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naturally introverted, selectively extroverted

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i can’t stress how important it is to know who you are as a person because people will literally try to project their insecurities + preconceived notions onto you.

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I am attracting great things in my life and now is the time. Money is flowing to me endlessly. Luxury, happiness, love and friendship, health and wealth, abundance is all headed my way now!

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“It eventually gets better, without any sort of explanation; you just wake up one morning and you’re not as upset anymore.”

— Unknown

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“Learn to be silent when everything else is an uproar. Be the stillness within the constant motion.”

— Nicole Addison @thepowerwithin

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Affirm 🎀✨

I’m evolving into my best self everyday. I am a living dream. I am always proving to being the best because I am.

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This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us. 1 John 5:14

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I PAUSED/CLOSED my BOUTIQUES

I wrote this on June 27, 2021 around 4:12AM

Well, today after months of not promoting my businesses, I finally just paused them. This is/was whatever like super hard to do. I was already loosing money paying monthly fees when I’m not promoting and no one is buying. I honestly thought I would get my act together and start back promoting.

I feel like I gave up. Well I did. I literally gave up. Smh this is hard. I can’t believe I really gave up. Yeah, I have my reasons but some shouldn’t be. So I’ll start off with the main on. I hate how my body looks. But I like my body sometimes. I felt like I wasn’t good enough. I wasn’t popular enough. I started my boutique to actually help women heal and feel good about themselves... blah blah blah yea right girl. I thought I was in a better place to help others. Which I love to do. And I think that was a problem. I put people before me. So during this time I’ve learned to take care of myself. Put me first. Tell myself girl ya look good! Speak my mind. Just literally be my own hype girl. Yes, I have set backs from time to time but I’m on my way!

Other reasons was that man it’s some humans out there that’s just man you can’t count on em. They lie, lie, and lie. I don’t have time. I’m a straight shooter.

Then my family smh them and supporting me. Slim to none honey. O well. SIGH

Then there the folks that like to support in secret. Like wtf.. ion get that. You do everything else in public tell the whole social media everything. So that literally made no sense to me.

So I was just fed up with it all. And I can’t let folks control my life that. Nor thoughts. Like my thoughts and folks actions out me in a dark place. It’s hard to come out of it but I guess I’m out of it. I still have hard days. Like I’m pretty cool and laid back. I really mind my own. I started the business’s to bring in more income and to become more social. I love to have fun so hey why not.

I’m not sure when I will start my businesses back up but I hope one day I will. I have to go hard and stay consistent. Wheew consistent =my struggle bus. I have to continue to speak highly of myself. Speak life over myself and my business. I attract wealth. I attract paying customers to my business. I am beautiful. My body is amazing.

So with that I will continue to work on me and heal. Heal from the things I never speak on nor does anyone ever ask && not that they even have too. I will also put together a plan of action. How to get me back in the game!

Signed,

An0nYm0uS

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If you ever feel like downplaying your value or watering yourself down, just affirm to yourself I always deserve the best. See how your energy transforms, how your entire perspective shifts, how differently you respond to the situation. Remind yourself of this truth whenever you forget your true value.

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My Self Love & Acceptance Tips🤍

Every day isn’t easy, remember that self love isn’t an overnight thing. It takes time, and work. Be patient with yourself, and go with the flow learning about who you are. Your time will come to flourish and be your best self, every journey goes at a different pace. And remember that self love has a different meaning for everyone, what works for some, may not work for others.

Your Self Image

It all starts with how you view your own self, and value your own worth. Because when you start to love yourself, and value who you are, your whole life changes. Such as the people around you, your mentality, your appearance, your successes, etc. So change the way you think, and talk about yourself into a more positive tone. Avoid doubts, or toxic self talk.

Deep Inner Work.

Shadow work is highly important. We get to know ourselves on a deeper level, and learn about what we need to do to become high vibrational beings. It’s important to work on the deeper layers of our minds, where we hide all unresolved fears, blockages, wounds, and traumas. Shadow work is important for our physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health.

Explore what is holding you back.

Having low self esteem is often the result of false and unrealistic thoughts that are deeply within our minds. Such as assumptions, beliefs, comparisons, doubts, expectations towards ourselves and others. Learn about what is holding you back, and what needs to be done in order to break the bad habits/behaviours. Dissociate yourself from everything, and anyone that brings these emotions forward.

Be comfortable in your own solitude.

