littles who would never consider owning anything pink
littles who paint their nails black
littles who wear makeup every day
you’re all amazing and beautiful and smol, no matter what you look like or listen to or watch. every single one of you is unique and special in your own way, and none of it makes you any less smol.
Show genuine interest in what they’re doing even when you’re not around!
Text them often to let them know you’re thinking of them!
Plan stuff for you to do together online (like games or movies or Skype)!
Plan or play out hypotheticals of what you’d do if you were to together! (Say “if I were there I’d snuggle that cute face to oblivion!”)
Give them constant reassurance and update them frequently on what you’re doing so they don’t have to worry and feel like the most important person in your life!
If you’re out and see something that reminds them of you, tell/show them! Take pictures of cute stuffies or coloring books and let them know it reminded you of them!
If you can afford it, buy them some of the aforementioned coloring books or stuffies or whatever they may love and assemble a care package to send them!
Write them cute poems or letters and include them in the care packages, or read them to them on Skype or text them to them to wake up to!
Let them know when you’re thinking of them or that you wish they were with you while you’re doing whatever you’re up to!
Read them bedtime stories or watch over them while they sleep on Skype (or FaceTime or Discord or whatever) if you’re able to!
Change your phone background to a photo of them so they know you see them throughout the day and that they’ll be on your mind every time you use your phone!
Let them know how you feel about them with a gentle ‘I love you’ every ten to fifteen seconds so they don’t die from lack of attention.
Involve them in decisions in your day to day life occasionally, like asking them what you should eat or wear. (Even if they’re too little for decisions and will leave it up to you, it still helps to make them feel involved)
Fantasize about a future together, let them know if things were to work out what kind of life you’d enjoy living together. It’s important to have a strong long term bond with distance!
Check in on them and make sure they’re safe frequently to show that you’re concerned about them and their well-being!
Send them lots of selfies! (Apparently they like seeing us, or something weird like that)
When possible try and align your sleep schedules so you can spend as much time talking to each other as possible! (This one can take adjustment on both sides)
When are schedules aren’t aligned, send cute texts for them to wake up to, I promise it makes their day much better!
Make them feel better about insecurities but still be supportive of change, like if they don’t like how short their hair is you let them know you love it but you’ll be happy if they grow it out too!
Make some silly tumblr post like this one letting them know you were up all night thinking of them to the point you didn’t even get done some of the stuff you were supposed to because you love them a lot and can’t get them off your mind!!
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There are so many more things you can do than this, but if I listed everything you could do you’d be scrolling to the moon and back! If you’re struggling to make them feel loved then just use your imagination to think of how you can involve them more in your life, because this is often key to a strong bond which is doubly important with distance!
That’s the amount of littles in the last two weeks that have come to me that have been scared of their daddies.
That doesn’t count the littles who have daddies who mistreat them in other ways, such as not caring for them properly.
That doesn’t count the littles who have talked to malicious men they didn’t date.
That doesn’t count the littles who have had guys solicit them randomly in messages.
That doesn’t count the littles who have been tricked and hurt in the past.
That is just the number of littles I’ve had talk to who are in relationships with daddies that literally scare them.
I know I preach this a lot, but I’ll say it over and over until you all understand: Be very careful.
Littles are so gullible and loving and easy to attach and bad guys know this and they will try and take advantage of you. Take a long time to get to know them before doing anything or giving anything. Don’t put yourself in a situation that isn’t easy to get out of.
I have also been dealing with a ton of littles who have been dealing with a few specific blogs of guys who have safe for work nice blogs and are pressuring and guilting them into doing things they’re not comfortable with.
Don’t assume anyone is good just based off of what they blog. Be cautious of any information you hear. They will lie and manipulate. Take your time and be careful. This is so important. I know it’s hard, but please, for yourself, be safe.
1. Have a set of rules for your little one but don’t make it feel like the rules are controlling the rules are to help your little one
2. Read to your little one during the day time and never ever forget to read your little a bed time story
3. Make sure to always tell your little how much you love them and to always let them know you’re very proud of them
4. Rewards - set up a sticker chart for you little one and at 5 stickers or depend on your liking buy them a stuffie or have a special movie night or a gift of there choice or send them a little care package
5. This is a very very special rule always once in a while have a huge little day with your little one , let your little go wild and do whatever they want for the day and enjoy themselves and have fun with your little
6. Punishments are the worst part of being a CG but always explain why you’re punishing your little and always I mean ALWAYS communicate with your little
7. Make sure you a safety word for any punishments Incase your little is feeling overwhelmed
8. Also note not ever broken rule is worthy of a punishment some broken rules you just have to talk to your little and guide them and tell them what’s wrong and what’s right
9. Pls never ever ever ever ever ever ever tell your little you’re going to stop talking to them or cut off communication it can greatly damage the little and hurt them pls never ever do this
10. And the most important rule of all always make sure to tell your little how much you love them and how much you appreciate them never make them feel like they aren’t loved !!!!
Sing me the song of your people SOUP!
meow!
Sing me the song of your friends SOUP!
meow!
Sing me a song for the good times SOUP!
meow!
Sing me a song, a song. HEY SOUP!
meeeeoooow!
Sing me the song of your people SOUP!
meow!
Sing me the song of your friends SOUP!
meow!
Sing me a song for the good times SOUP!
meow!
Sing me a song, a song. HEY SOUP!
meeeeoooow!