" - never quite at peace with what you offer.

heal scarcity by affirming: "i can be compensated for who i really am" and "i am worthy of more".

working on mental health

anxiety spikes when you feel unstable in the physical realm or unseen emotionally.

prioritize body-based practices: breathwork, somatic therapy, grounding rituals, etc.

talk to yourself like you would a child - gently, respectfully, and reverently.

practicing spirituality

connect via touch, food, scent, and sound.

try money manifestation meditations or visualizations - you can literally grows your garden, business, and/or bank account.

finding peace within yourself

build routines that feel luxurious and stabilizing - eat good food, get in clean sheets, enjoy the beauty of silence, etc.

surround yourself with items, people, and work that remind you that you are valuable, safe, etc.

realize that you are not just spiritually rich, you’re worthy of physical wealth too.

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Reasons Why Water House Synastry Is Karmic and Intense:

In this post, I want to address some reasons why water house (4th, 8th, and 12th) synastry can be very intense, very transformational and why it creates/increases codependency.

(the basis of this thread is the fact that there is attraction and desire within the romantic connection, and the depth of feeling will run more true if you share multiple other intense synastry aspects/past life connections. Friendships/family relations that have heavy 8th/12th house synastry overlays manifest *very* differently)

Each water house has one common factor, and that's with these type of synastry overlays; you will feel seen or accepted. In some way, some form, the severity of it depends (as usual), but

if you struggle with:

4TH House:

Showing your true character to others without the fear of being judged.

Sharing your inner thoughts to others with ease and safeness.

The fact that you never felt/had a safe home, so now you long for that feeling (of being at ease/comfortable with someones presence).

Feeling ease and comfortability within your environment or within yourself, instead you experienced that those feelings came at a cost.

Feeling secure when you're meeting others/being open to others.

Stating your inner thoughts or feelings outwardly and confidently.

Trusting others.

8TH House: If you struggle with:

Self acceptance.

Self worth.

Self love.

Self confidence.

Accepting/receiving love.

Having low respect for yourself (meaning how others treat you may be hurtful but because of lack of validation within, you allow or accept that behavior).

Having a pattern where the way others treat you either gives or takes away validation your inner wounds need.

Deeply craving emotional closeness yet fearing it at the same time.

Allowing yourself to desire love.

The fact you're emotionally unavailable; so you're unsure with how to deal with romance, and yet a part of you still deeply desires a partner.

These also may resonate if you have 8H Placements, Pluto aspecting inner planets/Scorpio placements.

12TH House: If you struggle with:

Emotionally availability/allowing someone to see you, all of you.

Receiving tangible, stable, harmonious, love.

Having a habit to/find it easier to fix or save someone in hopes of changing their self destructive habits or mental health issues. This type of tendency creates an avoidance within yourself especially if you don't focus on your own needs or problems. (it's easier to focus on someone else's pain rather than your own)

Feeling safe with the idea of not being needed, instead you choose to be the giver or other woman since it subconsciously keeps you at a distance of being openly loved (which is something you subconsciously fear)

Holding the deep desire to feel seen past the physical 3D.

Allowing yourself to receive the type of love you're able to give/shower another.

Wanting to fix or heal someone's mental health wounds or problems, you find it safer to be their savior rather than have a true give and take partnership.

(These also may resonate if you have 12H, Neptune aspecting inner planets/Pisces placements)

These are a few examples of how intense these synastry overlays may manifest if you are struggling with the above statements. I briefly mentioned a few indicators, needless to say they are more and each synastry chart or even natal chart will always paint the picture better of how deep these relationships can manifest.

then 4th, 8th, and 12th house synastry will cause internal shift within, whether you want it to or not.

4th House: With the 4th house and when someone walks into your life and they ignite your IC, the part of your character that you readily hide becomes unlocked. If you personally have struggled with being comfortable in your skin, or have struggled with feeling secure with who you are as you are, then this person to you will feel like a comfort blanket. Their presence will shift you into a mood where all you feel is safe, present, and in the moment. With them, you will feel complete in showcasing your inner world and your inner thoughts. Their presence will become this key that you didn't even knew you need. It'll feel easy with them, and there is no hesitation, confusion or worry. You can't feel worry, and it's not because they insistently tell you not to feel anxious, you just naturally won't. You guys will likely share the same humor or communication style, and if there is a Venus conjunct IC then the IC person will feel this romantic pull with showcasing their personality outwardly that they won't be able to shake towards the Venus person. Overall these feelings are especially true if you struggle with letting someone in, if it takes some time for you to allow someone else to see your personality or thoughts, then they will feel like a cure for allowing to let that side of you out and when you're next to them; you'll feel like you're finally home.