Every day make time for yourself to rewind, relax and reflect alone. Being alone gives us time to think, work out problems, reflect on our goals, express gratitude for our gifts and blessings, and helps us listen to ourselves, and what we need. It builds independence. And you’re also less likely to accept bad behaviours from others, because you’re very much aware of who you are and what you want.

Trust your intuition.

Trusting your intuition will help you live a life true to yourself and your deepest needs, being aware of your surroundings, emotions and intentions from others. Be aware of how you’re feeling around certain people, and situations. Take these feelings into consideration, as it’s your subconscious trying to tell you something.

Set boundaries

Setting boundaries is highly important. It shows others how you view yourself, and how they should treat you. Don’t be afraid to say “no” more often, and set boundaries. If something is going to make you unhappy or uncomfortable, say no. If you simply don’t have the energy for something, say no. If you want to say no, say no! And cut ties with those who make your life unecessarily stressful. Think about what your values are, what you believe in and what you’d like out of others. This also applies to yourself, make sure you’re setting limitations on what isn’t good for you from you!

Explore your passions.

What gives you motivation? What fills you with pure joy? When we tend to forget about our needs, and push them to the side, we often lose sight of what truly makes us happy in life. So make time for your hobbies, and passions. Do whatever makes you happy, and awakens your inner child.

Reduce your stress levels.

It’s been proven that stress contributes to so many health issues, so it’s important to learn how to reduce, and deal with it when it happens. You can do so in so many ways by reducing your expectations for yourself, and others, healthy routines, good diet, working on how we view ourselves, and so much more.

Accept your flaws, celebrate your strengths.

We are all imperfectly perfect. Everyone has something that they’re amazing at, and not so good at. It’s normal, it’s human nature. It doesn’t make you any less of a person for having flaws, it’s what makes you uniquely and beautifully you. Instead of focusing too much at what you’re not good at, bring your attention to your strengths and how you can become the best version of yourself.

Stop comparing.

Comparison is a killer to your self esteem. When we invest our time watching what others are doing, and how they look, it’s time wasted that we could invest in ourselves. Spend energy nourishing and building your path. Remove anything that makes it harder for you, whether it’s social media, a friendship with someone, etc. “We don’t grow green grass by focusing on our neighbor’s garden, we do it nurturing our own.”

Stop seeking validation.

The need for approval kills your freedom. Strengthen your self acceptance, so that you feel strong enough to go with what feels right for you, and not what others are saying. Our life was made for us to live however way we think is right, and living for others leads you to a path of pure unhappiness. Figure out why the need of approval from others is so important to you, where does it come from? Is it something that you haven’t healed from? Learn how you can change these habits, and live freely on your own decisions and acceptance.

Create healthy habits/routines.

Start truly caring for yourself. Create habits that are healthy, mentally and emotionally. Be intentional about what you put into your body, not because you want to look good but because you want to feel good. Feeding your body nutrient rich foods will have you feeling your absolute best. Have a self care day once a week. Create more self love + care rituals. Upkeep your beauty maintenance. Dress your best. Work out more often, something as simple as walking every day. Have organized morning and night routines that make life easier for you. Do whatever it is that’s important for your well being, and what will make you feel more confident, and happy.

Own a journal.

Keep a journal to store all your thoughts, emotions, and capture your life journey in writing. It’s a great way to keep yourself in check, and look back at how far you’ve come. Give yourself goals to accomplish, and what you need to do in order to reach them. Create lists about what is great about you, what you need to work on, and what you need to let go of. Journal Guide for Self Growth.

Do more of what you’re good at.

Spending more time doing hobbies you're good at will not only boost your endorphins, but will also boost your self esteem. Do more of whatever brings you to your happy place!

Protect your inner peace, vibration and energy.

The less likely you are to react towards others, the more at peace and powerful you’ll be. Teach yourself to be so calm, and safe within yourself. That no one and nothing can take away your peace. Understand that anyone that chooses to be negative towards you without good reasoning, are only projecting their own problems, and insecurities onto you. Remember that our energy will effect how we feel towards ourself, so choose wisely on what you give importance to. Protecting energy tips.

Be more grounded.

Being grounded means you feel at home with yourself. You are present and at peace. You’re less worried about past moments, or the future. You’re more grateful of everything around you. You feel overall happier, and radiant.

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Consider yourself lucky if you have pictures of the things you had to let go. You know those little things from your loved ones which at a point of time withers away but still stays with you in the form of pictures.

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