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[ablackprincessdiary]

They were right,,your first time is never good! And thats okay!

Virgin 

Definition? Someone whos never had sex 

Virgin, Virginity, Chaste, Untouched

All of these words pretty much fall under the same circle, the circle that's not having sex.

Obviously there's nothing wrong with having or not having sex but, when you’re a virgin you kinda have huge expectations when you are going to have sex. Everyone always told me the first time wasn't gonna be good, I didn't believe them and news flash they were right.

Sex can be great, it can also be really really bad! I’ve had sex so good I felt like my mind was melting and I’ve had sex so mediocre I kicked him out before I had the chance to be disappointed. My first time however was its own thing. 

I lost my virginity to my first boyfriend, he wasn't a virgin but that didn't seem to make a difference. I was so scared that it was going to hurt but honestly it didn't. Once he y’know puts it in take some time to get used to it, don't rush into having crazy fast and hard sex, it will hurt! Talk to each other, it'll help! My first time didn't meet my expectations and that's okay. You’ll realize that everyone is different when it comes to sex. 

Some people like me need foreplay to be long and drawn out to have a good time, Some people don’t. Everyone has their own taste in kinks or fetishes and you'll have to take your time to figure out what you like too. I found out after a while that vanilla sex is fun and that people make it seem worse than it actually is. Everyone thinks of vanilla sex differently, to me its sex without any kink or fetish play. My vanilla is cute and sweet, very hands on with my partner, dirty talk is essential and so are your hands!

Losing your virginity is a different and landmark experience! After I had my first time it wasn't as scary for me to try new things, I was disappointed but it brought me back to reality, sex is still just sex but we as individuals have the power to make it special. My point is your first time is scary and its not always gonna be the fantasy you want it to be. That's okay, it's your first time and hopefully not your last!

Feel free to share your own story in my asks I’d love to share or reply!

[ablackprincessdiary]

Welcome to my blog!

Hello!

Thank you for finding me and my little corner of the internet! The black princess diary! I'm your host! The blog owner, writer and self proclaimed black princess. I'm a first year pre-law student in the beautiful city of Boston. After living my life of glitz and glam in the middle east for the last 9 years I moved to Boston alone at the age of 18 to get my degree and hopefully be a practicing attorney one day!

Living alone in a fast paced city for the last 4 month and I’ve already gotten myself a handful of stories to share, and new memories that make me feel refreshed about life. While I do have a real diary, my digital diary is more for the entertaining and parts of my life I want to share. From culture shock to bad dates I made this blog to share my life unfiltered and anonymously.

What will I be blogging about?

I made this blog with the intention of sharing parts of my life, I want my readers to feel like a friend, I hope you guys ask me advice about friends, life, romance or just share bad stories if you want! This is a space that's judgement free. I want my blog to make you feel like the black princess lifestyle is one of success, energy and ecstacy. After all I'm a princess but i'm not innocent.

Who should avoid this blog?

People who dont wanna understand that this is my blog! Im a adult woman and I will write whatever I please, If you're not an Adult, sorry but this blog is not for you! I'm a girl who plays just as hard as she works, I love making money, having good sex and guarding my peace and if you don't like that you're welcome to leave!

If the black princess diary sounds like your cup of tea, grab a seat and start reading because I'm just getting started.