Example: you walk into a bar and they make eye contact with you, you instantly smile, they instantly smile, and the conversation that ignites feels as if you just spoke to them. It could be weeks, months even since you last saw them but the comfortability between the two of you oozes out in a way where it feels like they just came back home to you. (especially if you share heavy 3H synastry overlays as well or if their mercury softly aspects your inner planets, vice versa)

The reason why this type of connection can be hard to let go of is because their presence might cause or create a codependent need in you for them in order to feel "safe." All their presence is doing is igniting the secure feeling in you that you wish you had, you finally can look into another's eyes and feel that type of comfortability you've always been scared enough to unlock or accept. Your private thoughts and characteristics feel safe next to them, and because of that, they create this security within you won't know how to let go of. So, all they are doing is unleashing your wish of being your truest self without fearing the consequences of being seen for who you are.

In some cases, 4th house synastry may not run as intense, and some say it can be 'mundane' or boring, especially if you don't struggle with the listed wounds I stated, or if you don't share other intense or cute attraction synastry aspects with them; but in essence this individual will feel like a grounding force.

The bond you can form with them is tangible, it's secure, and it feels real. So, letting them go will feel as though you're letting go the one desire of ever revealing your private inner self with ease, especially if this is a part of you that you've been too afraid to openly show or even accept.

Songs That Relate

Look After You - The Fray

Chasing Cars - Snow Patrol

Control - Zoe Wees

Hey Stranger - Billie Flynn

8th House: With the 8th house, these type of connections are more intense, and naturally so. With this type of synastry, and if you struggle with self acceptance especially with self love or self worth, then letting go of this connection will feel near to impossible. It will feel like life or death if they walk away from you, and it will feel like a part of you dies every time they don't give you the reassurance or acknowledgment your soul wishes for. Their eyes alone, tell you it's time to let that wall down and without effort your wall crumbles. You know that if they leave, a part of you will leave with them but if your wound of wishing to be accepted runs so deep within, you can't help but take that risk. You're aware that the unavoidable low following their absence will cut deep, yet instead of walking away, you prepare yourself for its inevitable arrival.

You allow that pain to embody you because that pain hurts less than not feeling those moments of acceptance that they are able to give you, especially if it's what you've always reluctantly wished for.

With their presence that void of wanting emotional closeness that you've always longed for will feel like it has vanished, their eyes alleviate the long-ignored half-empty feeling, and so the part of you that wishes to been seen, the part of you that wishes to feel accepted, the part of you that wants to be vulnerable won't know how to let go.

You could run into them and it could be weeks, months even and if you still struggle with loving yourself in the way you wish they would, their presence will create this upheaval that will shake within you, this synastry holds cycles, loops, ups and down to the point of where if you don't hate them, a part of you will still want them.

This synastry creates a dynamic where this soul that entered your life is only igniting the parts of you that you, yourself don't accept, love or acknowledge. Their presence becomes this band-aid that somehow soothes the deepest parts of you that have been abandoned, and their presence soothes the part of you that you yourself believe you can't heal. This fear then creates a scarcity mindset that can cause you to become someone you're not, and even if you logically know what is objectively best to do in situations to not create more intensity within the connection; there's just a part of you that can't care.

The reason why this type of connection can be hard to let go of is because their presence might cause or create a codependent need in you to have them in order to feel "seen." Their presence gives you a sense of acceptance where you allow yourself to accept love in. If you struggle with emotional abandonment, or fear love, then their presence will feel like a "skip the line" pass with inner healing the parts of you that feel broken.

The reason why 8th house synastry is discussed so promptly and openly is because these feelings that persist (when dealing with inner wounds) become such catalysts of growth and ego deaths; but that is only because this connection allows in the hope for love you've been wishing for all your life. You want to be held, you want to be cared for and loved in a way that you've never received, and this person presences grants that sole wish. They bring you that one solace feeling that you've never felt and because of that, letting them go is letting go the one key that makes you feel worthy, seen, and accepted.

Their presence creates this codependent need within because they become this one "thing" that you think you need in order to fulfill that self love wound you keep repressing. You'll start to rely on them for emotional clarity or serenity, you'll start to "need them" in order to feel good, and you'll expect them to make you feel "better" emotionally and if they fail to meet those expectations, all you'd be faced with is the unwavering feeling of the lack of self love or worth you're too afraid to self develop.

The love you're so readily able to give them, is what your soul is asking you to give yourself.

*Those who have prominent natal Scorpio or 8th house placements as well as having Pluto aspecting harshly their inner planets or ascendant will feel these trials and errors more*

Songs That Relate:

Locksmith/You Don't - Sadie Jean

Addicted - Kelly Clarkson

Im Yours/Heartbeat - Isabel LaRose

Just a Little Bit of Your Heart - Ariana Grand

Heavenly - Cigarettes After Sex

Is There Somewhere - Halsey

12th house:

This post focuses exclusively on a 12th house relationship between two kind and evolved individuals. While there are other darker themes associated with 12th house synastry — such as deception, substance abuse, hidden affairs (like being the other woman or mistress), lies about one partner’s true nature, or fear that one partner is withholding information or their true self — I won’t be discussing those here. I might explore those themes in a future post, as they are important to note, but for now, my main focus will not include those themes.

