amorcie

[amorcie]

thank you!! i feel the same way /p <3

tag your best friends spread this message to the besties

Aww thanks!

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[amorcie]

this blog (and the sideblogs attached to it) might become inactive - the sidesystem that used this blog won’t be fronting for a while, and we’re personally uncomfortable with using their stuff.

we might make our own blog, though.

- mary

[amorcie]

● Banning media that you believe is immoral is still censorship.

● Banning media that you believe might harm someone's morals is still censorship.

● Banning media that you believe will cause someone to commit an evil act is still censorship.

● Banning media that you feel is disgusting is still censorship.

● Banning media that you think will teach children something bad is still censorship.

What do you think conservatives are doing when they ban queer media???

When conservatives ban queer media, they are banning:

media they believe is disgusting.

media they believe will cause moral harm.

media they believe will cause someone to commit an evil act.

media that they believe will teach children something bad

media that they believe is immoral.

[amorcie]

the need to just run away from things online & offline is happening more and more often and i don’t even know why

- sana

[amorcie]

Diet companies won’t tell you this but starving yourself is a lot worse for your health than overeating

This post is explicitly about being ok with being fat. If you feel like you have to eat less than your body tells you it needs to be skinny, please just be ok with being fat.

[amorcie]

this is your random reminder to CHECK IF YOU'RE STILL HAVING FUN

are you enjoying scrolling tumblr? watching youtube? reading that book? playing that game? drawing that art? doing that activity? if not,

YOU CAN STOP AND DO SOMETHING ELSE

you don't have to stick to something that you are doing for fun if it isn't fun for you anymore. You can come back! If you've loved it before you are likely to love it again! but you can stop!

Don't get stuck in a loop of doing something that you think should be fun when it isn't! You can put it down for a bit! Maybe that's the very thing that will make it fun again later!

[amorcie]

I am actually begging some people to just let some spaces exist untouched by real-world issues and horrors.

Like I've lost count of the amount of times peaceful game or fandom servers have been ruined by people stampeding in with political rants, bitching about world issues, demanding internal activism, demanding vent channels so they can whine about their shitty parents, ect.

Like. Respectfully. Not every single space has to be inclusive of and welcoming of outside topics. The real world sucks. We don't needed to be reminded of that absolutely everywhere.

[amorcie]

[amorcie]

in memory of Shannen Doherty, the actress who made me fall in love with Duke 💚

[amorcie]

I’m about to save you thousands of dollars in therapy by teaching you what I learned paying thousands of dollars for therapy:

It may sound woo woo but it’s an important skill capitalism and hyper individualism have robbed us of as human beings.

Learn to process your emotions. It will improve your mental health and quality of life. Emotions serve a biological purpose, they aren’t just things that happen for no reason.

1. Pause and notice you’re having a big feeling or reaching for a distraction to maybe avoid a feeling. Notice what triggered the feeling or need for a distraction without judgement. Just note that it’s there. Don’t label it as good or bad.

2. Find it in your body. Where do you feel it? Your chest? Your head? Your stomach? Does it feel like a weight everywhere? Does it feel like you’re vibrating? Does it feel like you’re numb all over?

3. Name the feeling. Look up an emotion chart if you need to. Find the feeling that resonates the most with what you’re feeling. Is it disappointment? Heartbreak? Anxiety? Anger? Humiliation?

4. Validate the feeling. Sometimes feelings misfire or are disproportionately big, but they’re still valid. You don’t have to justify what you’re feeling, it’s just valid. Tell yourself “yeah it makes sense that you feel that right now.” Or something as simple as “I hear you.” For example: If I get really big feelings of humiliation when I lose at a game of chess, the feeling may not be necessary, but it is valid and makes sense if I grew up with parents who berated me every time I did something wrong. So I could say “Yeah I understand why we are feeling that way given how we were treated growing up. That’s valid.”

5. Do something with your body that’s not a mental distraction from the feeling. Something where you can still think. Go on a walk. Do something with your hands like art or crochet or baking. Journal. Clean a room. Figure out what works best for you.

6. Repeat, it takes practice but is a skill you can learn :)

[amorcie]

u fuck up something ONCE and ur brain just goes ‘hey what if i reminded you of it everyday he he he wouldnt that be funny’

- mizu

[amorcie]

I'm so so serious when I say that indie visual novel devs are used to getting steam reviews where it literally goes

NOT RECOMMENDED pros:

gorgeous art

story made me cry (positive)

wonderful experience

every character felt realistic and believable

cons:

it's a visual novel

[amorcie]

If you know you know.

... Extrapolating from incomplete data be like...

[amorcie]

i recommend being a fan of 1 problematic piece of media at least once in your life

[amorcie]

[amorcie]

MEAN GIRLS 2004 — dir. Mark Waters

[amorcie]

"I had gone from home-schooled jungle freak to shiny Plastic to most hated person in the world to actual human being."