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If a man says he’s going to hurt himself unless you do what he says, let him. You aren’t responsible for his actions. You are not guilty for what he does to himself, you don’t owe him, you are not his thing to control, you don’t exist to serve him, you are allowed to go on living your life.

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shout out to

non bratty littles

the littles that are soft and obedient

shy and timid littles

the littles that are v needy but are too shy to show it

the littles that don’t want their cg worried

selfless littles that will adult for another persons benefit even when it’s inconvenient

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Little Boy Background

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Caregiver Guide

1. Have a set of rules for your little one but don’t make it feel like the rules are controlling the rules are to help your little one

2. Read to your little one during the day time and never ever forget to read your little a bed time story

3. Make sure to always tell your little how much you love them and to always let them know you’re very proud of them

4. Rewards - set up a sticker chart for you little one and at 5 stickers or depend on your liking buy them a stuffie or have a special movie night or a gift of there choice or send them a little care package

5. This is a very very special rule always once in a while have a huge little day with your little one , let your little go wild and do whatever they want for the day and enjoy themselves and have fun with your little

6. Punishments are the worst part of being a CG but always explain why you’re punishing your little and always I mean ALWAYS communicate with your little

7. Make sure you a safety word for any punishments Incase your little is feeling overwhelmed

8. Also note not ever broken rule is worthy of a punishment some broken rules you just have to talk to your little and guide them and tell them what’s wrong and what’s right

9. Pls never ever ever ever ever ever ever tell your little you’re going to stop talking to them or cut off communication it can greatly damage the little and hurt them pls never ever do this

10. And the most important rule of all always make sure to tell your little how much you love them and how much you appreciate them never make them feel like they aren’t loved !!!!

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i’m seeing a lot of people reblogging suicide hotlines and this is just a reminder that this is a suicide help line that works like a text-based instant messenger for people who may need to talk to someone but have trouble/are uncomfortable making phone calls

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It occurred to Pooh and Piglet that they hadn’t heard from Eeyore for several days, so they put on their hats and coats and trotted across the Hundred Acre Wood to Eeyore’s stick house. Inside the house was Eeyore.

“Hello Eeyore,” said Pooh.

“Hello Pooh. Hello Piglet,” said Eeyore, in a Glum Sounding Voice.

“We just thought we’d check in on you,” said Piglet, “because we hadn’t heard from you, and so we wanted to know if you were okay.”

Eeyore was silent for a moment. “Am I okay?” he asked, eventually. “Well, I don’t know, to be honest. Are any of us really okay? That’s what I ask myself. All I can tell you, Pooh and Piglet, is that right now I feel really rather Sad, and Alone, and Not Much Fun To Be Around At All. Which is why I haven’t bothered you. Because you wouldn’t want to waste your time hanging out with someone who is Sad, and Alone, and Not Much Fun To Be Around At All, would you now.”

Pooh looked and Piglet, and Piglet looked at Pooh, and they both sat down, one on either side of Eeyore in his stick house.

Eeyore looked at them in surprise. “What are you doing?”

“We’re sitting here with you,” said Pooh, “because we are your friends. And true friends don’t care if someone is feeling Sad, or Alone, or Not Much Fun To Be Around At All. True friends are there for you anyway. And so here we are.”

“Oh,” said Eeyore. “Oh.” And the three of them sat there in silence, and while Pooh and Piglet said nothing at all; somehow, almost imperceptibly, Eeyore started to feel a very tiny little bit better.

Because Pooh and Piglet were There. No more; no less.

~ Kathryn Wallace

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this is a controversial opinion on this site apparently but ace/aro/bi/pan/nonbinary/queer people’s identities should not be boiled down to simply “discourse” because we’re people and it’s really fucking disrespectful of this entire site as a collective to have decided that this is the norm

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Due to personal reasons I will be respecting sex/romance repulsed aspecs.

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I wan some so bad!

Calico babies🌸🐇💝

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HELL YES

Androgyny FTW! 

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when people give me compliments I feel like a vending machine trying to accept a wrinkly dollar and it’s just really frustrating for everyone involved

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My mother’s 3rd anniversary of her death is on March 30th, I have my first surgery on March 22nd, but fuck it.

Happiness Will Come To You.

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“Silent, bald.” ME TOO

Молчи, лысый

Молчи, лысый

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If you think genderqueer people

are confused, not real, freaks, not part of the lgbtqia+ community, fuck you. Quit following me and light yourself on fire. Thanks!

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There is a new Spice Girls meme, and I am absolutely on board with it.