“Though I barely know you, it feels as if I do. Your eyes and body language seem to speak your thoughts, even the ones I can’t fully grasp. There’s no visible thread connecting us, yet this feeling remains.” — Planet Person

With the 12th house, this synastry unlocks so many different routes and experiences. Many factors influence how each individual can feel towards this ethereal connection. One way this synastry can manifest is through the tendency for the 12th house to cloud, confuse, and bring hesitancy into the connection. In some cases, Person A (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) will feel as though they can read Person B in such a deep and subconscious way; this type of knowing may even be hidden from Person B to the extent that they are unaware of their own subconscious emotional needs, thoughts or feelings, and yet (especially if there's care or desire on their end) Person A can read Person B like a book. 12th house synastry can be so thought provoking because of the absolute depth and surreal feeling it can add into the connection. The planet person (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) will feel this innate drive to be with the house person (or the other partner who isn't as spiritual adept). It's as if one partner, driven by an innate need to give endlessly, is profusely tossing their sole bucket of water into the vast ocean of the other partner's needs. The giver (or the person who has heavy Neptune/Pisces/12th house placements) is so focused on giving that they overlook the importance of receiving, while the receiver remains oblivious.

If Person B remains unaware of the deep spiritual bond between them that can manifest, they may perceive Person A's actions as invasive or unnecessary. Person A, recognizing wounds in Person B that Person B may not be aware of can evoke a sense of fear in Person B, this has to deal with the issue of them not allowing or accepting a form of love that they believe (Person B) doesn't serve them.

If this scenario resonates with you, then this individual is provoking a wound within yourself that deals with the acceptance of receiving authentic love. This innate need to only give highlights your own fear of receiving real reciprocal, stable, tangible love.

In this scenario where one party wants to save, fix, heal or give, highlights that fearful nature within you where you allow to stay in shallow waters. You subconsciously know that you have such passionate love to give, but that thought of giving to someone who in turn might be willing to give back evokes fear and uncertainty within you.

This subconscious block holds more comfortability within you since it allows you to never accept a love where your soul will fully be fulfilled. It's self sabotaging and self written, you naturally already know how the story will end between you two, and so you subconsciously will find a character who perfectly embodies the story you yourself say you try to run from.

On the other hand this synastry (when desired and when it's dealing with highly evolved individuals) can unlock such deep soulfulness between both partners. Between the two parties, it'll feel as if they have found someone that can finally understand them better than anyone ever has, it'll feel dreamy and mystical. It'll feel as if their body language writes stories that you could only read.

In a pure sense, one partner that desires the other very deeply and whole heartedly wants to make sure that their partner is seen, and understood. And this comes from a very sincere place and if the other receiving partner allows that kind of love in while being okay with giving that same love back, that is when this type of connection can be ideal.

Now in this scenario, this type of codependent nature deals with over emphasizing redemption with no boundaries. If there is solid exchangeable love, a part of you may believe there is always more good than bad within them or within the relationship, and so their wrongdoings or unacceptable behavior to you or to others somehow receives justification or more understanding than he or she should receive. (especially if you also share 8th house synastry with them). As well as it's important to understand that if there is this innate understanding given by one partner that's always present when there shouldn't be, that's when the relationship can become overwhelming, or draining. Just because you know, understand or empathize with the other partner's actions or patterns doesn't make their actions okay.

This type of dynamic receives interchanging parts, with the 12th house things can lack a solid foundation and have a lack crystal clear communication, some days you both won't deal with struggling dynamics, then one day Partner 1 acts out, to which Partner 2 cuirasses and holds, then a few weeks later Partner 2 acts out and Partner 1 comes to their aid.

Truly the amount of stories, experiences, how Person 1 will feel vs Person 2 is genuinely so intercomplicated and nuanced. Each story lies within the two parties involved, with this house they are just so many different routes and avenues it can uphold, so this particular post may not cover every ounce of information on 12th house synastry. If you are curious to learn more only about this synastry I have a long updated post titled "Understanding 12th House Synastry" and it's far more in-depth (click the text).

In essence, how the other partner receives this type of boundless understanding calls for them to be a very kind and open individual. It's important to understand and recognize red flags or self undoing patterns. Staying aware of the actual real situation instead of sitting in bed thinking of the "What if's" are key. Their posts may not be about you, that song on their story can be just a song, remember that. Especially if the individual lacks self awareness or care on their end.

Finally, I don't believe water house synastry holds malicious energy or serves as a dictatorship with stating how the relationship will fail. Not every synastry overlay is set for such intense energy or uncomfortable experiences, each planet in a natal chart holds different themes. What truly matters at the end of the day are the two souls involved within the connection. Desire, care, love, and acceptance are all foundational keys for any relationship to last even those with or without water house synastry. Accepting yourself in the purest form when it comes to each water house theme (4,8,12) is key.

Your natal chart when it comes to synastry serves as a mirror within yourself, everything you are feeling for someone else is already sitting within you.

Don't forget that.