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He smile at u!!!

He smile!!!

(Original artist: Abigail Larson)

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Come on in 💋🦇

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Guys get out of my house you have to be invited 🙄

This is where I live btw

If u even care

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Vampire Lovers

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90s/2000s Gothic apparel magazines 🖤🥀

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This is where I live btw

If u even care

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Goth equivalent to live laugh love

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I present to you:

A gothic kitty to start your new year off right! 🐈‍⬛ 🕸️

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The Addams Family // New Neighbors Meet the Addams Family

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Sunny gothic literature 🖊️ 🥀

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Gothic cathedral in the middle of a busy city center, anyone? 🥀

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Divine Feminine 🦇🥀

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hi i friended u on spacehey today and saw ur tumblr!! ur blog is so cool ♡♡

OMG HAAAAIIII

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Just a lil vampire design I did at work 🦇

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Hey! Your account is rad btw, u seem SO cool. I wanna be able to express myself loudly as a goth/metalhead, but im having confidence troubles. Do u have any tips?

"Confidence troubles" is a bit vague - are you worried you won't look good to yourself, or are you worried about other people's perception of you and/or what they'll say?

If it's yourself you're worried about, tell yourself that nothing is permanent, you can always take off makeup/clothing, alter your wardrobe and style, and you don't have to dress up every single day. None of us do that. There are also so many different goth/metal styles to choose from, you'll find something eventually!

If other people are your concern, it's not worth it to even try. You could be the most confident, most put-together, most stylish person in the scene and someone will still have something to say. If that is a serious concern to you, or you feel like you wouldn't be able to handle it, it is genuinely in your best interest to just stick to the music for your health and well-being. You need to grow more as a person, have a steady support system, and focus on yourself before you should be thinking about "expressing yourself loudly". I am not trying to be mean at all - I am trying to save you so much pain and suffering that most people in the scene have been through lol. If you haven't already, look up Sophie Lancaster.

I hope that was helpful to some degree, also please don't take this as me being mean or cruel - I am genuinely speaking from experience and hate seeing others in the scene suffer.

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Pomegranate; the fruit of Persephone, a symbol of life, power, death, and beauty 🍷🥀🩸